Breaking up is always hard to do…. but what you don’t want to do Singles is make the other person a villain.
When a relationship ends you’re filled with so many emotions. I’m right in the middle of this predicament currently. I’m sad, angry, spiteful, selfish, happy and a mixture of other emotions. In the midst of that its natural to want to take it out on the other person. Make them feel the way you feel.
Don’t go there Singles! I haven’t and I won’t. What’s important for me is regardless of how things ended the love is still there. Besides you can’t claim to have loved someone then make them out to be this evil person. If you have the capacity to do that, then you weren’t in love. During this breakup I feel all these emotions but I won’t make him anything less than the king he is in my eyes and the eyes of others.
After every relationship I’m always asking myself ‘what did I learn from this?’ ‘How will I walk away being a better woman?’ Instead of trying to make the other person the villain, how can you be a better person from this relationship?
Everyday I have to remind myself that I learned something important from this relationship that will be with me forever. And it’s ok to no be ok sometimes. Just don’t project those feelings onto the other person. Learn, heal and grow.