but if you refused to acknowledge their friendship

The illusion, those sweet lies, are beginning to shatter. I won’t let it, I’m going to continue to cling desperately to this.

anonymous asked:

Nothing larries have said since 2012 has made a lick of sense or had anything factual or even intuitive to back it up. Larries ruined a friendship and then went in to deep denial and turned it into an ugly fantasy version of reality, refused to take responsibility or acknowledge what they had done. I am telling you some of these people have done this exact thing before in other fandoms and it ALWAYS ends the same, they persecute these people and then walk away and never acknowledge what they did

Well i’m here to say, i take responsibility and acknowledge the ugliness I engaged in back then. I can’t take it back, but I can only try to do better in the future. Hopefully some people will get their shit together and realize some of this and be able to do the same. 

anonymous asked:

It's so sad to me that larries don't truly realize how much they ruined what seemed like a nice friendship. I 100% believe that Harry and Louis never hang out outside of work, there is a lot of evidence of that but of course larries refuse to acknowledge that. I do think they are different people, might have grown apart anyway but the first wedge that messed up their comfort and friendship with each other was larries Making what was fun and innocent into something gross and invasive

They used to be so sweet together and there was a lot of love there for awhile. i don’t see that anymore and it’s a shame. i think they probably had differences and definitely grew apart, separate from all the other stuff, but you’re right, that first seed was planted by people who didn’t know when to quit, even when they were asked to. it changed them, not just in the way they interacted with each other, but in the way they interacted with us as well. the invasive nature of this fandom (at all levels, not even just larries) is the reason we can’t have nice things.