but i cant and i dont know what to do

blossomandthestars  asked:

udhgarugh i failed 2 of my 4 classes (the ones i passed was music and math with a 62%) and i know im smart and all my teachers know it and my parents know it and I KNOW IT I JUST CANT GET THE WORK DONE, i would have gotten all A's if i didn't have executive dysfunction and hopefully the therapy will work but my therapist says i dont have it but im pretty darn sure i do my mom says that i just have to write stuff down but it doesn't help. Any advice?

just keep in mind that professionals aren’t always accurate, they don’t know what it’s like to be you so there’s always (and it’s quite common) that chance that they’re gonna look at you and, for whatever reason, say you don’t have something you most likely do have

it’s happened to me and my friends and lots of people who have sent stuff in to me, so i honestly suggest if you can getting a second opinion from a different psychologist,,,, if that’s not possible though you might have to turn to online help ;;

anonymous asked:

(1)hi mom! so theres this really funny and beautiful girl that has this like small youtube channel and i follow her on twitter n things and i think i have this massive crush on her? that or im just platonically in love but ive never really had any close friends or felt the need to make them so i have no idea how to talk? or be funny? or socialize in general and i like really want to talk to her too? and she really likes fashion n things and has really nice clothes n i like it too but

(2) i dont have the money to buy clothes or make up bc im kinda p poor so?? and i have no idea what to do bc i cant stop thinking abt her and ive never felt like this before n im kinda scared? do u have advice on this?

First of all, unless you know this girl personally I’d caution you from saying you’re falling for her or in love with her or anything of that sort. People online present themselves in a certain way and unless you know them personally, you honestly don’t know them. You don’t know this girl; she could be anyone when she’s not in front of a camera. Don’t forget that!

I’ve met… probably around 40-50 people off the internet over the last 20 years, and there have been a few times where I’ve been really surprised and disappointed about how different they are in real life. It’s not always the case, but people can use the internet to give you false impressions of what they’re like - to assume an alternate, ‘cooler’ persona, if you will. To pretend to be the person they wish they were. Sometimes you don’t even need to meet people irl to find this stuff out - you find out, after getting to know them better on the internet, that they’re nothing like you thought they were. 

You may really like the idea of her and want to get to know her personally - that’s fine! That’s how you make friends: liking the way someone seems and wanting to know them better. But please keep in mind all you like at this stage is your personal idea of what she might be like.

Anyway, if this girl is worth her salt, the fact you have no money to buy clothes or makeup won’t impact how much she likes you at all - so I wouldn’t worry about that area of your concerns. You can like fashion without having the money to fully engage with it yourself. 

Try to strike up a conversation with her. Engage her on something she’s said on her channel. I can’t really give you tips about how to strike up a conversation about fashion because I am the opposite of fashionable. I am Frumpy Aunt Asy who wears makeup twice a year. But if you’re interested in fashion too, get her talking about fashion and herself. People love talking about themselves. Compliment one of her outfits and ask how she came up with the idea of combining whatever elements she combined. Ask her what she thinks about add x element, or etc. People also love giving their opinions. You get a girl talking about herself or her opinions and you’ll get a girl talking. 

Anyway, I wish you luck with this one - but, genuinely, hold off on the “I love yours” until you know someone personally, because people can be quite different one-on-one! :)

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bizarre nightmares

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WHY DO I SUDDENLY FEEL LIKE TAICHI NEVER FORGOT THAT CONVERSATION

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he didnt think she’d get this far

inspired by this kinda

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“i feel so lucky to have existed at the same time as you, clearly the odds were in my favor for once.“

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So Pokemon and Ace Attorney was actually the secret winner!  So I drew some birds with birds! I might draw more soon, with the ladies or prosecutors next time!  Everyone gets a Flying type because all the AA characters remind me of birds. 

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yuuri and viktor inspired by this fanfic by @grayclouds. and i know that the fanart is not as good as the fanfic, but, well, i tried. 

i dont even know what to say about this fanfic im so full of feelings i cant- 

You know when you try so so hard to stay strong and stay positive and try so hard to learn to deal with your mental illnesses and how to cope with them and then the next thing you know the tiniest of things make you cry and it builds up and up until you’re full on crying and then you cant seem to breathe because everything feels too much and you cant seem to overcome the bad thoughts so you do something you regret which makes you feel even worse and i literally have noone to speak to about it because i refuse to be a burden and here i am, ranting on tumblr because i dont know what else to do.

i am literally speechless, this man doesn’t know shit about politics nor he knows about diplomacy, i don’t know what’s gonna be of mexico in the next months, i am scared for my people’s future, for minorities, for muslims, for the world’s future, but most of all i am shocked by the fact that so many people share that way of thinking, so many racists, mysogynists, ableists, xenophobic.

so many people filled with nothing but hatred.

america fucked up, and they really did.

america will not be great again after this.

anonymous asked:

Rfa+V+Saeran all loopy after dentist? Who do you think would cry, who laughs, who stares into nothingness?

Based on me! After I got mouth surgery so all the things said and done…….happened to me.


