but if you do care for people and they care back for you then please show them because they have less time than you do

anyways i just wanted to say that if you love someone in your family, especially elderly people, please cherish them and spend time with them and don’t view visiting them as a drag because i used to feel that way and i’m lucky that my view changed a few years before my grandmother passed away but i’ll still always regret those thanksgivings and christmases we won’t have together in the future and the ones i was a little sour at but i’m thankful for the time we did get together and her passing away was such a kick right in the heart and though it’s an inevitable feeling sometimes i just want people out there who still have the opportunity to appreciate your loved ones as best as you can because when they’re gone, they can’t come back