but i don't know how i feel about this either

to those concerned about that recent interview, there was something in there that i found really interesting!!! [“we arent trying to cater or bait anyone.” and ”we’re just trying to do what’s right for the story.”] this is actually super interesting because that implies that all of those klance™ moments in the show are “right for the story” and not catering or baiting! Things like the ‘i cradled you in my arms’ and the ‘we are a good team’ scene? Those were right for the story, not baiting or catering. (which i mention mainly because i’m always worried about that kind of stuff)

of course they aren’t going to say whether or not klance will be canon (they certainly were trying to avoid confirming/disconfirming it) and I’m confused as to why the interviewer would bring it up when they should know that. either way, the possibility of klance has been heavily implied in the show from the beginning and as this interview specifically talks about how they won’t change the story as a result of fandom, i don’t think this interview is any cause to worry about klance.

So, I just saw the beta testing of the new Heathers, and here are some changes that I remember!
  • Beautiful: Heather Duke doesn't have breast implants, instead she had nose surgery while in Europe or her parents were in Europe something like that.
  • Candy Store: No changes at all.
  • Fight for Me: No changes at all.
  • Freeze Your Brain: No changes at all.
  • Big Fun: It was either Heather M. or Heather D. who now says the, "Salt, lime, shot." line. "You need a Jell-O shot!" was removed. There were more changes, but I can't remember.
  • Dead Girl Walking: "Sorry, but I really had to wake you." was changed.
  • Me Inside of Me: There were changes, Veronica says something completely different. Ms. Flemming says different things as well.
  • Blue: It was changed to a brand new song, You're Welcome. I don't know how I feel about it.
  • Big Fun (Reprise): Is this new? I don't think it is.
  • Our Love is God: No changes at all.
  • Prom or Hell?: No changes at all.
  • Dead Gay Son: Many changes.
  • Seventeen: No changes at all, and I'll sue if they touch this song.
  • Shine a Light: No changes at all.
  • Lifeboat: No changes at all.
  • Shine a Light (Reprise): No changes at all.
  • Kindergarten Boyfriend: No changes at all.
  • Yo Girl: No changes at all.
  • Meant to Be Yours: No changes, thank god.
  • Dead Girl Walking (Reprise): "I wish your mom had been a little stronger." "Don't talk about my mom."
  • I Am Damaged: A change, but I forgot.
  • Seventeen (Reprise): No changes at all.
  • Notes: I hope this helps or somewhat helps you all! The show was really great, and I sobbed a waterfall. There were probably some changes in the like actual talking parts, not just the songs, but I only know the songs by heart. Anywho, I love you all~!

how dare the les miserables finale make me feel sad and both so uplifted at the same time. no fair. musical finales are supposed to make feel either super sad or happy it’s not fair you can’t make me super sad and uplifted at the sometime what witchcraft is this

anonymous asked:

I know requests are closed, but I'm kinda hoping it'll be seen anyway... I just got yelled at by both my parents and my fiancé because I decided that I don't want any children in the future... and I've been getting yelled at and called selfish and all... so it might make me feel better to know how the RFA and Saeran would feel about MC not wanting children, either... I kinda feel like they'd feel the same as my fiancé, but I like to hope otherwise... :/

Wow, I just. I honestly angry cried a little bit last night when you sent this in. I had to walk away from my computer because I was too upset for you. I just…hope you think long and hard about saying ‘I do’ to someone who is willing to yell at you and call you selfish for wanting control of your own body and life…


◉ Yoosung 

  • He was glad that you decided to tell him!
    • “I respect your decision, MC,” he grabbed your hands, “I love you. I married you. I’m happy with the way things are!”
  • He does have a sister, so he could always play with nieces/nephews if she ever has kids
  • He wasn’t even totally into pets… so he was fine with your decision
  • Happy to spend his nights playing LOLOL instead of changing and feeding a baby
  • He says the pets at the clinic are more than enough responsibility haha he treats them like they’re children
  • And he loved being taken care of by you
  • He would have to split your attention if you had kids!