Yoosung

~”Yoosung I cant pheel meh moufh” You mumble slurring the works making him chuckle.
~He sighs knowing this is gonna be a long day for the both of you guys and proceeds to try to get you in the car
~”Nooooooo~ Yoosung I dont wanna goooo~”You cry refusing to get in the car.
~He pushed you in the car and buckles you in then got in he looked over to you trying to see what you would do next when he sees you knocked out cold
~When he gets you home he puts you in bed and sighs trying to make you some soft food that you can eat


Zen

~”Hey princess how do you feel?” He said as you drowsily opened your eyes welcoming you back into consciousness
~” I feel… fucking fucked the fuck up” You stutter and he just blinks before busting into a laughing fit.
~You start to stroke his rat tail whispering softly to yourself as he just looked very confused 
~You started panicking before touching your knees and going “Oh good…they’re still here”
~He found it so oddly entertaining watching you do all this stupid shit and he kinda felt like an asshole for laughing but he quickly reminded himself that you wouldn’t remember tomorrow 


Jaehee

~MAMA JAEHEE ACTIVATE
~”MC stop chewing on your stitches!” 
~”MC get in the car!”
~”Yes MC…..your thumb is still there…”
~She kept reassuring you that everything was still there it was just in fact numb or else it would hurt and you wouldn’t want that would you
~Probably handles it the most maturely only chuckling a few times at the funny stuff you said


Jumin

~He has only the best™ dentists for you and they told him that you would be a bit loopy….he wasnt prepared for this
~”Hey…Jumin…” You slurred 
~”Yes MC”He said looking at you
~”Juuuuuummmmiiiinnn”You whined
~”Yes MC?”He sighed
~”Whats your name Jumin..”You say before passing out on the couch
~He just has to take a minute to register what just happened and why you said that


Saeyoung

~This little shit has his camera ready from the minute you wake up 
~”Saeyoung…..”You say touching your cheek
~He points the camera at you trying to hold back his giggles “Yes MC?”

~”My moufh is soooo full I pheel like a squirrel”You say with a dazed look on your face
~He doesn’t even try to hold back his laughter on that one he may sem like hes all laughs in giggles but he is seriously worried
~But that doesn’t stop him from spamming that chat with stupid videos of you saying dumb shit


V

~PrayforV2k17
~He is blind and you are drugged what will happen??
~He tries but ends up calling Jumin because he cant see so how is he supposed to take care of you
~But he still talks to you and doesnt laugh just listens
~”V!! The wallpaper is dancing” You say excitedly
~”Im sure it is MC…”He sighs facepalming 


Saeran

~OK he cannot do this alone so hes bringing Saeyoung along to help with you and shit
~Hes bought some ice cream because he hears that helps and it totally not just another excuse to eat ice cream
~But anyways drugs and shit make him feel very uncomfortable so before you went under you told him it would just make you really loopy and tired 
~And tired you were, you were falling asleep and waking up then falling asleep it was kinda cute to him
~But the things you said in between your little naps were hysterical 
~”Im a bunny wandering through the clouds….woah…..”

Ahsoka: [text] Hey master
Ahsoka: can you please answer the door? I have a get well card for master Kenobi. 😺
Anakin: sorry snips no can do 
Anakin: hes at deaths door and he cant be disturbed
Ahsoka: Oh my gosh, it’s that bad??? The healers told me he’d be fine! I thought it was just a run of the mill virus.
Anakin: no hes basically dying and only i can save him right now
Anakin: honestly i dont know what ill do without him 
Anakin: im going to have to be so brave 
Ahsoka: Oh no 😢 I had no idea
Anakin: ill just have to hope that i can heal him since im the chosen one 

Obi-Wan: [text] Ahsoka, don’t listen to whatever Anakin’s telling you. I am fine. I have a head cold. Just open the door. 
Ahsoka: LMAO why am I not surprised????  😄

Anakin: ahsoka if u open that door obiwan could DIE ok 
Anakin: i will report u to the council 
Ahsoka: LOL sure you will 
Ahsoka: I will slip the card under the door. 
Anakin: NO ur card has outside germs he is FRAGILE right now ahsoka his LIFE HANGS IN THE BALANCE

Obi-Wan: Honestly you should see me right now. Anakin’s placed about 15 pillows on my bed and he’s got New Age music playing in here. Also he keeps trying to make me soup. 🤢
Ahsoka: Hahahahahahahahaha
Obi-Wan: I think there are 7 humidifiers on right now. I’ll be the most well-hydrated I’ve ever been in my life. 
Ahsoka: OMG 🤣 Please send a pic!!!!

@ialreadyreadthatfanfic @darth-lumines @ anyone else who feels like enabling me ;) 

Owari no Shipping Week: Day 1: Holding hands / Cuddles / Hugs

concept: yuu is “””injured””” and desperately needs carried because he cant possibly walk. mika 100% knows whats up but plays along bc he doesnt mind At All

um// this doesnt really fit the prompt much sorry but… i mean carrying could count as holding AND a hug right??? the others ive done do actually fit the prompts lmao just not so much this one unless you squint

although i have drawn mikayuu cuddles in the past!! which is.. part of the reason it was hard to follow the prompt properly, it kept being too similar to that one rip

Um theres a french girl who started working with my company for 3 months starting today… but my french level is no where near communication. Um but I really should try to practice… but I cant speak it properly at all lol i dont know what to do afsgjskfkhakkd

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