being embarrassed

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└ When we know who’s our real ‘fraidy-baby~ Oh Jun… (^_^)

Cr: Arashi ni Shiyagare 25.02.2017

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Do you remember being in middle school? Horrible, right? Every action is being judged. Embarrassment is not minor. Ever. Even when people are not bullying you, even when girls are not whispering about you, even when you are not getting beaten up, middle school is hard. It is the worst.

And high school? Remember how significant clothes were? Music was? Friends were? Because you were forming your identity. Because you were deciding who you were. Because you were becoming yourself, every day, in the face of so many trials and obstacles.

Would you go through that again?

Now, imagine all of that happening to you. Imagine that time in your life and the depth of your emotions.

Now, imagine you have to pee. Like, really, really bad.

Imagine that the bathroom is not a safe space.

Imagine you cannot just go in and pee, no matter how badly you have to do so.

Imagine that at your most vulnerable, you are being most judged.

Sorry, not you.

Sorry, not here.

Sorry, we, the adults tasked with educating you and keeping you safe, we have decided you don’t know anything about yourself and we know better than you do.

We know EVERYTHING. And if you are misguided enough to think know you are a girl and you should use the girls room, we know that is not true. If you are foolish enough to believe know you are a boy and you should use the boys room, we know that  is not right.

Never mind that you LIVE INSIDE THAT BODY. We know it better than you do. We know it so well, that when you have to pee, we get to tell you where to do it.

Never mind if that embarrasses you. Never mind if your ears are burning and your eyes are smarting, and your heart is aching and you are wondering what is wrong with you and if you deserve to live.

Because WE decided that the imaginary comfort of your peers was more important than the real and traumatic discomfort you feel.

Yeah, imagine that.

Because that is what America just told a whole group of young people.

Now tell me this isn’t a big deal. Tell me this isn’t a civil rights issue. Tell me more about how this doesn’t prove we are headed down a dark path in our nation.

Here is your public comment, Mr. Sessions, Ms. DeVos, Mr. President.

This. Is. Wrong.

This. Is. Mean.

This. Is. Dangerous.

Her Holding Their Hand: WINNER

JinWoo:

He would just from surprise and then would continue walking while being embarrassed because he actually freaked out, and also that he wasn’t the first one to grab your hand, but the other way around.


SeungYoon:

Would quietly smile to himself and give you a little sideways glance only to see you shyly smiling to the ground, which would nearly make him purr from happiness of having you as his girlfriend.


SeungHoon:

LoL. Would let go of your hand, make a couple of steps forward, and then grab your hand again, because he wanted to be the first one to hold your hand so he thought that his pride was at the stake. Just as he had grabbed it, though, he would cringe very hard and start laughing.


Mino:

The kind of person to look down at his feet like a highschool girl in love before her senpai and just `calmly` trudge along his girlfriend while his mind worked over-time, thinking only Gods know what.


TaeHyun:

He would just be a happy marshmallow, walking alongside you in a serene quietness, enjoying each others presence. He would also be glad that you took his hand first, because he was too shy to do it all on his own.

Victor and Yuuri, acting like a married couple, where one feeds the other. Yuuri’s trying so hard not to blush, but his husband is being adorably embarrassing, and he can’t say no to that smile, so of course he goes along with it.

Their angry son, already used to it, is like: “I DON’T EVEN CARE ANYMORE. THEY’VE ACTED LIKE THIS SINCE I CAN REMEMBER, THERE’S NO STOPPING THEM NOW.”

While they go out to eat, wearing matching cat hoddies, THIS FAMILY…

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I never thought I’d get to see club penguin’s iceberg tip but here we are, probably 10 years since I stopped believing it was possible, and dreams have come true. (Excuse the sniff in the middle - I was holding back tears)

i can’t stop thinking about what kind of criers dan and phil would be. i feel like dan’s crying would be a slow build up. his eyes just get watery at first, and he tries so hard to keep it in, but eventually the tears start cascading down his cheeks. he’d get a runny nose and his forehead would crease out of frustration because he hates crying, but he does it all the time. when his crying hits its peak, he’d be a blubbering mess, wiping furiously at his tears and constantly blowing his nose. he doesn’t like to be comforted while he’s crying, but when he’s finished and all that’s left is tear stained cheeks, he’d cling to the closest thing, preferably another person that would play with his hair, rub his back, and comfort him quietly.

phil on the other hand is a quiet crier. it happens really suddenly because he’s not afraid to be emotional and soft. his tears build up and he doesn’t try to hold them back. his eyes get red and puffy, and he tries to wipe away the tears quickly with his sleeve. he gets sniffly, but hides it by taking deep breaths through his mouth. his eyes are glossy and doe-like when his crying reaches the climax. he likes to be held the whole way through, even if it’s just someone holding his hand or resting a hand on his knee. physical contact calms him down and helps him feel more real. his favorite thing is when people rub their fingers up and down his arm, it nearly lulls him to sleep, but it distracts him from whatever it is he’s crying about.

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endless list of favorite relationships |→ sookie and rory

“Okay, I’ve got it from here, Sookie. I love you.

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Day 1 - Family Introductions

Sorry I had these made for Tomco valentines week but due to complications I couldnt post them, but at lest now I can.

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[[ Essentially, this is the aftermath of Draco and Pansy discovering muggle Christmas music.. probably. XD ]]

Otayuri Week 2017, Day 6: Pair Skate or Rivalry

I decided to give art a try and go back to my drawing days. Some traditional art with watercolors for today’s prompt (I haven’t consistently drawn or painted in years and it shows, please forgive me). No matter how much anatomy knowledge I’ve absorbed from college, I couldn’t do Otabek’s jaw justice OTL. I googled pair skating pics and selected this pose because I loved it. I sort of like how it turned out. Just sort of. But especially Yuri’s face.

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