but circumstances have changed

Mars Signs

Mars in Aries: Master of Aries, Mars gives the natives tons of energy, sex appeal to resell, and sometimes an explosive character that you will have to learn to control. Fortunately, your anger soon evaporates. Enthusiastic, assertive and bold, you are a natural leader who attracts attention even without looking for it.

Mars in Taurus: You are a nervous person, you work hard, you have feet on the ground. Determined, persevering, sensible and indefatigable, you can be distracted by the desires of the flesh, but when you engage in something, whether in a relationship or in a job, it is for the long-term - and the money. Born with great practicality, you pay attention to material goods and social status, often far more than you would like to admit.

Mars in Gemini: With the planet of aggression in the sign of the twins, you are fiery, contentious, nervous and irritable. Although you adore debating, you are not able to distinguish important principles from points of detail. Your energy rises and falls at a sometimes dizzy pace, but you have a keen and ingenious mind, and you are incredibly fun.

Mars in Cancer: You are a basically emotional person who needs to master his moods before he can successfully achieve his goals. If you do not understand it, you tend to make the head. You are extremely sensitive, but you may give people signs so subtle that many do not perceive them. In a couple relationship, you may be possessive and tenacious while you should be angry and take the door. You cook in your juice. You bury your emotions. You have to learn to be direct. But you are also awake, protective, devoted and imaginative, in bed and elsewhere.

Mars in Leo: Confident, exalted and indefatigable, you have passion, presence and continuation in ideas. When you are hired for a cause or an activity, virtually nothing can stop you. That’s right, you can be egotistic (which means you’re bringing too much interest to your own person) and arrogant, and your need to have an audience can be boring. However, your warmth, your enthusiasm and your eagerness to take the first step bring you many admirers, sentimentally and elsewhere. You create the excitement.

Mars in Virgo: Control is of paramount importance to you. You work hard, you are calculator and ready to look really straight in the eye. Sensible and methodical, you can detach yourself from your emotions when your success depends on it. This quality is advantageous for your career. In your private life, it gives you the amazing ability to turn on and off your sexual urges, at will like it.

Mars in Libra: In the best of cases, you are friendly, charming, you have class and you are incredibly attractive. You enjoy social life and you are willing to compromise, emotionally and in other situations. But you turn at a loss without a partner, professionally and personally. Moreover, you tend to conceal your uncertainties and insecurities by justifying your inconsiderate statements with more passion than logic, although you are proud of your rational mind. People sometimes feel compelled to say that they agree with you in order to simply put an end to the discussion.

Mars in Scorpio: You are courageous and cunning, determined, and you provide for your own needs. Gifted with a formidable will and unwavering desires, you also have a strong libido and are also intensely emotional. You can not stop yourself from succumbing to powerful feelings, and it is possible that you struggle with jealousy and the urge to seek revenge. It is not easy to adapt to changing circumstances, but you have a solid and reliable source of internal energy and a great deal of personal power. It is a beneficial position.

Mars in Sagittarius: Independent and enthusiastic, you have strong convictions, a love for outdoor activities, and a deep desire for adventure. But you may be negligent and provocative, and your crusades, begun with so much eagerness, do not always come to an end. You are also fair, direct, idealistic, and you can quickly gather your energy, especially if you have gone on an adventure.

Mars in Capricorn: Your desires, sexual or otherwise, are powerful, and your ambitions are targeted. When you feel recognized, your energy is reliable and you are persistent; But when you feel upset, your vitality drops. Effective, systematic and controlled, you respect tradition and authority, and you often reach the top of the hierarchy. You understand the hierarchies and you are, in different ways, a natural leader. But when you do not get the obedience you require, you can be incredibly cold. You usually try to hide your anger, but when it escapes, it’s unpleasant.

Mars in Aquarius: Whenever possible, you prefer the least traveled path. You are enterprising, impatient, unpredictable, and you are not afraid to take risuqes. Conventions bore you. Modern ideas captivate you and you appreciate the idea of ​​progress. Change makes you excited. You are independent, idealist and friendly. But emotionally, you can be rather cold, you even rebellion sometimes just to make you understand something.

Mars in Pisces: You fall deeply in love. You are generous, changeable, agitated and highly intuitive. But when emotional uproar exceeds your tolerance threshold, you tend to close. When this happens, your will evaporates, you have motivation problems, you can discourage your friends by your passivity, and your physical energy disappears. One of the main challenges in your life is to regulate your energy, which can often be the slave to your feelings.

