but i dont have time to fix them

honestly, i never really see any appreciation posts for people who are quoiromantic or quoisexual so im just putting this out there

if you:
-aren’t sure if you experience romantic or sexual attraction
-dont understand either attraction as a concept or feeling
-cant define these attractions and are therefore unsure if you feel them
-have a hard time distinguishing attractions from one another
-cant find a better term to describe yourself
-identify as gray-aro or gray-ace and quoiromantic or quoisexual
-or are just plain unsure of your romantic or sexual attraction

you aren’t broken and are in no need of fixing, my friend. you are wonderful and your sexuality and romantic attraction is valid no matter what anyone else says. and if youre unsure of your romantic or sexual attractions, just remember that feelings come first, labels second. c:

genjis-girlfriencl  asked:

hey! follower and I am also. destroyed from this new ep but I figured u might know uhhhhh is this the first we're hearing about "lup"? or have we heard of this character before

weve heard abt her a few times!! 

1) when angus made taako macarons and taako had to cast presdididgidtsion on them to fix them his wand went Freaky and shot flame into the wall to spell out her name (L U P)

2) when thb told barry they didnt trust him he started crying and was like “LUP.. WHATS THE POINT LUP THEY DONT EVEN TRUST ME”

3) uhh god theres probably more that i dont remember 100% for now. point is shes been an Unknown Feature for a while and ive loved her just as long

4) EDIT: WHEN BARRY SAW TAAKOS WAND FOR THE 1ST TIME HIS VOICE WENT ALL TRYING-NOT-TO-CRY AND WAS LIKE “lup? you ….you found her”

based on where he got the umbrastaff and where griffin described her voice coming from (a few hundred feet away in a cave nearby barrys), its basically common knowledge that the skeleton with the red robe from the end of the gerblin arc was lup (or.. her body. at least)

im ALSO pretty certain that the umbrastaff trying to shoot kravitz at the end of their date (when he started mentioning a lich nearby) was lup trying to protect barry

Anyway, Here's Wonderwall

Hey fuck you guys,
it doesnt taste like creamed corn,
Remember that time we watched that porn intro?
The one with the lemons

Those damn lemon stealing whores
Take what they want even id its yours
So dont end up like me
And guard your fucking lemon tree

That was a metaphor
The lemon tree is your heart
And youre like the farmer
U gotta fix yr karma

I wish i sounded like isaac brock
He always seemed to have weird thoughts
But when he sang them they sounded deep
Even if it was a reach

My eyelashes are finally back
And maybe you should cut me some slack
Because ive been practicing
Every day to stop picking

I guess that applies to life too,
I mean broken things, u fix w glue
But michaels didnt have a life size
Bottle, and fuck, now im seeing lights

Did i ever tell you im a ghost?
All i rly can do is float,
If you look closely all around
Youll see that mine dont touch the ground

People always talk about butterflies
In your stomach every time
You think about being in love,
But they dont talk about the nausea you cant get rid of

I think this was supposed to be
An actual song but im half asleep
At this point you’ve heard it all
So anyway, heres wonderwall

anonymous asked:

You dont have to answer this, but it seems a few of your links for the PDF library arent working. Specifically a few of the House of Night Series. Like Betrayed.

Heya, thanks for bringing this to my attention! As you may notice i’m not very active on here right now, though i want to get back into things at some point! Regardless, the PDF page has LOTS of broken links on it at the minute purely because updating and fixing them all would take a considerable amount of time. 

I was going to just close the page because of this, but I thought it would be better to keep it up while some links still do work instead of taking it down entirely. TLDR is that I hope to have it fixed at some point but don’t expect a fix right away :)

I hate the whole thing on tumblr right now where its a contest of who is the most mentally ill. People (generally teens) self diagnose themself with a long list of ilnesses they likely dont even have, just to seem special and to have their arguments taken seriously. And the worst part is its making people take mental illnesses less seriously and people who really have them have a harder time being taken seriously.

For example, OCD. I don’t know anyone who personally struggles from it, but i do know countless people who joke about their OCD when they want to fix something messy. The disorder became something you take a facebook quiz about rather than what it is, an actual disorder that people struggle from, thats not always having to do with neatness. Imagine struggling from this, and trying to explain it to people when the common response is people claiming to have it.

Also, it seems every other person on this website has self diagnosed themself with autism, and that one personally irks me the most. My neighbor, a boy my age who ive known most of my life, is autistic and theres not a moment of his life thats not effected by it. He’s a sweet kid struggling to express himself and it kills me every time I see a kid claiming to be autistic but only ever having it when its convinient to them. Yes autisms symptoms vary and i understand that not everyone would have the same ones as my friend but there are still people very clearly faking it.

And self diagnosing isnt always bad, to clarify. But when people know in their heart they dont really have something, yet stil claim they do, its more hurtful then helpful when they talk over people sharing real experiences. These problems people are claiming to have arent just cool costumes, theyre a real thing. Its painful watching the community begin to seem like a joke.

