Its a choice. You just have to decide that I’m not going to put my energy there. I’m going to decide to let this go. It’s your choice. You can embrace it, you can become a prisoner of bitterness and resentment anger and victim city, or you can just say ‘I’m going to live my life and be happy.
Being happy with someone doesn’t mean that everything about them is perfect, they can’t be. It means that we know no one is perfect including ourselves so we look beyond someones imperfections and concentrate on their perfections and our happiest shines thru. As long as one’s HEART is in the right place and is perfect for your liking then everything else that is near perfect or perfect about them is a bonus and everything else. secondary, they don’t matter.