but i dont hate him either

anonymous asked:

Is... is he/him lesbian a term to like ladies without just calling yourself straight? Are people so afraid to be straight? Like wtf I feel like this has probably been submitted before but after weeks of seeing he/him lesbian bs in passing and not getting it I feel like I've had an epiphany. It's just people who're afraid to be average

you kinda got it,yeah dude

a he/him lesbian is an AFAB (assigned female at birth) person who uses he/him pronouns but rather than calling themselves ‘straight’ they would prefer to use ‘lesbian’

in which, no self respecting, non-trending, dysphoric transman would EVER do. 

he/him lesbian is just another word for either “im  most likely a gender trender” or “im so hateful of straight people that i dont want to be one myself” as if theres something wrong with being straight.

-Darastrix

anonymous asked:

so i'm (afro) cuban but for whatever reason (melanin) people like to act like they dont believe me when i tell them this so the other day one of my coworkers told me he hates it when i say "pero like" and when i asked him why he said "bc you're not spanish you're just black" & i told him i was cuban and he laughed and said, "this is gonna be like when you told me you're gay, i don't believe either one" -__-

Like do people not know Cuba is in the caribbean and that the caribbean is filled with Black people? Like girlll. This is basic history. Cuba is fucking mixed as hell lmao And even without the knowledge of how people ended up in the caribbean, people have a hard time believing afro-latinx exist because of racism in the media which paints a picture that all Latinx look the same, and whitewashing/colorism which presents itself when spanish novelas only show European looking latinx people. It’s sad. Especially since afro-latinx have contributed so much to latinx culture. I listen to african music and I see where it made its mark on caribbean latinx music like Salsa, Merengue, Reggaeton etc. But people not giving Black people their proper credit, what else is new.

jk and tae both HATE jimin

listen here, im here to prove to all of you once and for all that these two despise jimin. like, you’ll see in just a second how the hate rolls off them in waves. anyways, starting off with the maknae

Originally posted by equitas

listen to me, this is exactly how i look at someone i hate

Originally posted by jikookdetails

LOOK. jk’s giving us all pointers on how to show your hatred towards someone through your eyes. take notes peeps.

now, THIS is how you do it. look at him shoot hearts daggers with his eyes. anyways, let’s move on to tae bc im already losing it

Originally posted by kthish

tae be like…”jimin get your frickin small hands away from me. i dont like you jimin, i dont like your small hands either i dont find them cute at all”

Originally posted by tayonge

tae: “wow, i hate jimin with every fibre of my being…” look at those daggers hes shooting at jimin. damn. can you feel the hate yet?

Originally posted by locotaehyung

what you’re seeing above is NOT vmin cuddling. fuck no.

Originally posted by chimtae

dont even get me started on this jealousy…thing bc thats a separate post can you feel me rolling my eyes yet

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Corrupted Gem Leaders, Part One!

I told you guys I was gonna revisit this, and for heckin’ once I remembered to keep that promise! I was going to upload them all at once but I haven’t finished the other pictures yet.

smh i’m trying to redecorate Wes’ loft and i realized i have like 0 rugs from cleaning out my cc a few months ago. i closed my game to go hunt for some but ended up downloading 200 items of cc.. none of them were rugs.

pls.

HI ARMY'S! #NamjoonStanSpeaking

I just want to remind you that Namjoon dropped his single “Change” along with Wale & I want ARMYS to hype him up as much as you hyped up Yoongi & Agust D. As you can till this moment notice that Namjoon as member,talented person & mainly leader is being extremely ignored & rather hated & called ugly than loved & for what? I really dont know myself….I guess because people can’t come at him for not being talented so they go for his looks.[ Which I don’t get either because hallooo are yall blind? The boy is drop-dead gorgeous tf ]

Yes I am aware of the fact he is in fact not the only member NOT being treated the way they deserve to [like Jin or Hobi…] but Hobi has been in spotlight more for a while since BS&T era,Jin has gained better feedback since his variety shows & dad jokes😂.

I don’t really see any improvement in Joon’s area. I know it’s not the members fault but the only thing on my dash in a while now has been mainly Maknae Line & here & there some Hobi or Suga. And Im honestly really dissapointed because what is the reason for someone not to respect all the members equally.

