my two cents on the whole thing is this
I do believe if Daryl had stayed put, Glenn would still be alive so I can’t dismiss the reality that Daryl’s actions directly lead to Glenn’s consequence.
I don’t think Daryl reacted the way he did because he was upset about Abraham, I felt the reaction was from Negan taunting Rosita and at the time, I thought maybe it had triggered something about his own abuse and that’s the reason for the huge personality/behaviour regression.
I also think that Daryl, if he considered the consequences at all before or during his lashing out, probably thought the consequences would land on him and was willing to die, but if he had known or suspected that someone else would get the bat instead of him, he might not have been so quick to jump.
I’m upset about Glenn. I acknowledge that Glenn would be alive if not for Daryl’s lashing out, but I don’t hate Daryl.
I’ll reserve those feelings for the writers who seem to relish in spending time building and progressing characters only to kill them off for shock value when they get bored or think they need the ratings.