body care

Tips on how to feel confident with body hair!

Feeling confident with body hair is something a lot of women want to achieve, but it can be hard, especially if you have thick, dark or long hair. If having body hair isn’t your thing, that’s totally cool, too. But this is for my girls who want to embrace their hair! Here’s just a few tips I thought of, it’s not a lot but feel free to add some more!

1. Try trimming your hair. Whether you don’t want to shave because fuck the patriarchy, or because razors don’t agree with your body, this tip can help. Start out small. If you have longer hair, keep it nice and short. This is an easier way to get used to having visible body hair without fully emerging into the world of having visible body hair, which can be super scary for a lot of women.

2. Look at yourself naked. Seriously, do it. Look at all your fat, your hair, your stretch marks, cellulite, all those things that people call “imperfections”. Get used to just being in your body. Take them clothes off and just exist in your body. The first couple times it might be scary, but after a while you’ll start to realize “hey, this is just my body! And it’s perfectly fine”. Building body confidence in general can really help to give you that boost to go out with your body hair on display and give no fucks.

3. Connect with body posi people who support body hair. Follow blogs, Facebook pages, just surround yourself with positivity for body hair. The more you see pictures of women with body hair or positivity posts for body hair, you’ll start to normalize it in your brain.

4. Have a security blanket. The first step of going out with your body hair visible is just that… going out. Gaining the confidence to walk out your door in that tank top and not changing into a long sleeved shirt before you go is the hardest part. So bring something with you. Bring a cardigan or a change of pants or a hoodie. This gives you the boost of confidence to get out your front door with your body hair and all, knowing that you have a back up plan. And you probably won’t even end up using it! But if you do, remember that it’s okay. Sticking out from society is hard! And there’s always tomorrow and the next day and the rest of the days after that! So don’t worry about it 💕 you did your best and that’s wonderful.

Again, feel free to add any other tips onto this!

Quick fact. Ready?
Caffeine acts on the brain by blocking the binding of the molecule adenosine, which would normally cause feelings of drowsiness.

What else is that caffeine causes some degree of vasoconstriction in the blood vessels leading to the brain, thus leading to a slightly reduced blood flow. This is one of the reasons why caffeine should never ever be over-consumed, and should be handled with care.


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-send me an ask with the emoji [☯️] and something you love about yourself!
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how i’ll rate:

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Hey everyone! I was tagged by @alwaysfob (the amazing Alli)

What would someone need to watch or read to truly understand you?
× Games ×
•Mystic Messenger•
•New! Super Mario Bros.• (for Nintendo DS)
•My Sims Party• (for Nintendo DS)

x Movies x
•Warm Bodies•
•Daddy Day Care•
•Pitch Perfect 1 & 2•

× Television ×
•Gravity Falls•
•Lab Rats• (and all the sequels and spin offs)

× Music ×
•Fall Out Boy•
•Panic! At the Disco•
•My Chemical Romance•
•One Direction•
•Melanie Martinez•

× Books ×
•A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle•
•Christy Miller Series by Robin Jones Gunn•
•13 Reasons Why by Jay Asher•
•The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky•
•Me Before You by Jojo Moyes•
•Seven Ways We Lie by Riley Redgate•

× Songs ×
•Alone Together by Fall Out Boy•
•America’s Suitehearts by Fall Out Boy•
•Wild by Troye Sivan•
•The Quiet by Troye Sivan•
•King for a Day by Pierce the Veil ft Kelvin Quinn•
•True Friends by Bring Me the Horizon•
•She’s Out of Her Mind by Blink-182•
•Drops of Jupiter by Train•
•I’m Ready by AJR•
•I Write Sins Not Tragedies by Panic! At the Disco•

••All of Folie a Deux honestly••

<<I can write 5 pages full of songs that have shaped me but these are the first to come to mind>>

I tag @blaine-r @astrologyartist @gelkets @werewolfmutant @iamamazinglyfangirl @shatteredkaage & anyone else who wants to do this!!

