I’ve been thinking about this awhile and basically if you are a boy or a man or whatever and you don’t want to be a dick there is an easy rule to follow.
Don’t talk about girls. Don’t talk about about us. Don’t talk about what you want us to do or how we should behave or what you think we like or what we should look like. Don’t talk to your loser friends about what you wanna do to us, don’t make songs about creepily watching us have fun just don’t.
It’s weird. We are human beings not mysteries to be solved or tasks to conquer.
We are not your business.