I never would have thought tinder was a good place to meet POTs, but with SA feeling so salty and disappointing lately, I thought it was worth a shot. I matched with a 46 year old man who owns a medical device company. His bio was well-written and included “kink-friendly.” To me, it read as someone who would be at least open-minded about a nontraditional relationship.
We’ve been chatting for a couple of days and I’m SO proud of myself for how skillfully I’m working him. Without explicitly using the words “sugar baby” or “sugar daddy,” I have gotten him on board with what is ostensibly a sugar arrangement. Of course, it’s mostly talk at this point so I remain cautious and skeptical, but in the past 24 hours we’ve made real progress:
He asked me if I’ve ever used the cash app. I said I could download it, but Venmo is easier for me. He downloaded Venmo.
He asked “Do you like coffee?” I said “Yes! I’m addicted.” He said “Let me treat you to coffee tomorrow,” and Venmo’d me $20.
I decided to take a sly approach, rather than say straight up “I want a sugar daddy.” A risk, because it could be a total waste of time. But when I matched with this guy, I just had a feeling I could play my cards right.
As we’ve been chatting, I’ve been getting inside his head to understand what he likes (he’s kinky and dominant, he likes playing a supportive and nurturing role, he loves to feel in control). Meanwhile, I’ve essentially positioned my own submissiveness as inherently tied to my “fetish” for being spoiled and spent on. This makes the exchange of money seem less like a transaction, and more like a deeply arousing element of a genuine sexual and intellectual connection. (Of course, it’s still a transaction. But in his mind, the more he spends on me, the more it turns me on. It’s foreplay.)
Here I should note that I am genuinely a sub in bed, and enjoy sex the most with someone who is dominant, confident. I would not recommend this approach to someone who isn’t comfortable with that dynamic.
Anyway – I feel like a genius for this strategy. I’ve positioned my sexual arousal as inherently tied to the amount that is spent on me and how spoiled I feel. No man wants to feel like he’s being used for money, but every man wants to feel like he has to power to get his girl uncontrollably turned on.
if theres one thing i dont understand about rping these days, its rps advertising themselves for months?? like i get the need to build hype and i know releasing bios takes time but im talking about rps releasing teasers but taking over a month to do that, then trying to get a certain amount of followers on the teaser blog / certain amount of notes on one of the teasers before they release the main, and not even having all of their bios written already on top of it so they have to take a couple of months or so to finish all of those. it seems v counterproductive to me bc the longer you take to do all of those things, the more people begin to lose interest in it bc youre literally taking months to release everything
OR, in the seven hacks the game thing, like texting him at school and stuff and just being REALLY happy to really talk to him now and calling him in between classes and stuff ★ (can I be star anon?? lol)
“–What? No, my next class isn’t for another half hour. Bioengineering. Sounds fancy but it’s not.”
The smile on your face was blinding. Saeyoung wished he could see it.
“You’re not done with your prerequisites? Tsk, tsk, I had mine done in the first semester.”
You laughed and it sent sparks up his spine.
“Well, I’m not a genius like you!”
“–Hey, who’re you talking to?”
You look up and spot your friends, waving hello to them. Who were you talking to? A game character come to life? No, you sound crazy. A friend? Well…he’s more than a friend.
If love could be felt through a phone, you would have been punched in the face.
Would you mind explain what everyone does I sort of got lost along the way
As far as jobs? Yeah, no prob. This will be very long, but informational, I swear.
Alex kind of drifts between lawyering and activism (aka yelling at congress), currently he’s a consultant for Washington. Contributes to many news outlets. He’s relatively chill on twitter but on tumblr and facebook it is ON.
all for BLM, LGBT+ rights, raising the minimum wage, closing the wage gap, better education, pro-immigration (*snape voice* obviously), the list goes on. Except for Wall Street. Sorry everyone, but he’s cool with them.
Angelica has her news empire that she runs, and John Church is her co-founder and colleague (they’re also exes but on good terms). Fairly large in BLM, but what she’s best known for is going after cops acquited after killing innocent black people and bringing to light the disproportionate amount of black trans women in prison. She’s ruthless and brilliant and she drives bigots up a wall. And they run up quick because she’s right behind ‘em!
On a similar note, she has a program she created called Bring Back Words, which encourages high school students to find a way to learn the value of the written word. They’re exposed to multiple different kinds of writing and asked to do whatever the hell they want, so long as it makes sense and they enjoy it. Sounds weird on paper, but great in application
Laurens has his own Daily/Tonight/Late show type thing in which everyone is in period clothing because why not. Peggy, Seabury, Lee, America (occasionally) and George III are his analysts/minions/costars. he gives them their own segments and collaborates on bits with them quite often, but he takes pride in being the head honcho. Huge advocate for LGBT+ rights and the Black Lives Matter movement. His love for Alexander is “totally and utterly unconditional, with the odd exception of any dates between January 1st and December 31st. On those days I tolerate him becasuse he’s just so damn cute.”
her name is Xenobia I was going to post these later when I had everyone’s bios written up but tumblr has broken me. this is the character id like @squidbles to draw for the art trade. the tongues can are really variable and can be whatever color palette you want.
her skin is dark and her dress is blue(ish). those are the only real color rules.