I don’t know, it was just bothering me for a while now that it’s a few new eras in & I see the other members being more in spotlight but still no results in Joon’s area. Like I see such a beautiful,talented,kind & intelligent person but some fans just don’t see it & it’s so…sad to be honest. So please show him some love,even if you are not Namjoon stan,just let’s all show him we care & that we love him.💞

Thanks ARMY✌

Originally posted by ksjknj

Fights w the Boys (headcanons)

Not to be like ~angsty~ but maybe headcanons for what fights with the individual Sincerely Three boys x reader are like pls?

dont worry abt being angsty lmao i live and breath for some angst 

under the cut bc its long

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A Guide to making Rika less dislikable in fandom

Step 1: 👏 Stop 👏 excusing 👏 her 👏 shitty 👏 doings 👏

when the sun rises tomorrow
you will still be broken
and bruised
but unlike yesterday
you won’t be alone
and that has to count for something.
you finally found a family
worth fighting for.
—  TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY // l.s.

foulchaosinfluencer  asked:

Bill, can you shapeshift into Wendy and disguise your eyes and voice, make out with Pinetree and in the morning show him it's you?

please never come into my ask box with bill///dip ever again its gross and i hate it k thx

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Since i got like 30 notes on that post i wrote (although i had 0 followers lol) i thought id share my thoughts again to you guys.
Im gonna be doing another reiner rant, so.. lots of people were so pissed at reiner for talking shit about the 104th and his comrades, the first thing I’ll be commenting on this (in a long list of comments) is the following ;
•he fucking had to, lest he risked his family being sent to paradis and labeled as traitors
•gabi! If gabi starts having second thoughts on the paradis islanders it could lead to her death, shes already confused about reiner mentioning diversity between the people and all that.
•reiner most probably has to keep the paradis island propaganda intact, like imagine if reiner starts telling all the soldiers about paradis island and how people there are actually like ? How do you think it’ll turn up.
•now i dive into the ‘him hating them’ point; i really dont know.. reiner talking about how his time was hell there and the demons and inhumane bastards may either be referring to the titans themselves and the constant threat and fear or the actual people (though i doubt it, or maybe the warrior persona actually hates them? And the soldier one likes them? Idk i hope he likes them), and since riener is the sole survivor of his squad his hate would be justified ( lost his best friend, annie and marcel.. all of them to the island/eldians )
•This is gonna be the part where all the reiner hate originated from, potato girl. Let me highlight something which im sure many bigger accounts probably covered, the him covering his mouth part.. this could have two meanings; either remembering all the people, his comrades,friends, his time there and how he hated everybody made him sick to his stomach , or he almost launched his ass off remembering sasha’s potato ordeal . I personally prefer (prefer doesn’t begin to explain how much i want the second option to be true) the second one, notice how when he remembers he immediately covers his hand and can be seen smiling/smirking in the second page? He remembered the potato thinge and he almost smiled in front of everybody because of it (which would confuse gabi more), someone like that has to atleast bear some love to his old friends, the ones he’d blindly risk his life for, the ones who’d blindly risk their lives for him.
They’ve been through some shit together and i refuse to believe reiner hates them.
I would talk more about him talking about his former comrades but there isnt much to say.
Anyways if youve made it this far thanks for reading this, i really hope in the future we get to see all of them talk about what happened and try to make up or at least some kind of closure between them all, one can hope..one can only hope.
If you want me to write more please tell me and ill galdly do.

@dynared Well we all have our favorites and least favorites. I cant help it if it seems to you that the story (or the fandom) is obssessed with Shiro.

My own interpretation is that the narrative is maybe kind of Keith-centric, or at the very least its always being steered in favor for Keith’s development.

Which is understandable given that Keith has always been the alpha male hero of all past Voltron iterations. I’m not complaining if thats what the writers want to do.

But what I dont understand is a complete disregard of 2 seasons worth of worldbuilding in favor of fanservice. Its nice to callback to the nostalgia of the DotU and GoLion lineup but really when you look at the narrative of VLD without the filter of those old shows, the story really isnt supporting the sustainability of the lion switch line-up.

If the writers were planning to make the lion switch line-up the eventual status quo, then they shouldnt have put so much energy in developing Shiro and Black Lion’s bond. Or at the very least implanted a seed of doubt about the strength Shiro’s bond. But what we got is a repeated reinforcement that Shiro and the Black Lion belong together.

Same thing happened with Keith and the Red Lion. Without even having to create a storyline for it, they reinforced the strength of the connection between Keith and Red. Why do you think the writers chose to keep putting Keith in situations where he has to be saved by the Red Lion? In fact, I would argue that Keith isnt very happy with the current set-up not just because he is apprehensive about taking his mentor’s role but also because he is not happy with the Black Lion, he’d rather be with the Red Lion.

If you wanna hate Shiro then hate Shiro. But he is one of the main protagonists, there’s no denying that. He’s not “the one main protagonist” but Keith isnt either. Its an ensemble cast with seven main protagonists.