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Tom Hiddleston Reveals Why Loki Isn't Impressed By Doctor Strange
If you were one of the millions who saw Doctor Strange, then you know the sorcerer has a bit of a bone to pick with Loki.

The film’s post-credit scene saw Doctor Strange meet with Thor who was on the hunt for his brother, and the magical hero was quick to take a few shots at the devious Frost Giant. Later this year, fans will likely get to see how Doctor Strange does with Loki when Thor: Ragnarok makes its way to theaters, but don’t expect the latter to be impressed by Strange’s gifts.

According to Tom Hiddleston, Loki will be rather apathetic towards Doctor Strange’s mystical powers.

Recently, the actor sat down for an interview with IGN where he was asked about Loki’s reaction to characters like Doctor Strange. In the Marvel Cinematic Universe, much of what has kept Loki unique is his magical gifts, so the entrance of beings like Strange and even Hela could be a threat to Loki. However, Hiddleston doesn’t seem to think that’s the case.

“I think he probably dismisses Strange,” Hiddleston said about Loki. “Yes, his sorcery is very impressive, but Loki’s been doing that for century so who cares? But Hela is a different beast and full of surprises. [She] actually might have been someone with whom he actually got along, but the circumstances have changed.”

As for what those circumstances are, fans will have to wait and see. So far, it looks like Hela will force Loki to work alongside his brother out of self-interest and desire to stay alive. Hiddleston has hinted Hela would be one of the main factors which reunited the brothers in Thor: Ragnarok.

“At the beginning of Ragnarok, Thor has a lot of questions, and Loki - true to form - is not that forthcoming with many answers. But hammers are involved and the stakes are raised,” Hiddleston told IGN.

“Cate Blanchett is playing the goddess of death who brings destruction in her wake. It’s the kind of destruction that both Thor and Loki have never seen, on a scale of terror they’ve never ever seen before. So, they fall back on their brotherhood fractured though it is to see what they can do to stop her.

Are you excited to see what could be Hiddleston’s final portrayal of Loki? Let us know with your vote in our Anticipation Rankings! It is currently ranked at #9 on all of ComicBook.

[Watch the video of the interview on IGN]

A question for everyone!

By far the most frequent request I’ve had is giant Boxfoxes! I’ve always said that I’d love to but can’t because of storage and shipping issues… BUT! My circumstances have recently changed so that I COULD store and ship large Boxfox plush if people really want them. It’d be a bit of an undertaking but I could do it!

I’m costing it all out now and ideally I’d run a Kickstarter to fund a run of 8-12″ Boxfox plush for hoooopefully around $50 each. Please sound off if you’d genuinely be interested! I’d love to do it!

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The temptation to hang

This entire chapter is actually filled with temptations.The chapter title is “One Will Hang”, which is an obvious reference for the hanged man. We see one of the hanged mans acting as a major tempter in this chapter alone. 

Since the chapter is deliberately named the hanged man, and also this point in the manga parallels right around where the hanged man arc began in og tg, it’s possible to read this chapter with the lens of the hanged man tarot card as well as the moon. 

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The Types as Snicket Quotes

ENFJ - “It is always cruel to laugh at people, although sometimes if they are wearing an ugly hat it is hard to control yourself.” 

INFJ - “When someone is crying, of course, the noble thing to do is to comfort them. But if someone is trying to hide their tears, it may also be noble to pretend you do not notice them.” 

ESTP - “Love can change a person the way a parent can change a baby- awkwardly, and often with a great deal of mess.” 

ISTP - “I suppose I’ll have to add the force of gravity to my list of enemies.”

ENTJ - “This is my knife. It is very sharp and very eager to hurt you.”

INTJ - “All the secrets of the world are contained in books. Read at your own risk.” 

ESFP - “It is one of life’s bitterest truths that bedtime so often arrives just when things are really getting interesting.”

ISFP - “You know that a good, long session of weeping can often make you feel better, even if your circumstances have not changed one bit.”

ESTJ - “It is difficult, when faced with a situation you cannot control, to admit you can do nothing.” 

ISTJ - “If writers wrote as carelessly as some people talk, then adhasdh asdglaseuyt[bn[ pasdlgkhasdfasdf.” 

