to all my trans mlm. do not let anyone make you think you deserve to be misgendered because of the way you present. No one has a right to write off misgendering you because of nail polish, dresses, heels, makeup, high voices, thick thighs, big hips, visible breasts (I don’t care if they’re F cups), or anything else “assumed feminine”.

You do not deserve the violence of being misgended. You did nothing to deserve it. You have done nothing wrong by presenting in a way that makes you feel fucking incredible.

Be unapologetic, because they are wrong. Not you.