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happy anniversary frontier!! i dont really have time to draw anything nice and pretty unfortunately so i just dusted off some oldish otp scribbles, fixed them up a bit, and here they are

posting this quick before i take off again! wont be back til later tonight so sorry if i haven’t gotten back to any messages i’ve gotten today. i’ll get to it as soo as i have the chance!

YOU KNOW
YOU KNOW WHAT I HATE?!
YOU WANNA KNOW?!
WHEN TEENAGERS GET A CAR FROM THEIR PARENTS AND THEY DONT APPRECIATE THAT THEIR BIRTH GIVERS JUST GAVE THEM A CAR THAT MOST TEENS
HAVE TO WORK PART TIME JOBS WITH MAXIMUM HOURS A WEEK ON TOP OF SCHOOL SHIT TO GET A CAR
AND PAY FOR INSSURANCE
AND PAY FOR GAS
AND THE MECHANICAL FIXINGS
SOME ADULTS DONT EVEN HAVE A CAR YET BECAUSE ITS SO MUCH MONEY AND THEY JUST HANDED IT TO YOU
SO BE FUCKING GREATFUL YOU TWAT
*drops mic*

I love you doesn’t fix everything, it hardly fixes anything nowadays. I’ve told my body I love it, but it still hates me when I’m sitting in Anatomy. Tried to convince my art work and poems that I love them too, but I’m forever editing them and casting them aside. So please don’t assume that just because you love me everything will be fine. When you have to ask why ever time, you don’t love me. When you read a long message about how I’d give everything to die, and respond with “I love you” I know you dont. Frankly I don’t care if you do, it doesn’t save me from anything. It’s more like an apology to say “I’m sorry I can’t think of anything useful”
—  The shadows love me too

anonymous asked:

how do you get your drawings to look fine even though it's inverted?? cuz i do that all the time and i try to fix it but i find it really hard to do so, do you have any tips on it? and sorry if this is a very confusing question, i dont know how to describe it

OH GOD I’m probably not the right person to ask about this, because my drawings still look like monsters when you flip them, but at least recently they developed into monsters that look better than they used to…Like, if you flip my current drawings it’s still noticeably leaning on the right\left, and the features are off sometimes as well.

BUT, it really, really is a matter of practice. I don’t quite…try to fix stuff, I barely flip my drawings in the process.

Back then whenever I flipped, it looked AWFUL, like you can immediately see everything wrong with it and stuff…especially back BACK earlier. 

Personally I don’t exactly think this is about fixing it while drawing (though you can), but mostly about learning and understanding the shape more, which leads to an improvement and which leads your drawings to look better without you actually fixing anything.

If you compare those drawings from before to the ones I have drawn recently, it looks better.

(it’s not even the worst one)

(see it’s still leaning horribly because I still bend my head when I draw which is my constant problem whenever I draw someone standing full height, but it’s not as bad as it used to be.)

so I really think it’s all about understanding general construction better?

I do think it’s better to flip it from time to time IN the process (which I barely do and which isnt quite right), but I’m not sure about the tips for it? As the eye sees better I guess you’ll be able to see more and more mistakes by flipping, so once again….improvement is our everything:”D

I’m sorry this isn’t probably helpful at all, but don’t get discouraged if your drawings don’t quite look right when flipped, it gets better as you keep going!!

You know an allistic person is trash when, no matter how many times you try to explain to them why autism doesn’t need a cure and that we dont want a cure, they keep trying to condescendingly explain to you that yes in fact you need a cure, speaking as though they know infinitely more about autism than you, the autistic.

Donations post

So my boyfriend amixedreality and i have to be out of our parents houses by the end of this month and so we planned to move in together but we kind of ran into a problem. We calculated the cost and its going to be more then what both of us have combined…
Ive had to help out my parents pay for their bills so they dont loose their house due to them going up from me living there and I’ve had to fix my car and pay off a medical bill which from those have completely drained my funds i had for this, and Both of our work places cut our hours drastically (even my second job), (Mix has literally had almost two weeks of no work maybe a day or so in that time)and neither of us due to this and we’re really low on funds because of it.. so i really hate doing and asking this but if you could donate anything to help it would be really appreciated…

My paypal is m-westover@hotmail.com

sIGHS i think we take this “whites are racist cause they cant say my name” to far

If they say it by mistake wrong, thats not their fault. They dont speak a certain language and arent use to doing so. If they say sorry and fix it, thats fine!! But if they dont, THEN they are being racist. Whites mispronounce my last name all the time, i cant blame them. No ones born with knowledge of how to say all names. Blacks have mispronounced my name as well? Its usually only spanish people who can say it correctly.

and honestly there are white last names that are hard to say? A lot of the easy ones are british last names… But slavic? Italian? Greek? I’ve seen some white last names that are pretty hard to pronounce. Claiming that all white names are easy is pretty us centric. The world isnt white americans

If you wanna talk trash about white americans and claim they have no culture, say white americans. Because its kinda not far and EXTREMELY us centric to claim that millions of ethnic groups and people across a continent overseas that is europe has no culture.