blame the clothes

  • Tim: *calling Toby* Hello?
  • Toby: Hey, what's up?
  • Tim: I need your help, can you come here?
  • Toby: Uh, I can't, I'm buying clothes.
  • Tim: Alright, well hurry up and come over here.
  • Toby: ...I can't find them.
  • Tim: What do you mean you can't find them?
  • Toby: I can't find them, there's only soup.
  • Tim: What do you mean there's only soup?
  • Toby: It means there's only soup.
  • Tim: Well then get out of the soup isle!
  • Toby: Alright, you don't have to shout at me!!
  • Toby: *walks to the next isle* There's more soup!
  • Tim: What do you mean there's more soup?!
  • Toby: There's just more soup!
  • Tim: Go into the next isle!
  • Toby: *in the next isle* There's STILL SOUP!
  • Toby: I'M AT SOUP!
  • Toby: I MEAN I'M AT SOUP!!
  • Toby: FUCK YOU!!

Well, I just killed off Daisuga in this AU…

Atlantis - Haikyuu AU SCENE 1

Unfinished scribbling of dark link

i give myself a lot of shit for not fitting into certain jeans but i shouldnt be blaming myself i should be blaming the clothing designers who dont adjust clothing for people with wide hips/thick thighs/curves in general

KS chap 19

The scariest part of this chapter was actually “some"of fandom thinking that it was "funny”. Bum had a real bad mental breakdown. Moreover i noticed those hypocrite gals too who thought of the school girl from past as a bitch from not complying with yoon bum’s unhealthy persuasion. She stripped infront of him only to show him that she was a rape victim..she wanted to talk about it to someone and she suspected yoon bum to be in same situation as him which is why she slowly approached him to relate i know she got “selfish” and all by the end but what do ya expect?. So once she got out of that situation she didn’t want to remember it anymore and she parted with bum because he was another symbol of that past she wanted to forget and startover. He was the one who decided to date her on his own. Moreover “Some” fans i read practically blamed her clothing for her rape? That’s the bullshit called victim blaming. Admit it bum was disturbingly rude, i know he has issues ofc but why do you guys forget that the girl had issues too?! Like why can’t we all be not hypocrites and understand that everyone in this story is one way or another “exchanging roles between victim and offender” So pls can we stop hating charas over their genders for starters? I mean “most” of ya’ll hating them girls because they’re girls and you only want the ‘gay’. Can’t we just appreciate the psychological complexity koogi puts in her charas that you can blame neither for their circumstances? Instead of playing “favorites” based on the character’s genders or handsomeness? Most of this fandom’s (i keep using most because if you’re not one of them^ you don’t have a reason to be pissed" hypocrisy is destroying such a good manga for me tbh. Anyhow s2 would be an interesting start considering bum is officially a killer too now. Thankyou koogi for such a good thriller with amazing character development and thought put into it(for those who actually understood it) ;-; P.S: reminder: killing stalking is NOT a romance.

Originally posted by e3-14ur

Why Female Led Relationships?  Lesson 1

In todays world, we see massive relationship problems all over the place.  Divorce rates are high, single rates are even higher and only few relationships are seen as truly happy.  Well, there is a secret out there, that can change the face of many relationships currently existing, and new ones to start and flourish where the passion never dies.

That secret is mens desire.  It’s not a well kept secret that men are led by their desires, and usually slaves to them in all the wrong ways.  This is why we see rapes and the victims being blamed for the the clothes she was wearing rather than the male admitting and accepting responsibility for their own desire being the true culprit.

Men are not taught in sex education classes how to handle their own desire, no, they’re taught to put a condom on a banana to keep healthy and prevent babies.  What they are not taught, is that they can channel that desire for other activities, for creative endeavors, or for enhancing the passion and intimacy within a relationship.  Men have the ability to use their desire for the betterment of all, rather than on selfish needs.

Women in general are more in touch with their bodies, and are not led by desire in the same way that men are, they don’t require sex in order to be intimate with someone, sex has its thrills yes, but it is not the end goal, the end goal is about intimacy and love and nurture, with sex being a part of that.  In many relationships today, sex lives are routine and boring, lacking passion and intimacy, and so the relationship stagnates as a result, which also usually comes with a lack of proper communication.

This is where female led relationships come into play.  A female led relationship, is a simple concept.  It does not mean it has to involve kink or even D/s to any extreme.  It can yes, there are different levels of female led relationships, which I will cover as this blog grows.  However, right now I want to focus on just the idea of a female led relationship, without making it appears strange or weird in any way, so that everyone can understand what it is.

A female led relationship is one where, the woman helps a man understand his desire, to help him be more intimate, passionate, trustworthy, faithful, and above all, loving.  Any male serious about being in a long term relationship, would be wise to listen to what she has to say, and practice what she asks, before judging it.  A female led relationship is about communication, open, honest and genuine communication, and the willingness of both partners to be the best they can be.  That is why female led relationships should become the new normal.

In the next post, I will be talking more about what to expect within a female led relationship, and the wisdom that women have to teach men about desire.


he was being a dork and then ;;;;;;