“I think the opportunity in being an artist is to heal the world…and I now that’s such a huge thing to say, but we’re all retelling the same stories. So, how can we tell these stories so that people can empathize with others? My response to the world is to create.” Carmen LoBue is a proud intersectional feminist and artist who is passionate about creating stories that give voice to social and political injustice. “ I created HERassment for everyone. At first I thought, I want to create this for my younger sister who 9 thinking she might need a show like this when she’s 13. But then I thought, I have a younger brother too and he DEFINITELY needs this. Thats when I realized that no matter who you are, you’re going to experience some form of harassment. We’ve all been made to feel like an outsider at some point in our lives. I’ve been bullied, harassed, assaulted, and alienated at various stages of my life…But I know I’m not the only one. What I want to know is…Why does this happen? And at what point do some of us decide consciously or unconsciously that being a perpetrator is acceptable?” Carmen is a Director, Writer, Actor and Producer residing in NYC.
Look @ Nel hammering in the point!! This does enable filmmakers to just treat their crew like shit.
There’s no vision when you abuse ppl. & it’s wild how a lot of these films “capture the essence of the human spirit” or whatever the fuck but they were made through exploitation & assault.
This is why I’ve been advocating for film criticism to look at the process of a film (production through release to legacy) not just a product or “work of art.” Bc of shit like this.
I haven’t seen any x-men movies since finding out Bryan Singer is a child sexual abuser who has used his wealth to bullly journalists who report on him, get out of trials & jail, and to continue his disgusting behavior.
Someone today was complaining that they were on set and there was no craft services. No lunch or even water. That’s abuse and exploitation. I talked to the director and he said he had no money and the film was more important. Like what? This isn’t as bad as sexual assault of course. But using free labor bc your a student doesn’t excuse this. You can’t have ppl on set for 5-8 hours and not offer them water & snacks & lunch.
llooolll literally the fucking second i got home and walked through the door my mom was standing literally RIGHT BEHIND THE FUCKING DOOR like she was trying to jump scare me or some shit and she’s like “are you mad at me?” in this bitchy rude ass tone and i’m like “why is that the first thing you ask as soon as i get home?” and she proceeds to ScReAmM at me about all this shit about the fucking dumb ass stupid fucking christmas concert that she wants me to do and she’s like “did you get the music for it?” like bitch im not even in concert band this fucking semester also so many fucking dick-heads like you in concert band bulllied the shit out of me and SHE FUCKING KNOWS THIS im sorry but what kind of fucking mother would force and scream at their already fucking suicidal kid about something that involves them being around people that bullied them sm????? POBRBBALYCAUSE SHE IS A FUCKING BULLY AND SHE FUCKIN LVOES SEEING ME TOTRUTED I SEARW TO FUCKINGN GOD
and i told her i didn’t get it AND SHE STARTS SCREAMING EVEN MORE AND THIS FUCKING BITCH ASS BITCH OF A FUCKING “MOTHER” THREATENS TO TAKE AWAY MY LAPTOP. MY SCHOOL ISSUED LAPTOP. FOR FUCKING SCHOOL. MY SCHOOL ISSUED FUCKING LAPTOP I FUCKING NEED FOR HOMEWORK. AND IM LIKE BITCH NO YOU CANT EVEN JSUT FUCK OFF OH MY FUCKING LORD I SWEAR TO FUCKING GOD IM GONNA FUCKING KILL MYSELF IF SHE EVER OPENS HER FUCKING MOUTH AROUND ME AGAIN I STFG
But noone knows why (except adrien and sabrina and alya but they dont tell nobody)
Chloe is a bully right?
She insults people when they are who they are
Or insults something they worked hard on
Not become best friends with what everyone expects her to bully
She gotta have another motive
So they investigate
And since this person ( lets call them Queer) loves the park, and chloe totally hates it but loves her friend enough to come with them (she secretly likes it) they follow them
So Queer says something like “…. so why does everybody tell me to not trust you or give me weird looks when I’m talking to you?”
