but boy is he hard to like as a human being

Advice I wish I got told while my heart was breaking.
1- Stop pretending like you’re happy all over social media just because you think he’s going to see it, you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone.
2- Please don’t keep letting strange boys into your bedroom, they will not make you forget him, maybe temporarily but when the lights are off and you’re all alone, the ache will be back and it’s only going to come on stronger.
3- Learn to survive alone, you only need your own self stop depending on others to make you happy.
4- Stop checking on his Facebook page, he hasn’t posted anything new.
5- He isn’t going to text you, leave the house without your phone every once and awhile instead of gripping it so hard in your hand waiting desperately with agony for him to miss you.
6- It’s okay to cry. You’re not pathetic for still being stuck on him, it only makes you human.
7- Write, write until your wrist is aching, find peace within the ink and paper share your thoughts freely until your heart is throbbing, write his name over and over, explain how angry you are, burn it, tear it up. You have every right to be mad, as long as you’re not taking it out on yourself.
8- Learn to do you, use this time of freedom to explore yourself, find out who you truly are. Give yourself time to breathe, you owe it to yourself.
9- Wing your eyeliner, wear that dress, look at yourself in the mirror and repeat “I deserve to be loved, I am here and that is enough” over and over, memorise it, yell it, sync it far into your mind, remind yourself there is only one you and there is nobody who can replace that.
10- Smile more, laugh until your lungs hurt, sing so loud your throat starts to dry out, dance in front of the mirror, treat yourself, take chances don’t be embarrassed to be yourself.
11- Break something, scream, your feelings are valid and it’s okay to explode sometimes.
12- Stop looking at photos of her, stop comparing yourself to her and beating yourself up because your beauty is different to hers, stop despising yourself for having shorter hair or a different body shape, it wouldn’t change the reality that he’s with her now, so don’t waste your precious energy wasting away at the thought of him and her.
13- Take your broken pieces and build a fucking castle, don’t let them knock you down, you are stronger than them.
14- Just because he stopped loving you doesn’t mean you have permission to do the same, you are worthy of all the love in the world and you deserve no less, don’t let him leaving determine your worth. You are loved and you deserve to be here, don’t let them convince you of the opposite.
—  B.L letters I never sent
Boyfriend Yixing

Originally posted by getlayd

luhan version; here

  • heeeelloooo bias wrecker
  • this guy is so full of love
  • he always wants to be touching you; holding hands, linking pinkies, stroking your hair, burying his face in your neck, just anything. any kind of skinship is good enough for him
  • back hugs
  • make sure you take advantage of his sensitive neck
  • bite it, kiss it, nibble it; litter his flesh in marks
  • he moans so damn loud at even just the feeling of your hot breath on his neck
  • rather clingy
  • couple jewelry/clothes
  • he smells like clean clothes and soap
  • papa junmyeon always warns you when you visit, to be on your best behaviour. since he sees you as being the evil tempter/temptress
  • not realising that zhang yixing is not exactly an angel himself

Originally posted by laygion

  • the dimples are lying
  • he’s not always cute
  • have u seen that boy hip thrust on stage??
  • ahahaha rude -_-
  • he’s innocent at heart though
  • you/baek/chen making dirty jokes so you can cackle madly at lay’s innocent face when he asks “what’s so funny? i don’t get it? why will y/n make me hard tonight? humans are soft & squishy???”
  • loosing him often
  • since you two could be walking through town when he wanders off to pet a cute dog. or he sees a pigeon at the end of the road so he turns tail and runs
  • protect him pls
  • will cherish every act of love you do
  • whether it’s just linking pinkies or you visit him on tour, he’ll take every little act you do to heart. it warms him up inside, makes him feel loved, makes him love you even more
  • patiently teaching you Chinese if you don’t already speak it
  • couldn’t possibly hide the relationship from the fans
  • & doesn’t understand how that leads to hate for you since he sees you as this lovely creature so how can’t everyone see that???
  • posts lots of cute things about you
  • even declines a “lads night out” to watch some shitty movie with you and eat popcorn
  • and doesn’t care if the guys tease him for it
  • “y/n, what does ‘whipped’ mean? the guys said it’s what I was, but no ones ever whipped me before … it looks painful”
  • you could never really annoy him
  • even if you think you’re being overly clingy, he thinks you’re cute & cuddly or showing your love. and doesn’t see it as clingy at all
  • & even if you try to annoy him, he loves your attention and affection and doesn’t even realise
  • compliments you all the time
  • “wow I’m so lucky to have you. you mean everything to me. you’re just so beautiful, inside and out. and caring and kind and …” the more into his love he gets, the more Chinese slips out until he’s jsut expressing his love with his whole heart, so lost in his feelings that he can only remember his native tongue & how his heart yearns for you

