blunt world

♕Your ascendant is a tool for your challenges♘

(Also look at your Black moon Lilith and where your karmic challenges will show.)

Aries AS

+Deal with your challenges directly. Be to the point, and not passive. Be honest, and be fearless. Don’t focus or dwell on the past or things that cannot be changed.

-Don’t be rash, think before you act, don’t be childish with your problems, don’t destroy yourself. 

Taurus AS

+Deal with your problems steadily and artistically.  Be loyal to those who are in the right. The inner self needs to be sturdy and balanced before facing issues. Listen to other’s necessary criticism. Open your mind to opinions.

-Do not be possessive. Let go of things that need let go of. Do not rely on material things to fill your needs. Do not become self-righteous.

Gemini AS
+Deal with your issues intellectually. Remain calm. Utilize information you’ve gained in struggle. Study behind the situation. Keep a schedule. 

-Do not be impatient. Don’t become unnerved. Do not use your wit and trick to escape deserved situations. Don’t bicker or whine. Don’t indulge in drama.

Cancer AS

+Deal with your issues kindly. Nurture those who need it including yourself. Be proud of where you come from. Be an empath. Put yourself in other’s shoes. Ignore unnecessary criticism. Approach your issues with an open heart. 

 -Do not become moody. Don’t overreact. Do not criticize, don’t bully

Leo AS

+Shine light to your issues. Take blatant action to change your issues. Stand up for yourself. Be sure of yourself. Be proud of who you are. Take breaks and give energy only where needed.

-Don’t jump to conclusions. Don’t over-dramatisize. Don’t be power hungry. Don’t over exert yourself.

Virgo AS

+Be reserved, be analytical. Become at ease with things you cannot perfect. Be mature. Use your intellectual abilities to figure out problems with little emotion. Choose your brain over heart.

-Don’t judge off the bat. Be more empathic. Don’t complain or seek absolute perfection. Don’t be picky or bicker.

Libra AS

+Be graceful with your problems and always be polite. Approach your problems with an open mind for both sides. Understand that you deserve challenge as much as anyone. Be sure of your decisions. Keep your friend circle open. Give everyone a chance. Give to gain.

-Don’t choose your self-image over granting or receiving justice. Don’t be vain, Don’t be indecisive and don’t follow the leader in social standards. Be your own person.

Scorpio AS

+Deal with your problems behind the scenes. Tell only who you trust deeply your issues. Keep your privacy. Read between the lines. Look for answers deeper then the answers on the surface. Show your venerability. Embrace breaking to succeed, embrace wisdom from beneath and from darkness. Rebirth yourself.

-Do not become paranoid. Do not act immortal. Do not become jealous. Do not seethe on hatred.

Sagittarius AS

+Laugh in the face of those who scorn you with no reason. Show your emotion. Be blunt. Escape the world you’ve escaped into. Be a philosopher. Teach others and yourself about the good in life. Use your problems and struggles to teach. Be carefree. Don’t dwell on issues that don’t need dwelled on. Let things go. 

-Don’t run from your issues or from your past. Do not chain yourself to ideas that cannot become, or things that you cannot change. Nobody will follow you, if all you do is run.

Capricorn AS

+Accept responsibility. Keep a schedule and be mature. Take matters into your own hands. Don’t hide your emotion. 

-Don’t seek power or control out of anger. Don’t leave things unfinished. Don’t work hard for people who don’t deserve it. Don’t rely on others. Don’t force yourself to fit in.

Aquarius AS

+Be tolerant of things that can be tolerated. Approach things differently. Rebel against basic standards. Rebel against what has harmed you. Embrace yourself in healthy debates and stand up for what you believe in. Accept boundaries to your freedom. Invent new ways to deal with what you’ve gone through. 

-Never forget wrongdoings, but forgive. Don’t let ego control you. Don’t become vain or act immortal. Don’t worry about things that haven’t happened, Focus on the present, not the future.

Pisces AS

+Build confidence inside of yourself. Embrace your gifts. Be fluid and never let anyone define you, even if it means being a new person each day. Love with an open heart. What you imagine can become reality.