And its easy to interpret that the Black Lion pilot is the number one hero of the story. But in The Legend Begins, Alfor was the hero of that story. He was also considered a leader by the other Paladins. They also deferred to him. So dont you get it? The story is trying to develop all of them as leaders. I mean they’re just 5 people inside a giant robot, is it really that important that someone should rise to be a singular leader?

anonymous asked:

I'm pansexual. Dating a straight man. Who also is homophobic and tramsphobic. He says i dont act gay. That I might have a find affection for women and check em out yet Im most likely not gay. He doesn't wamt to hear what pansexualoty means. And say his phobic slurs aren't directed to me but the gay comm. (Like...what?) His homophobia is the only thing we argue about. Either than that we are happy together. What should i do?

dump him (◕◡◕✿)

Nah but seriously I would question this guy’s morals if he’s unapologetically hateful towards the queer community, even when he knows that you are a part of that community. It sounds like you’ve tried talking with him about it too :/ if he’s not willing to learn & grow he doesn’t deserve to be with you

anonymous asked:

Do you think KJ and Camila are good actors? I honestly dont understand why so many bugheda and/or sprousehart shippers give them so much hate. I am not saying that they're amazing and like Cole and Lili are much better (imo at least), but I dont understand the hate? its so unnecessary?

i think kj and cami are decent actors. i’ve only ever thought one person on the show was kind of bad, and it wasn’t either of them. from what i understand, kj might be kind of a shitty person, so i guess maybe that’s why some people don’t like him. i have no clue what cami did to warrant so much hate. i definitely don’t think she deserves it. most of the hate she gets seems to be in regards to cole, which annoys me. could you be any more obvious? the more i see of it, the more edits i want to make of their friendship 

anonymous asked:

sometimes i think about what could have made me like sc*tt. like. s1&s2 sc*tt definitely had his faults- esp. wrt his treatment of derek- but i think he definitely could have developed as a person from there and had a rly interesting character arc? like real personal growth and shit. it gets harder after master plan. is there a way that episode could have gone down the way it did and still made him a likable character after that? is there any apology he could give that would suffice?

cont. - like im not sure of the answer, but id love to see someone manage it. i don’t know if ive ever come across a fic that manages to redeem him from that moment while still acknowledging it. most fics either dont forgive him for it or they just sort of ignore it. for me tho, i think the real breaking point for sc*tt is the true alpha storyline. after that i don’t think there was anything they could have done for him to make him an interesting or likeable character. that storyline ruined it.

I think one of the biggest places where people take issue with Scott –– and this doesn’t mean they hate him or he’s a horrible human being (although some people feel that way too, and are entitled to it), but where many people see Scott falling short as a character is in that the show seems to have decided that “main character” or “hero” should mean perfect, and that’s just… that’s not good for character development, for plot building, or honestly, for a character’s likability.

Characters need to grow to be engaging. And people grow by making mistakes, learning from them, and moving forward. Scott’s mistakes, his flaws as a human being (and yes, he has flaws, everyone does, that’s not character assassination, that’s just fact) are really never addressed. He isn’t made to apologize for the things he does wrong (and why should he, honestly, since no one around him recognizes his problematic behaviors and calls him out on them) or face any apparent payment for them. This compared to the rest of the characters in the series, who are called out on their mistakes –– either by other characters or by consequences in canon. I always use Derek as a comparison, because there are a lot of straightforward parallels, such as the key moments with Isaac. Derek throws a glass at Isaac to get him to leave the loft. We know that’s an absolutely shitty thing to do, it reads immediately on both Isaac and Derek’s faces, and as consequence Derek loses Isaac as a pack member. That’s some hardcore, immediate reaction showing people in the scene and in the audience that This Was Not An Ok Thing To Do. The fact that Derek knew it wasn’t ok as he was doing it, and that he did it on purpose to get Isaac to leave for his own safety, does not make the behavior alright, and Derek acknowledges and pays for that behavior in the permanent loss of Isaac as a housemate and pack member.

When Scott, a short time later, throws Isaac into a wall in a moment of jealousy, it should, on the surface, seem to strike a fairly close parallel. We have Isaac’s Alpha, someone in a position of power over him, physically lashing out at him in some way. But in this instance, neither Scott nor Isaac react much to it, Isaac continues to go on living in Scott’s house and remaining a member of his pack, and there is just… no real follow up to that moment. And while I understand how that can lead some viewers to dismiss the moments as not being parallel (Isaac wasn’t upset there, so clearly Scott’s behavior is acceptable), what I and many viewers are instead left with is the message that Derek lashing out is unexpected and unacceptable, Scott lashing out is expected and acceptable, and that makes him… more heroic?