I really like the idea that Bitty can reach like most of the shelves in the Hause, especially when he stretches on his tip toes. But like, after all the chirping about his height, if it’s even a little bit hard for him to reach it he makes one of the other boys get it. Like:
“Holster, grab that pie pan for me, it’s too high.”
“Bitty, you can definitely reach that. It’s only on the second shelf.”
“Ohhh no, I’m tiny, remember? A ‘hockey player for ants’, remember? There is no way I could possibly reach all the way up there. I need a full sized human being to reach it.”
Holster sighs and relents and gets the pie pan. Lardo is snickering from the doorway.

the boys reacting to getting an ice cream headache during a date with their s/o?

For sure! This one was fun, I hope you like it!

Korekiyo Shinguuji

  • you two are actually having a really great time, conversation is going well, you’re getting along, and you seem to share a lot of interests!
  • so you’re a little surprised when he suddenly stops talking, deathgrips his ice cream cone so hard it shatters and practically explodes all over the table, and just slams his head down on the table.
  • you’re pretty sure he just died.
  • but no, not dead, you can hear him muttering to himself in his puddle of ice cream, crushed waffle cone, and probably tears.
  • “Is this the blackest side of being a human being?”
  • “Is being alive what it means to truly suffer?”
  • “With life…comes torment?”
  • who the hell is this man.
  • after a few minutes of dead silence, he perks back up and continued friendly conversation.
  • his face is covered in ice cream.
  • please help him.

Rantarou Amami

  • the second it hits, he tries to play it like absolutely nothing is wrong, and fails miserably.
  • his version of “acting casual” is acting WAY too suspicious.
  • he just kind of slams his hands down on the table and tries to put on a convincing smile, which looks absolutely agonized.
  • he’s sweating like a dog and just staring at you.
  • he looks like he’s trying not to scream.
  • finally you ask if he’s okay, to which he just kind of squeaks “MHM!” in response to.
  • he is definitely not “mhm”.
  • eventually it goes away and he relaxes, completely convinced that he fooled you.
  • you don’t have the heart to tell him that he didn’t.

Ouma Kokichi

  • he literally smashes his ice cream cone against the table like a beer bottle and just screams “HOLY FUCK.”
  • and frankly you’re pretty startled!
  • he’s just gripping his head and standing there looking like he had an aneurysm and frankly you’re pretty concerned! because he looks like he’s gonna collapse or something!
  • he doubles over and just kind of screams dramatically before sitting down, putting on a bright smile, and dismissing it completely.
  • everybody is staring at you two.
  • ice cream? what ice cream? he didn’t have any ice cream. what’s an ice cream?
  • scream? of course he didn’t scream, why would he scream?
  • you’re just imagining things.

Shuuichi Saihara

  • he looks like he’s legitimately going to cry.
  • he stands up, a sniffling trembling mess, and tells you he needs a moment before running off to the bathroom.
  • you are stunned.
  • you two had just been talking, having completely regular conversation, and he had just broken and run off just like that.
  • he came back eventually, laughing nervously and explaining it was nothing but a headache.
  • what a puss.
  • but you love him anyway.
  • you buy him a new ice cream too! but only becaus he was gone so long that his melted on the table…
  • you’ll have to clean that up.

