do you have to care about m/f relationships??? absolutely Not
do you have to care about the bi women in them and their potential to be victims of abuse? do you have to respect their personhood and the wholeness of their identity outside of their relationships??? Absolutely
To all the bisexuals, pansexuals, and asexuals currently struggling with your identity because not only do heterosexuals constantly belittle your existence, but the group that is supposed to accept you does too.
Okay but real talk if I ever get a significant other and end up living with them I’m gonna buy like 3 sets of alphabet mangets and stick them on the fridge and write my significant other hella notes..or something like “buy milk you asshole”
So like this is a lesbian blog and I’m a lesbian but I want to give a shout out to all the bi/pan/ply/mga sapphic girls who are in relationships with guys and/or who have never been with other women
Y'all are valid and you’re sapphic and you’re an important part of the community and I’m proud of you and I love you 💖💖💖💖
Who remembers that time someone told me that calling out lesbians on biphobia is the same as calling someone a heterophobe?
There’s a trend, I’ve noticed, of some lesbians dismissing bi girls under the guise of “that’s straight”. Obviously, lesbians don’t have to care about our boyfriends, but they should care about the abuse we may experience (from our boyfriends or our girlfriends / datefriends) and our struggles related to biphobia.
Makes me feel like some lesbians don’t want any contact with men even by proxy AKA bi women are tainted by men somehow.