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anonymous asked:

It's pretty obvious Freelee has had injections. All that kind of stuff is tested on animals. Kalel also got her lips and nose done. Ppl would sympathize with Fl if she just came clean and said she felt pressure to look younger. Instead she's making you look like a crazy stalker pedo

IKR.

Ive told her over and over that 95% of her audience is just shallow insecure hand bag basics that find her channel cos she is sledging other hand bag basics.

99% of them DONT care you do botox Freelee! Just come clean and we can all move on ffs.

anonymous asked:

So do you think you and FL will ever get back together? Or do you think you're gonna be solo/find someone else?

Nah man. We are better off as friends these days. FL doesnt even want that though. She wants to see me destroyed. She wants my youtube channel taken down even. She said once ‘if you seriously got ran over by a car, Id be fucking happy! it would be a happy day for me!!’. 

I gave her 3 years to change and she just got worse.

When in 2013 I caught her out about the botox injections etc and she lied to me, I found it hard to see her in the same light as I did when we first met in person feb 2007 and she answered the door.

Like fuck, this entire bullshit is just because of some stupid botox injections and face fillers.

If You Never Frown, You Won't Feel Sad

Botox is a popular cosmetic procedure to reduce facial wrinkles.   Botox is injected into various muscles, for instance in the face, and it  paralyzes the muscles thereby causing the wrinkles to “relax”. It’s   been known for a while that one of the side effects of Botox treatments are that people can’t fully express emotions (for example, they can’t   move the muscles that would show they were angry, or even happy). New   research shows another interesting side effect – people who have Botox   injections can’t feel emotions either.

Muscles and feeling are tied together – If you can’t  move your muscles to make a facial expression you can’t feel the   emotion that goes with the expression. So if you have recently received a  Botox injection and you go to a movie that is sad, you will not feel   sad because you won’t be able to move the muscles in your face that go   with feeling sad. Moving muscles and feeling emotions are linked.

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Hey, uh, I haven’t seen a post like this, but I feel like it should be said? 

 Don’t… Make fun of people who get Botox. Don’t call us “bimbos” (mentioning this because if you go into the Botox tag it’s 95% “ooh this girl becomes a bimbo / my bimbofication journal” And that just makes me super uncomfortable? 

Like… I have really severe chronic migraines, so every 3 months I get 35 shots of Botox (which, I might remind u, is an actual neurotoxin and is p darn dangerous, and SUPER PAINFUL lmao) into the head, neck and shoulders to help with them. 

 Every time I go into that tag for support (because the shots hurt A LOT) I just find people shaming girls and weird kink stuff. 

 Sorry, I’m rambling, just. Please don’t be gross, guys.

Botox, gender, and the emotional lobotomy.

By Dana Berkowitz, PhD

Botox has forever transformed the primordial battleground against aging. Since the FDA approved it for cosmetic use in 2002, eleven million Americans have used it. Over 90 percent of them are women.

In my forthcoming book, Botox Nation, I argue that one of the reasons Botox is so appealing to women is because the wrinkles that Botox is designed to “fix,” those disconcerting creases between our brows, are precisely those lines that we use to express negative emotions: angry, bitchy, irritated.  Botox is injected into the corrugator supercilii muscles, the facial muscles that allow us to pull our eyebrows together and push them down.  By paralyzing these muscles, Botox prevents this brow-lowering action, and in so doing, inhibits our ability to scowl, an expression we use to project to the world that we are aggravated or pissed off.

Sociologists have long speculated about the meaning of human faces for social interaction. In the 1950s, Erving Goffman developed the concept of facework to refer to the ways that human faces act as a template to invoke, process, and manage emotions. A core feature of our physical identity, our faces provide expressive information about our selves and how we want our identities to be perceived by others.

Given that our faces are mediums for processing and negotiating social interaction, it makes sense that Botox’s effect on facial expression would be particularly enticing to women, who from early childhood are taught to project cheerfulness and to disguise unhappiness. Male politicians and CEOs, for example, are expected to look pissed off, stern, and annoyed. However, when Hillary Clinton displays these same expressions, she is chastised for being unladylike, as undeserving of the male gaze, and criticized for disrupting the normative gender order. Women more so than men are penalized for looking speculative, judgmental, angry, or cross.

Nothing demonstrates this more than the recent viral pop-cultural idioms “resting bitch face.” For those unfamiliar with the not so subtly sexist phrase, “resting bitch face,” according to the popular site Urban Dictionary, is “a person, usually a girl, who naturally looks mean when her face is expressionless, without meaning to.” This same site defines its etymological predecessor, “bitchy resting face,” as “a bitchy alternative to the usual blank look most people have. This is a condition affecting the facial muscles, suffered by millions of women worldwide. People suffering from bitchy resting face (BRF) have the tendency look hostile and/or judgmental at rest.”

Resting bitch face and its linguistic cousin is nowhere near gender neutral. There is no name for men’s serious, pensive, and reserved expressions because we allow men these feelings. When a man looks severe, serious, or grumpy, we assume it is for good reason. But women are always expected to be smiling, aesthetically pleasing, and compliant. To do otherwise would be to fail to subordinate our own emotions to those of others, and this would upset the gendered status quo.

This is what the sociologist Arlie Russell Hochschild calls “emotion labor,” a type of impression management, which involves manipulating one’s feelings to transmit a certain impression. In her now-classic study on flight attendants, Hochschild documented how part of the occupational script was for flight attendants to create and maintain the façade of positive appearance, revealing the highly gendered ways we police social performance. The facework involved in projecting cheerfulness and always smiling requires energy and, as any woman is well aware, can become exhausting. Hochschild recognized this and saw emotion work as a form of exploitation that could lead to psychological distress. She also predicted that showing dissimilar emotions from those genuinely felt would lead to the alienation from one’s feelings.