Kaito Momota

  • he’s 100% the kind of guy who somehow manages to get an ice cream headache literally every time he has ice cream.
  • that being a fact, you have NO IDEA why he would invite you out for ice cream again!
  • you warned him a million times, eat it slowly, and he promised you that this time, he would! no ice cream headache.
  • well, needless to say, he lied.
  • within two minutes of even having the ice cream, he had the corresponding headache.
  • he doesn’t say anything, just puts his head in his hands, but you totally know.
  • and you have absolutely no sympathy for him, because you warned him!
  • he recovers quickly, and you roll up a napkin and give him a quick slap on the head.
  • idiot.

Kiibo

  • is this…is this even possible?

Gonta Gokuhara

  • gonta’s never actually had ice cream before! he’s so excited!
  • plus gonta gets to have his first ice cream on a date with you! that’s so exciting!
  • which is kind of where the problem comes in.
  • because he’s so excited that he pretty much just inhales this ice cream, which is all well and good until the headache hits.
  • gonta feels utterly betrayed! you didn’t tell him ice cream would hurt!
  • you’re trying not to laugh because you feel bad, but this is adorable and stupid.
  • you explain to him that that’s just what happens when you eat ice cream too fast!
  • but gonta does not underst a n d-
  • maybe you’ll practice eating ice cream again another time.

Ryouma Hoshi

  • you’re a little confused when he suddenly just goes dead silent in the middle of your conversation.
  • he just kind of sighs deeply and stares at you.
  • then, quietly, he mutters. “fuck me running.”
  • you do not know how to respond to that.
  • you both sit there in a few moments of silence before finally it subsides after a mountain of your confusion, and he picks up your conversation again.
  • your boyfriend is a strange one.

I’m honestly in tears because this song goes to show how hurt Namjoon still is even after all these years. Even after all these awards, fans, and accomplishments. Depression still hurts after a long time.

He mentioned on fancafe how we wrote this a year ago and he doesnt feel the same, but the fact that he felt this low a year ago hurts me.


I can tell that this song was talking about his trainee days and even after debut.

 This song literally made me realize Namjoon was suicidal and I wanna hold him so badly. Guys…we could of lost Kim Namjoon. My absolute favourite human being in the entire world who saved my life.

 He is a human being who does not deserve such pain but I am so proud he endured it so well and look how far he came. 


One of my favourite verses “I live for the sake of understanding this world, but why hasnt the world tried to understand me atleast once”

Its a really vague phrase which is why I like it. WORLD could mean destiny, fate, life, even parents. 

He tries so hard to accept his life, to understand his parents wishes, sacrificing his own happiness yet fate decides to only give him the worst.

“Dad please listen to me” “dead dad, your dead to me,” Talking about how his dad wouldn’t let him rap. I remember him mentioning that his dad once told him all that education he worked hard for was for nothing and I can’t imagine how sad Namjoon felt in that moment.

“I would tell god if I ever meet him, i would hold him by the collar and tell him this life is like a coffee I never ordered”

A pretty sad and a bit confusing verse, maybe leading to why Namjoon eventually became an atheist. Namjoon was in so much pain he didnt want to be born.

 "I wished I was dead…… I wished
Someone would kill me" No Namjoon never utter such words.

My joonie mini I hope you are better and hopeful now, look at how far you came, your so successful and loved, and you made your family proud.
Dont ever doubt yourself and even think about death, just keep living happily and moving forward.

He honestly felt lost in this point of his life and still continues to feel lost. Namjoon you have such in important role and your existence was destined. You were born for a reason. You were born to change lives.


This goes to show that depression still affects life even in the long term and I want all the pain Namjoon has inside to drift away. 

STAY STRONG MY NAMJOONIE

What REALLY Makes me Mad

You know what really makes me mad? It’s when people say “You don’t have to defend him/her because he (or she) isn’t your bias.” People honestly think, that the only reason why I’m defending someone and helping ANOTHER HUMAN BEING OUT is because “I like them”? That’s what really gets on my nerves . I don’t write post and make videos just for attention, and I certainly don’t make these in hopes that one day they’ll see it. I make these things because I care about other people. I make these posts and these videos to share how this made me feel and how our decisions effect the artist. Even if one person sees this and I change their mind that’s all I care about. I make posts because for as hard as our boys/girls work for others to respect our name and fandom, WE should be working just as hard. Jackson said during the GOT7 tour (in the US)that they work hard so that we can be respected. That they may not eat three meals a day but, they push themselves just so that we could be respected. Now here we are yet again, as a fandom, bashing and trashing on one of our own members. It’s one thing to have a random put you down, it’s another thing to have your own fandom put you down. Think about that. Respect others. TREAT THEM LIKE HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED. And is it so hard to care about one another?

