but i really needed to rant

I know everyone is upset she didn’t announce TS6 and I’m probably going to get hate for this, but come on, I’m sure it’s very stressful and tiring being on tour and she might need a break from the spotlight every now and then. Taylor just released a huge record breaking album two years ago and its still really big. Just let Taylor do Taylor, I’m pretty sure she knows what she doing.


For pro-lifers, I need to address something with all of you.  Whether you’re a teen/young adult, or a middle aged mother you need to realize that hiding sexuality and birth control and being open with your children or with your parents is going to cause more issues.  Don’t get mad if your daughter asks to go on birth control.  Most women are.  She can go by herself to a planned parenthood if she really wants to.  But to shield and hide your kid from the real world isn’t going to work.  Anyone that I know who has had an abortion who was young was because the condom broke and it just takes one time and they had nothing as a back up.  That’s why they happen.  Y’all think abortions are being used as a form of birth control and I hate to break it to you but that’s not the case.  It’s a hard thing for the mother of the fetus, and the partner (in most cases) to do.  And as far as late term abortions, lets clear this up; it only occurs when a mother or the fetus is going to be dead afterbirth or is already dying. 

anonymous asked:

Do you like anti Regina blogs?

No, I don’t really like any anti blog about any character or ship because I believe that the time someone dedicates to hate on something should dedicate it to something they love instead. I get that sometimes we need to rant about a character/ship we don’t like but it’s better to focus on the things we love. :)

Honestly I have had my fair share of people who have brought me down and hurt me because I’m a doormat and never stand up for myself. I’ve been friends with some terrible people who were really just using me all along. and now I’m done with being insecure and letting others trample all over me and I need to grow as a person. I want to be my own source of happiness. I want to rely on myself, no one else. and I think that’s important; to know that you don’t need others to be happy and that it’s okay if you only have a few friends. Because it’s better to have one great loyal friend than a bunch of fake friends who wouldn’t hesitate to throw you under the bus. You don’t need other people if those people are negative influences. Surround yourself with positivity, love yourself 

Yeah so I think I’m aromantic. Nothing against the boyfriend, but I think we’re just gonna be friends. Honestly, I don’t think I want a relationship, but I’m gonna give it a little more time just to be sure.

I also never really see myself getting married. I want to be physically close to someone I trust, but I don’t need the pressure of sex breathing down my neck. I’ll probably live with a close friend or by myself.

I’ve decided to cheat on nanowrimo, and start it a bit early. I’ll still try to stick to a 30 days thing, and I’ll try to keep track of my daily wordcount… but I know also that november might get too busy for me this year to really write a whole novel in just that month. So I’ll start in october, and finish in… november or december, depending on if I need to take a break during november

So yeah, my whole nanowrimo will start today I guess. I’ll tag it “fake nanowrimo” if you wanna ignore it

Rant on people's perception of Victor Nikiforov

I just really needed to get this off my chest. I know there’s been a lot said about Victor already but here’s my two cents on this.

I have people on my Facebook timeline complaining about Victor and how much of a dick he is for ‘breaking his promise’ to Yurio. He made a promise to Yurio, why isn’t he seeing it through and instead decided to fly off into the land of Japan and coach Yuuri?

You can see in the first episode that Victor was indeed trying to help Yurio. He gave Yurio his opinion on Yurio’s performance which Yurio brushed off. At that point of time, Yurio probably took Victor’s presence as his mentor of sorts for granted. Sure you can say that he’s just 15/16 years old and overly confident in his skills, that he probably doesn’t know better but there was absolutely no point in Victor being there if Yurio was not going to learn anything from him.

Victor flying off to Japan was a much needed wake up call to Yurio. You can see by the end of episode three that there is some character development for Yurio and we can only hope that there’s more where that came from. I really like Yurio and I hope he gets to grow as a character more as the series progresses.

I’m just rambling incoherently at this point but I just want to make a point that people need to stop making snap judgements on the characters in YOI, especially when we’ve only had three episodes.

anonymous asked:

God that anon made me furious! I didn't know talent now was associated with how skinny you are, fucking disgusting!! And how dare you criticise someone because they don't cry? Everyone deals with pain and sorrow in a different way, not crying doesn't mean that you don't feel anything or that you don't care. People like that really gets on my nerves. Sorry for the rant but i had to get it out.

Oh, liste, Non-Non- I am not one to scold you for needing to rant and get it all out, believe me. 

