but i also want you to talk

anonymous asked:

My mom doesn't believe in mentall illnesss because "that's for white people", but I really want to see a psychiatrist what should I do?

I would start by going to a guidance counselor (or an adult you can trust) and have your mother attend along with you. Or go to group therapy sessions with other peers. 

Have you mother attend these sessions with you, if possible.

I would also call city services and see if there’s someone that can guide you to an alternative way. 

Also, try 7cups.com and talk to someone there about it.

Taking small steps are the best thing to do.

- @nukirk 

At first, I thought this was going to be a post defending poor people by saying that no one can survive on minimum wage. But then, it turned into just another way for asshole parents to brag about their children being defenseless against them.

When parents say that they want their children to “respect” them, it’s almost always so much more than just basic human decency. It usually means “let them treat you however they want and never stand up for yourself”. And if you have a disability, it usually also means “remain calm while they refuse to believe you when you talk about your experiences”.

Teenagers who say that they want to move out are well aware that they can’t. They’re just saying that they feel trapped. Bragging that there’s nothing that they can do about it just makes you a horrible person.

anonymous asked:

I think I ID as bi but I'm not sure. there's a girl in one of my classes who I think I might have a crush on but I've hardly talked to her. I'm not sure if I'm just convincing myself I like girls so that I can be "gay enough" or if I'm just really bored/lonely? idk. but she also dresses very masculine so I'm not sure if I'm also 'tricking' myself that way. I just really don't want to come out as bi and then later receive hate if I realize I was straight all along. thanks for doing this!

You can definitely have a crush on someone you’ve hardly ever talked to! I know I had a major crush on a girl in a Poli Sci class in college way before I ever talked to her. It happens. I don’t think you should worry that you might be tricking yourself that you’re attracted to girls, because I’ve never heard of a straight person tricking themselves into believing they’re not straight. What’s much more common is bi people internalizing the messages that we are “just looking for attention” or “just experimenting” or “just a phase.” And straight people don’t suddenly start having crushes on people of the same gender out of boredom or loneliness. They can’t! It’s not in their orientation. And just because she’s masculine (or butch) doesn’t make her not a girl, and doesn’t invalidate you for liking her. Tons of bi, pan, lesbian, and queer gals love butch women! It’s not a straight thing, trust me.

ID #82690

Name: Nicole
Age: 22 years young
Country: Southern England

I’m 22. I work with cars. I love doggos. I have self esteem issues and just quite often prefer to communicate in a way which ISN’T face to face. Sometimes writing is the only way I can make sense of my thoughts.
There are also times when you need to speak to a total stranger. See a new world, or even just talk to someone totally impartial.
I want a someone who wants to discuss the intricate details of life. What happened today, what are you doing at work. I want to know the details of what you made for dinner, I want to know what song you listened on your way to work.
I think its best if my pen pals are old enough to be working, or living away from home. I’d like someone I can relate to. So we can have a few giggles about what is bothering us.
I don’t mind your gender, but I like people who rant. Who ramble on. Rambling letters re the best. Take me on a journey on your train of thought. If it runs away all the better. Write until you run out of ink friend. Its nice reading about it.

Preferences: Adults please. If you consider yourself an adult, ill trust your judgement.

Oreo Outfit/Cosplay Collection! 

Thank you to everyone who reblogged Oreo’s Weekly Smol Talk, Please remember, I will typically post a Smol Talk every Wednesday (Except this week, another special important post is in work)

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Reality Check & Park Jimin.

Here’s the thing, I’m probably the number 1000000000000000 person who has said this today but please stop overreacting at everything Jimin does.

In this case it was to Jungkook, he “rejected” him for some of you but if you actually watched the 20 minute interview you’d notice that Jungkook was touchy the entire interview and Jimin had no problems with him, he clearly was teasing Jungkook when he took his hand off his shoulders by how smiley both were after it. Also, after that happened it was Jimin who pulled Jungkook close so people stop overreacting.

Not only Jikook shippers, since I’ve seen some of you who think that everytime Jimin is not in his “sweet mood” as he usually is with Jungkook, you think they broke up.

Please, grow up.

But I’ve also seen other people who were talking about how Jimin only likes to receive attention when he wants, how he’s a scorpio in venus or some shit (which is bullshit tbh) and wants to have a girlfriend, how he’s pissed because they’re still in america, etc, etc…

Please shut the fuck up and chill.

Also guess what, none of you know Jimin personally so please let’s stop making dumb assumptions about the actions of someone you don’t know only because you know their star sign…

Do I need to explain why that is stupid? I don’t think so.