Random hoe tips
  • Avoid caffeine before bed. 
  • Try to go to sleep around the same time every night. 
  • Avoid using electronic devices before bed. 
  • When choosing an outfit, stick to solid colors like black, olive, khaki, white, gray, nude, etc. They’ll go with anything. 
  • Drink!!! Your!!! Water!!! 
  • Using a toner for oily skin helps a lot. 
  • Find a moisturizer that doesn’t make your skin oily throughout the day. 
  • Exfoliate once or twice a week. 
  • Use castor oil or Vaseline to moisturize your eyelashes because they do need to be conditioned, just like your hair. 
  • If you don’t have time to wax, shaving with Neosporin leaves your kitty stubble-free. 
  • Kat Von D lipstick is blowjob proof. 
  • Estee Lauder’s Double-Wear foundation is smear-proof. 
  • Fantasia Smoothing Serum keeps your hair from flattening and tangling during sexy time. 
  • Switch to men’s deodorant and razors. You’ll see why. 
  • Use tea tree oil to moisturize where you usually shave. 
  • Shaving with baby oil also gives a stubble-free, smooth shave. 
  • Pat a bit of foundation on your lips before applying lipstick to make it last longer when making out and giving blowjobs. 
  • Matte finish foundations stick to your skin better and don’t rub off. 
  • Cranberries will make your kitty’s scent a little sweeter. 
  • Use coconut oil and Vaseline on your thighs nightly to eliminate stretch marks. 
  • Put garlic on your nail beds and coconut oil on your cuticles for longer nails. 
  • If you have marks from ingrown hairs on your kitty, rub on aloe vera for the itching and coconut oil to fade the marks. 
  • Threading your eyebrows lasts longer than waxing them. 
  • If you know you’re doing the dirty, don’t wear cotton panties because they can trap lint in the crevices of your thighs. 
  • When brushing your teeth, brush your tongue too to eliminate bad breath. 
  • Use a pumice stone to get dead skin cells off your feet and focus on your heels. 
  • Chloraseptic throat numbing medication helps incredibly with deepthroating. 
  • Lemon juice and baking soda removes cum stains. 
  • Yoni oil makes your kitty extremely soft. 
  • Peeing after sex decreases your risk of UTIs and STDs. 
  • Change the condom if you’re going from anal to vaginal sex so you’re more protected against bacteria. 
  • Applying a homemade body and face scrub made of brown sugar and honey can work wonders. 
  • For dry or peeling lips, use water and a toothbrush to exfoliate them. 
  • Floss daily. 
  • Olive oil repairs nails broken from acrylics. 
  • Add moisturizer to a foundation that’s a little too dark for you to lighten it up. 
  • Even if you’re on birth control, wearing condoms can help prevent against STDs. 
  • Don’t let your number of partners affect you; to each their own. 
  • Don’t use soap in, near, or around your kitty. 
  • Coffee and salty foods will make your kitty taste bitter, so stick to water, tea, or juice. 
  • Don’t constantly use bath bombs or take bubble baths as they can give your kitty an infection. Keep it to a minimum. 
  • Never spray perfume in or on your kitty. This is a no-brainer. 
  • Don’t lie to your doctors about being sexually active. 
Take a moment. Really. Are you being too harsh on yourself? Remember that you must give yourself enough time to grow. You must show yourself patience. Unconditional love. Acceptance. Showing hostility towards yourself will not speed up your growth, but only dampen it. So remember, handle yourself delicately, and give yourself some more credit.
—  Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

herbal remedies for pms symptoms:

  • peppermint helps with nausea (so does ginger), bloating, indigestion, gas
  • ginger and chamomile help with cramps
  • cinnamon helps regulate blood sugar levels
  • flaxseed supports muscular skeletal health
  • white peony helps with an irregular cycle
  • echinacea is a good remedy for tender boobies
  • and evening primrose oil is supposed to help somehow but i havent tried it

xx Marissa