hey! so i'm really confused at my gender. two years ago, i identified as female, right? one and a half year ago i thought i was transgender. one year ago i started going by gender fluid, half a year ago i started to think i'm nonbinary but now i think i'm a demi boy. i'm?? so??? confused???? hELP
Well……. i mean…. firstly, ‘genderfluid’ and ‘demi-boy’ are both non-binary identities, and all non-binary identities are transgender identities.
it sounds like you’ve been forcing yourselves into labels very quickly when you might not be 100% sure that you fit into them. maybe you should try not to worry about labels so much and instead just try to explore yourself, your identity and gender presentation a bit further before deciding which label is right for you? maybe no labels will be right for you! that’s valid too! or maybe you just want to change labels a lot! that’s also fine! whatever you do is fine, but remember there are no rules, and please try not to give yourself undue stress by forcing yourself into labels that you don’t think fit you.