anonymous asked:

i'm really worried can i ask ur advice? i'm in love with this boy and we're in a committed relationship but he's discovering that he's probably ace, he doesn't enjoy sex most of the time, so we've stopped doing it most of the time. but sometimes i feel like i'm missing something that i could be having with him like i'm missing some connection and i hate this bc i love him so much and i can't imagine being w/ anyone but him?? god i need help

okay, i may or may not be able to help you here, because i’m kind of in the same situation. except i’m the person who doesn’t really enjoy having sex. (oops.)

this is, unfortunately, one of those things that can only be helped with good communication and complete honesty. either you’re going to work past this and be happy with each other, or you’re going to realize that you two are better off as just friends. (or, you know, aliens are going to invade earth and it’s not gonna matter, but for the sake of brevity, we’re going to assume that those are the only two major possibilities.)

there’s no simple solution for this problem. there’s no singular ‘right’ way to do things. human relationships are weird and confusing, and they have the tendency to become even more so when you add things like ‘sexuality’ and ‘romance’ into the mix. all you can do is accept that things are the way they are, and try your hardest to work things out despite that. talk to him. be honest, and listen to what he has to say. that’s really all you can do.

good luck! i wish you both well, even if things don’t work out. <3

sleepover friday

Sun Signs I Think Are The Most Attractive

This is based off my personal preference/experience and not anything else.

1. Leo (Leos seem amazing to me. Like everyday with them seem to be bursting with fun. I just find them fascinating.)
2. Scorpio (I think Scorpios are fun to be around and I enjoy their presence. I think they’re fun to joke around with and I just want to cuddle them)
3. Virgo (Let me shower you in love hello. I don’t know many Virgos but the ones I do I love to death)
4. Libra (I’ve been in relationships with quite a few Libras, honestly they were great relationships. Though they didn’t end well I can say I was truly happy during those times)

anonymous asked:

do you ever think about calum and luke singing 'don't stop believing' and cry? it such a couple-y song :) :) (lol i only think that because of glee, but let me have my delusions)

YES!!! ALL THE TIME!!! Must’ve been a memorable time bcos the both of them have mentioned that event and how the notes were too high. But the fact that they both did a duet for Michael’s bday just kills me!!! They did a fucking duet!!!! In karaoke!!! For a mutual best friend!!! They’re such relationship goals tbh.

( i really want more platonic relationships tbh.
like best friends, strong protective feelings towards each other, we can’t stand each other but if i hear someone else talking shit about you i’ll break their nose. those types of relationships )

anonymous asked:

how do you feel about leo & taurus? im a taurus and those have been my best relationships tbh

I feel neutral on it but lots of books and sites say it’s not a good mix

anonymous asked:

circles, i feel like dancin, backseat serenade, too much, break your little heart, poppin champagne, this is how we do. (sorry if its alot lol)

circles - what’s your favourite type of pizza? classic margarita tbh

i feel like dancin’ - ever danced with someone? depending on what you mean by dance but of course ive danced at parties or at céilís sure

backseat serenade - do you have your drivers license? nope, you have to be 18 here to drive and im 17 so

too much - who are your otp? this is such a hard question wha t idk

break your little heart - have you ever broken up with someone? nope, never been in a relationship lol

poppin’ champagne - best nye memory? tbh we don’t usually do much on nye but i might go out this year so i might have memories then :)

this is how we do - where do you see yourself in 5 years? travelling with friends and in my 3rd year of uni :)

no no no omg don’t be sorry this was soy just fun thank you for the ask!x

  • 23:My relationship with my sibling(s)
    i absolutely love my younger sister!! she’s one of my best friends in the whole world tbh
  • 24:My relationship with my parent(s)
    it’s kinda distant but pretty ok, it’s not like we fight all the time
  • 25:My idea of a perfect date
    feed me and maybe let me sit in ur lap and??? plz
  • 26:My biggest pet peeves
    when people don’t factcheck before they try to argue with u
  • 27:A description of the girl/boy I like
    UM i honestly?? a bit taller than me, very cute. a dork.
  • 28:A description of the person I dislike the most
    bald w/ a beard that looks like a skunk tail
  • 29:A reason I’ve lied to a friend
    i didn’t want them to be upset or hurt
  • 30:What I hate the most about work/school

anonymous asked:

10 44 19 27 30 41

10: lmao maybe I’ll get in a relationship but idk.
44: best part about school: English class tbh
19: if you could change your eye color, would you? Nope, I love my green eyes haha.
27: last person I talked to before I went to bed last night: piercetheovaries
30: does anyone hate you? Lol yeah like 3 people.
41 were you in a relationship 2 months ago? Nah

bludstonee asked:

1 to 44

  • 0: Height
    • 5ft 10
  • 1: Age
    • 16
  • 2: Shoe size
    • idk like 9?
  • 3: Do you smoke?
    • nope
  • 4: Do you drink?
    • occassionally
  • 5: Do you take drugs?
    • not really, i once had calpol
  • 6: Age you get mistaken for
    • idk
  • 7: Have tattoos?
    • nope
  • 8: Want any tattoos?
    • idk it might me cool
  • 9: Got any piercings?
    • nope
  • 10: Want any piercings?
    • i kinda want my ears pierced
  • 11: Best friend?
    • all my friends tbh
  • 12: Relationship status
    • lonwlt
  • 13: Biggest turn ons
    • the fact that im asexual
  • 14: Biggest turn offs
    • the fact that im asexual
  • 15: Favorite movie
    • toy story
  • 16: I’ll love you if…
    • you give me the slightest bit of positive attention
  • 17: Someone you miss
    • someone very important in my life
  • 18: Most traumatic experience
    • idk my life itself?
  • 19: A fact about your personality
    • im very lonely and clingy
  • 20: What I hate most about myself
    • myself lol
  • 21: What I love most about myself
    • my fringe bby
  • 22: What I want to be when I get older
    • a computer person
  • 23: My relationship with my sibling(s)
    • they’re like really young we’re all chill tho
  • 24: My relationship with my parent(s)
    • my dad can be stupid but he’s alright i guess, my mum’s cool
  • 25: My idea of a perfect date
    • one in which there’s lots of hugs
  • 26: My biggest pet peeves
    • cissexism and transphobia/homophobia/acephobia/arophobia/e.t.c
  • 27: A description of the girl/boy I like
    • haha no you’re not getting one
  • 28: A description of the person I dislike the most
    • he’s a big dickhead and he’s reinstating the fox hunting ban
  • 29: A reason I’ve lied to a friend
    • to keep them being my friend, to make them happier
  • 30: What I hate the most about work/school
    • being at school
  • 31: What my last text message says
    • my phone’s out of charge i cba
  • 32: What words upset me the most
    • my birthname
  • 33: What words make me feel the best about myself
    • idk
  • 34: What I find attractive in women
    • being nice to me also eyes
  • 35: What I find attractive in men
    • same tbh
  • 36: Where I would like to live
    • japan (ik im a weeb)
  • 37: One of my insecurities
    • my entire body
  • 38: My childhood career choice
    • i wanted to be an author
  • 39: My favorite ice cream flavor
    • mint choc chip
  • 40: Who I wish I could be
    • anyone who’s ever kissed chris pratt tbh
  • 41: Where I want to be right now
    • with friends
  • 42: The last thing I ate
    • an assortment of mini pretzels, crisps and other stuff
  • 43: Sexiest person that comes to my mind immediately
    • i dont get the word sexy like i dont understand it but the most attractive person is probs chris pratt <3
  • 44: A random fact about anything
    • if you replace someone’s blood with flower petals they die

shslsurvivor asked:

A thought about them that they’d never share: “You’re too damn stubborn, but that’s why I like you so much.”
First impression of them: “So…Did this girl live with wolves? Or train them…”
Favorite thing about them: “As irritating as it is, I admire your determination.”
Least favorite thing about them: “For the love of God, stop trying to do things by yourself. I’m your friend, I want to help.”
Hopes for their future relationship: Best friends. Hopes to be her boyfriend tbh.

anonymous asked:

whats shipping requests??

hm…it still says those are open…? i meant to close requests, but w/e.  shipping is basically when you send a description of yourself (appearance and personality) and i tell you which member (of a group of your choice) you would fit best with in a relationship.  but tbh….i think this time i’ll just do them for people who reblog that link i posted.  because, let’s be real…you guys kinda fell through on that one.