anonymous asked:

Quick personal HC here but: Credence crying during sex cuz he's overwhelmed w postive emotion. Like. Yes.

tbh,, can you imagine how overwhelming that would be?? like, this is a boy who has spent his whole life fearful of other human beings because they are constantly mean to him. his (adoptive) mother, who is supposed to love him, punishes him (physically) for the tiniest wrong, strangers on the street push him around and call him freaks, and he’s so scared all the time that people bumping into things makes him jump.

and in this moment, he is trusting someone so completely–he is naked, he has no means of defense (aside from his obscurus, i suppose), and he has to trust that the hands touching him will remain kind, and no matter how much you love someone, after that kind of abuse, it’s hard not to be afraid. but here he is, making a conscious decision to touch and be touched and to experience this with someone else. i totally support that this would make him cry, because he is remembering how the past was and how this is and how those moments are so totally different and how this person is good to him and loves him. and the trust and love he’s pouring back?? absolutely enough to bring him to tears.

- Its his birthday again… I wish this baby boy nothing but pure happiness and joy. May he improve and learn with his mistakes. I hope he keeps being this hard working boy that never for a single second made me regret my choice of loving him, that keeps always trying to be his best and even feels like he’s not enough. Even when he’s not his best, he’s good. Happy Birthday to my favorite human being in this whole world, the voice that makes me happy when is dark, the smile that makes my earth move, the heart that keeps my heart beating. Happy Mark Day

What if team free will found an abandoned baby? And he’s just a normal human baby, nothing supernatural, and they decide to keep him.

Castiel names him Jimmy.

Just imagine:

Jimmy bringing Cas to career day.
“Now class, would anyone like to see Jimmy’s father smite the wicked?”

Sam teaching Jimmy how to read.

Cas telling Jimmy to not worry about the bullies, most of them are going to hell.

Jimmy getting confused when people say they only have two parents because he has three dads.

Dean trying so hard to be everything his Dad wasn’t, trying so hard to be a good father.

Cas coming home from a hunt late one night to see Dean sitting on the couch, looking pissed. “The teachers sent a note home. Apparently Jimmy’s been threatening to smite other kids on the playground.”
Cas gazing down at him, innocently saying, “Well I didn’t teach him that.”

All of the other angels being disgusted by Castiel raising a human at first until they meet this cute little boy with big brown eyes and then all these terrifying soldiers of heaven just melt.

Gabriel spoiling Jimmy rotten and competing with his brothers to be the favorite uncle.

When tfw goes on hunts, different angels take turns babysitting.

When Samandriel babysits, he gets so nervous because human children are so fragile. He never puts Jimmy down, because whatifhefelldownthestairsareyousurethiscribissafewhatifhechokesonsomethingohmyfather. He baby proofs the house twice. Once with bubble wrap.

Michael is asked to babysit, and though he makes a big fuss, and complains about having to watch a human, he absolutely loves it. His fondest memories are of when he was raising all of his siblings in heaven, and childcare is so familiar and easy because he’s been raising fledglings since the beginning of time. Human children are slightly different, of course, but he catches on fast.

Balthazar babysat once. He spiked Jimmy’s baby formula with wine, thinking it’d taste better for Jimmy. He wasn’t asked to babysit again.

Just imagine tfw raising a child with help from the angels.

-Book of Beau 1:4-18

anonymous asked:

Any tips for INTP x ISFP friendships / relationships?

This is a hard one, because I think that ISFPs are more likely to be drawn to INFPs than to INTPs. Those two types share the Fi dominant function, and I’ve seen really close friendships between those two types before. Not that they can’t have a good friendship with an INTP. This is just my experience.

