I FUCKING LOVE BOTTOM!DEREK.
LIKE I WANT DEREK HALE WITH EVERYTHING IN HIS ASS - VIBRATORS, FINGERS, TONGUES, ANAL PLUGS, TWO COCKS, JUST STILES…EVERYTHING.
I love the idea of Stiles holding Derek’s face into the pillow and pounding into him, Stiles on top and lovingly and slowly thrusting as he whispers love into Derek’s ear and worships him until Derek’s vibrating and falling apart. Stiles four fingers deep while he sucks Derek’s cock, Stiles slowly working Derek up by sliding a long, thick dildo into him over and over. I want Derek riding Stiles with his head thrown back, filthy little sounds coming out of his mouth as he grinds down on Stiles’ cock.
I would never write a fic where Derek laughs at Stiles and “puts him in his place.” That is not the way I see Stiles and Derek acting in a relationship, at all. I don’t think Derek would ever laugh at something Stiles wanted to do. In my head, Derek would let Stiles do anything to him, because if he trusts Stiles enough to be in a relationship with him, Derek trusts with his all. If Derek didn’t want to be the bottom (which is a valid choice), he would never laugh at Stiles. Derek would say no, explain why, and he’d make sure Stiles knew it had nothing to do with him, just something Derek wasn’t comfortable with. Having Derek laugh at Stiles and “put him in his place” hits my relationship humiliation squick, cause I’ve been in a relationship where I was made fun of what I wanted sexually, and I would never have Derek do that to Stiles. Ever ever ever ever ever.
I don’t understand why the thought of Stiles topping Derek is laughable. Size doesn’t always have something to do with who tops and who bottoms - I imagine it’s more about what you want sexually, whether you want your partner’s cock in your ass or not, which has nothing to do with size. Plus, Stiles is not weak, and I don’t think Derek sees him as weak. Or little - he’s thin and without the bulk, but when Derek isn’t in “Alpha mode”, there’s not that much difference between them. They’re the same height, and Derek is just a bit bulkier than Stiles, but not enough for some huge size dynamic.
I know a lot of ppl think Derek wouldn’t bottom because he was the Alpha. That never settled with me. Sure, Derek as an Alpha might not let everyone top him, but if he “mates” with Stiles, he would give his entire self over to Stiles - both emotionally and physically. I’ve always believed once Derek allows himself to heal and fully fall in love with someone and let them in, he’d be in 10000000000%. We’ve already seen Derek is a romantic, and I think he would be a very loyal, very devoted partner. And now that Derek is a Beta, the Alpha argument doesn’t really work as much anymore (or in the same way, I guess). But I think if you don’t like bottom!Derek, that’s your preference. We all have our likes and dislikes.
My own personal headcanon is that Stiles and Derek switch. They both like to top each other, to be inside the other, but they also like to bottom, to feel the other inside them, filling them. They want to know and experience each other in every way. They may prefer one way or another most of the time, but they do everything with each other, and indulge each other’s sexual fantasies willingly, enthusiastically, and never ever laugh at each other for what they want. They love one another, and everything about each other. Even if Stiles wanted to dress as clowns and shove weird objects up Derek’s ass, he’d probably grumble and huff and roll his eyes and be annoyed, but he’d totally indulge Stiles, bc he’d give Stiles anything he wanted.
Because ultimately, it’s about connection, it’s about enjoying each other, it’s about love. If one of them is uncomfortable with topping/bottoming, then that’s fine. Neither of them would force the other to do something they were uncomfortable with (Derek indulging Stiles is due to his high level of comfort with him), and if they were uncomfortable with something, they would never make each other feel bad about it - Stiles for wanting to top, or Derek for not wanting to bottom. Once again, it’s about connection, enjoying each other, and love.
I’m not sure why you thought I didn’t like bottom!Derek. I’ve reblogged multiple bottom!Derek fanarts lately (one like 2-3 days ago), and I’ve written bottom!Derek in: the thread is ripping series (the second one, wonderwall); i’ll be seeing you; the domestic series (both ladybugs and sugarplums) (maybe something else? idk i can’t remember)
I need to write it more, mainly bc bottom!Derek is awesome.
Derek needs all the love, and he needs Stiles’ cock in him. Over and over, and all the time.