- amazing amazing amazing dad - so pure so loving - his kid is his favorite thing in the world - let’s say it was a little girl - he was too scared to hold her at first - because she was the best and most beautiful thing he’s ever seen - what if he messes it up somehow - but he couldn’t help it he wanted to hold his kid - she grabbed his finger when he held her - so from that moment on Evan decided to be the best father ever - and he was - a little overprotective at times, nervous a lot about things, but he did his best - Evan was honestly terrified to be a dad because he had never had a dad and he didn’t want to hurt his kid like his dad did - he owned at least 10 parenting books - actually read every single one of them - nature themed baby room - somehow always could calm his kid down as a baby - like she’d be crying and no one could get her to stop except Evan - he got like 30 stuffed animals for her - always read to her - the most supportive father ever - no matter what his daughter wanted to do he would support it - he was at every single game, performance, school competition - honestly a soccer mom let’s be real - owns a minivan - always has snacks on hand - Evan also had pictures of everything - baby pictures hung everywhere - he definitely has one of those “My first…” albums - GRANDMA HEIDI
Okay I have more but I gotta stop I’m getting too excited about dad Evan
Nico Jr joins Maxine at the pool. He gives her friends his most charming smile.
Nico Jr friendly: Hey! I’m Nicky. It’s nice to finally meet you two. Max has said a lot of nice things about you both. Who’s Ingrid and who is Ava?
Ingrid looks shyly down at her lap, while Ava does her best to give Nico Jr her most cool, aloof expression. But deep down she was intimidated…he was so handsome! As handsome as his cousin Manny! No wonder Maxine was all starry eyed!
Ingrid softly:How do you like Wind Island so far, Nicky?
Nico Jr smiles: I love it. The weather, the beach…the beautiful scenery. And Maxine. She’s the best thing about this island.
Ingrid giggles while Ava clears her throat.
Maela: No need to lay it on so thick, Nicky. They like you already. Ava’s not gonna admit it though. She’s a tough cookie.
Ava protests: I’m not! I’m cool with anyone who treats Maxine well.
Nico Jr:Well then you’re gonna be cool with me. I plan on treating Maxine very well.
some self-care/mental health tips for the upcoming school year
with school coming soon or already starting for some people i figured i’d share some of my tips for a healthier lifestyle. i know in the past i’ve struggled so much with being good to myself once school starts, both mentally, emotionally, and physically!
keep a clean room
i know how hard this is. i’m absolutely awful at it, even in the summer but it really makes the biggest difference. coming home to a mess when your life is already stressful and messy enough just makes things worse. i know when i have a clean space i’m way more productive and at peace with my situation.
take a break from social media
just doing this every once in awhile makes the hugest difference. social media is a wonderful world but it’s easy to get caught up in how everyone is doing things without you or having more fun or how someone’s prettier or whatever. it’s not worth it. i’ve learned that just deleting the apps for even a few hours can make my mental state 10x better. it’s important to realize that while people are out doing things all the time, you can never be as fun as all the 162 people you follow combined.
don’t be afraid to invite people out
one of the biggest things i struggle with is being social, simply because i overthink inviting people to do things with me too much and just wait to be invited by someone else instead. remember that even if someone says they can’t do something, it’s not the end of the world. at least you opened up a possibility!!! by being someone who invites others to do things, people will feel more appreciated and like you actually want to hang out with them! but also always save time for yourself as well!
create a self-care routine with motivation
by giving yourself some type of reward to wash your face, brush your teeth and shower, such as only watching your favorite tv show afterwards, it will feel a bit easier to accomplish the tasks that seem simple but can be terribly hard, especially if you suffer from depression. i’ve learned that combining things into one task also makes it easier, such as once you get in the shower, do everything. wash your face, brush your teeth, shave, all in the shower. it makes self-care so much easier.
get outside, stay out of bed
laying in bed is the best thing ever, i know, but it can be so easy to get in there and never get out. this is my biggest bad habit. i feel more productive even just sitting on the couch. my bed is like a black hole of lost motivation. go outside for twenty minutes a day if you can. sunlight makes things a little better and staying inside all day does nothing for you.
do one thing that scares you everyday, big or small.
i’m someone who has struggled with social anxiety for years now, but i’m slowly getting better because i’m making a conscious (and very terrifying effort) everyday. this won’t work for everyone, i know, but it’s helped me a little bit. i try to challenge myself everyday to do one thing that scares me, whether it’s asking someone to do something after school or agreeing to get coffee with a friend you’re not super close to yet, or even just making conversation with someone next to me in class. don’t push yourself too far but don’t make zero effort either.
cut the negative language/mindset
anytime you have a negative thought find a reverse positive. even saying “i’m not happy with how my hair looks but my ass looks great in these jeans” is better than saying “i look awful today”. stop the constant internal bullying! think of it this way, if your best friend said the things you say to yourself, how would you feel? you’re your own best friend, so cut the shit! compliment yourself like you do your best friend. complimenting myself and finding things i find beautiful on my own body even once a day has increased my confidence exponentially. a negative language towards yourself leads to a negative mindset.
find someone who motivates you
if you need motivation to work out, study, anything, find a buddy. having someone to do things with and hold you accountable makes a world of difference. this summer i got together with a friend and made a deal that we would work out 2-3 times a week. it worked so much better than if i had just made that goal for myself because she was always there to text me to ask to workout when we needed to but i lacked the desire. and i did the same for her. now we actually both got a job at a gym together this fall and are working out consistently because we have that mutual accountability with each other! plus just having someone you enjoy seeing makes doing the hard task more fun!
accept your individuality
you don’t need to look like society’s ideal of beautiful. there’s millions of types of flowers, and just because one kind is pretty to someone, does that make all the others ugly? no. there’s tons of species of dogs too and they all look totally different. is a poodle ugly just because a golden retriever is cute? NO.your individuality is you. everyone is beautiful in the very own unique way. don’t try to look like someone ellse. your beauty is not measured by how perfect your features are.
drink some fucking water
and eat some food too
understand that a bad week doesn’t mean a bad life
we’re all going to go through those weird ass time periods where it feels like everything sucks and nothing can go right. accept that although it’s pretty bad right now, it won’t be forever.
good luck with this school year everyone! hope my tips help even just one person. take care of yourselves, kiddos.
“It was like I was in a dream too. I forgot everything. But even though I didn’t remember you—I felt your presence… and I knew that I would never be complete unless those shadows were brought into the light.”