bi notes

do you have to care about m/f relationships??? absolutely Not

do you have to care about the bi women in them and their potential to be victims of abuse? do you have to respect their personhood and the wholeness of their identity outside of their relationships??? Absolutely

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Connor Murphy + Evan Hansen

I look around
And I see him come to get me
He’s come to get me
And everything’s okay

So like this is a lesbian blog and I’m a lesbian but I want to give a shout out to all the bi/pan/ply/mga sapphic girls who are in relationships with guys and/or who have never been with other women
Y'all are valid and you’re sapphic and you’re an important part of the community and I’m proud of you and I love you 💖💖💖💖

Who remembers that time someone told me that calling out lesbians on biphobia is the same as calling someone a heterophobe?

There’s a trend, I’ve noticed, of some lesbians dismissing bi girls under the guise of “that’s straight”. Obviously, lesbians don’t have to care about our boyfriends, but they should care about the abuse we may experience (from our boyfriends or our girlfriends / datefriends) and our struggles related to biphobia.

Makes me feel like some lesbians don’t want any contact with men even by proxy AKA bi women are tainted by men somehow.

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I decided to put on makeup today and then I felt pretty so I decided to have a lil photoshoot in my backyard