bjd-confession

anonymous asked:

hon, you're a 1st class ASSHOLE and your friend should broke up with YOU and not with her acquaintance. I do hope you get to a point in life where you have no friends at all, and have to think about WHY you have no friends. Maybe you'll learn something from the experience and become a better person.

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With all the hate DOA is getting I wanted to add a little positivity. DOA has always been my favorite place to visit online. It is my escape. I can feel comfortable browsing the forums and looking at pictures. Whenever drama arises, its nipped at the bud before it escalates. Its the safest place to purchase and sell, Im speaking as a person that has 20 years of experience in online shopping. Contrary to what these confessions say, the moderators do a great job at maintaining the peace and keeping out the scammers. They make everything so easy for everyone, they help keep it nice all the time.

Some of you are saying that its artificial, but what is wrong with that? Not everyone in the hobby wants to be a professional artist, not everyone in the community wants to reach YOUR standard of “quality”. I want the safety net and coddling of the DOA community. Ive got nothing going on for me in my life and if I want to have that peace of relaxation, god damn it let me! I dont appreciate getting criticism when I didnt ask for it, I dont appreciate people digging up my past because I said something they dont agree with. I dont like the smear campaign that happens mostly out of jealousy or because someone sees a reflection of something they dont like about themselves in me. DOA helps me avoid that, yet still allows me to be in touch with the community, without the drama and bitterness that is rampant in the other communities.

Im starting to believe that these anti-DOA confessions are coming in from people that have off topic dolls, or have been banned or warned. DOA does not ban lightly, every story of a person saying they have been banned because of some tiny offence has always been proven to be exaggerating and minimising their faults. A person was blatantly posting their orange recast doll on the forums, using black and white pictures to trick the community and she said that she was banned for something on her profile! DOA never lists the reason why you were banned either, so that “creating drama” confession is bullshit.

I will always stand with DOA and always recommend it as a place for newbies and hobbyists alike. Its full of knowledge, its drama free and fair. It maybe awkward at first, but if you put in a little effort, just like in real life social settings, you will make friends. Judging the whole place solely on some fabricated stories and because a person didnt reply to your gallery isn’t fair. You build up your reputation and your presence online, its not instant, no matter how much you try. Reach out and keep putting yourselves out there. DOA even still has the brigadoon Off Topic chat, which has been going on longer than anticipated - its a great way to meet others with similar interests!

~Anonymous

anonymous asked:

If a part of you "honestly hopes that if a well loved company closes its doors because of recasts, it spreads like fire across the community" just to wonder what excuses we fakebabies would have then, then, let me tell you, you're either a noob or a dick. You're wishing a "well loved company" closes just to make a point? what are you?, six?, and on top of that, companies close because of bad business management. Every market have reproductions and you don't see every store closing because of it.

Maybe it’s just me, but I guess that the flood of recast made people want all dolls cheaper second hand. While at times I see how overpriced some people’s junk is, in general, it gets really annoying when you live in a country filled with cheap MNFs by S/L, you have people PM you asking about the price and you say something super reasonable (like 20% off the company price for a nearly new thing) and they all go… silent or how they could get a whole doll for it from S/L… Freaking cheapasses!

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anonymous asked:

The thing with “It’s not made anymore so I’ll buy a recast” is that, the artists it's essentially saying they will choose what happens to their creation (and who is special or rich enough to get it), regardless of your wish to buy from them directly. And this is why they push you to buy a recast. So their WANTS for a doll stock is more important to them than your RIGHT to choose what you want to buy. Dick move, man.

As a very new newbie, confession-blogs like these do scare me a bit because apparently some people in this hobby can be very negative about very trivial things. But on the other hand, these confession-blogs have also made me aware of some problems and what to look out for, to make my own experience more enjoyable and safe.

~Anonymous

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My mom came to visit last Fri to Sun. It was first time she ever saw my dolls and the first time she even knew about them. Every time she walked into the room she’d cluck her tongue or say ‘tsk’ a lot at them. 2 SDs and 1 MSD, all on my bed. I was a little sad but I kept quiet. On Sunday after she’d left I found their shoes removed and neatly placed on the floor & they were all wearing handmade fluffy slippers. My mom left a note saying “it’s bad manners to wear shoes on the bed”. I love me mom.

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