better life list

To-Do list for your lack of motivation

1. Get up and go for a walk (even around your bedroom);
2. Stretch!
3. Look at studyblr blogs on Tumblr;
4. Drink some water. With ice and lemon 🍋, and peppermint (it helps with concentration!);
5. And, if you’re still feeling tired, have a nice cup of coffee or tea ☕
6. Eat something healthy and delicious (like fresh fruit with some nuts); don’t fill yourself with food though, because too much sugar will make you feel even worse. A small piece of dark chocolate is great.
7. Wash your face…
8. …and comb your hair thoroughly! Seriously, this helps me so much.
9. Also, wear comfy clothes when you’re studying, BUT try not to study in your pajamas. That always makes me feel lazy and unproductive.
10. Allow yourself to rest if you really feel tired. Sometimes, you just need it and that is just okay: don’t push yourself too hard. You will work 10x better after some rest 💪

Let’s do it~✓💪💪

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The most beautiful piece of art to ever exist

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH~~~
ALL THE SCREAMING IN THE WORLD COULD NOT MEASURE THE ABSOLUTE GLEE AND HAPPINESS I HAVE FOR THIS!!!!!!

What a great way to start the new semester than with a glorious masterpiece by the one and only @cinensis
Seriously, everyone please go support this man, he’s the sweetest and most wonderful man in the world, and such incredible talent!!! His comic Zenith is gorgeous and has a solar system theme!! And he’s Canadian!!! Merci mon voisin de la prochain province~!!! Tu es le mellieur!!!!

It is an honour and a pleasure to own something created by yourself, and I will find the perfect frame to treasure it FOREVER!!!!

Thank you so much Joshua, you’re absolutely Wonderful!
À la prochain~!!!

  • Me: *Has everything together, and does all the things I need to do without forgetting anything*
  • Also Me: *Leaves book in the fridge while getting snack and spends 45 minutes looking for it*

reasons to watch yuri on ice:

  • so many of the characters are actual cinnamon roles
  • dogs
  • really amazingly animated ice skating performances choreographed by real olympian choreographers
  • praised by professional skaters for its accuracy
  • explains the point system in an easy understandable way 
  • even minor characters in the competition are given their own motivation
  • it’s really enjoyable to watch, you are excited in the competitions and every normal person will also root for the characters’ relationship 
  • there is a HILARIOUS/TRAGIC? backstory that you get in ep 10 that explains A LOT. if you every wonder in episode 1: why is he here? that will answer you question.
  • nice bit of LGB(T)Q+ representation, less focus on gender-binary 
  • range of cool and beautiful songs / choreographies
  • doesn’t fall into the anime-hair-colour trope 
  • has some over-the-top anime elements but they are fine if you don’t take them so serious (good for people who aren’t usually into anime)
  • easy to watch: only 12 episode (~ 20 min each) 
  • really modern, doesn’t struggle to add modern technology (you know how some shows are really awkward with that? they arent. pretty accurate zeitgeist here, instagram etc. in a non-cringy way)
  • is pretty good in treating other cultures and languages right and including them in the show (as far as i can tell)
  • has grey characters / doesn’t have 100% evil antagonists but still challenging characters that are important
  • protagonist is pretty real and relatable
  • written by a woman
  • praised by critics across the board
  • the gay relationship is so good that even the straights ™ say “I don’t even care that it’s gay, it’s actually just the best”
  • replaces your bitterness and emptiness w/ joy and bliss and excitement like literally will give you new life

So, tomorrow I’m off to a place with no wi-fi for a week. Also, I won’t be bringing my pc with me, which means I won’t be able to edit what I’ve written, as I only write the first draft of anything on mobile.

I’ve got a couple of ~3k Dicksa fics and a big chunk of chapter 1 and 2 of the Gendrya long fic done. But, yeah, they need editing first, so I’ll post everything once I’m back.