◉ Jumin

  • He gave you a warm smile when you told him
  • He could see how nervous you were to tell him this
    • “MC, I can see you’ve put a lot of thought into this. I didn’t marry you expecting to have children. Elizabeth 3rd is more than enough for our family,” he kissed your forehead
  • It was true
  • He enjoyed spoiling you both and that was enough for him
  • Without a kid, he could keep focusing on work
  • He was a little grateful for that, because if he ever did have a kid he knew he would find himself taking more time off to be home instead of running the company
  • He admired that you were honest with him

◉ Zen

  • He was a little sad at first
  • But when you both sat down and talked about it, and he heard you explain your reasoning, he understood completely!
    • “Babe…I didn’t even think about all of that…I feel bad for assuming this was something you wanted. I love you so much, and if this is how you feel then I respect it completely!”
  • The more time passed the more he was actually okay with it
  • All of his late rehearsals and traveling to sets for work…
  • He would never be able to do all of that with a kid!
  • And it was hard being in the public eye
  • Would he have been okay with people taking pictures of his child?
  • After thinking about all of this, he was happy with life the way it was, and was glad you talked to him about your feelings
    • “It’s good we aren’t having kids, MC. Our children would be too beautiful for this world to handle”

◉ Jaehee 

  • She breathed a sigh of relief
  • It’s not that she wouldn’t want kids
  • But she is perfectly fine not having them
  • Hugged you so tight when you told her
  • She could see you starting to tear up a bit and she wanted to comfort you
    • “MC, I had my own reservations…please. We can be happy with the way we are now!”
  • And that was that!
  • Life moved on and you two were happy

◉ Saeyoung

  • He just shrugged
  • Gave you a big hug
    • “I was fine either way, honestly! It’s okay! Why are you looking so glum? Do I need to tickle you?”
  • Made you smile right away
  • His hands were full enough worrying about Saeran
  • He’s perfectly fine getting a cat to act as honorary child
    • “We will name it Yoosung!”
      • “You BETTER NOT SAEYOUNG” -Yoosung
  • All he ever wanted in life was you
  • And that was more than enough

◉ Saeran

  • Felt bad that you looked so nervous telling him
  • Held your hand in his own
    • “Hey, I feel the same. I would have kids, but, the thought makes me a little nervous…”
  • He liked your routines
  • He liked the quiet apartment with just the two of you
  • He liked you all to himself
  • Change sometimes gave him anxiety so this was a relief to hear
    • “Saeyoung is enough of a child for us both,” he laughed.

anonymous asked:

Hello, I don't know if I am the first request but can I ask how the Holy Trio [ Deku / Katsuki / Shouto ] deals with a short girlfriend please ?

Yes, my first request! Thank you for sending it in, I hope it’s okay! ^u^ I also included the guys’ heights for a reference! 


Midoriya Izuku (166cm - 5′5″)

- He’s not short, but he’s not particularly tall, either

- so he understands your struggles!

- he’s actually happy you’re shorter than him, it makes him feel taller!

- i mean he’d love a tall girlfriend as well, but something about the fact that you’re shorter than him makes him really proud (to protect you! even if you don’t need it)

- he likes to wrap his arm around you and rest his chin on the top of your head when you’re cuddling 

- when you can’t reach something, he will always do his best to get it for you!

- but that doesn’t always work, if it’s up really high

- but he’s prepared for this kind of stuff, so Midoriya has a stepping stool thingy at home to use when he can’t reach things in the higher cupboards (that’s what I have ‘cause I’m short haha)

- his mom is also short so the entire house is more or less within your reach. yes feel free to stay over at Izuku’s!!

- if there is no stool, he will try a number of other things to help you: 1) jumping 2) climbing on something else or 3) asking a taller person for help

- usually the third option works best, but he likes helping you himself most of all


Bakugo Katsuki (172cm - 5′7″)

- he’s not super tall either but he’s taller than Izuku which he’s happy about

- is actually a bit insecure about his height - he wishes he were taller

- he doesn’t let those worries show, however! or rather, they sometimes manifest in rude remarks

- because of this, he loves teasing you about your height since you’re shorter

- calls you “pipsqueak” - it’s about as affectionate a nickname as he’s willing to call you (rather, it’s the only one he doesn’t get embarrassed with). But if you dislike it (and tell him) then he won’t use it.

- no one else is allowed to tease you about your height though. Only Bakugo. Even if you don’t mind, he does!

- “what the hell her height is perfectly fine are you trying to start a fight??”

