but i'm tired of messing with this one

peculiar-earbuds  asked:

One of your post was makred sensitive media and im like "what? Ashley? Nooo?" Im tired of tumblrs safe thing and i cant mess with it cause my age is marked under 18

aaah /: i’m sorry pal. I hear that’s been a huge issue and i think it’s really dumb considering most the stuff that’s blocked is sfw lgbtq+ posts :/ I wonder if tumblr didn’t like my cursing in the tags but idk if they’re that picky,, all i reblogged was dnp stuff and a gif of pewdiepie :/ unless you were looking at my main blog which some stuff can be nsfw in the sense that i reblog pictures of nude women and underwear sometimes? 

And it feels like all that comes out of my mouth are apologies.
    I’m sorry.
I never do anything right, I am always messing something up.
   I’m sorry.
I don’t do enough for people, I’m not good enough sometimes.
   I’m sorry.
But I’m trying, I’m trying so hard to do things right for you.
   I’m sorry.
I want to be good enough for you, but I’m just so tired of trying.
   I’m just so tired of saying sorry.
—  sorry for being the apologetic one

Hey exclusionists.

When we’re telling you that something you said resembles TERF rhetoric, we aren’t calling you TERFs. We’re telling you that what you’re saying seems to have a foundation on similar things, and that spreading the same type of posts/sayings/whatever as TERFs use is dangerous because it normalizes the rhetoric and allows TERF ideals to slip passed people’s radars.

My reaction if someone were to tell me that something I said resembled TERF rhetoric?

“Oh crap! Sorry! I’ll delete/edit the post. Please let me know how I can do better in the future to keep from endangering trans people.”

Because my number one priority is to make sure I’m not helping to perpetuate or normalize TERF rhetoric. Screaming about how I’m not a TERF would do absolutely no good, and would just further push that using the same language as this horrible group of people is completely fine - which of course it’s not.

Do better.

anonymous asked:

What is "the fandom that has grown" from the musical? I'm not offended at all I'm actually just curious. Was there even a big fandom before the musical?

Nah, the fandom wasn’t really big before the musical, but that’s not really the point.
The musical, as I’ve said, takes a lot of liberties with the characters and the message of Heathers. Which is fine. But now the fandom is made up of people who saw the musical first/haven’t seen the movie/take the musical canon more seriously than the movie, and so as someone whose been a fan of the movie for a very long time it’s a little frustrating seeing the characters, story, and overall message I love being muddled. My most obvious examples of this you’ve all seen w million times, I talk about them constantly. Taking everything bad about the homophobic sexist dicks that are Ram and Kurt and erasing it so you can have a cute “shipable” couple. Making Mac into a sad depressed angel instead of the mean girl she was. Making Chandler seem like the bullshit in her suicide note (or for the musical the me inside of me plot) was real and she wasn’t an airhead. The fandom seems to think that if its sung, it’s true? As if there’s no such thing as unreliable narration? even if they’re outright told beforehand in the story that what’s being said isn’t true.

The heathers fandom is really messy now, it’s full of people who believe in very black and white morality and are therefore trying to mold this very un-black and white story and it’s very morally unsound characters to their desired molds. Every character is either good or evil in fanon now. That’s not the way it works.

People don’t seem to understand that the musical was not written by the writers of the movie. So whenever a fan of the movie disagrees with something in the musical we’re told “well suck it up it’s canon” that’s like if someone’s Avenger’s fanfiction got published and suddenly fans of the comics or movies were told that they didn’t know what they were saying cause *according to this story*

The ask blog I run with my friends for the heathers adapt AU is a good example. Our AU is based on the movie, but almost all the asks we get are musical related. No one allows for the separation of the two, when the musical has a lot of differences.

I really like the musical, and I really like the fans it has led to Heathers. But please respect the original content? And please respect that the musical isn’t as relevant to some people?

Idk this response is all over the place and is probably way ruder than I’m intending, it’s super early rn.

Who the hell told my mans to stop talking so much. That’s literally why he’s their he’s just doing his job so don’t come with that shit. He was not messing with anyone else’s time to talk why can’t he get his. Nobody deserves that when that’s literally what they’re there for don’t do that that’s disrespectful as hell.

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I first found out that they’re making a Batgirl film first through a hate post telling everyone to boycott the film because Joss Whedon is making it

like yeah I get it, he messed up on aou, but the man created buffy? he’s clearly good at handling a solo female lead (far better than handling a group of characters in a pre established cinematic universe)

I for one am not going to boycott a female led DC film just because the director made one bad film, like chill. give the film a chance, don’t fucking ruin our chances of getting more female led films by not watching what will probably be a great film just bc you’re still bitter

Spending Valentine's Day With:

Side Note: I’m personally not a fan of Valentine’s Day, but I thought it’d still be cute to write for some of the characters.

Masterlist


Stiles Stilinski: Stiles loves to show off his goofy, lovable, dork side everyday, but when it comes to Valentine’s Day that’s when he kicks it up a notch. You come home and find a very detailed map laying on your bed, following all the clues the last one leads you to the lookout where Stiles is standing dressed in an handsome suit, holding your favourite flowers. He arranged a cosy picnic, the view being the entire lit up town of Beacon Hills. When things started to cool down a bit both of you would cuddle in his Jeep with the radio down low and the heat up high.