ENFP - “People aren’t either wicked or noble. They’re like chef’s salads, with good things and bad things chopped and mixed together in a vinaigrette of confusion and conflict.”

INFP - “Fate is like a strange, unpopular restaurant filled with odd little waiters who bring you things you never asked for and don’t always like.” 

ESFJ - “Strange as it may seem, I still hope for the best, even though the best, like an interesting piece of mail, so rarely arrives, and even when it does it can be lost so easily.” 

ISFJ - “It is likely I will die next to a pile of things I was meaning to read.”

ENTP - “It is very unnerving to be proven wrong, particularly when you are really right and the person who is really wrong is proving you wrong and proving himself, wrongly, right.”

 INTP - “The moral of Snow White is never eat apples.” 

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Summary: After the events of I’m No Angel, Castiel finds himself exiled from the safety of the bunker. He takes to wandering, but the money Dean gives him runs out all too soon. Luck, or perhaps divine providence, lands him on the Amish farm of Jacob and Lydia Beiler. 

The Beilers take Cas in, and he learns to do farm chores and care for the Beilers’ apiary. Despite the Amish’s general distrust of outsiders - Englischers - the strange man who can understand their language and isn’t afraid of hard work seems a natural fit amongst them. Castiel thinks he might just go ahead and stay - the placid farmland seems like a good place to heal his broken heart, and maybe forget the man who broke it.

Meanwhile, Dean finds himself so wracked with guilt, he can barely sleep, has no appetite, and can’t stand to see his own face in the mirror. He can’t decide which transgression is worse; the fact that he threw Cas away or that Sam’s unwillingly - and unwittingly - possessed by an angel. Charlie comes for a visit and decides to stay, and it takes her no time at all to call Dean on his bullshit. 

With her help and encouragement and a plan to deal with the angel in Sam later, Dean and Charlie set out to find Cas and bring him home. But when they find him, Dean’s surprised that Cas doesn’t want to come home, leaving Dean to face some difficult truths about himself - and how he feels about Castiel. 

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' come and see me ' / ' twoAM ' sentence starters.

based on this song and this song

  • “things are getting intense now.”
  • “can i come kick with you?”
  • “i hear you talking about ’ we ’ a lot.”
  • “i can see everything you’ve been doing.”
  • “i know you don’t love me.”
  • “i hear you talking about ’ we ’ a lot, oh, you speak french now?”
  • “do you wanna hang right now?”
  • “that’s asking a lot of you.”
  • “come and see me for once.”
  • “you don’t ever come to me.”
  • “why don’t you ever come to me?”
  • “i’ve been up for two whole days thinking what i did to keep you going.”
  • “i know it burns to be in love.”
  • “i’ll admit i’m sorry when i feel i’m truly sorry.”
  • “things change.”
  • “i know your kind - how you lie like that.”
  • “i know you’re mine.”
  • “things change, people change, feelings change, too.”
  • “i never thought the circumstances would have changed you.”
  • “i could have done better shit with my life.”
  • “i’ve gotta move on.”
  • “you’ve got me fucked up.”
  • “i can’t even lie to you.”
  • “from this point on, trust nobody.”
  • “it’s never too late.”
  • “why you gotta start, girl?”
  • “we make time for the things that we want.”
  • “i might be thirsty for you.”
  • “you’re doing things to make me feel the way you feel.”
  • “how could you blame me?”
  • “this thing is getting one-sided.”
  • “do you need me?”
This is not the end (we were told between the lines).

We all know: TAB works as a mirror-episode for the events of following episodes. And how does TAB end?

With a remake of ACD’s TFP: Moriarty and Holmes face each other at the Reichenbach Falls to die together. But: TAB doesn’t follow ACD’s storyline here anymore, because the circumstances - times - have changed; other than in ACD’s TFP, John is there to save Sherlock from his demons, because he is the only one capable of doing so. The only uncontrollable variable.

But how does Moftiss’ TFP end?

John is reduced to a simple plot device; his absence wouldn’t have changed the events much either. He doesn’t save Sherlock, because he is utterly helpless. Again, Sherlock is the one to save John. But it’s not framed like any of that would really matter, anyway.

John is not there to save Sherlock from his demons; Sherlock has to face them all on his own. And - because John is not there this time - he gives in: Other than putting to rest what/who destroys him, moving on and living in happiness, he makes himself a humble, dependent slave to his demons.