- as long as you don’t mind, some of your classmates will tease you about your height just to rile Bakugo up

- he totally uses you as an arm rest 25/7! It’s not actually more comfortable for him, but he likes touching you, and this is a way for him to be affectionate without making it obvious what a tsundere

- when you ask him to get something for you that you can’t reach, he will be surprisingly compliant (although he may complain a bit)

- he actually really likes it when you ask him for help, and small things like these are easy to do

- if you ask someone else to help you reach something then Bakugo will get really jealous and he will change his mind

- “Kacchan please get this for me?” “Ughh can’t you do it yourself?” “Oh, then Iida can you help m–” “I’LL FUCKING DO IT” “Thank you~” “grumble grumbles”


Todoroki Shouto (176cm - 5′9.5″)

- probably isn’t even aware of the extent of the height difference between you two until you start dating

- he finds it really cute how you have to stand on your toes to kiss him, and how your head rests against his chest when you two hug

- he wonders if you can hear how fast his heart is beating when you do that, because he is definitely a little flustered

- loves hugging you from behind! Arms around your waist and chin on your shoulder or head

- Todoroki feels safe this way, and less embarrassed because you can’t see how red his face is

- he will hand you whatever you can’t reach without question

- if you’re too proud to accept help directly, he’s also okay with that - he will make you an ice stool on which you can step to reach what you need!

- he did that once in a mall for you when you couldn’t reach a hat, but the workers there were not pleased with having to mop up water later so now you guys don’t do it as much

- he doesn’t mention your height much, but if someone else were to make fun of you for that he will Fight them

- or rather, intimated them, because most people aren’t willing to fight Todoroki

- but he would totally fight for you, especially if you’re sensitive about your height


Thank you again for the request! Midoriya’s is a bit shorter than the others’, hope it’s okay! I love these guys, please send in some more requests! <3 - admin Soleil

anonymous asked:

Hi, I'm new to witchcraft - well, not new new but I digress - and I was wondering something. I seem to have trouble centering and grounding. I just don't know how to go about doing either. I've researched taken the time to really feel out the energies around me but I never really feel like I accomplish either. I've done shield and a few spells and they've worked and I hadn't done centering or grounding. Is that unusual or bad? I dunno. I'm in the closet with no guidance or even a library. Help.

Originally posted by dinsintegration

Before you meditate, or do other spiritual work such as energy healings, divination or magick, you should prepare and protect yourself. You do this by grounding yourself, centering your energies, and shielding yourself from unwanted influences.

CENTERING

Centering is simply returning all of your scattered energies to home base. Usually throughout the day, you have little energy tendrils out doing things while you are attending to business. Perhaps you are writing a report, but one ‘eye’ is on the clock, because you have a meeting coming up, and a fragment of your attention is thinking about your children, since one was sniffling this morning, and you also have a fraction of your mind drafting a letter of resignation you know you’ll never send.

To center yourself, call in all your scattered bits of attention and focus, and bring them into your body’s space. You are mentally compacting yourself around your mental or ‘spiritual center of gravity’. People have different concepts of where their spiritual center physically is.  Mine is at my apex, just below the notch of my sternum.  Some people locate it at their heart chakra or their solar plexus chakra. Pull your energies into a tight ball at the location where they seem to want to be at rest–if you aren’t centered, you might feel 'psychically top-heavy’, as if you were prone to topple over.

Pay attention to your breathing while you call in all your forces; imagine yourself inhaling white cleansing energy and exhaling dark, dusty 'busy-ness’ and futile wheel-spinning. This process can take 10-15 minutes while you’re first learning it, but once you learn the 'centered’ feeling, you can center yourself with a few breaths at any time, even while driving your car or walking into that important meeting.

GROUNDING

Grounding connects you to the energy of the earth, and is important in healing and magickal works since it prevents you from depleting your own body’s energy. Simply put, you connect to the earth by imagining you are connected to the earth. Sounds silly, but it works. Here’s how you do it:

Imagine you are standing in your bare feet on the ground. (It doesn’t matter if you’re in your cubicle in a high rise or even flying somewhere on a plane.) Your feet are planted firmly on the bare earth, and by an exercise of your will, you send roots into the earth. As you inhale, you draw energy up through your new 'roots’, and as you exhale, you send your roots even further into the earth. Do this for several minutes–you should definitely feel a change in the state of your feeling of 'aliveness’.

A great stone for grounding is hematite.  When learning to ground, have some on hand.  But there is a forewarning for hematite: where or carry it too much or too often, and you may become too rooted.

SHIELDING

Shielding is the process of protecting yourself from the energetic influences around you, and is something you can do independent of grounding, centering, meditating or anything else.

Have you ever experienced a day when you were full of vague, directionless anger? Or a strange hope inappropriate to your current circumstances? Before you schedule an appointment with a psychiatrist, see if shielding makes these intrusive emotions cease–you may be taking on the energies of people around you, complete with their own imprimatur of hope, fear, anger or whatnot.

