update account: harry and louis went out to dinner, possible pics coming

me: ugh stupid update account rumours, probably just trolling

me lowkey:


Panic! at the disco discography

July Book Photo Challenge
Day 4 : Red, White or Blue

“When I read a book, I put in all the imagination I can, so that it is almost like writing the book as well as reading it - or rather, it is like living it. It makes reading so much more exciting, but I don’t suppose many people try to do it.”
Dodie Smith, I Capture the Castle

paige jeans saleswoman: harry.. you cant wear these ones… these jeans are way too tight and they’re cut so low your pubes will be half out!


  • My BPD:YOURe GOIN G TO LEAVE ME!! why can't you just love me why can't I be loved, im going to hurt myself please doNNT LEA VE ME!!
  • Me 5 seconds later:I'm so sorry, I am unstable and annoying I know I must frustrate you and I know I need help
  • Me after I say everything:I'm terribly sorry, I am a mess, I love you a lot.
Proposed DSM-V diagnostic criteria for BPD

There are going to be some changes in the diagnostic criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder, and it may be helpful to go through - even if it is a long read!

The essential features of a personality disorder are impairments in personality (self and interpersonal) functioning and the presence of pathological personality traits. To diagnose borderline personality disorder, the following criteria must be met:

🔷 Significant impairments in personality functioning manifest by:

🔹1. Impairments in self functioning (a or b):

a. Identity: Markedly impoverished, poorly developed, or unstable self-image, often associated with excessive self-criticism; chronic feelings of emptiness; dissociative states under stress.

b. Self-direction: Instability in goals, aspirations, values, or career plans.


🔹2. Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):

a. Empathy: Compromised ability to recognize the feelings and needs of others associated with interpersonal hypersensitivity (i.e., prone to feel slighted or insulted); perceptions of others selectively biased toward negative attributes or vulnerabilities.

b. Intimacy: Intense, unstable, and conflicted close relationships, marked by mistrust, neediness, and anxious preoccupation with real or imagined abandonment; close relationships often viewed in extremes of idealization and devaluation and alternating between over involvement and withdrawal.

🔷 Pathological personality traits in the following domains:

🔹1. Negative Affectivity, characterized by:

a. Emotional lability: Unstable emotional experiences and frequent mood changes; emotions that are easily aroused, intense, and/or out of proportion to events and circumstances.

b. Anxiousness: Intense feelings of nervousness, tenseness, or panic, often in reaction to interpersonal stresses; worry about the negative effects of past unpleasant experiences and future negative possibilities; feeling fearful, apprehensive, or threatened by uncertainty; fears of falling apart or losing control.

c. Separation insecurity: Fears of rejection by - and/or separation from - significant others, associated with fears of excessive dependency and complete loss of autonomy.

d. Depressivity: Frequent feelings of being down, miserable, and/or hopeless; difficulty recovering from such moods; pessimism about the future; pervasive shame; feeling of inferior self-worth; thoughts of suicide and suicidal behavior.

🔹2. Disinhibition, characterized by:

a. Impulsivity: Acting on the spur of the moment in response to immediate stimuli; acting on a momentary basis without a plan or consideration of outcomes; difficulty establishing or following plans; a sense of urgency and self-harming behavior under emotional distress.

b. Risk taking: Engagement in dangerous, risky, and potentially self-damaging activities, unnecessarily and without regard to consequences; lack of concern for one’s limitations and denial of the reality of personal danger.

🔹 3. Antagonism, characterized by:

a. Hostility: Persistent or frequent angry feelings; anger or irritability in response to minor slights and insults.

🔷 The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.

🔷 The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual’s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.

🔷 The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).

anonymous asked:

I'm bisexual, and for the past two years I've been in a very happy relationship with a man. I think this man could be the man I marry. However, I've never had a fufilling relationship with a woman. It kind of feels like Im not valid in my sexuality..

You’re valid.

Orientation is about attraction. If you’re attracted to people of two or more genders you’re bisexual! You’re allowed to claim that identity, just as much as a gay person who’s never dated someone of the same gender or a pansexual person who’s never dated someone of every single gender (because let’s face it, doing that is probably impossible.) Your identity is valid.