In season five I believe there finally was a moment between Stiles and Scott where Scott seemed to be being called out on his behavior, but even that came off as very “I’m flawed and you can’t understand that because you’re perfect,” which is… it’s how Scott sees himself, and it’s how the writers seem to see him, but A) that fails to acknowledge the ways in which he is flawed –– meaning that he can’t learn from and improve upon those flaws –– and B) makes for an incredibly un-engaging character. How can we identify with perfection? How can we root for perfection? And how can we fully get on board with someone we are told is perfect, when we can look at them and point out a dozen instances where they weren’t?

This is my major issue with Scott’s character. That we are told he is perfect when we see he isn’t, that he has a double standard of being excused from all of his bad behaviors when the characters around him aren’t, and I do think this connects very much to the True Alpha problem (I got another ask about my thoughts on that so I’ll answer that in more detail separately), because it’s just another level of saying “Scott is a better man, werewolf, and person in general than everyone else.”

Ok, now after all of that, how do I think Scott could have been improved and made more likable for many critical viewers? To be honest, for me it would have been really simple. Include moments where he apologizes for things. That’s… really, honestly, all I would have needed. Because like I said, I’m not looking for perfect characters. Scott acknowledging that he screwed up now and again would make me ecstatic because it would mean that he’s learning and growing and is trying to become better, and that makes for an amazing character arc in any show. If Scott had done the exact same thing in “Master Plan,” except when Derek asked why Scott didn’t tell him Scott had said “I’m sorry… I was afraid if I told anyone then Gerard would find out my plan. And I couldn’t risk that, my mom was in danger” then bam. I would have had a complete turnaround on my attitude toward him in that moment. He would have been humanized, we would have seen that he was in a tough situation, and he would have become more sympathetic by sympathizing with the shitty thing he’d done to Derek. Honestly, that simple.

anonymous asked:

i.. dont really like mineta, but i gotta say i love how your view on him is neutral (why shitpost bout hating him if he's neutral to you?)

because the mineta hate train is fucking hilarious 


but uhh .. yeah. No. My viewpoint isn’t neutral. I don’t like him and I don’t hate him, though. My view on ratboy is that i basically don’t give a shit. Pervert tropes are everywhere, it’s in my favourite shit i’ve watched.

And I understand he’s got no character, he’s just the pervert trope and it’s Horikoshi projecting himself or some shit like that, but idc. Don’t care bout him either way. 

While bnha boasts some pretty good character depth in a good portion of characters(and more to come), and id hate to compare this blessed series with an entire godforsaken genre of awfulness but -

when ur ex makes ya watch some shitty ass ecchi bc u lost a bet (to which u watch the censored outta spite bc they didn’t specify) with the dull characters who got nothin goin for them but their perverted trait and some weird magic shit then it’s kinda like … im immune? at least my lovely girls aren’t falling all over ratboy’s ugly grape ass lmfao, then id be irked.

(but i still wonder why tsuyu decided to team up w him in the sports festival after he grabbed her boobs twice? personally id have filed a restraining order or have held him under the water for longer.)


And before you take this as defending his place in this stupid(glorious) series, the bottom line of my response is: my stance on mineta’s character isn’t neutral.

I just really don’t give a flying fuck about him. Lmfao.

you all dumb or what

Why people is talking so much about Harrison liking this meme ? Seriously guys wtf. Okay, it’s about domestic abuse, but the reasons for liking this meme are multiples ! You can sure like it because you laughed at it, but you can also like it because Mayweather is praised like a God right now and everyone forgot how he acts in real life. His tend towards domestic abuse is a FACT, liking a meme about it doesn’t mean you agree with it. Have you never liked a picture or a text about someone murdering someone else ??? DOES THAT FUCKING MEAN YOU AGREE WITH MURDER I DONT THINK SO, it just a fact that you take on board. Why is no one thinking he told himself “yeah, everyone seems to forget about the domestical abuse, but I don’t, I’m liking the pic for all of the poor victims that are FORGOTTEN”.

AND SHIT WHY DO YOU TALK ABOUT TOM NOW????? LIKE HE DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHING AND YOURE LIKE “OMG WHAT IF HE IS FOR DOMESTICAL ABUSE” FUCK FAM OKAY I DONT KNOW HIM BUT I MEAN HAS HE EVER DONE ANYTHING WRONG TO MAKE YOU THINK THAT, NOOOOOOO ! Imagine Tom seeing posts about him agreeing for domestical abuse, despite he did nothing for us to accuse him, imagine how broke that would made him, imagine how broke you’d be in his place

You don’t know what you’re talking about, you don’t know either Harrison or Tom so stop jumping to conclusions like that and making drama for nothing

(I’m not trying to be mean I swear don’t hate on me I just can’t keep my opinion for me and yes I’m rude but that’s who I am when I see injustice)