@parents of kids in the LGBT+ community

Listen to your fucking kids.
Even if you too are part of the community.
Just listen to the struggles your kids face and don’t dismiss them as “it can’t be that bad” or “it was much worse for me”.
Their subjective experience is going to be very different from yours.

“The only calibration that counts is how much heart people invest, how much they ignore their fears of being hurt or caught out or humiliated. And the only thing people regret is that they didn’t live boldly enough, that they didn’t invest enough heart didn’t love enough. Nothing else really counts at all.”

- Ted Hughes (died: 28 October 1998)


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I’ma tell you guys a lesson my mama has given me that, if you haven’t been kindly taught this lesson by someone else, you if you may have had to learn this lesson the hard way but it’s still hard to see, let me please tell it to you.

If you get “bad vibes” off of someone, listen to your instincts and stay away.

  • These “bad vibes” may come out of nowhere.
  • They may come when you hear a person talk.

  • They may come just upon seeing somebody.

This is not, “I just don’t trust people like these.”

It’s not cognitive, a hatered for a group, be it a race, or be it the military, or be the police, or be it anything like that.

What I’m talking about is not that.

It’s bad feelings you get.

Listen to those bad feelings. Those are subconscious ques telling you that this person may be dangerous. It picks up on things you’re not even sure about. The little things that would not have normally feel unsafe, but suddenly makes you question, or feel just a little not okay, or you’re just a bit unease around the person. That’s your brain trying to protect you. Putting up flags to warn you about ques it picked up.

I’m not sure if everybody can do this, given different brain processing, hell, I don’t think I always pick up on it, especially given my history, but if something feels off and makes you feel unease and uncomfortable.. if you get “bad vibes” off of someone. Listen to it. It might save your life, or save you from an attack.

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