Is... is he/him lesbian a term to like ladies without just calling yourself straight? Are people so afraid to be straight? Like wtf I feel like this has probably been submitted before but after weeks of seeing he/him lesbian bs in passing and not getting it I feel like I've had an epiphany. It's just people who're afraid to be average
you kinda got it,yeah dude
a he/him lesbian is an AFAB (assigned female at birth) person who uses he/him pronouns but rather than calling themselves ‘straight’ they would prefer to use ‘lesbian’
in which, no self respecting, non-trending, dysphoric transman would EVER do.
he/him lesbian is just another word for either “im most likely a gender trender” or “im so hateful of straight people that i dont want to be one myself” as if theres something wrong with being straight.