Sorry for the long text, I’m simply pissed off at the immature part of our fandom, thanks.

anonymous asked:

i dont really get how patreon works. If i sub for June will i be able to read ghost from the start or just from junes update also if i wanted to see stuff you did for previous months is there some ways i can pay to see that

you get access to every month previous to your subscription. On desktop, on the left side of my page, you’ll see “featured tags”. Those will lead you to the $5, $10 and $20 individual packs for each month. If you are a $10 or $20 patron, you do not have to also download the packs of lower value, they are included in your pack.

Every month I release new content, and you will always have access to previous months as long as you are a patron.  

After you join, view my page here to see the featured tags.

anonymous asked:

How do I tell my daddy that he's bad at being a daddy? He thinks it's only discipline and bossing me around and it's not! I don't get aftercare and I get denied kisses. I'm just so upset because he's also my boyfriend and I love him but he thinks he's a good daddy.

Owww I’m sorry to hear that 😩 honestly if I was in your position I would talk to him about it, maybe he doesn’t fully understand what being a daddy/caregiver means and he might need you to explain exactly what you want and need from him

naked-but-safe  asked:

Omg I just almost cried over your post about SW and his "conflicting urges", I agree with you on SO many levels, thank you for doing that! He talks a lot about Bum's "equal" participation and investment into this relationship, what do you think his idea of that is? Is Bum even capable of intentionally (or not) affecting those "conflicting urges"? (Sorry if you already talked about that)

Hmm, you mean, what would Sangwoo’s ideal version of their relationship be? How does he want Bum to act? Well, I think he simultaneously wants Bum to be more assertive, yet agree with him more. He wants Bum to speak up, but he’s only happy when Bum says the things he likes. 

He’s got unrealistic expectations for how romance is supposed to work, and he’s also a bit of a narcissist, so he thinks he’s always right. If Bum were rational, he’d agree with him all the time. But unfortunately, Bum is often irrational, so he has to be forced to see things Sangwoo’s way. For his own good. 

And, of course, he wants Bum to really, really love murder. Sangwoo loves it. It’s the greatest thing in the world. He doesn’t understand why Bum refuses to see how great it is.   

As for Bum, man, he’s such a passive person. I think as long as he’s confident Sangwoo won’t kill him, he’s willing to accept pretty much whatever. He’d like Sangwoo to be nicer, but the current ratio of affection to abuse is probably acceptable. I don’t think he has any hope that he can change Sangwoo for the better. 

A video about drawing

Hello, my friends! I know I haven’t posted comics for a little while, sorry for making you wait! I got into making videos lately, it’s so much fun and I love it! However, I was talking in Chinese in my videos so I hesitated to post here because I know few of you understand it. But I also want to share with you what I’m creating so here is a video about me drawing and telling my kids the story of “The Little Match Girl.”

Why draw stories instead of just read a book? Because when I was 2 or 3 years old, my mom drew me a little mermaid and told me the story. It was the most beautiful thing I’d ever seen, and I was fascinated by the process. I believed it’s that event that inspired me to draw, and I never stopped ever since. So I want to do the same for my children, show them how wonderful drawing is, and how great of a tool to tell stories. If you want your children to fall in love with drawing, try it!

I will make videos in English too, so even you don’t understand it, please like and subscribe( it also makes me very happy) to support me. And don’t worry, more comics are on the way!

“You’re a fucking weirdo, Thomas,” Alexander whispered. “And I fucking love it, no matter how much I don’t want to.”

A second of silence; two, three, four, fi–

“Look at me, talking to myself. Well, I wouldn’t say to myself, as the guy I’m hopelessly in love with is lying a meter away in a separate bed but y’know, what can you do?” Alexander huffed slightly, before going silent for another few seconds. The room was eerily quiet; Thomas didn’t even know that Alexander was still awake.

He lied still; Alexander didn’t need to know he was awake. He could shrug it off, go back to normal tomorrow, and pretend he hadn’t just heard his enemy confess his love.

“I don’t even know what I’m saying. It’s four in the morning and I’m here, whining to myself. God, I need to get a life.” Alexander wiped a hand over his face. “I might as well work. Should I work? I mean, I’m not gonna be able to sleep, I know that for sure. Yeah, I think I’m gonna work.”

Thomas heard Alexander scramble out of the bed, throwing his quilt off himself.

“See you later, shithead.”


“Hey, Alexander,” Thomas said the morning after. It turned out that, for once, he was wrong. He was not able to go back to normal, to shrug it off and pretend nothing had happened. The thought, the confession, lingered in his mind whenever it could; he barely managed to get any work done, if he were being honest.