Shielding is a skill that you can use independent of grounding and centering, and when you are going into highly charged situations (a court room, a job review or interview, a family argument), shielding is a vital step in keeping your energies separate from all the swirling energies around you.

Shielding, like grounding and centering, is a visualizing process, and everyone evolves their own special shielding ritual. While grounded, draw up energy into your being. Use this energy to form a protective barrier between yourself and the negative vibes of those around you, or random free-floating energies. You can visualize a transparent plexi-glass egg around you–the good intentions and friendly emotions around you are free to pass through your shield, but all bad stuff gets deflected. Some people make shields that reflect negativity back to the source, but this, while perhaps satisfying to one’s sense of fair play, still leaves too much negative energy in the atmosphere. Set your shields to 'ground out’ any negative energy that impinges on it, and let it flow harmlessly into the earth, where it can be neutralized and recycled into good energy.

Hope this helps, darling!

anonymous asked:

Ive spend a whole lot of time thinking about that "im not trying because I don't see my self living much longer." Thing. I know I'm in that boat and I feel alot of people our age are too. It makes me wonder if our generation is going to just be a whole lot of underachieving and shrugging. "Eh, what can I say, I didn't see my self making it this far" "Me either Bill."

i think thats already how a lot of ppl my age are. i dont think it’s gonna result in ‘underachieving’ but in a revamp of what we as a society consider necessary. like, the general give-uppiness is kinda from capitalism, and the feeling of “man i dont even want to catch up with this shit” is a rejection of the norms of capitalism (go to college, get a job that can pay for hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt after college, somehow get a house, drown in debt from ur new house, have a child, drown in debt trying to raise this child) and the result isnt gonna be the world ending its gonna be these things becoming irrelevant to life, and a general reform in the way things are done to accommodate society instead of society changing itself to accommodate capitalism & corporations.

like, that post specifically was about suicide but i think it applies to a hell of a lot of people because of the overall pressure of life we’re presented with that other generations havent been, so a lot of us figure “fuck that, if thats what i have to do to live ill probably die before i have to deal w that shit.” thats absolutely how i grew up thinking, anyway. whether i was going thru a bout of depression or not, even if life felt great, i always assumed i wouldnt live to see my 25th birthday cuz i was just way too likely to have had enough by then. i think a lot of ppl can relate

anonymous asked:

I know it makes sense for narrative reasons for setting up season 3 but I am very sad Marco didn't show any interest in Star after her confession and that he avoided her after song day. I don't like Star hurting so much

I feel your pain. But hey, Star needed basically all of season 2 to properly sort out her feelings, and managed to finally do it in the nick of time, rethinking about his whole relationship with Star isn’t going to be easy for Marco either, even more since right now Jackie is his girlfriend, and we know how focused he gets on the task at hand, from getting a juicepack open to retrieving Star’s dimensional scissors.
Right now I don’t feel like making any prediction about the future of Starco, but…

And something like this is bound to make him think, or at least I hope so!

anonymous asked:

I get the feeling yang is only going to act coldly towards Blake when they meet again rather than act out in anger. Like, we've seen yangs personality change this season and we know she's upset that Blake left but I don't think yang would ever hurt Blake, especially since she knows how Adam treated Blake

I’m absolutely agree but I’m not sure how much Yang knows about Adam. After all we don’t know much about it either. And the main reason why I’m mentioning that here is because I might actually cry when Blake and Yang talk and Blake tells her about her relationship with him. 

In 5x04 Yang has acted more coldly than Weiss during their reunion and that says a lot. Her acting coldly towards Blake at first makes so much sense. It will take a while and a long talk for her to warm up again towards her and solve their conflict. Yang seems like she has to allow herself to be angry and hurt again before she can forgive, right now she seems to shove all feelings far away from her. Only if she allows herself to feel all these things she can work through that and be okay again. 

But as much as Blake needed Yang in Volume 2 Yang needs her now. 

skylarri1991  asked:

Do you ever think about the fact that Raven and Bellamy will have been the new leadership couple longer than Bellamy and Clarke have been and how we can see the tension that comes from that when they return? I don't know how to feel about it.

I don’t know how to feel about it either, because I have no idea what the writers will do with it. 6 years is a long time, and it’s a long time being stuck in a small space with people. Bellamy and his bond with the other 6 is going to be pretty deep, for sure. 