And chloe has a strange look across her face for a split second
But only for a second, and then she has a thoughtful expression on her face
She says something like “Maybe they think I’m going to try to change you, but that doesn’t mean anything, because I’m not. Or maybe it’s because they think that I’m bulllying you but in secret, or maybe they just don’t believe that I’m really your friend, or maybe they just do kno-”
(u kno, stuff like that)
But Queer interrupts her
“Shh, don’t worry about it. It’s fine.”
She starts sobbing and then Queer moves all their stuff and they go into the general direction of the hotel
Hey! I have a scenario request about something you already answered - kinda. It was the thing about what would fluster the idols. Could you write about Reiji where the other 3 QN guys say that he's annoying, should shut up (like, what they often/always say) but Reiji's crush/"s/o" is also with them (works with them or so) and tells him how she likes his behaviour/charm/humor and he gets flustered? Something like that please? :) Thank you very much! <3
Sure thing! Here ya go!
Reiji burst through the dressing room doors where his fellow idols sat, quietly awaiting their call to the set. He’d invited his lover to watch QN perform in person for the first time. However, this had not been her first time meeting the guys. In fact, she’d grown rather tired of being around them. There was something about these men that drove the girl crazy but she always managed to keep a smile on her face.
After all, it wasn’t about these guys… It was a matter of supporting Reiji! She always reminded herself of that when he’d invited her to join him when working with Quartet Night.
“Are you guys ready for a really, really awesome show?” Reiji asked.
He noticed a scowl from Ranmaru and walked over to him.
“C’mon, Ran-Ran is that really any way to be?” he asked. “This place is overflowing with great memories of our earlier days! I thought you guys would be more excited! C’mon everyone~! Let’s look alive!”
Camus sighed, “Why don’t you leave us alone? I’d prefer to not be completely annoyed before the show.”
“B-But, I was just saying! Don’t you guys remember the first time we performed together? Ai-Ai, remember when–”
Ai rested his face against the palm of his hand, supporting himself with his elbow on the table, “I’m not interested in hearing you recite stores from the past.”
“We’re getting paid to perform not reminisce.” Ranmaru spat.
Reiji’s girlfriend felt her jaws clench tightly when she saw his shrunken posture.
He rubbed the back of his neck and chuckled, “Oh man, you guys are so harsh today.”
A lonely smiled played upon his face. That smile alone was enough to fuel her fury.
“What is you all’s problem?” she asked.
Ranmaru’s brow quirked with both irritation and curiosity, “Hah?”
“Don’t ‘hah’ me! You heard me perfectly well. You guys are being relentless toward Reiji-kun! Why?”
Reiji’s eyes grew wide as did the rest of Quartet Night apart from Ranmaru who only glared at the couple.
“_-____, it’s okay they don’t mean anything by it.” he said, placing an assuring grip on her shoulder.
“No, it’s not okay!” she fumed. “Why be so harsh to a guy who’s only trying to pump you guys up?”
Ranmaru’s gaze was as cold as ice, “Reiji… Why don’t you put a muzzle on her?”
Ranmaru narrowed his eyes before mocking her earlier retort, “You heard me perfectly well.”
“___-chan, let’s go get some fresh air, okay?” Reiji suggested, trying his best to remain calm after Ran’s ‘muzzle’ comment.
“Fine but first let me say this: You guys are lucky to have someone as sweet and charming as Reiji to work with! I don’t understand how you can all be so cruel and look over his good points! Stop treating his like a second class citizen!” She lectured, looking each of them dead in the eyes before storming off.
Reiji glanced quickly at his band mates expressions before excusing himself to chase after her.
“____!” he called.
She turned to face him, tears of anger forming in her eyes. “I’m sorry for embarrassing you, Reiji-kun. I just can’t stand to hear them talking to you like that!”