And, yeah, you’re definitely correct in saying that ‘not crying doesn’t mean that you don’t feel anything or that you don’t care’. You don’t need to cry to feel sad, or empathetic, or even sympathetic. 

Do you ever just……
Type out paragraphs…
Long ass paragraphs….
Dealing with….
Issues and controversial shit…….
….. someone
Said something…………
And then…..
Get a reply of…..
“Im sorry im not gonna read that im sorry i wasted your time, i dont wanna argue about this”…….
And you’re really salty….
And pissed…
But you don’t wanna say shit……
You don’t wanna start shit……………….

-I usually don’t say this but please don’t reblog-

Why you should worry about the Philippines

Since it’s been a short while since Donald Trumps latest disturbing, outrageous and down right hate ful statement, I’d like to focus on another man.

Roderigo Duterte is the new president of the Philippines. Several experts believe he will join the very special club of Earth Dictators. He is has made several outrageous statements such as:

  • Curfew in the Phillipines (here)
  • All journalists who are killied in the Philippines are corrupt and therefore justified (here)
  • The Catholic Church should be punished for its wrong doings (here)
  • Joked about a raped and murdered Christian missonary (here)

I ask that we do not forget the man who will lead a country with nearly 100 million inhabitants. Please spread knowledge about a man who attacks all aspects of every day life in the Phillipines.

The UN is worried. I am worried, and I think maybe you should be too.

I am Taiwanese

Most people in the world take it for granted that they have a country that they can proudly talk about. We don’t. We’re not allowed.

Outside our island, we can’t display our flag. We can’t sing our anthem. We can’t even mention the name of our birthplace. Do you know how it feels to watch your team, whose name is not even your country’s name, win in the Olympics, and in the ceremony carrying a flag that’s not your’s and singing a song that’s not your’s?

When I was a kid who knew nothing about Taiwan’s situation, I got mocked by some of my Mainland Chinese classmates for replying “Taiwan” when asked “where are you from”. I became scared to answer that question. I thought it was a shameful thing to be born in Taiwan, because that must be why they bullied me.

Taiwan itself is really divided over whether we should give up “Republic of China” and just become independent as “Taiwan”. Most of you get to proudly answer where you’re from. We not only don’t know which name to use, we get labeled “traitor” either way because the “proper” answer is “People’s Republic of China”, a country that many of us, especially the younger generation, have zero attachment to.

Being recognized may not seem that big of a deal to most people. But mind you we didn’t even have it to begin with. I don’t think people have the right to tell us to “get over it”. Not when you’ve never experienced the shit people give you for being yourself. “Hello, I’m from England, nice to meet you”. Switch that to “Taiwan” and suddenly you get attacked, as if it was “FUCK YEAH I’M TAIWANESE AND I’M GOING TO START A REVOLUTION AGAINST CHINA”. We’re so desperate for recognition that we have news about western news mentioning Taiwan. Isn’t that pathetic.

A 16 year old girl was forced to apologize for introducing herself as a Taiwanese on Korean TV. Some Chinese netizens said it’s already too late to apologize; they will not forgive her. But why should she apologize? Why does she need anyone’s forgiveness? Why should she be forced to identify herself as something she doesn’t identify with?

Forget about politics. No one has the right to decide someone’s identity for them. We share the blood of the same race, so what? I am the only one who can decide who I am, and I have decided I that I identify as a Taiwanese.

I want to know the joy and pride of watching your country’s team win in an international competition. I want us to be able to keep our flags up and flying when a Chinese official visits our island. I want our efforts in contributing to the world be recognized. I want to be able to proudly tell you my origin without getting shamed on.

We shouldn’t have to apologize for being Taiwanese.

oooooh look, another list of aus for your writing pleasure: 
[sorry if any of these have already been done!]