“The guy I’m hopelessly in love with.”

God, Thomas didn’t know what to do. So, what better thing to do than confront Alexander. Surely that would go wonderfully. Thomas wondered how it was possible for him to be wrong twice in a span of two days.

“What do you want, Jefferson?” The way he sneered Thomas’ name made Thomas flinch. “Leave me alone; I’m working.”

“What?” Thomas replied in his usual tone. “Won’t even give me a chance to explain why I’m talking to you?”

“Nope! Leave me alone or I’ll leave instead.”

“Wow, Hamilton, calm down. For once, I’m not here to argue.”

“Then why are you here? The only thing you can enjoy is arguing, well, that, and not doing their fucking work.”

“So hostile–”

“I thought you’d be used to it by now.”

“How do you manage it?” Thomas asked, and Alexander frowned.

“Manage what? To annoy someone I hate?” He replied, still confused.

“To treat someone you love the way you do.”

The world froze.

Alexander froze too, his face transformed into one of shock, his stance stiff and almost… scared. His hand gripped the papers too tight, crushing them slightly, though Alexander knew that was the least of his worried. He stayed like that for some time, and Thomas didn’t move too, just stared, watched, analysing Alexander’s reaction.

Then the world started again, and Alexander moved towards the door, so quickly that Thomas almost didn’t manage to stop him.

“Where are you going?” Thomas asked.

“Move,” Alexander replied, his tone sharp. “Now.”

“No,” Thomas replied. “I want an answer.”

“Well, you’re not getting one. Move, now.”

“Answer me, then.”

“God, you’re insufferable.”

“Says the one.”

“I don’t love you,” Alexander replied, then laughed slightly, though it sounded more out of nervousness than humour. “Is that good enough? I don’t even know where you got the idea.”

“Why don’t you try last night, at around four AM? You sounded pretty serious, talking to yourself and everything.”

“Jesus Christ, I hate you.”

“We both know that’s not true.”

“What are you going to do about it, then?” Alexander replied. “So what, I love you. What are you going to do? I answered your fucking question so let me leave.”

“What if I were to say I love you too?” Thomas asked.

“Well, it wouldn’t be true so please don’t.”

“Okay, you’re right but what if I said I liked you too?” Thomas corrected.

“If you really liked me, you’d let me leave,” Alexander said.

“Fine,” Thomas answered. “Go.” He moved out of the way, and Alexander nodded and quickly left.

They never talked about this conversation again. Or did they?

this is an invitation for someone else to continue it. i want to see some of your writing.

anonymous asked:

The gang reacting to Ponyboy's first time?

Darry:
-he asks so many questions
“How long have you known them?”
“Did you use protection?”
-isn’t mad just worried
-also doesn’t want to have to clean anything up
“Ponyboy, I swear if I have to wash anything I’m making you sleep outside.”

Sodapop:
-this boy deadass knew he whole time
-gave Pony a pep talk
-gave him pointers
“Chicks love it when you…”
“Trust me, they dig it.”
“Make sure she’s okay with it first.”
“Don’t try too hard buddy, it’ll kill the mood.”
-was fucking giggling while Darry freaked out

Steve:
-doesn’t give a fuck
“Wow, you actually got laid? Shocker.”

Johnny:
-doesn’t really know how to react??

Two-bit:
-this boy..
-teases and teases and teases

Dallas:
-freaks Pony the fuck out
“Pony…that can get her knocked up.”
“She might be pregnant.”
“Better hope she didn’t _____…that’s not a good thing.”
-pony is on the verge of tears and dallas is just sitting there cackling

Cheo Hodari Coker Talks About Luke Cage

Luke Cage creator Cheo Hodari Coker talks to BlackTree TV about the show, Mahershala Ali and his latest choices in binge-watching. When asked what he wanted for season 2 Coker told Mashable:

“Just bulletproof dopeness”  and he also used A Tribe Called Quest; “The analogy I say is that, I want Season 2 to be ‘The Low End Theory. Low End Theory, if you’re a hip-hop fan, you know that that’s A Tribe Called Quest’s second record. The first record,  People’s Instinctive Travels and the Paths of Rhythm, was great, but then Low End Theory was the record that everyone says … when they think of A Tribe Called Quest taking it to the next level.”