That’s another reason for feeling rejection towards TFP: Because it wasn’t what we were told it would be, and it wasn’t at all what “love conquers all” feels like - it wasn’t a “happy end”, not for any of the characters at all. It was nothing new; it was subtly and slowly killing off the characters’ arcs which they painstakingly achieved throughout the first ten episodes:

“Does it really make a difference, killing the innocent instead of the guilty?”

It was no different than ACD’s TFP, because, in the end, Moriarty does win over Sherlock, does burn the heart out of him, for John is nothing more than a plot device - just for decoration and for the sake of character-set completeness, even his clothing merging with the background.


TAB’s foreshadowing may have gotten lost in people’s minds somewhere along the way - so remember:

It’s still to unfold.

I will still love you no matter how the circumstances have to change you, of course the only constant thing in this world is “CHANGE” itself, but i know that these changes will always be better for you, i know that you will always choose to change only for the better. 😊 My love for you will change for sure, cause everyday it only gets stronger and it just grows a little bit faster. It will CHANGE, but it will never FADE away. 😚🍌❤🌹 I LOVE YOU 😚

#CamilaCabello #Camren

night skies | stiles stilinski

Originally posted by itsagirlthingbae

a/n: this an original piece by my beautiful co-owner!!💙

scott and I have been best friends since middle school.

he was my soulmate, a shoulder to cry on. eventually, he kissed me in 8th grade and we started dating. I was there for him through everything.

its been almost six months since our last date. It felt like our love had started to fade. 

‘Maybe he found himself a new girl’ I thought. I adored him more than anything in the world, but I was too scared to talk to him because I didn’t want to completely lose him. 

it was a sunny Friday afternoon. I was in a school cantina with my friend Stiles.

stiles was like the brother I never had. We did everything together. From homework to sleepovers. He was actually the one who encouraged me to talk to Scott in the first place, so I guess I owe him my happiness.

‘Happiness’ such a strange word with a very powerful meaning, but was I even happy with Scott?

“Hey?! Y/N? You there?“

“Wha…. Yeah” I smiled awkwardly.

“You… Wanna talk about it?” Stiles asked curiously. He knew me too well.

“Um… I… Things aren’t going well with Scott"  I blushed.

"So…What’s the problem?” He said while sipping his coffee.

"I don’t know. He won’t answer my calls and he ignores me at school. Maybe he doesn’t like me anym..”

“Hey…" He gently rubbed my hand

"You are the best girl I’ve ever met. He can’t possibly not like you anymore.”

I laughed while blushing a bit.

“Besides, if you really love him, you should talk to him. That’s the only way.”

He was right. I wanted Scott back, more than anything, so I decided to take the first step and take charge of our relationship. I was terrified, for sure, but like my best friend said, it was the only way.

“You know what, Stilinski? You are right. I… I will talk to him” Stiles nodded proudly.

“… Where is Scott anyway?”

“Um… Maybe the changing room? He’s on the lacrosse practise for a matc…”

“Yeah. Gotta go, Stiles. I’ll see you later” I cut him off. “Yeah… By the way, you welcome” he smiled sarcastically. 

I quickly opened the boys’ changing room, not caring if somebody kicks me out.

“Scott? You there?”

“Woah! What the hell are you doing here?” an unknown shirtless boy shouted.  

“I’m… I’m looking for my boyfriend! MOVE!” I said while pushing the boy.  

“Scott? Scott?”

 I shouted as loud as I could. Suddenly, I heard a strange sound coming from the shower room, so I decided to come closer.

 Unexpectedly, my heart just stopped beating. 

 “Scott?” I gasped. He was in a shower with Kira, both of them completely naked.

“This is why…. Kira?” My eyes were filled with tears.

“Y/N… I can explain, I swear…”

He came closer to me, trying to grab my hand. 

I slapped him across the face. “Don’t come near me, ever again!” I spilled out.

 “It’s not like that, Y/N/N” said Kira 

“You better shut up before I kill you!"  I was enraged. ”

You know what?” I laughed manically. 

“You two really deserve each other.“ 

 I quickly drove to my house and furiously closed the front door.

 "Y/N? Sweetie? Is that you?” It was my mother.

 "I’m fine, I’m okay. Just… Just leave me alone!“  

Tears started rolling down my cheeks. ‘How could he do this to me?‘  I loved him and he hurt me. My heart was broken but I was fine. I was alone in the magnitude of my own grief, alone in my aimless guilt, alone in my loneliness. I climbed onto my house roof and laied down.