I think there will be tension between raven x bellamy x clarke, especially when clarke comes back in and raven x bellamy have their own routine down. I’m curious to know how it’ll go down. I know Raven expressed this season that she doesn’t like to be Clarke’s soldier, and although Raven loves Clarke (clearly), Raven has always chaffed a bit under Clarke’s leadership. Will old wounds reopen now that Raven is use to being the leader with Bellamy? 

And what about Bellamy? How will he feel about Clarke coming back in? I think he’ll be conflicted, for sure. I mean, he’s likely moved on and grieved her, yet she’s back, he left her, but she was alive this whole time, reaching out to him every day. Yeah, I think there’ll be mixture of guilt, joy, and (if he was in love with her before this, which is likely) even a confusion over his feelings for her. 

Not to mention that Bellamy’s use to leading without her after 6 years. His priorities have changed too now that he isn’t as worried about Octavia, now his priorities are leading and doing what’s best for the group, while Clarke’s priorities might be to Madi. There’s going to be conflict. 

In the end, though, I think what Bellamy x Raven x Clarke will find is that they need each other, that they work better as a leadership threesome. 

Besides that, I’m acutally looking forward to seeing Bellamy leading with Raven and not with Clarke next season (at first, anyway). Clarke and Bellamy have always defined their relationship by their co-leadership… but what happens when you take that out of the equation of what makes them “them”? Is it a chance for their relationship to develop in ways that don’t center around leadership? 

Idk. I’m honestly excited (for now) to see what happens. I see more potential for good things than bad things in this whole separation for 6 years twist. 

anonymous asked:

hi!!! can u give me/us some more details about the boy's house because i feel like we don't get much from isak's pov lol we know the kitchen the living room and even's house but i'm really interested to know just how big/how much more there is in the house! thank you and i love you!

fun facts about the acar/bech næsheim/bakkoush household that isak never ever mentions because he’s either 1) too preoccupied having sex or two) does not know things because he was in that house a total of two times for a year probably before he actually got along with even or three) never had a chance to use/be in that room and so never brings it up in his internal monologue and it’s so sad bc i’ve spent so much time like, designing it in my head lmao

yay for limited pov!

that said, for you curious souls:

  • the living room everyone is using throughout the story, the one that is directly to the right of the entrance, is not their actual TV room. this is their “formal” living room. they set up a television in there because the TV in their actual TV room died on them, and none of them have a) the money to replace it and b) the energy to remove it and deal with all the wirings and shit, so they just brought elias’s old tv that he kept in his closet and set it up there until they can replace the one in their supply room. yousef’s uncle has come over and seen this and his poor house-decorating heart almost gave out, and he offered to replace their TV so long as they got rid of the TV in the formal living room, but they were like, nah, we’ll do it on our own, you’re already renting us your house at a good deal like wtf.
  • the “real” tv room is toward the back end of the house, in front of the kitchen
  • to the left of the entrance you, nestled deeper into a small hallway, you have elias’s bedroom! yes, elias’s room has been downstairs the entire time, and right beside the entrance, so the pretty big window looking out to the porch/driveway outside belongs to elias. it’s the master bedroom, which means he’s got the biggest room, closet, and bathroom, and though he insisted yousef should have it since it was his uncle giving them a deal, yousef admitted that he and even were terrified of being the first ones murdered if an assailant every came into the house, and elias called them ridiculous and stupid but took the room anyway. n*ce cheers for elias
  • they have a covered porch both in their front yard and in their backyard
  • they have a pool. yes,,, before you ask,, isak and even will eventually make out in it, calm down people i know the power this pool gives me
  • they also have a balcony. i know, i know, more power. isak is literally the worst at mentioning anything, but, you know, he doesn’t spend time thinking about their house structure, other than “it’s a big house”. the balcony faces their large backyard.
  • there are two guest bathrooms: one downstairs, that’s only a half bathroom, and one upstairs, that is a full bathroom w/ a tub
  • elias has a small office for himself downstairs; this is because he’s actually the sole editor for a small company trying to make it big on youtube — on-camera hosts that speak both norwegian and english to accommodate to larger audience — and they’re doing well enough so that elias sometimes has to take the job home, and he’s getting paid just as well as yousef and even are (well, even’s income fluctuates, and sometimes he does make less than elias, but it depends on the season)
  • the house actually comes with four bedrooms — they’ve turned the fourth one into a “supply room”, where all three of their boys stuff the things they can’t fit in their room. it’s tight and messy and for the most part remains unvisited lmao
  • yousef and even’s rooms are upstairs. yousef’s is in the front end of the house while even’s is in the back end
  • all three of them have a private bathroom, but only elias has a walk-in closet. yousef and even have a double-door shelved closet
  • they have a built-in bookshelf upstairs, right beside the balcony doors and in front of even’s room. there are more knick-knacks than books in there, though, which yousef’s uncle also despairs of. for his sake, the boys contributed a couple of their books, such as “how children succeed”, “the art of seeing”, “the lion, the witch and the wardrobe”, “harry potter and the order of the phoenix”, and “cut by cut”.
  • despite isak always making it sound kinda dreary and dark (idek why???) the house is actually very bright and happy; the living room/dining room/entrance walls are a nice cream color, while the not-working TV room and the kitchen are a nice, cool brown. they have light hard-wood floors and their door/cabinets/panels are all white and they have a LOT of lights so the house never looks sad, just when the lights are off or what elias likes to call “the mood lighting” is on. yousef’s uncle, the designer and owner, is just a happy dude. he ain’t going around making depressing-ass houses.
  • the living room is open to the upstairs, so it’s got a high ceiling and very high windows and lights — which is why the boys slack off sometimes changing the bulbs that go out, because it’s ridiculously high and they’d need a very long ladder
  • the stairs aren’t straight up, they’re straight up then take a sharp turn to the right. the steps and the railings are also made up of the light hardwood that the floors are made of while the front of the steps and the banisters are painted white