ISFPs tend to be nice to just about everyone. The one ISFP that I know pretty well is just about the most beautiful human being ever. He is a pianist, and boy, is he a pianist! The artistic expression is strong there, too, so it’s a bit tempting to think of him as a stereotypical ISFP. However, a few things I’ve noticed about him is that he is friendly to everyone. I think he’s also easily influenced, although even if one of his friends doesn’t like another person, he’s still going to be nice to the unliked person. He has a quiet sense of humour, and a big heart. He’s probably one of the “deepest” people I know, even though you might not guess that from a quick interaction with him. But he clearly thinks and feels quite deeply.

So, if I were going to guess about a friendship/relationship between an INTP and an ISFP, I’d say that a couple of things that the biggest problem would probably be the huge amount of vacillating that would go on. Neither ISFPs nor INTPs seem to want to make definite decisions. Both are go-with-the-flow people, so they might tend to drift along in their friendship without anything to really bind them together. Not sure if that makes sense, but it seems to me that they might have to work a little harder than others to actually keep close to each other.

Also, I think that the INTP’s natural awkwardness and bullish disregard for feelings might hurt the ISFP pretty easily. We aren’t very good at picking up on the subtler aspects of a relationship, especially when we’re involved in it, and an ISFP is very sensitive to those aspects, so our blundering might grate on their nerves.

Conversely, an ISFP tends to express himself through a more sensory medium, due to his auxiliary Se. INTPs can sometimes miss these emotions, although if we’re mature enough to have a developed Fe, we can very much enjoy emotions expressed through music and art, and when that’s combined with our Ti and Ne, we can even pick up subtler nuances in the expression and see deeper meanings than other people might be able to. So, if they’re both mature, an INTP and ISFP would definitely complement each other in the area of emotional expression.

Like so many other relationships, though, this one would only work out happily if both types were selfless and giving. You must remember that seeing someone from their viewpoint now and then is essential to a good relationship. Thankfully, I think both INTPs and ISFPs don’t have too much trouble putting themselves in someone else’s shoes (if they really want to, at least). 

I hope this helps, and thanks for stopping by!

That old cliché

An image: Harry pressed as far back into the cold stone of Hogwarts’ wall as he can get, Malfoy stepping ominously closer until he’s right in front of him, invading his personal space, face intense, eyes even more so.

He’s so close, Harry thinks he can feel the heat of the other boy (no, not a boy anymore) in the scant distance between them, blanketing his exposed skin and making his cheeks and forehead feel like they’re inches away from live fire, not another human being.

He would be glancing wildly around if Draco’s eyes didn’t have a magnetizing effect. No matter how hard he tries, he can’t look away. Malfoy looks so severe, and the flickering torchlight only emphasizes his angularity.

Malfoy takes another step impossibly closer. His hips barely brush Harry’s, and he leans in, presses their foreheads together. All the while, he never breaks eye contact. Harry’s eyes begin to burn, but he can’t bring himself to blink.

They’ve been building up to this all year, Harry thinks. For longer, probably, than he wants to think about. He’s been waiting–anticipating, dreading–this very moment for a long time, and now it’s come, he doesn’t know what to do. His palms feel sweaty, he’s alarmingly aware of his heart beating a tattoo against his ribcage. He swallows nervously.

Malfoy catches the motion, and the shadow of emotion morphs his face for a brief second before it’s gone. Fast enough to leave Harry reeling.

“Scared, Potter?” he asks, and his voice is pitched so low, Harry barely catches it. His body jerks minutely under Draco’s smothering presence, and he–finally, finally–has the permission to blink. Involuntarily, his gaze drops to Malfoy’s lips.

