betterpeople

I’ve learned something recently...

I will NOT continue being friends with someone who talks badly about me. I go to the end of the Earth for my friends and do so much for all of them. But here recently, I have found out quite a lot about people, I thought were my friends. They only want you when they need/want something, they enjoy knowing everything about your life whether they truly care or not because they love to tell others just to start drama and they will be your best friend to your face and your worst enemy behind your back. I will not allow little bitches to talk badly about me to each other and then pretend to be my friend. If I catch someone talking badly about me and being fake about our friendship, I will cut you off in two seconds. I have been through too much in my life to be surrounded by people who are only out to make me feel badly about myself or my life. I am doing so well in life and will only stop moving up from here. So if I have to cut people off that are weighing me down, I will do so. This is my life, no one else’s. I’m happier than I’ve ever been before. Do me a favor and walk out of the fucking door if you are one of these people. I don’t have enough negative energy in my body to hate you or talk badly about you the way you do me, but I will act as though you don’t exist. Try me.

10 reminders for the questioning
  1. labels for your gender/orientation exist to be useful to you
  2. your label describes your experience; it does not define it
  3. it’s okay not to label yourself or to label yourself only vaguely
  4. it’s okay to find/make up the most precise possible label for yourself
  5. it’s totally okay to guess just because you want a label now, even if that label needs adjusting later
  6. no one but you can determine your gender/orientation
  7. so if they try, give them the finger
  8. it’s okay to try on different labels as you find ones that fit better
  9. people who care will respect any label changes you find necessary
  10. the only time you shouldn’t use a label that you think fits you is if it’s rooted in experience you can’t have, like culture-specific labels or neurotype-specific labels that don’t apply to you
AGGRESSIVE REMINDER

GUESS WHAT WE’RE DOING TODAY MOTHERFUCKERS

WE’RE BEING NICE TO PEOPLE

WHY?

CAUSE BELIEVE IT OR NOT, NOT EVERYONE IN THIS WORLD IS A FUCKING GARBAGE PIECE OF SHIT!

PEOPLE DESERVE KINDNESS

YOU ALL DESERVE KINDNESS

AND GODDAMMIT WE GONNA SPREAD THAT FUCKIN KINDNESS ALL OVER EVERYONE’S FACE

WHEN YOU’RE NICE TO PEOPLE IT FUCKING SPREADS

THEY FEEL BETTER

YOU FEEL BETTER

PEOPLE AROUND YOU FEEL BETTER

THERE’S NO REASON TO NOT BE NICE TO THE SONS OF BITCHES AROUND YOU

IT DOESN’T FUCKING MATTER IF YOU’RE NICE TO ONE PERSON OR NICE TO A THOUSAND

EVERYONE APPRECIATES IT

AND EVERY LITTLE BIT OF KINDNESS

MAKES THIS SHITTY WORLD A LITTLE LESS SHITTY

SO START BEING NICE AND REMEMBER

DON’T BE A DICK!

Reasons to love Jackson Wang
  • befriended a donkey like could your fave even
  • got rly sad when he couldn’t buy said donkey
  • MADE A RAP ABOUT THE DONKEY HE’S THE ACTUAL WORST
  • loves animals SO MUCH
  • name should be Bluffy the Vampire Slayer tbh
  • shows off so much but is never serious about it
  • is hardly ever shy so when he gets shy IT’S ADORABLE????
  • wants to be best friends with everyone i mean everyone
  • his feelings get easily hurt bless
  • thinks he’s close w/ everyone and gets hurt when they say otherwise ACTUAL PUPPY
  • big gay chicken
  • talks about how hairy he is all the time jackson pls
  • sweaty so much sweat i feel u bro
  • if something even looks spicy he’ll start to sweat i feel u bro
  • thinks he’s hilarious and to be fair 9 out of 10 times he is like someone is literally always laughing around him
  • the rest of the time he’s just embarrassing
  • v affectionate and v aggressive with his affections
  • gets attached to ppl so easily like his capacity for love is BOUNDLESS
  • knows 5 different languages and probably more wtf even is he
  • says he’s into hip hop and stuff but he is way too nerdy to actually pull it off
  • thighs thicker than the bible
  • shameless
  • has 0 shame
  • if shame were clothes he’d rip them off and strike a pose

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You know what I’ve been thinking about recently? The song here comes a thought and how it connects with what’s been going on in Steven’s life. Specifically one line:

“Something I did that failed to be charming.”

This is super interesting to me because here’s the thing, Steven is charming. Everyone in town loves him,

The gems love him,

Even his enemies grow to love him

Steven is a kind and charismatic person and that’s how he gets through life. Making friends, solving conflicts between people and gems, and being all around a great dude.

But then there are those few people he just can’t seem to charm and that’s the thing, because when he can’t charm someone, can’t seem to win them over  and make the situation better

People get hurt.

I think that’s why that part stuck out to me, Steven obviously blames himself for what happened to jasper, bismuth, and eyeball. And I feel like Steven just learned something terrible; sometimes you can’t befriend everyone. Sometimes you can’t make them see things your way with just a smile and a can do attitude. Sometimes you do things that fail to be charming.

certain things i, someone from the west coast, hate about the east coast

  • it takes 8 hours to get from upstate new york to new york city. do you udnerstand how fucked up this is???new york is about ¼th the size of the entirety of california and yet i can get from san diego to yosemite, which is the driving equivalent of 2 new yorks, in the same amount of time. 
  • the people ive met here are scared of 6 lane freeways and yet theyre not scared of driving in the middle of blizzards
  • the snot in my nose freezes when i walk outside and it’s -10 degrees
  • this whole bean boots vs anti bean boots thing??? theres some kind of feud between people who think bean boots are the epitome of the northeast and people who think theyre tacky and mainstream
  • the fact that people in the northeast go to the fucking bean boot factory and take a picture with the big bean boot and call it a daycation
  • dunkin donuts serves iced hot chocolate. why do they have iced everything here. if its iced hot chocolate then its not even HOT anymore
  • i hate every boy that wears salmon pants (and theyll SPECIFY that theyre salmon. they wont let you say pink. it’s fucking SALMON), a pastel polo, and sperrys. i hate them all. they always look the same in pictures, too - the backwards hat, the sunglasses, hands in their pockets. they somehow take the frat bro style from zero to megadouche 
  • ski culture is so crazy. people will be like hey lets go cross-country ski on the golf course!!! and its like? negative twenty out? 
  • surf culture in general is much better
  • people care so much about what kind of jacket you have. is it ll bean? canada goose? northface? they will hold entire discussions about different types of winter gear and i dont fucking care
  • poutine is disgusting. like. this list is now extending to canadians because they are the assholes who thought combining fries, gravy, and massive globs of cheese was some kind of good idea. i feel like a type 2 every time i see someone eating poutine
  • there’s no in-n-out and no souplantation
  • guys will pay hundreds of dollars for a whale embroidered on their shirts
Typical annoying people #1

people: omg I love november rain, estranged, don’t cry, those are best slow gnr songs

me: but civil war, so fine, patience are even better

people: w8 wat is that, nevermind, november rain, estranged, don’t cry are better