Reiji grabbed her hands and smiled, “Embarrassed? I could never be embarrassed of you. I’m surprised your not embarrassed from standing up for a guy like me.”
He squeezed her hands tightly, “I appreciate you coming to my rescue like that, my hero.”
She giggled at her new nickname as Reiji caressed her cheek, leaning forward to kiss her lovingly.
Hi! Do you know any fics where jongin bullies/ abuses kyungsoo, LOVE YOOURRR BLOG ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey, thanks a lot. So just in case you haven’t, check out the last time I didbully/ abuse fics. Here are the ones I have found since then, however most of the ones I know right now are ongoing, so I hope thats OK. I almost forgot my funny story, so some time back my husband asked me to rec him some one shot Kaisoo so he could see how romance is communicated in a really short story for a game he was making, so after he read a few he was all like, you guys really like to see Kyungsoo get beat up, don’t you? I didn’t even realize I picked out that theme. lol.
Bound to love: one shot. Jongin falls in love with Kyungsoo when he sees him, and then beats him up a lot because he doesn’t want to be gay.
Poison: one shot. They abuse each other in their marriage.
All I want is: complete 1 shot, this only technically counts. Jongin is the school bullly and Kyungsoo is a new student who doesn’t take his shit.
A controlled life: ongoing. I love this so far, I really hope it keeps going. The government decides what everyone’s job is and who they marry, and Kyungsoo gets paired up with his bully, Jongin.
Besk kept secrets: ongoing. Kyungsoo is mute due to a tramautic experience when his mom died so he goes to live with his dad’s wife and child Jongin, who abuses Kyungsoo more.
Punishment for love: 20 chapters. So Jongin is some kind of supernatural being who traps Kyungsoo as his slave once Kyungsoo falls in love with him, and then abuses him for not loving him?
Dangerous Running: Ongoing. Jongin kidnaps Kyungsoo and abuses him, but then wants him to like him.
Your blog is constantly appearing in my utapri dash and I love it. Can I ask an scenario where quartet night misses their airplane an it is Reijis fault because he took too long buying souvenirs, and they must stay at the airport all night until next mornings flight. Their general reactions and thoughts surviving the night. P.s. They cant pay a hotel. Thanks a lot!
I like the idea of Quartet Night (not just Rei-Rei) acting like teenage boys instead of adult men (excluding Ai). So, they may since a bit OOC but it’s all for fun! ANNNNND I may have gone overboard with the length lol
“Mui-Mui, what do you think about this one~?” Reiji asked.
Camus groaned, “I don’t care. Can we please just go catch a taxi?”
The brown haired idol gasped, “Mui~ you don’t go to another country and go home without souvenirs!”
Ranmaru scoffed, “Then, you should’ve gone yesterday if it mattered that much to you.”
“If it’s any consolation, this country doesn’t really make their own souvenirs.” Ai said.
“If you want an American flag so badly you can buy one at the airport’s gift shop!” Camus said.
Reiji held up two flags as he carefully examined them, “I don’t want the airport ones. They were made in China.”
He could feel Ranmaru’s breath on his neck as the bassist peeked over his shoulder, “That one is from Taiwan; That one was made in Japan.”
“I see…” Reiji said placing them back on the shelf that he’d found them, “Ah, excuse me Miss!”
Reiji called to the store attendant in English, “I am looking for America-made American flags.”
“Yes, right this way.” she said leading him over to the over side of the store. Ranmaru, Camus and Ai all looked at each other, it was obvious that they were all thing the same thing. That guy was such a pain. Soon, Reiji returned to the with an over sized flag.
“This is perfect!” he smiled.
Ranmaru narrowed his eyes at him, “That flag is bigger than the four of us combined.”
“It’s perfect!” Reiji repeated.
“Whatever.” the bassist sighed.
Camus pulled out his pocket watch, “Hurry and check out before it’s too late.”