 I liked looking at the stars, the moon. It was my way of escaping from the real world. A small tear rolled down my cheek, but I quickly whiped it away.  "I’m okay. I’m gonna be fine” I whispred to myself. 

“How are you hangin in there, pal?"  It was Stiles.  "Stiles? What are you doing here?” I gasped

“Oh please, Y/N! I’m your best friend, I’m supposed to be here."  I put on a fake smile. Stiles sat right next to me.

 "You okay?” He asked seriously.  “I’m… Not really” I started to cry. 

“Hey, hey…” He hugged me tightly. “You know… It’s scientifically proven that crying makes you feel better, even if your circumstances have not changed one bit” I laughed awkwardly.

 Suddenly, I realized he was crying too.

 "S-Stiles?“

 "I care about your feeling more than mine"  He said in a shaky voice.

 That was it. It was love. A true, beautiful, spontaneous love. 

"I love you, Stilinski” I whispred and looked into his chocolate eyes. “Kiss me then” I grabbed his face and sensually kissed him. 

The kiss was sweet and romantic. Stiles was that person, love of my life.I found strength in knowing I have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. 

Life seemed completely different, exciting and worthwhile. 

anonymous asked:

Do you think the setlist was cut so short bc the doors opened later than expected? And the concert didnt start til 8... i have hope subkulture will do better.

Anonymous said to fytaem: Hi thank you for posting a lot of the shinee Toronto concert! I’ll be going to the dallas concert but after seeing how many songs they’ve performed for the Toronto concert and having it be 30 instead of the 38 or 39 that they did in Seoul – I can’t help but feel a bit disappointed. It seems like it’ll be like a 2-2 ½ hr concert instead of 3 which I think is the expected amount. I don’t want them to get overworked but at the same time, it would be nice to get the same setlist as Seoul

Anonymous said to fytaem: The concert was great but I wish they cut some of those VCR and mash up song/remix parts. The songs that were cut would’ve been amazing to see! Especially up close in concert. I feel a bit sad about it.

Well, this is my honest opinion (before I was joking ok lmao): usually concerts from SHINee World tour are never the same as in Seoul, for example, they’ve changed the setlist for Jakarta and Tokyo concerts, and probably will be changed once again for Hong Kong. The weirdest feeling is that SHINee has never changed their setlist THAT much, but sincerely thinking well about the situation it’s pretty clear why concerts will last at max. 3 hours:

- they’re not doing 3 concerts then have a rest, they’re performing 4 concerts in less than a week;

- they’re not performing in 1 city, they’re performing in 4 cities (divided in 2 countries); Jonghyun and Taemin had jet lag even today so imagine how they might be feeling yet;

- talk ments are shorter but because they don’t feel comfortable to speak with a translator than when they’re free to talk about whatever they want in Korean and Japanese;

- VCRs are important to give them a break. It’s already difficult for Taemin in this tour, he’s having problems when he has to get ready for Goodbye, perform it and then fly to get ready to Ring Ding Dong;

- sometimes they rearrange the setlist to give shawols songs more known for them; today they’ve picked Hello and Selene 6.23. For example I love Black Hole but I don’t feel it’s a very popular song between i-shawols. I’d have left in the setlist songs as MTTM (because idk, I feel it’s an important song), Alive and Trigger (they were the strongest stages of SWC5), but if you think about the situation of the venue or other details… lots of things might be behind this decisions even if we don’t like them.

- we shouldn’t forget that they’re in the middle of a hiatus from SHINee World 2017 ~FIVE~, so this means they’ve stopped preparing one tour to get into another, but the Japanese tour is longer and with a bigger work of performance, they can’t forget their work for that project.

If this concert happened like this due to being delayed, that’s something we’ll get to know in the Vancouver and Dallas concerts. I understand you might feel sad because such a quantity of songs have been changed, but we must remember all the circumstances around SHINee that made them prepare this concert this way.

I never thought I would support Scottish independence – but Nicola Sturgeon’s feminism is pushing me towards it

Nicola Sturgeon faced a storm of criticism as she embarked on her “grievance tour” of the US this month, instead of focusing on negotiating a second referendum for Scottish independence. Yet one aspect of that visit was grossly overlooked.