+ you’re the cute barista and i’m the indie artist who plays at your coffee shop. i’m totally doing it for the pay and not to stare at your face for three hours every week, what are you talking about.
+ i’m the librarian and you’re the person who, in an attempt to flirt, just asked me if we carry books here.
+ you discreetly come into my bookstore every day just to play with my cat that i let wander. you think i don’t notice, but i totally do. don’t worry; it’s freaking adorable.
+ you are the lead singer of a rock band, and i’m the fan who you just called up on stage to sing a song with you. wow, you are way hotter in person and now i just forgot every lyric of yours ever.
+ you’re the cute trainer at the gym and i just fell off my treadmill because i couldn’t stop staring at you. 
+ we’re the only two people in this theater and i’m taking note of all the parts of the film that make you laugh so i can talk to you after. 
+ you’re selling cookies for your sister’s girl scout troop and you’re so adorable and awkward while doing it that i buy fifteen boxes.
+ you just started telling me your life story on the bus without even giving me your name first, and wait did you just say that you’re involved in the mafia?! 
+ you’re the tech guru on campus and i keep getting viruses on my computer just so i can come talk to you. 
+ we’re rival vloggers who are forced to do a panel together at vidcon, but it’s hard to despise you when you’re that much cuter in person. 
+ you’re an actor on my favorite tv show and i’m your biggest fan. needless to say that when i meet you for the first time, i get so excited that i accidentally punch you in the face. 
+ you’re a pirate and you were unaware about your feelings for me until a siren took my image. 
+ you’re my tutor but i keep getting distracted because you’re so pretty.
+ even though i’m about to be carted off to the er after my car accident, i’m still gonna try to flirt with you, the cute emt. 
+ i’m an escort but not that type of escort. if you play your cards right though, i could be. 
+ i own an esty shop and you’re the cute worker at the post office i keep running into. 

A Week Without Regrets / Day 3: COLORS

together, all eight of them make up the creatures.

i think this is a very important message in the fandom right now - every single one of these people make up the creatures. all eight of them. every single one of them individually contributes to the channel in different ways; whether it’d be editing, adding some humour to the videos, creating series’ - they are all a part of this channel we all love. every single one of them should be appreciated. if there’s a specific creature you don’t like, stop complaining and unsubscribe because at the end of the day, they are a part of the creatures whether you like it or not and each of them work their asses off for our enjoyment.

“Don’t go…”

Max whispered and held Victoria as she wanted to leave back to her room. Vic can’t handle Max. As her cheek started to burn, she nodded and replied

“I won’t“

I’m sorry but I just need to rant for a minute.  Liam Payne is so much more than just a mouthpiece for Larry.  You don’t get to pick and choose how much you love Liam based on whether or not he’s fitting into your Larry agenda.  He’s a brilliant, sensitive, caring, hilarious goofball and he deserves a thousand times better than the way some people on here treat him.  

He gets dragged for “homophobic” tweets while Louis gets forgiven for the same and worse, as well as for using the n-word.  Liam gets completely erased from No Control even though y’all dragged him to hell and back for Little White Lies (both of which were EQUALLY CO-WRITTEN WITH LOUIS).  But as soon as he reads a “Larry” sign, suddenly he’s your hero. 

Listen: Liam is not a bit character in The Story of Larry.  He is a wonderful, amazing autonomous person who deserves as much attention, respect and adoration as Harry and Lou, EVERY SINGLE TIME.  Not just when he does something that grabs your attention.  I really hope people will start to see that.  I’m sorry for ranting, but this is just ridiculous.  

You know what would have made me think all this MIGHT be real?

Rewind back to July and not break the news.  Wait until Louis’ baby mama (because we shouldn’t really know her name by this point) is past the first trimester, and release a statement via rep saying Louis has gotten a woman, Briana, pregnant.  Maybe even go as far back to us never having seen her clubbing with Louis…

Then, when someone asks him about it at GMA have Louis not look like someone just kicked him in the balls, but look happy that he’s going to be a dad.  Because if Louis really were going to be a father he would be so happy!

Then, maybe he mentions how he’s looking forward to meeting his baby during the break whenever he is asked what his plans for the break are.  

Also, we never find out anything else about the baby mama because she really truly is a private person and wants nothing to do with the spotlight.

Then, we’ll get a rep statement announcing the birth of the baby, stating the name, weight, and how they’re happy and healthy and what not.  Then Louis can post his picture of his son on IG.  Louis’ family, friends, and band mates all congratulate him via social media.

And that’s it.  Louis is MIA because he’s spending as much time as possible with his son.  Maybe he gets seen at a grocery store, with bags under his eyes, because he’s hardly gotten any sleep due to spending all this time with the baby, who knows.  

But that’s it.  We don’t need Update Accounts or Family members confirming the birth before we hear it from the rep.  We don’t need a birth certificate.  We don’t need pap pictures every single day for a week, not to mention pap pics of Louis with the hospital wristband.

If things would have played out this way then MAYBE I would be convinced he really is a father and be happy for him.  But none of it has played out this way and I’m not a fucking idiot.