“We have exactly forty-six minutes left until our boarding time. It takes approximately twenty-three minutes to get there from here.” Ai said.
Ranmaru shook his head, “Twenty three minutes on a good day. This is New York. It’s hard to hail a cab and it’s evening rush hour.”
“Ok~! I just have to find two more things. I need to find key chains for Tokki and Otoyan!” Reiji said before dashing off. “I promised!”
“We’re going to miss our flight.” Camus sighed.
“Definitely gonna have to catch a later flight.” Ranmaru mumbled.
“He’s such an annoying child.” Ai said.
Eventually, Reiji checked out after he’d found key chains that he liked and Quartet Night set out to hail a cab. It’d taken about fifteen minutes to get one to stop for them. They had to all squeezed into the backseat, making for an uncomfortable ride full of bickering. If they didn’t all look completely different the taxi driving would have mistaken the for brothers. Reiji was in the middle, his feet resting on the hump. Ai and Camus were both leaning uncomfortably on the doors. Ran sat in between Reiji and Ai; Reiji in between Camus and Ranmaru, which could have been the worst decision ever.
The ride went from:
“Oi, get your elbow out of my rib cage!” Ranmaru argued.
“Why are you leaning on my shoulder?” Camus asked.
“Stop. Touching. My. Thigh.” Ranmaru mumbled.
“Why is your knee touching me?” Camus asked.
“JUST STAY ON YOUR HUMP!” Ranmaru and Camus both shouted.
Ranmaru smacking Reiji’s elbow , “Your elbow!”
“Ran-Ran I can’t help it!”
Camus nudged him over, “Too close.”
“Mui-chan what do you want me to do?”
“Stay off of me!”
“Hey, don’t hit me me!” Reiji cried.
“Stop moving!” Camus growled.
“Get off ‘a me!” Ranmaru shouted.
“Why can’t we just get along?” Reiji cried.
“Shut up!” Ranmaru spat.
“Silence!” Camus yelled.
“Be quiet, all of you.” Ai sighed.
Ranmaru slapping Reiji’s leg.
Camus pushing Reiji’s elbow.
Reiji hitting them both back.
Reiji, Camus and Ranmaru all started passing licks to each other and arguing like little kids until the taxi stopped. They all rushed out of the taxi, grabbed their bags from the trunk and ran into the building. Reiji hurried over to the line that was surprisingly empty. The others waited behind for him to return. When he returned he had a solemn look on his face.
Ranmaru took a deep breath, preparing for the worst, “What?”
“Um, well…” Reiji said, twiddling his fingers, “We may or may not have missed our flight.”
Ranmaru let out an irritated sigh and turned his back to them to keep himself from saying anything too harsh.
“No. There is no ‘may or may not have’ did were or didn’t we?!” Camus asked.
Reiji let out a nervous chuckle, “Well, at least they’ll put us up in a sweet hotel for the night!”
Ai shook his head, “That isn’t an option we missed out flight, it wasn’t canceled.”
“You mean to tell me…” Ranmaru began, “There are no other flights to Japan for the day?”
The brown haired man scratched the back of his head, “Exactly!”
“'Exactly!’” Camus repeated, “'Exactly?!’”
The blonde toward over Reiji, it could be said that when the Count was this angry the veins in his forehead looked like demon’s horns.
Reiji took a step back and smiled, “We can solve this without violence right?”
Ai blinked, “Well…”
“Kotobuki.” Camus said through gritted teeth.
Ranmaru cracked his knuckles, “Fix it.”
Reiji flinched at the sound of Ranmaru’s knuckles, “Okay, okay! I get it you guys are a little upset but–”
“GO TALK TO THEM!” Ranmaru shouted.
Without another word, the brown haired man ran off to have a talk with one of the ladies behind the window only to return with a four folded white sheets. He smiled nervously, holding them up to his group members.