At the Women in the World conference in New York – where she spoke openly to Tina Brown about her own miscarriage, the “misogynist” Donald Trump and the Daily Mail’s infamous “Legs-it” cover – her no-nonsense feminism made me warm towards the SNP and Scottish independence more than I ever have imagined, and in less than four years.

Yes, Sturgeon is a career politician who is very good at talking the talk. But if her talk is to denounce discrimination, sexism and violence against women, these are words everyone needs to hear. She is setting new societal norms and creating a more inclusive environment.

Sturgeon is vilified for believing strongly in independence ever since she was a teenager. But she grew up in a working class Scottish society under the rule of Margaret Thatcher. Who could blame her?

I’m still worried about independence, including falling oil prices, risking a stable currency and a worrying tendency to talk of “patriotism” and “forging our own destiny”.But when Sturgeon speaks openly about gender equality, it rings true and is profoundly encouraging. It is not just a “women’s issue” or a narrow issue that fails to take the wider picture into account. Gender equality, as she suggested, can play a part in ending conflicts and avoiding wars, it strengthens democracies and improves economies.

Scottish women, in particular, relate to her concerns. She said the new law in the UK, which requires women to prove they have been raped to receive child support, is “disgusting”. She was frustrated, she said, about reporters always asking her why she didn’t have children. She also rejected the habit of reducing women to “body parts” and what they wear.

Ultimately she has addressed the elephant in the room. Meanwhile Theresa May, who has done good things for women such as ratifying the Istanbul convention and addressing female genital mutilation, would appear to bend over backwards in public to avoid it.

Since 2014, Sturgeon argues that the circumstances regarding Scottish independence have changed, and she’s right.

In 2015, I was hopeful about Jeremy Corbyn’s landslide election and delighted with the launch of the Women’s Equality Party. In 2016, I was thrilled with the election of Sadiq Khan, the first Muslim to be mayor of London. But in 2017 I’m thoroughly fed up with the Tories cutting welfare, stigmatising immigrants, whipping up frenzy over “benefits scroungers” and using Brexit, the so-called “will of the people”, to roll back protections for workers and the environment.

By contrast, Sturgeon has this month signed a bill with California Governor Jerry Brown to agree to tackle climate change together, to show Scotland wants to be an “outward-looking, progressive, global citizen”.

It also seems possible that an independent Scotland under Sturgeon’s leadership could re-join the EU. Frankly, Scotland’s fractured relationship with England is becoming increasingly obvious, the difference in perception of the two nations abroadincreasingly clear. Scotland and England are like Canada and the US, Iceland and Hungary, or Norway and Austria. How can we argue in a post-Brexit world that Scottish independence is a move towards nationalism? Brexit is the worst example of nationalism we have seen in the UK in modern history.

And how can Sturgeon be hated so much for betting her career on her dream, when so many men – Boris Johnson, David Cameron and Michael Gove, to give just three examples – have done the same and got away with it? The answer is, because she’s a woman.

At the Women in the World conference, Sturgeon was asked about what it was like to have three women as the main political party leaders in Scotland. She warned against making the mistake of thinking we had won the battle to achieve gender equality. “It’s not enough to be a woman in politics – you have to do the right thing,” she said. That’s a pretty clear hint to Theresa May.

If May continues to pretend she is not a woman leader – despite the fact that she has, ironically, been tasked with the clearing up the men’s Brexit mess – then she could lose my support for a United Kingdom. If she could lose me, I’m sure she could lose a lot of other voters, men and women alike.

Gender equality has the ability to transform every area of our lives for the better. If the Scottish people embrace Sturgeon’s message of equality, then they might be willing to follow her wherever she wants to go, even if that’s outside of the UK.

anonymous asked:

It doesn't happen often, but after reading both interviews from TVLine talking about the breakup I prefer Grant's answers. This round goes to him (not that it's a competion, ha). This line is interesting: So Iris is going to need some time to think about it, if this is the right thing to do. - so she's still thinking?

LMAO, his answer was more romantic, but I think they’re both suggesting the same thing.

Candice:
I think he’s got to be genuine, first of all. Not that he isn’t genuine, but he needs to make Iris assured that obviously he wants to save her but that he wants to be with her because he loves her, and she’s the only person he wants to be with. 

Grant:
The circumstances don’t even need to change. There’s a lot going on right now that is literally life-or-death, and I think that is clouding everything and getting in the way of their relationship. All of the relationships are kind of in a weird place right now, just because everyone is scared. I think [Barry and Iris] just need to find some clarity. They need to trust their love, and be brave enough to believe in the relationship.

