C: Sometimes I feel like I’ll never get a black boyfriend. Like, I feel like my first boyfriend won’t be black at all. I’ve had black men tell me that I have to b slutty, less shy and party more for guys to notice me. Black men will date any non-black girl and won’t have high expectations. All I wanted was a nerdy black guy to compliment my nerdy black girl self but it probably won’t ever happen 😔. What’s worse is that I go to an HBCU and am not good enough for black men. Why do black men hate introverted and shy girls?