Angus “Mac” Macgyver: When it comes to romantic gestures Mac is very traditional, often he likes to keep things as a surprise just so he can see your face light up. Valentine’s Day is where Mac pulls out all of the stops, he at times feels guilty that his always away a lot for work so he wants to make sure you know how much he loves, appreciates and adores you. This year, Mac traditionally decorated the house with white/red rose petals, along with well lit candle light dinner, followed by a relaxing bath laced with all your favourite scents. Then you and Mac spend the rest of the evening in the comfort of the queen sized bed.


Klaus Mikaelson: He likes to remind you that his an 1,000 year old vampire who has traveled the world. So every Valentine’s Day Klaus would whisk you away to another romantic place, last year was Pairs, the year before was London. This year Klaus and you landed in Hawaii where he wanted you to get away from the hectic streets of New Orleans and spend time relaxing. Klaus compelled all the finest foods, wines, desserts, anything you desired to be sent up to the hotel, where the two of you would spend most of the day.

Isaac Lahey:

As much as you told Isaac that he didn’t need to spoil you on Valentine’s Day, he disagreed greatly. So with the help from Lydia and permission from Derek, he turned Derek’s loft into a romantic getaway. After he removed the blindfold your eyes were greeted with hundreds of fairy lights and a huge love heart shape made out of rose petals in the middle of the floor. Isaac then gave you a beautiful moon pendant indicating that you will always be his anchor.



Elijah Mikaelson: When it came to showing how dear you were to him, Elijah never disappointed. The morning of Valentine’s Day, he sneaked into your room with a lovely homemade breakfast tray filled with coffee, croissants, orange juice and pancakes. After that, Elijah took you on a romantic stroll around New Orleans and surprised you with your favourite singer serenading the both of you, while Elijah and yourself danced underneath the stars. 


Theo Raeken: Theo’s motto was go big or go home, he never did anything by half and when it came to you he’d never dream of it. Theo had a hard time showing emotion but on Valentine’s Day that didn’t stop him from showing just how much he loves you. The day was spent in bed, messing around in the sheets and only getting up for food or the bathroom. When night fell, Theo and you cooked dinner which only ended up in a food fight, but you didn’t mind one bit.

cjsk4rr48  asked:

So I was going to draw a few Eddsworld things ;-; would you have an opinion on what the guys would all be like for Christmas if they were all say like drunk? (Assuming Tom wasn't trying to destroy Christmas) Oh also what do you think they would do/wear if they were part of a circus or just to dress up say to like meet a queen (I wanna draw some fancy clothes on them and new stuff and I wanna make a Christmas card for Tumblr peeps ;-; but I can't decide and I'm too shy to ask most peeps)

Well I don`t know about the drunk thing, but I can make guesses! Tom is the “I`m tired let me sleep I`m done with the world” kind of drunk, Tord is probably aggressive as heck and wants to fight every body, Edd is a giggly mess that can`t even form one coherent sentence while Matt is the sad drunk, mourning his broken fingernails.

And for the dress up formally I have this:

I wiped this up in 20 min I hope it gives you inspiration!

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I like the idea of Ford being the one to have the most trouble censoring himself around the kids. Meanwhile Stan is just waiting for Ford to mess up again so he has to add another dollar to the new swear jar while Stanley looks smug about it.

And Ford doesn’t know how Stanley manages to never swear, since he remembers young Stan having a sailor’s mouth. So he’s still surprised every time Stanley stubs his toe and shouts “HOT BELGIAN WAFFLES!!”

kname-less  asked:

vampire g and human frank spending so much time together that they both fuck up their sleep schedules.. like frank starts staying up through the night to talk to gerard and gerard's like "damn i feel bad for making you lose out on sleep i'm gonna wake up earlier now so we can talk more"

plEASE that absolutely is what would happen,,, theyd pick the single worst solution to the problem, the one that makes them BOTH tired and drowsy….. they are a Mess

anonymous asked:

ok i'm getting pretty tired of the "ym is one-sided" and "ym is dead" bullshit, like they gotta be on eachother's asses 24/7 for people to know they care about one another. did the 3+ years amount of evidence fall flat or what idk(esp after the recent min yoonji™ thingy i'm surprised how jimin didn't forget to breathe. he was a blushing stuttering mess that boy smh)

louder

lame excuses

My semester is ending and I have ton of works and assignments, and I’m feeling a lil bit stress (well it’s students life but) group assignments always happened at night where it is my time to draw so… yup. And my class always end late and I came back home feeling tired and doze off. Oh God, I’m a mess now. so sorry guys I’ll be back soon okeeee~~ 

and thanks to all my mutuals who always there to cheer me up when I come back home from my class aaaaaaaa I love you guys

and of course you guys who always sending me sweet messages and asks <3 LOVE YOU GUYS SOOO MUCHHHH