-Do not self pity. Don’t let people walk over you. Don’t over medicate.

can we just all agree that this musical shit in pretty little liars is gonna be the bane of everyone’s existence? that motherfucker is gonna give me jokes for fucking days. like marlene king’s tweets are gonna be the lyrics and i’m gonna be screaming in the corner to end me. a shit show so to speak.

pardesichic  asked:

What's your opinion on Cassandra in the series? More specifically, her constantly getting in between Eugene and Rapunzel's relationship?

My opinion of Cassandra. Hoo-boy, I knew I was going to have to address this sooner or later. Guess the time’s now!

As a whole, in general, I like Cassandra. I like the dynamic she brings to the team. I like her friendship with Rapunzel, because I feel that media needs more examples of strong female friendship. I like her blunt honesty. In a world where people want to make Rapunzel feel always warm and fluffy, it’s good to have a friend there who gives it to her straight.

I think Cassandra is problematic, but in that way that characters who have room to learn and grow are. It’s good that she’s not perfect. We’re only five episodes in! (That doesn’t mean I’m not completely furious with her for how she acted in “Challenge of the Brave,” but I’ll get to that in a bit.)

I feel that Cassandra constantly getting between Rapunzel and Eugene is a reflection on Cassandra’s tastes and ability to believe that people change. I have made it very clear that I am not a Cassunzel shipper, so I don’t feel like her getting between them says anything about her feelings for Rapunzel. I do, however, feel that it says something about her feelings about Eugene.

She has outright said that she doesn’t trust him. But she also helped him out during “Fitzherbert P.I.,” so she clearly doesn’t loathe him (not in the way her dad does, at least). She would rather see him succeed fairly then fail through shady means. But I suspect she still thinks of him as a two-bit hood, and that he really has no place in the palace or at Rapunzel’s side. To me, it doesn’t read as, “This girl I have a crush on can do better - like me!” No, it reads as, “The Princess of Corona deserves better than a thief who was headed for the gallows.”

Seeing how badly she wants to fight and prove herself, knowing that she wants to be a guard, I suspect she fancies herself Rapunzel’s protector, and she thinks that the person Rapunzel needs the most protecting from is Eugene. She doesn’t understand the bond between them, or why all her sharp comments and put downs aren’t succeeding in putting a wedge between them.

“Challenge of the Brave” has introduced a new idea though, that she feels the need to prove herself, that her esteem isn’t has high as it comes across. But you know what? The evidence has pointed at that all along.

She rarely talks about herself. When she’s with Rapunzel, her focus is on Rapunzel. When she’s with Eugene, she generally puts him down but doesn’t build herself up. In “Rapunzel’s Enemy,” she wanted to do the perfect job with Gregorio because she desperately wants the accolades that come with being responsible for him.

However, in “Challenge of the Brave,” I felt her behavior was… beyond repugnant. First of all, she lies to Rapunzel, right to her face. As previously mentioned, she doesn’t talk about herself, but she expects Rapunzel to just know how she’s feeling, that “a friend wouldn’t be so oblivious.” No. Not cool. Cassandra made no effort to get Rapunzel to understand ahead of time. What happened to that blunt honesty? And then, she hid Rapunzel’s frying pan, cheating to better her own chances. What happened to wanting things to be fair? She sent Rapunzel weaponless into the ring with some very dangerous people. What happened to wanting to protect her? She’s afraid of people finding out her involvement in Rapunzel’s hair because she doesn’t want to lose her job, but she’s not afraid of losing her job by deliberately putting Rapunzel in harm’s way? And of course Rapunzel has something to prove! She need to show Frederic that she’s not in as much danger as he thinks she is! Perhaps finding out she won the Challenge of the Brave would make him think twice about allowing her beyond the wall! And then, Cassandra didn’t even apologize at the end, even though Rapunzel did and did everything she could to make amends? Sure, she asked for a hug, but that’s not the same as apologizing for treating her best friend like dirt and putting her in very real danger.

“Challenge of the Brave” actually highlighted how Cassandra’s own insecurities get in the way of her morals, and how her ambition can cause her to throw everything she believes out the window.

Kind of like her father, wouldn’t you say?

So, in conclusion, the TL;DR is that I feel that Cassandra is problematic - very problematic - but these are the things that character growth are made of.