Also! I don’t think I’ve ever made a post about this, but my inbox is always open. If anyone wants to chat (about anything really) send me an ask or a message.

murder-salmon-deactivated201506  asked:

Do you have any tips for a first time caregiver? Like how they're supposed to act with their little, and other things. (not the sexual stuffs though)

Every CG/l relationship is different, just like every little is different there is no cookie cutter mold for Caregivers. They do all have some things in common. That being that they have a desire to be a caregiver.

A caregiver is often (not always, but often) a Dominant in the relationship, they will set the rules and give the “bottom” tasks to complete.

Here are some tips for being a caregiver.

  • be understanding, when you give your little tasks to complete and they don’t finish them, if there is a logical/reasonable explanation for it then understand it.
  • Punishments are not always a must. Judge out the situation. Was the behavior done on purpose? Was it an accident? Is it truly a behavior you want to punish your little for?
  • Help your little grow. The biggest aspect of a CG/l relationship is helping the other person grow. Help them love themselves, help them make decisions that will better their life.
  • Making lists of things for them to do is great, but make sure you also set up a reward system as well. Maybe taking them shopping, or buying them a new stuffie.
  • Be that listening ear. Sometimes littles just want someone to talk to and vent about a bad day. That’s huge when you sit down and just let them talk.
  • Make sure your little is staying healthy. The level of this can be determined between the 2 of you and can vary from making sure they shower daily, drink enough water, helping them set up an exercise routine, or completely having a rigorous diet menu for them. Every Caregiver is different in what they want for their little.
  • Communicate. Communicate your desires for your little clearly. If you don’t want them acting a certain way, dressing a certain way, or anything Communicate that to them.
  • Be clear about your feelings. Littles are not mind readers. Express yourself to them and they will express themselves back.
  • Help them feel safe, be that protector. Littles sometimes just want a shelter from the storm and that’s something a caregiver can provide. 
  • Be Patient with your little, you are both figuring everything out. So be patient and understanding.

We hope this answers your question, thank you for your patience. We apologize that it took so long! 

xoxo
Lolo & Caregiver friends & The Playground

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Plant Life and Tidal Wave album art

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Have you heard of this book called throam?

28 ideas to be healthy
  • drink water with squezzed lemon / or simply drink honey lemon after you wake up
  • sweat it out either inthe gym or working out outside
  • do HIIT for 10-20 minutes : DANCE!
  • have green smoothie for breakfast
  • skip you milo and have green tea instead (you can drink it once a two weeks)
  • rope jump
  • meditate for at least 5 minutes
  • hug someone
  • unplug all devices for at least one hour
  • spend time in nature. go for a walk in a park
  • drink at least 2-3 litres of water
  • avoid high sugar
  • connect with earth by walking barefoot on grass, sand, or dirt
  • eat green salad
  • eat lunch outside in fresh air and natural light
  • practice yoga at least 10 minutes
  • watch your poster especially when you sit
  • get a message
  • think of five things to be grateful about your life
  • smile to strangers
  • make someone laugh
  • read a book that inspires you
  • dedicate at least 30 minutes to learning a skill
  • clean up your working space
  • listen to classical music
  • dance to your fave songs
  • have a power nap, no longer than 30 minutes
  • wake up early

Arthur stands in an exquisitely tailored suit on the front walk of a tiny, seen-better-days bungalow, and it’s too cold and he should have a coat on or at least a scarf of some sort but the producers pay a lot of money for his suits and there’s an entire Tumblr devoted to them that Arthur definitely does not stalk in order to validate his opinions on yes, that houndstooth one was actually hideous and so anyway Arthur is outside in the cold in a beautiful suit and he says his line (“I will absolutely find you the perfect home to make you list this place”) and Eames says his line (“Arthur’s the best at what he does but he’s also a stick-in-the-mud with no imagination and I will make this place your dream home!”) and that’s it: just another day in Arthur’s crazy life.