Enter Botox—a product that can seemingly liberate the face from its resting bitch state, producing a flattening of affect where the act of appearing introspective, inquisitive, perplexed, contemplative, or pissed off can be effaced and prevented from leaving a lasting impression. One reason Botox may be especially appealing to women is that it can potentially relieve them from having to work so hard to police their expressions.

Even more insidiously, Botox may actually change how women feel. Scientists have long suggested that facial expressions, like frowning or smiling, can influence emotion by contributing to a range of bodily changes that in turn produce subjective feelings. This theory, known in psychology as the “facial feedback hypothesis,” proposes that expression intensifies emotion, whereas suppression softens it. It follows that blocking negative expressions with Botox injections should offer some protection against negative feelings. A study confirmed the hypothesis.

Taken together, this works point to some of the principal attractions of Botox for women. Functioning as an emotional lobotomy of sorts, Botox can emancipate women from having to vigilantly police their facial expressions and actually reduce the negative feelings that produce them, all while simultaneously offsetting the psychological distress of alienation.

Dana Berkowitz is a professor of sociology at Louisiana State University in Baton Rogue where she teaches about gender, sexuality, families, and qualitative methods. Her book, Botox Nation: Changing the Face of America, will be out in January and can be pre-ordered now.

hthrloo  asked:

I think you're brave and brassy and cool. I admire and envy all those things.

You definitely don’t need to be envious! I’m really a mess being held together by black denim, benzodiazepines, and Botox. From where I stand, you’re all those lovely things, too, and beautiful to boot. (And thank you for these kind words!) @hthrloo

Drum therapy. ❤
Recently realized I have a hidden knack for drumming, and how deeply happy it makes my soul. I haven’t felt this way about anything since Photography and my boyfriend Nick, so this is clearly something I’m going to love forever. 😁

An article about how playing drums can cure depression, which I’m finding to be very spot on:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ending-addiction-good/201609/how-drum-circles-can-improve-if-not-cure-your-depression

Also, CAN WE PLEASE TALK ABOUT HOW I HAVE CHRONIC MIGRAINES AND AM NOW WELL ENOUGH TO PLAY THE DRUMS?! This time last year there was no way, my body was still too sick and sensitive. Now with medication, diet, and stress management, I’m healthy enough to be a chronic migraine sufferer that can rock out on drums. It’s surreal, I was having 20 a month, nearly catatonic, hiding in dark silent rooms. I couldn’t be more grateful that’s changed.
132. The Mystery Knight - Part 3
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Spoilers, profanity, Jaime x Brienne. Game of Thrones. A Song of Ice and Fire. The Mystery Knight - Part 3

Close the Door and Come Here - Episode 132 - The Mystery Knight - Part 3
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Dunk & Egg blunder their way into spoiling a rebellion. Maynard Plumm (if that’s his REAL name) explains it all. Dunk has no choice but to be a hero, and Bloodraven thinks it’s about time someone gave Egg a clout to the head. Is bathing in blood just Westerosi botox? We don’t know the answer to that, but we do know that we’re sad to say goodbye to these lovely stories.

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anonymous asked:

I've just asked Freelee why she only ever comes on Tumblr to "defend" herself but rarely to answer anyone's questions? I doubt she will publish that question because, you know, she has to appear all 'polished'. She only ever publishes questions where people are sucking up her arse, who does that help besides her and her ego? Anyway well done, you're relationship has made it to MSN, I'm sure that will be great for sparking interest in veganism :/

IKR?

It is really sad FL started it up again like this when everything was settling down and we both could just move on.

We promised each other no interviews with media. That is the worst thing you can do because they will always paint you both in a bad light and make the vegan community look crazy.

What I said about FL using botox, punching me in the head, cheating on me etc nobody cares about too much anyway. It is drama shit on jersey shore.

Her claiming I was trying to hook up with 15 year olds, saying I have a steroid addiction and punch her in the face…well that sort of shit can destroy a mans reputation forever.

If I didnt show receipts, be real on camera and share the truth then that would mean I would be exactly what she tried to claim I was.

ANYONE who has done botox can tell FL is on it and has done other face injections.

ANYONE with a boob job can tell FL has it.

ANYONE whom read those messages she sent robin can tell what was going on.

ANYONE with fake eye lashes can tell she has them.

These are all superficial things. Every day things. NONE of them are illegal BUT she will do ANYTHING so people don’t find out. Even if that means trying to destroy my reputation - her partner for the last 9 years who took her under my wing when she was dead broke, 20kg overweight and about 30k in debt and HATING her current job. (If she loved it, she would be doing it still).

anonymous asked:

who is robin?????

The guy FL cheated on me with and is now her bf. I don’t mind. Im glad we decided to split. I didnt like the lies though. Robin was a mate of mine and I introduced them. When we split I even told Robin that she was ‘mega keen’ on him and that I didnt mind if they hooked up as I had found out about all the messages/photos she had sent him. He said something like ‘yeah I picked up on that early on,Im not sure I have feelings for her though’.

When they were together I even paced him a couple of times for a TT up the mountain. Im not the jealous type.

Freelee lied to him about doing botox and she lied to her audience about it and would rather make me look like a crazy person than come clean.

Im only bringing this up again after she did an interview with the daily mail about me yesterday. She would rather see me destroyed than admit she does cosmetic surgery and still does today. 

Really sad.