“Bad news is we can’t get a later flight because that was the last flight Japan until five in the morning but the good news is we get to have a sleep over together~!” Reiji said cheerfully.
Camus narrowed his cold eyes at the shorter man, “Quit fooling around.”
Reiji handed Camus one of the white bed sheets, “I wish I were Myu-Myu.”
“We seriously have to sleep in the fucking airport over night?” Ranmaru asked in a dry tone.
“All because you spent for ever buying souvenirs.” Ai added.
They all snatched the sheets away from him leaving him with nothing for himself.
“Hey what am I supposed use?” Reiji asked.
“Use that body sized flag you bought earlier.” Ranmaru spat, walking off as Camus and Ai followed.
“But I bought it for you, Ran-Ran!” Reiji called following behind them. “Guys don’t leave me.”
Ai stopped walking and turned to him, “We are going to find a place to sleep. Because this it your fault you can’t sleep near us. So, please stop following us.”
They left Reiji standing there in the middle of the airport pouting. He stuck his hands in his pockets and walked back over to window for another sheet. He looked over his shoulder to see them taking their seats.He fought back a chuckle.
Here are just a few texts from my harasser. On February 3rd I decided to stop talking to this girl. Over the next 5 months she continued to send me unwanted messages and calls, even though I asked her to stop. The only time I replied was with “I’m in class”, or another pre-installed message on my phone to let me know when and how much she called.
Please note I looked forever to find out how to block numbers on Android, I found no solution besides apps that didn’t even work.
It took many threats of going to law enforcement and calling her parents as often as she called me to finally get her to stop.
Now, me being me I was content with not ruining this girls life by pursuing my threats at filing a police report, I mean she’s a fucking creep but at least she’s not harming me. So I kept the messages to myself and didn’t go any further. I showed my friends the shit she sent and we all had a good laugh about it, making light in an otherwise creepy and very uncomphtorableable situation. It was all fine. Or so I thought.
3 months later, after the last text, I was taken out of class and called down to the main office, where I was instructed to sit in the vice principal’s office. After a minute my guidance counselor, my school shrink, and my vice principal walked in. I was told to be make myself comfortable and relax. Right away he said “Ryan, what do you know about (my harasser’s full name).” I was so relieved. Someone finally told and I wouldn’t have to constantly live in fear that this crazy bitch would start up again and I’d have to endure the unwanted calls and texts. I said yes, I know this person. However, the next words he said shocked and horrified me. He said that I was pulled out of class because he is now dealing with an issue of “bullying”. Confused?
On September 13th, 2010 New York passed it’s “dignity for all students act”, which is New Yorks take and on anti bullying law. Under this new law,
“DASA prohibits the harassment and discrimination of students by students and by school personnel.Each school’s Code of Conduct must be amended to reflect the prohibition of discrimination and harassment of students by students or staff in age-appropriate language.
Districts must appoint at least one staff member in each school to handle all bullying incidents on school property (including athletic fields, playgrounds, and parking lots), in school buildings, on a school bus/vehicle, as well as at school-sponsored events or activities).
Administrators must report incidents of bullying or bias-based harassment to the NYS Department of Education”
That all sounds dandy and good, but it’s not. In New York this law was used against me to protect my harasser and paint me as a “bullly”. I was told I must never show these texts again, even though she chose to send these texts on her own free will. I was told I would be suspended if I did not comply. I was told, to my fucking face, that my rights end where your feelings begin. Let me say that again.
I WAS TOLD BY MY GUIDANCE COUNSOLER THAT MY RIGHTS END WHERE HER FEELINGS BEGIN.
This is the true face of anti bullying laws. This is what New York has turned into, actual victim blaming and harassment defending. My superiors did not even comment on the contents of the messages, or the state I must be in after enduring that for 5 months. They were more concerned about the feelings of my harasser and her mental health.
If you need me to tell you why this entire thing is fucked up, move to New York.