being-18

anonymous asked:

"You people do understand that if she’s the one making money off of you people and earning consistent income, using the sexualization projected onto her, by men, against the same men, she’s not the talentless, dumb one, right? Like what are you all getting out of telling her that there’s something wrong with her or her career? She still makes more than you, she’s still a better person than you, and she’s gonna continue to be." This made me laugh SO hard because it's SUCH a load of bullshit hahah

Except it’s not. People are literally paying her for her work, and she’s making more than they are. Being 18 and having an actual source of support, using her sexuality against the same men that demand it and then shame her for it is impressive. She has a consistent income from that, and seriously high level of maturity to deal with you morons. In order to do reach the level she has, she has to put in a lot of effort and business acumen to be able to actually get the traffic necessary. So for the same motherfuckers that are paying for her work to say she’s talentless and dumb makes absolutely no sense considering the fact that she’s profiting off of their depravity. That’s intelligence and talent on her part. If you’re someone that doesn’t respect the independence and intelligence of another woman just because you can’t control it, can’t manipulate it, cant wrap your tiny mind around it, or couldn’t do it yourself, you need to stay the hell away from women altogether. There’s nothing wrong with a woman’s sexuality, but the second someone turns it into a business and chooses to control it and make money, you idiots flip. Don’t be a fucking pissbaby just because she benefits and you don’t. Furthermore, if you don’t get it or don’t agree with it, don’t fucking check her stuff or mine. And if you wanna argue with me, come off anon. I’m not gonna continue to argue with a coward.

  • Me:Mom I'm 18 I don't need a curfew
  • Mom:I don't give a damn if you're 18. What you think because you're 18 you're grown? Can you pay 18 bills with your 18 years?
  • If you think you know everything now since you're 18 well you can go and be 18 outside my house. Talking about she's 18. I will slap 18 out of you with my 18 hands.
  • Me:... that doesn't even make sense?
  • Mom:shut up and go do the dishes it's 18 of 'em
18 things I learned while being 18

(Since it’s my last day being 18 I decided to write this)

1. Its ok to be homesick while you’re away at college
2. Dying your hair black is probably a bad decision
3. Eating bananas helps with cramps
4. Don’t ever put someone else’s mental health before your own.
5. If you don’t feel happy in the relationship anymore you should probably   leave.
6. Drinking orange juice in a rush to get to class after you brushed your       teeth is really gross.
7. Don’t wear a white shirt while drinking coffee
8. It’s ok to be nervous at a job interview
9. Going to a different country is the best thing you’re ever going to         experience
10. Getting tattoos hurt
11. Getting tattoos are probably the second best thing you’re ever going to experience
12. Just because you don’t spend as much time with someone doesn’t       mean they’re not still your best friend
13. Texting your grandma isn’t has fulfilling as calling her.
14. Making new friends is difficult.
15. Making new friends is also pretty fucking cool.
16. Making decisions that will change your life are the worst but extremely   necessary.
17. Working out can be fun.
18. People will understand that you have anxiety and are going to help you,  but you have to ask for the help.

Bonus 19. Loving yourself is difficult but it’s worth it all in the end.

i just registered to vote.

wow, i’m feeling that much older.

technically i still have to fill the form and mail it in, but yeah. yay, this is the first 18year old thing i’ve done haha. even though i’ve been 18 for 18 days, dang coincidence much.
Oh and today I officially do not have to be paranoid driving around illegally, because I am insured! woo. I am still waiting on my own car tho, and a job. 

I can’t sleep, i’m waiting for my mom to get home…. I want to go wait in line for the lending library, save some money on some books with my friends, let’s hope she’s too tired and says yes…. I should be there right now but fuck camping out there haha. I’d rather go at 6AM, and pray that the line isn’t too long, It opens at 2pm and closes at 6pm, and by the looks of it, i hope it isn’t as bad as yesterday with a line wrapping around the whole campus. boo, okay, ima go fill out the registration forms.

i’m out. 

Writing this now, God, how I miss the cultural side of eighties – the rhetoric, the raggedy clothes, the politics, gigs you were frightened to go into, Radio 1 when it had weird bits, Channel 4 when it was radical, the NME when it had writers, and the thrill of discovering underground music and new comedy for yourself.

Or maybe I just miss being eighteen, and like all those columnists who turned forty sometime in the late nineties and wrote simultaneous think-pieces on why Punk was the best thing ever, I’m just confusing the thrill of being young with the notion that the era in which I was young was in any way especially creative or remarkable.

—  Stewart Lee, How I Escaped My Certain Fate: The Life and Deaths of a Stand-Up Comedian, 8.

moua-moua asked:

I'm all grown up! I want to join in the fun!! If!Grillby please let me in!! ~FRISK (Female frisk)

Uhm so yea, this sin blog will not have Frisk (18+ or not). I figured it would make things very complicated for me to deal with. I honestly don’t mind Frisk being portrayed as 18+ but in order to respect most people’s disapproval of this matter, I shall not draw them here. I’m sorry for having to bring this up and may or may not upset some people but I hope you understand.

In the meantime, how about some regular Frisk and Chara in cute clothes? I kinda designed these along with a few others based on the characters in Undertale for Frisk to wear. You guys wanna guess whose clothes they’re wearing?

18 new things to do while I'm still 18.

1) Go on a roadtrip. A proper one.

2) Get closer with my sister before I (hopefully) go to uni.

3) Kiss a stranger… or anyone.

4) Go clubbing. (I guess I have to at least once).

5) Be confident with the way I look.

6) Start running.

7) Move out, (go to uni.)

8) Meet new people.

9) Start writing that book.

10) Read - just for fun again.

11) Watch Ted - because it looks hilarious.

12) Embrace the mess that is my hair.

13) Try and let myself fall in love.

14) Start planning my travels around the world.

15) Accept the fact I can’t dance and just have fun with it.

16) Rollerskate. Go to a roller-rink!

17) Stay up all night for a good reason.

18) Lay out under the stars with people I care about.

This was way harder than I anticipated…