i’ve sketched it out already, to use as reference (even though i hardly need it thanks to isak lol but it’s good to picture it anyway) but eventually i will clean it up and post it for you guys, i love you!!!

anonymous asked:

"I did something bad" is the official bearding anthem !! I'm living !!! There is no regret, no compassion, only contempt in the way she talks about them : that's not how you treat a so called ex-bf of 1 year and the nice rebound if both of these rs were real....I don't know how the straights are going to spin this one, but she couldn't be more obvious about bearding than in this song. Also bonus point for "playthings for me to use" in "don't blame me" LOL

Haha, I know! Taylor is unrepentant in this song because she has nothing to feel sorry for. She didn’t actually cheat on either of these men or break their hearts, no matter what the world says. All she did was serve a little karma back to those who tried to use her name for money and fame. They really should have seen it coming.

anonymous asked:

alec punching raphael? hell to the no, i hope magnus won't let that pass

Honestly yes. I’ve seen posts on my dash that are willing to excuse Alec’s behaviour, that because it’s his sister that it is completely fine for him to go around lashing at Magnus and punching Raphael for something which has a lot of negative associations attached to it.

Of course I understand that Alec is protective of Isabelle, that’s his sister, but don’t go around lashing out just because you didn’t notice what Isabelle was struggling with. Not with Magnus tried to give Isabelle an out earlier on, not when Raphael went out of his way to make sure Isabelle was okay. He was there for her when no one was, he wanted to help get her out of that situations and instead Isabelle played him (consent issues here because that was not okay) and after that too Raphael shared things about his past, things that he would have rather forget, but he did try and help her. Raphael owes the shadowhunters nothing. Keep reminding yourself that when you’re there preaching about why it’s absolutely fine that Alec is punching Raphael.

Raphael owes them shit. Isabelle and Clary betrayed Raphael, Clary used Raphael to get blood for Jace, and then used Simon to get Camille from Raphael. After what Isabelle did to Raphael in 1x13, I’m surprised Raphael even bothered to help her out, but he did because he sympathised. So you know what, Alec Lightwood can have a nice chat with himself and what he’s doing, because I’m not going to support it one bit, (my opinion, sorry).

Also if Isabelle is Alec’s sister than Raphael is Magnus’ son. And I do hope Magnus doesn’t let it pass. Because you can see how much Magnus cares about Raphael, he literally raised him up. So yeah. I’m not saying it, because I’m gonna get hate either way, but I don’t agree one bit with Alec punching Raphael and I hope Magnus steps in.

anonymous asked:

ok sorry, still me, I just have one more thing... I'm always reading about INTJs sort of avoiding love, seeing it as pointless and stupid. I think dating someone just to have a partner is certainly pointless, but every now and then I do start to crave interaction a little. I know if I'm not careful, I could get hurt, but I don't want to be alone forever. I just... don't know how to flirt, or how to show someone that I do actually care about things at all.