“Yes,” he gasps.

have you considered that maybe no one cares about your shitty ass head canon that hansol is gay and in love with bjoo and you should leave him the fuck alone since he’s asked several times for you not to call him gay and ask if he’s in love with bjoo? the poor boy can’t take selfies with his best friend because you’re going to call him gay and ask if they’re dating. or how he probably doesn’t want to post videos of him dancing, something he’s clearly passionate about, because every time he does something even reminiscent to voguing, you spam the comment section asking him if he’s gay? how about you stop acting like you know who kim hansol is, and stop trying to push your pathetic fantasies onto a real person? and try to be a decent human being? stop being so toxic and disgusting

what she says: I’m fine

what she means: Idk I just think it’s super fucked up that people use book!Jace’s personality to cast judgment on show!Jace when Dom and the writers have done an amazing job taking CC’s walking sex object Two-Dimensional bad boy fantasy come to life and humanizing him I mean he was pretty badly abused most of his life and I feel like the show does a great job of portraying the attachment that abused kids still feel to their abusive parents and how fear is a great motivator to want to please someone. 

Book!Jace’s entire character seems to be ‘mean to people because he’s sexy and arrogant and knows he’ll get away with being a fucking asshole and everyone will love him anyway because he’s hot’ but in the show, Jace’s baseline seems to be kindness and compassion for others. He covers up his desire to help people (and his obvious love for animals) with hardness and tough judgment calls and snarky arrogant defense-mechanism-y jokes about his looks. He uses humor to reduce himself down to nothing but a well-trained body and a pretty face because it’s easier than allowing people to see that his true nature is kind and caring, traits that are considered Weak and Shameful by his “father”, and by Clave Culture overall. 

His inherent need to help others is something he has in common with Clary and that–along with the fact that their TV interactions, while still banter-y and fun, actually FEEL friendly and amicable pre-kiss–make their romance a believable one. She brings that out in him, and they are a happy respite for one another. 

Also, we need to remember that while ‘lol straight white men’ jokes are all well and good and I totally am down for marginalized ppl making fun of their oppressors, they are NOT a get out of ableism and victim blaming free card, and we can’t use ‘BUT HE’S A WHITE MAN’ as an excuse to make ableist jokes about his obvious mental illness coding or to imply that he deserved the parental abuse he was put through. 

Like, I really understand why you’d make mean spirited jokes about him in the books because he’s a huge douche who treats everyone like garbage, but he’s nothing like that in the show and letting your perception of him when he was written by CC is trampling on all the work that the writing team on the show put into making him realistic, human, and relatable.

BTS reaction: their s/o being very smart in every subject, except math

This is basically me. But right now in maths we’re doing logarithms, and that shit is easy. Thank you for requesting! xx


Jin/Kim Seokjin:

He would be very proud of you, because every subject is hard in some ways. And it’s only human to be bad at something, so he wouldn’t mind your lack of skills in math at all. He would definitely help you if you ask him. But, it’s been a few years since he graduated, so bear with him if he’s forgotten quite a lot.

Originally posted by bts0726


Suga/Min Yoongi:

It’s confirmed that he was a very good student, like very attentive, sticking to the rules, keeping an eye on other students and everything. So he’ll be very very very glad that you are doing well. He won’t care much for how much you struggle with math, because you’re only human and that shit is hard. Of course he’d help you if you asked him, but he would probably rather you ask Namjoon, as he is way better than Yoongi.

Originally posted by chimchams


J-Hope/Jung Hoseok:

When you tell him how bad your score was on your last math test, he’d probably jokingly tell you that you should study more. But before you had the chance to get upset he’d hug you and tell you that he was just joking, and that he’s very proud of you because math is literally the worst. And he would for sure ask Namjoon if he could tutor you.

Originally posted by bangtan-monsta


Rap Monster/Kim Namjoon:

He would be very proud of you for doing well in the other subjects, of course. But I think he would probably secretly want you to do better in maths. He wouldn’t tell you tho, because he wouldn’t want to upset you or make you feel like you disappoint him. So, he would make it his mission to help you get your grades up a bit by tutor you whenever he’s got the time. Sometimes he might not have the time for it, but he would definitely try.

Originally posted by jeonggu


Jimin/Park Jimin:

He wouldn’t care for your math grades at all, unless they were bothering you a lot. Then he would definitely try to help you. Study sessions together, and he’d ask Namjoon if there was anything the two of you were both confused about. And of course motivating you and cheering you on. But he would wait until he knew that it was bothering you.

