blissfulmisfortune

So my friend is mad at me because I don’t want everyone knowing my love life business on Facebook. That and she’s pissed I’m not bragging about it. 

Are you serious? 

Just because it’s not “Facebook Official” doesn’t mean it’s not legit or less of a real life experience. I’m not embarrassed or ashamed. I like my privacy and I don’t think everyone needs to know because everyone isn’t going to care anyways.

Happiness ≠ Bragging.

Having a boyfriend doesn’t change who I am and I don’t think I should have to literally rub it in people’s faces to feel significant. There always has to be a balance between my friends and whoever I fancy. Both are significant but I can’t just jeopardize my friendships for it. 

anonymous asked:

5,19,57,59,63,70,75,85 c:

5. Are you in love? 

Am I in love with a specific person at this moment? No (though I do like someone quite a bit) . Am I in love with the idea of being in love with someone someday, yes. *Forever a hopeless romantic* 

19. There is no 19 what?

Someone who made this post obviously can’t count. Just saying. (Not talking about you anon) Lol

57. Things you want to say to an ex 

I wish you nothing but happiness and success. 

63. What is your definition of “having sex”? 

Having sex to me is about being in the moment and lusting for a quick thrill that is only temporary. I think it is more selfish and about personal benefits and pleasure. The emotional connection is hardly there or only lasts in the experience of sex itself. I don’t know if it’s because I grew up listening to RnB that I think this is different and can’t compare to making love. Making love is about two people coming together as one and showing how much they care and appreciate each other physically and emotionally, letting intimacy take over because they only want each other and no one else. 

70. What turns you on? 

Intelligence, great conversation, someone who has ambition to reach for their dreams, tallness,toned bodies, muscles, confidence (not arrogance), open mindedness, and someone who inspires me to be the best that I can be. I could list more but I rather not. xDD

75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you? 

Someone wrote me a letter about what they appreciate about me.

85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet?

Been there and done that back when I was younger. Lol Certainly not a bad thing if people are pre-cautious with their actions but definitely not for everyone. :P