Sounds like that is what will happen, imo. Before “the circumstances have changed,” as in before the end of the season, Barry will propose again and make sure Iris understands it’s from a place of love. And Iris will trust and believe in their love and relationship in order to say yes this time.

anonymous asked:

Hi, I know you don't rly reply to ppl on here anymore but could you pls give me advice on how to clear resistance. I know what I'm thinking is why things aren't changing but I've had such a hard time changing the way I think. I've thought these thoughts for so long I believe them so deeply, I try to take action but since my thoughts don't change I get the same results which just reinforce my thoughts. ---- Thanks

You have given yourself your own answer.

You know it’s your thinking that is holding you back, so NO AMOUNT OF ACTION will change your circumstance until your thinking changes.

You HAVE to change your thinking first before your actions will produce the results you’re wanting.

NOTHING changes on the outside until we change what’s on the inside because the outside is only a mirror of the inside.

Most of us wake up every day and 65% of what we think about is just a repeat of what we thought about yesterday and then we can’t figure out why what we experience looks and feels pretty much like it did the day before and the day before and the day before.

Changing how we think can be difficult only if you think it will be. It’s just a thought. 

It’s like wearing the same clothes everyday because you’re too lazy to go to your closet and look for something else to wear. You’re familiar with the clothes you’ve been wearing and putting them on is much easier than looking for something else.

There isn’t really anything I can say that will help because YOU already know the answer you’re just unwilling to do the work (we’ve all been there)

You can’t get something different by doing the same shit - it’s that easy.

You want a different life? You’ve got to want it bad enough to be a deliberate chooser in what you think.

The MOMENT you recognize that you’re thinking the same crap you did yesterday, you have to IMMEDIATELY trade that thought in for a thought that is more in alignment with what you want.

OR you can keep your thinking the same and keep trying different actions and next month, next week and next year still be in the same place and condition as you are right now.

The choice is ALWAYS and ONLY yours to make.

anonymous asked:

Do you know of any reversible spells to get over something? Cause there's something in my life that I can't do anything about right now, but I'll be able to deal with it soon. It hurts while I can't do anything, but when I can I want to be emotionally ready. Do you know of anything to help me just forget or come to terms with this until I can change it?

I would suggest spells for strength or courage, honestly, to help you get through something. I just don’t see the point in casting a spell to get over something, if you just want to undo it later, to get back into it and handle it then? You know what I mean? Also, the spells I’ve seen to help move on and get over something are pretty permanent-looking, because you’re supposed to move on and not go back - it’s kind of the point of the spells, after all. Yeah, I’d say just cast strength spells to help you endure whatever this is until you’re ready to handle it. Or maybe the spells will help you be ready to deal with it sooner. Regardless…

Spells

Sigils

I know that’s not exactly what you wanted, but I feel it’s the best I can give right now, after thinking about what you wrote. Good luck anon. :)

One of the reasons I never put much emphasis on designer goods is because they have no staying power if your circumstances change.

How stupid are you gonna look if you’re walking around with a Celine bag and you move to the projects?

How practical is it to wear Louboutins to an entry level out of college job?

10,000 in the bank though? Stays fresh and feels good no matter how you’re living.

Focus on what’s important.

anonymous asked:

You're reverse AU makes me wonder about reverse! other characters. A junkrat that gets picked up by blackwatch at an early age and a mccree that stuck to crime, jack nearly dying and getting "revived" by mercy while gabe escapes and becomes a vigilante, a lucio that uses music to repress people with vishkar while symmetra rebels with light sculptures/art, you've made a really cool AU!

Ahhhh you don’t know how excited it makes me to hear that!! Other than McCree (because he’s rather an obvious one) and Mercy (who I think of as mostly the same, except she got into the whole healing game not because she wanted to help and save people, but because she saw herself as not having enough power to fight and figured she could instead assist the people who do, sometimes at the expense of those most powerless) I’ve had a hard time thinking of how other characters might turn out in this AU, so hearing your take on it is freaking awesome! 

I especially like the Lucio/Symmetra switch! They’re especially interesting because Lucio is such a charismatic person and so good at connecting with others, while Symmetra is more introverted and has a hard time actively engaging with people, so seeing them maintaining those qualities in opposite roles would be so cool!