but idk how i feel about the thing

anonymous asked:

Since you've been speaking on relationship advice, there's this guy I've been into for about 7 years now. We've always been pretty good friends and get along great, but now it kind of feels like it could start developing into something more?????? I often catch him looking at me and he always makes sole eye contact with just me when we're talking in groups, and a few other things. My other friends have said stuff about how they've noticed a shift in dynamic lately and idk if its actually legit or

hmm well it could just be that he feels more comfortable around you vs your other friends, but it def sounds like he’s interested/at least thought about it. idk i mean things might get awkward if you guys get intimate or they might turn out great!! just talk things over with him 

anonymous asked:

I have almost the same prblm as the last person. I’m friends w benefits w this amazing guy. We’re also really close like soul mates or whatever. The problem is he has a girlfriend who he got w before we met. And she loves him and he loves her. But he also loves me. And he doesn’t know how to pick and I feel like I make him cheat it makes me feel guilty. Idk what to do about the whole thing. Give me options please

Tbh, I think you should end it with him. He is a cheater. Do you really want to be with someone that cheats ? You love him but you don’t know what he wants. He can’t play this game for too long. If she finds out it won’t be a happy end.

anonymous asked:

i feel like the worlds biggest goody-good loser for saying this but – i am super bummed out about the openly amoral themes in reputation so far: how gorgeous romanticises cheating and lwymmd has weird echoes of emotionally abusive narratives. i GET that's the whole point, t-swift's persona has flipped into evil shadow t-swift and i KNOW she was always super problematic but i still... idk i guess some part of me hoped for better from her music?

oh, i absolutely hear you on this! the thing is, i really did always think taylor was basically Good. you know, that she wanted to do the right things, that album to album she kept on growing as a person. so i was super disappointed when a few things happened, not to go over all that again. and now the lwymmd message seems to be I’M EVIL BUT U MADE ME THIS WAY which is weird because it sort of embraces being this brilliant deadly conniver, but only as the result of external forces, a classic woobie supervillain. idk i think it could’ve been cool to do an album where she has a whole alter ego - evil shadow tswift, like you said - but so far she seems to be caught somewhere between fully committing to that and presenting herself as the wronged party. like, she feels ppl have misrepresented her, right? but i can’t tell whether her response is DAMN RIGHT I’M FUCKIN EVIL AND I LOVE IT!! or on the other hand THEY WERE WRONG AND HERE IS WHO I TRULY AM!! 

and if you wanna prove that everyone’s wrong about you, don’t you eventually have to show the real you instead? but gorgeous is too bland to show much of anything. i feel like in 1989, blank space was this playful embodiment of the supervillain narrative and then most of the rest of the songs had this vulnerability and what felt like emotional truth. lwymmd doesn’t fully commit like blank space does (because she’s still a victim, doing what YOU made her do), and gorgeous is like…whatever. i didn’t like her hinting about cheating either, especially because it’s not really presented with any self-awareness. i will join you in the goody-goody loser camp and just listen to enchanted again instead.

idk, i can’t really pass judgment till i hear the rest of the album, and i did like ready for it. maybe the album as a whole feels more coherent, and maybe it’s got better songs than gorgeous. fingers crossed!

idk how to go about wording this but it’s something thats been bothering me for a while… i feel like ppl think me and my friends are all the Same and some kind of hive mind or cult or smth like we don’t have our own opinions and its so Annoyin like i love my friends so much but im not Them.. i have my own thoughts and i make my own decisions and im my own person and i don’t just do/say things bc my friends tell me to… and they don’t do/say things bc i tell them too?? we’re all different people like… sldfjfkgj god its just annoying

Fanon Lotor be like

i am not even sorry just take this

lance asks keith what his favorite animal is and keith just Lights Up and starts going on and on about hippos like did you know they can hold their breath up to seven minutes lance?? did you know they’re one of the most dangerous animals in africa?? they can live up to 40 years lance did you know that?? and lance just listens to him talk and talk and is reminded of how In Love he is with this boy, this boy that loves hippos,

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Yuri Plisetsky WeekDay Four: Animals/Pets
↳ Yuri & his adorable ball of fluff #kittensquad [x]

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–it’s called Success;; look into it!

But I love you more than words can say

 gay and straight relationships are just as capable of being deep and loving or distant and abusive & perpetuating the idea that gay relationships are always more pure or good kind of raises problems when talking about abuse in gay relationships (and can be very harmful to bisexual people who have gotten out of an abusive relationship w someone of the same gender, and entered a healthier one that happens to be straight)