Love asks are the most complex, but here’s the thing

1) “I don’t want to get hurt” INTJ anxiety

Fore some reason, I ended up having more experiences in romantic relationships than the average INTJ. What I’ve learned is that, as they say in my country “you can’t have both a full barrel and a drunk wife”. 

I mean, you can have something with little value, not get attached and leave with no feelings but at least not hurt either, OR you can connect with someone, get involved and likely hurt. So if you want to be “careful not to get hurt”, you’ll likely never experience anything of the second type, and - at least in my opinion - that would be a waste. C.S.S. Lewis, fellow INTJ, said: “To love at all, is to be vulnerable”. 

I’ve had one shot at what could have been a good relationship and I screwed up because I was afraid of getting hurt. I hope my advice will help someone not to end up in the same situation.

Truth is, relationships are a lot of effort and probably even more effort for INTJs. But sometimes they’re worth it. So when you get the courage to get into one, live it to its fullest, and try to push down the fear. Let your partner help you maybe. Just don’t give up. You might discover yourself vulnerable, but some people say it’s a strength, not a burden. I, too, shall see.

2) Flirting and all that stuff

Flirting, like swimming, is a skill. Some you throw into water and spontaneously know what to do, others drown like rocks at first. What’s important is that everyone can learn it, even the most hopeless type.

You might not get to an ESFP’s level, but INTJs can learn everything so I’m confident you will too. I was in the hopeless category so I looked some things up on the internet and started practicing when on a date. At first, I felt stiff and fake, but apparently that wasn’t perceived from the outside. In the long rung, I started feeling more confident. It’s still something I don’t always like, but its utility is undeniable.

Summing up, internet is there for you. Don’t be shy and learn.

3) Showing affection INTJ style

INTJs (as other TJs) have the weirdest way of showing affection. They will rather do things for you than telling you. They will try to solve all your life’s problems, re-organize your schedule, and give you tons of attentions. 

So how do you show it to others you ask.

I’ve struggled with it personally and I came to the conclusion that if the person you’re with is smart enough, they will understand that’s your way of loving. So don’t mind it too much. If they need some reinforcement, use your Te to express your feelings. It might be blunt and a bit too direct, but for some reason some people find it cute.

In conclusion, be yourself. Show your affection in the way it comes more natural to you, just sprinkle some compliment or nice word here and there. 

Crushes

Here, have a bit of some goofy Keith with a healthy amount of sheith, I know I needed it.



“We all had a crush on Keith,” says Hunk nonchalantly as they’re relaxing in the lounge, Keith being the only one absent.

Sitting beside his friend, Lance gasps.

“I did not!”

“Especially you, dude.”

On the ground, with a disassembled computer splayed out in front of her, Pidge snickers.

“It’s true,” she says without even looking at them.

“You weren’t even there when he was!”

“Maybe, but I was there for the months after, when everyone always made comments about him. Also, we shared sleeping quarters.”

Lance sputters, desperately searching for a rebuttal. His eyes fall on Shiro, on the other side of the room, reading… a book upside down? That guy really has all the talents.

“Shiro!” He exclaims, and they all startle as they turn to him. “Shiro was the one people had a crush on! So there!”

Hunk seems to consider this.

“Yeah, but… they’re different kind of crushes, you know? Both unattainable, but for very different reasons. Also, it doesn’t change anything.”

“Of course it changes things! You said /everyone/. Well, he didn’t.”

“I meant everyone in our year, Lance. As in, the ones who naturally came in contact with Keith?” Hunk rolls his eyes, looking very confident in his point.

“Also,” adds Pidge mischievously, “who’s to say he didn’t?”

Lance gapes, but before he can retort anything, Shiro straightens on the couch and faces them, speaking for the first time.

“I did not have a crush on Keith,” he says, looking extremely offended. Lance doesn’t even have the time to feel smug. “I was in love with him.”

Silence.

“Was? Shiro, are you breaking up with me?”

They turn towards the doorway where Keith is standing, leaning against the wall with a faked hurt look on his face. Shiro almost trips on his own feet in his haste to get up. 

“What? No! I-”

“It’s too late,” Keith shakes his head, the epitome of sadness. “There’s someone else that would treat me right, and now I know I have a chance.”

He walks over to the others, who are still frozen, skillfully evading Shiro’s grasping arms. He ignores his boyfriend’s whining, and kneels in front of the couch.

“Hunk,” he starts solemnly, “are you saying… you also had a crush on me?”

Hunk blinks, still stunned by the turn of events, and then blushes slightly. 