Originally posted by agustd

Him showing up at your door with Nams like


V/Kim Taehyung:

He’d be completely amazed by how good you were at school. Like, he was that one kid who loved the breaks the most. He probably wouldn’t even notice your low grades in math, unless you told him. And then he would try to help you, probably get confused a lot of the time, and cheer you on.

Originally posted by bts-x


Jungkook/Jeon Jeongguk:

He would probably understand you the most out of all the members. He finished school most recently out of all of them, and math was his worst subject. So you would definitely have his understanding and support. But, don’t expect him to help you study. It would probably sound something like “Y/N… Babe… Jagi… Love of my life… You are very dear to me, but no way in hell that I’m going to help you do maths. That fucking shit is the worst. Go ask Namjoon. He’s the genius, not me”.

Originally posted by kkuks

hoegiwa  asked:

who's your bias in got7 gurl we gotta discuss this

gurl this is so hard i don´t even know.

I mean jaebum i looove his voice it´s so special,,,,,and jackson is just such a precious human being i luv him ,,,like this boy is friends with everone!! But also Yongjaeee he’s such a sunshine and deserves more love!!

You see I´m really bad at picking a bias :))

Member: Kai

·       Stage Name: Kai

·       Real Name: Kim Jongin

·       Birthday: Jan 14th 1994

·       Nationality: Korean

·       Position: Dancerrrr

·       Power: Teleportation

·       Other: Kim Kai….. I don’t know where to start with my feels for this boy. Ok. Here we go. 

Even his name sounds like King, we should have seen this coming… (Ok this is far fetched but let me live okay) 

You cannot say that Kai does not touch your heart (and your eyes) in EVERY SINGLE WAY POSSIBLE. 

There’s just something about him, the entire planet, galazy, universe is attracted to Kai. 

He is an AMAZING performer. 

It’s really hard (impossible) to focus on anything else when Kai is performing in front of you. 

Very very passionate about dancing. 

Ok I’m not gonna talk about his visuals because that’s too much I can’t express it. 

He is such a beautiful honest human being. 

Has two dogs that he loves. 

Best friends with Shinee’s Taemin. People thought they were gay but nah. They are really really close. BFF with VIXX’s Ravi too. 

Key takeaway from this: everyone needs a Kim Jongin in their lives okay.

LOVE KAI !

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I swear to god, if people are responding to Jungkook’s fancafe post with “you are perfect”, I’m going to scream.

That is PRECISELY the wrong message to be sending that boy; it literally only adds to the expectation and pressure that he’s supposed to be perfect.

We need to be telling them (and especially him) that it’s okay to be human and flawed and not good enough. They live an industry where the expectation of perfection is already consuming. We need to tell them that they are human because they have been taught that they’re not allowed to be.

Jungkook needs to learn that he’s not super-human, that he should work hard but not to the detriment of his health or his mental health. He needs to be taught by someone that he doesn’t have to scold himself (because that’s what he’s doing – he feels like people need to be harder on him to match how hard he is on himself) for not being flawless, for not meeting every single goal of his.

Guess what, Jungkookah, it is okay to be a person. It’s okay to be flawed, just like the rest of us. We still love you.

Happy birthday to this sweet, beautiful & talented boy //that never fails to brighten my day// named Kim jongin~ ;; I’m beyond grateful to have found you & be a fan of such an amazing, inspiring & hard working human being like you~ hope you have the most amazing birthday & spend it with your loved ones. Please make sure to get some rest & take good care of yourself ;; i will always love & support you 🌸🌸🌸 #HappyJonginDay

~Imagine~
Since cas is human it’s been hard for him to stay safe and do all the human things people do. He decides to wait in the rain for you outside of your work. He knows you and has always liked you in ways he yet can’t explain and since you have not hunted in sometime and haven’t seen the boys in over a year he decided you were safest to be around. Once you got off of work you headed toward your car when you hear someone say your name just soft enough for you to hear it. You turn around and see cas huddled against the wall and soaked from being in the rain. You walk to him and open the umbrella you had in your hand and tell cas to get under, then you ask him what’s wrong and he tells you he is human and that he has no where to go and he trusts you to teach him the human ways and help him so you offer him a place to stay at your house, and you help cas with all the things he needs.