Mike Colter, who plays the role of Luke Cage, hopes to see the show’s new season out early next year.

anonymous asked:

Hi, I sent in kind of a rambly ask a while ago that basically said "opinions on Lin's sad sad conversation videos?/which are your favorites?", and I wasn't sure if you a) didn't get it, b) got it, but couldn't answer it (which is fine!), or c) didn't want to answer (also fine! I promise). If either a or b applies, would answering that serve as a good distraction? I'm kind of obsessed with the sad sads rn, and your opinions are always interesting, so I was curious.

hello! sorry, yes, i did get it, and i will reply!! i love the sad sads but i knew if i got into talking about them i’d want to like, go back and rewatch them and get Way Too In Depth because that’s what i do with everything, and i couldn’t quite justify the time i’d spend on it (she says, having written a fucking fic chapter yesterday, but that was while i was basically falling asleep anyway because writing stories uses a different part of my brain). but once this bastard of a dissertation is submitted i’ll come talk your anonymous ear off about them.

(i will give just this short answer for now: the cadence of lins voice in all of them is the most relaxing thing i’ve ever heard, and also he is the most beautiful human on earth both facewise and in his soul)

anonymous asked:

Are you sad that some people doesn't want to play the game or lost interest in the game because of the sprite reveals?

Hey Anon, 

We’ve gained around 100 followers in the couple of days following the sprite reveals. From there on, we’ve been steadily growing too, so I’m not exactly sure of what interest-losing movement you’re talking about. 

If you have any suggestions or things about Sweet Elite you’re disappointed about, please feel free to talk to us about it. We welcome constructive comments. Shoot me an email if ever you need to vent, I won’t take it personally. 

Also, it doesn’t matter if some people don’t want to play the game. It doesn’t make us sad, they are entitled to their tastes and opinions. We know we have a loyal and decent sized fandom to back us up and we do our best for them.


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I was tagged to do the lock/home screen/last song listened to/selfie thing by @war-of-hormoan (Thank you lovely!)

I’ve done it before but my lock/home screens change constantly so I don’t mind doing it again! I also don’t take many selfies without ridiculous filters so sorry about that lol

My love for Dabin (DPR Live) is NOT showing I have no idea what you guys are talking about! The song was a coincidence!

I’m gonna tag some newer mutuals (Of course you guys don’t have to do it unless you want to!) @chimchim-cheree @rudeboywonho @the-princejinyoung @cinnamonsugas @otteryj @lovelykth @baebae-goodnight

Tumblr-Girl (Part 5)

Tumblr – Girl (series)

Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4

Pairing: Misha Collins x reader
Summary: you made a new friend, didn’t you?
Word Count: 2.080
Warnings: panic attack, angst, depression, mental illness, self doubt

Notes:

thanks soooo much to @sinceriouslyamellpadalecki​ for beta-reading so fast, so that I can throw it out for you guys even faster. 

Also I wanted to thank y’all for sticking around (it took a while writing this one) and giving me so much strenght with your comments! I really had some hard days, but your appreciation helped me a lot! Love you guys! 

Now enjoy chapter 5!


Your POV

Some time passed, a few days, maybe a week, the medication you got stood untouched on the sink in your bathroom, your arm hurt awfully, but you couldn’t get yourself to take the painkillers. You had some more talks with Dr. Richard; he was nice, he seemed like he cared about you. You found out he was just a few years older than you, he lived alone, a bit outside the city. Every time you met him you both continued your question-answer game, it never was boring, you got to know him better and your relationship turned. Dr Richards was no longer Dr Richards to you, but now Jacob, and you often met with Jacob for some coffee, lunch or even for a drink in the evening together. He became a very good friend and you found yourself telling him things that you would normally tell Dmitri. However you still didn’t feel that comfortable to tell him everything about you, so you weren’t as honest with the Doctor as you were with your your Tumblr friend. ,

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anonymous asked:

I need help! I know this is random but please hear me out. So there's this guy I like and he knows that I like him. He just doesn't know that I know he does. I also know he likes someone else. We're really close and text/snapchat each other quite often. Then suddenly last night we talked about intimate things... And randomly he asked if I wanted to have sex with him. It got all weird and I like him still but I feel like I'm just downgrading myself in a way.. I never done anything like that too..

if he likes someone else but asked if you wanna have sex with him that is kinda weird and it sounds like he is just using you, that’s my opinion x

evs14u replied to your photo: “I have a source and he wants to talk.  Oh, are you going to meet him?”:

What show is this? And is it good? Give me the low down please?

it’s called Great News and it’s on NBC! It’s written and produced by a lot of the crew from 30 Rock!  It’s basically about a news producer and the premise is that her mom becomes an intern where she works.  It’s my favorite new comedy of 2017 and everyone should watch it!  Also, the pilot is very exposition-heavy so I highly suggest sticking with it past that!