“Well I mean, it was hard not to have a crush on you man, you were so cool. You never talked to us, but we’d all kind of daydream about becoming friends with you, even the ones that were jealous jerks.”

The sincere answer knocks the fake seriousness out of Keith, and the red paladin is left wide-eyed and a little pink, left hand reaching towards his embarrassed friend. 

“Hunk, I…” he stops, and smiles a little. “Congratulations, you’re friends with me now.”

Hunk looks back at him, surprised, and then grins widely, taking a hold of Keith’s hand.

“Man, they’d all be jealous of me, now!”

“Nah,” Keith says, shaking his head. “They’d be jealous of me.”

“Aw, Keith…”

They stay like this for a moment, holding hands and smiling at each other, before they’re interrupted.

“Okay, that’s enough,” Shiro says, abruptly walking over and literally throwing Keith over his shoulder, who shouts in surprise. The black paladin immediately turns around and walks towards the door, then pauses and looks over his shoulder at Hunk. 

“See you in the training room later, paladin,” he says, eyes narrowed, and Hunk gulps.

“Shiro, stop it!” Keith says from his spot on Shiro’s back. “Hunk, it’s alright, I’m the one who trains with him. See you guys later!”

And with that, they’re gone.

After a few seconds, Lance scoots over closer to Hunk and jealously takes hold of his best friend’s arm. He’s still in shock, but at least capable of speech now.

“What the hell was that?”

Pidge, still holding pieces of tech on the ground, slowly shakes her head.
“I have no idea.”

They’re in bed, later, Shiro curled around Keith as close as he can get, clothes on the ground and blankets pooled at their waists. It’s warm, and peaceful, but he hasn’t been able to get it out of his head.

“Do I really not treat you right? Because I can change that, you know. Anything.”

Keith had almost been asleep, the warm and solid body at his back a comfortable presence, but he stirs at the feeling of Shiro’s lips moving against his neck. Silently, he brings up his hand, entwined with Shiro’s, and gently kisses each of his lover’s fingers, reveling in the hitched breath he hears behind him.

“Idiot,” he says softly, his eyes closed.

He can feel Shiro smile, humming happily, and it lulls him to sleep.

I’ve been writing and rewriting the words that are supposed to describe how I feel about you now. I don’t hate you, but I don’t love you either. And I don’t love you, but I do care about what happens to you. And I wouldn’t be here to give you the world but I do wish you the best. I just don’t know how I’m supposed to remember us. Do I keep the good memories and all of the words that I really hope you meant when you said them? Or do I hold onto the worst of us as a reminder of who we’d never be?
—  🖤

anonymous asked:

Hi! I feel so sorry for Li. Whatever he says re c then says "I'll be in trouble for saying that" or "she's gonna be mad about it". I don't know if chiams find this cute but for me it seems a heavenly controled guy who's allowed to say specific things. Which as an honest relationship is awful af but as a fakelationship shows how much liam has to delivered yet get scold at when he doesn't. It's like he gets a remark of how good or bad he did. Chiam either real or fake that's so fucked up

Hi anon,

Yeah, he keeps making these little comments, and it does baffle me as to how people find it cute.

The way Liam’s been portrayed through these relationships is like a man who while he has an identity to a point as a performer (although Daily Mail called him ‘the television hunk’ in a caption whereas they called her ‘his fashionista girlfriend) it’s not a separate identity at all really with Sophia, she even helped with singing and music and had a great voice towards the end of their ‘relationship’ and he was the one who was into marriage but she wanted independence. 

And then here we have C involved in everything, taking the lead on the baby and also being the one alongside Cowell of all people to encourage Liam to go solo, all while giving her opinion on the Bedroom Floor mv which for some reason she’s had her fingers in that song from the very first day of Strip that down promo while simultaneously giving the impression that she’s the lead on everything and Liam’s just so lucky to have that input. 

While on the other hand, her IG is boring, her music taste differs from his altogether and she’s very critical and much more I’ve probably forgotten about.

But of course people will buy it to an extent and that’s what they bank on including Liam by the way to a point  people will hammer him in the comments for being ‘a kid’ or even worse and say ‘how long till she drops him’ all while Cheriamupdates and Chiams chatter on about how lovely it all is, and meanwhile, I happen to believe he’s a very smart person playing a long game, dropping hints like nobody’s business and fibbing his head off just like always but you  and I are the delusional ones.

I’d rather think this way than the alternative, thanks.