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It’s not an easy burden to bear if someone you cared about walks out of your life and you don’t know why.
It’s not easy to forget when friendships and relationships are severed over issues that could have been resolved.
It doesn’t always feel possible to “move on,” when you still feel like there was so much that needed to be said.

Perhaps you’ve find yourself wondering what they would’ve said had they know how you really felt. Maybe you wonder what could’ve been, had that conversation that night played out differently or had certain people never gotten involved. Perhaps you feel guilty for something you said, and you’ve wondered for years if you should send a text or a letter to let them know why you said what you said. Maybe you’re just wishing that after all the pain of what they did, they would be the one to reach out and apologize.

Whatever the variables, a lack of closure can seriously hurt the heart. It can leave you tangled up in emotions that you should have let go of long ago. It can cause you draw conclusions and make assumptions about people you barely know. Because that’s what happens when we’ve been hurt. That’s what happened when we’ve been cut off or shut out.

But you know what? No matter what you didn’t know at the time, no matter who was involved, and no matter how many times you’ve wondered what could’ve been, closure alone will never give you the peace your heart is longing for. Because even if you do finally find out why they did what they did, and even if you were to send that text you’ve always wanted to send, nothing in the world will make the situation perfect, the way it always should’ve been. The only one who is capable of giving you what you were missing all this time is the one who has been there all this time: The Lord. He knows you AND the other person inside and out, and even at that person’s best, they can never give you the peace the Lord gives you! So no matter what the closure ends up looking like, look to the Lord for peace.

“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” - Phil. 4:7

Written by @morganhnichols for #TheDevoCo

anonymous asked:

Thank god this blog exist, i literally read everyday some fics who really inspire when i write, thank you! I also was wondering if you know some good fics as Stiles as an wizard/witch?

Hey! 

Aw. Thank you! So glad you’re finding lots of fics to read :) The only wizard!stiles fics I know are harry potter au’s and you can find those ones here But here are the witch!stiles fics I had saved. Happy reading! 

A Thousand Fiery Suns of Angst - Just Press Play by  apocryphal | 20.9K

All Stiles wants from life is to learn to control his magic, keep his grades up, and not die horribly while saving Beacon Hills from supernatural threats. It’s all going pretty well until Derek Hale, werewolf extraordinaire, has to go and ask him on a date. That asshole.

flint & tinder by  grimm | 43.5K

Casting spells, chasing monsters, wooing your coworkers and fucking them in their offices - it’s all in a day’s work for Stiles Stilinski.

Witching Hour by  Birdpeople (DeusExMachina) | 31.6K

The one where Stiles has been a witch for years, but Scott always thought he was joking, until Scott gets bitten and the supernatural becomes all too real for him.

Soulseeker by  alisvolatpropiis | 9.7K

Sighing, Stiles reaches for Derek’s big hands, cradled in his broad lap, his skin lighting up even more at Derek’s touch. He takes a deep breath and closes his eyes, preparing himself to look for Derek’s soulmate. Whoever you are, he thinks, you better be worth him.

One of Those Couples by  apocryphal | 6.6K

“Oh my God, my magic is seducing you.”

Derek shrugs.

“My magic is seducing you and it’s working,” Stiles says in horror.

Night Owls Early Birds by  Lissadiane | 24.3K

In which Stiles learns he’s a witch, but instead of a wand and a trip to Diagon Alley, he gets blood magic, a grumpy and reluctant owl as his companion, and an accidental blood bond with Derek Hale.

That Which You Cannot Undo by  uraneia | 28.1K

By twenty-eight, Stiles has resigned himself to a quiet life of working in his magic shop, selling Jackson Whittemore fart-inducing tea, and looking after his goddaughter. It’s a good life. But the quiet goes to hell when his sister, Lydia, shows up with a crispy werewolf in her trunk and a bite mark on her shoulder, because hard on her heels comes the hottest person Stiles has ever seen, and he happens to be looking for his uncle.

You know, the dead guy Stiles helped Lydia bury last night.

anonymous asked:

I really really love this blog because some of your post kinda inspires me/ describes me a little bit, but do you have to speak Japanese to be kawaii because, Since kawaii is cute in Japanese. Some of my friends said that "in order to be kawaii then u have to speak like Japanese."• I'm totally DONT UNDERSTAND also can u make a photo of kawaii tea xD love your blog :D please reply to this ask of yours. And I hope that your have a nice and beautiful day. I love my family and I love your blog.

†God loves you for who you are inside and out.You don’t have to speak Japanese in order to be kawaii. Kawaii is for everyone!! Im so glad that you love this blog and i hope that you stay kawaii and BE kawaii. have a nice day!! †God loves you for who you are inside and out† Dont change because something is more worth cute then whats inside of you!! More updates are coming soon. #enjoy  new update 

Harry, Niall and Liam all wanted to be there to support Louis tonight for what was undoubtedly one of the most difficult moments of his life.

“It was an incredible and special thing for them to get back together as a four and be like brothers again.

Niall flew in overnight from New York so he could be there and Liam came from Los Angeles. It was that important they were together.

They were all in Louis’s dressing room together and it was obviously an incredible emotional night.”