You know what’s the most attractive thing on a person? Well, it’s not even about on. It’s about in. It’s confidence. The kind that radiates from your soul because you know what you want in life, and you’re here to live your passion and make it happen. It’s about being YOU. Being you to the max. I urge you to fall in love with yourself, appreciate every aspect of your mind, and every inch of your body. With full self acceptance and appreciation, amazing things can and will happen. Now go be you. BeYOUtiful. Tag someone who you think is #beYOUtiful!

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anonymous asked:

I'd just like to say that your stories have given me lots of confidence, especially around guys. I just recently gotten over being dumped by my ex boyfriend and everyone at my school irritates me. these fanfictions make me so happy and help a lot. Thank you.

That’s awesome!! It makes me so happy to hear that. Confidence takes time to build, but it’s so worth it. It doesn’t matter what anyone thinks of you. YOU define who you are. No one else can fight for you like you can. And I understand not liking people in your school, trust me. I went from trying to be everyone’s friend to having only 2 (true) friends, and to be honest I couldn’t be happier. Create yourself, love yourself, follow the standards that you believe in, and live the life you want. Learning to care less about what other people think of you has been my lesson this year too <3 And I’m sorry to hear about your ex, but sounds like you’re already moving to better things. If you ever need to chat, hit me up. 

p.s. confidence around guys is the best because personally I think hanging around (nice) guys is 100% better than most of the girls I know. But I’m tomboy as hell soooo

I never thought my fanfiction could affect people positively. This inbox is so encouraging.  And don’t ever forget… 

YOU OWN THAT SHIT.