If u a single mom, y does ur intro say ur engaged? why bring a child in to this world if u cnt afford it? why do that to urself &the child?But now u need money? So what was the point of getting preg? Ppl posting wishlist &u asking for stuff is diff..
Lol ok you must not understand basic human emotions. I chose to have this baby because, like all the women who have ever chosen to have children before me probably felt, the thought of giving it up likely would have fucked me up beyond repair. I am actively searching for a job so do not try to paint me as lazy on this one because I am far from it. You also must be a lonely person to have never been to a baby shower to know that a registry is specifically used for a mother to ask people to help take some of the stress of buying everything off of her and pitch in as a way of showing support from a community. You ever hear “it takes a village” that doesn’t just apply to the people your child sees on a daily. And as for my relationship status, my fiance is not the father of my child and does not live in my city, he is saving up everything he has to move here and be here for me and my baby but for all intensive purposes I am doing this by myself until he can get here. But for all of what I just explained can you please explain just one thing to me? How stupid do you gotta be to literally come to my page to try and question my reasoning as a mother but as part of your question you say “people posting wishlists and you asking for stuff isn’t the same”? Lol my friend I got news for you: that is exactly the same. Only difference is I’m asking for help with my baby and just like with any “wishlist” if ya ass don’t wanna buy shit ignore it because no matter what the shit is gonna get bought whether by me or someone else (by way of my “wishlist”). Now I’m not exactly sure what sort of moral high ground you came at me on today but let me tell you 2 things.
1: in no way is a registry for a baby a wrong thing by anyone’s standards because if you throw a rock and hit a pregnant woman I can guarantee you she’s got at least 2 registries posted online so fuck off my messages with that bull.
2: Since you too pussy to show your face as you question my decisions thus far as a mother every anon message you send me will be promptly deleted and you will get no other reaction from me about this subject again because the whole reason you came at me today was to pretty much try to say I’m already starting off a bad mother for asking for any type of help and if you know anything about, well, anything you would know that life almost never prepares you for a baby but in the 9 months leading to its arrival you make do with what you got and you set up for that baby. So before you come questioning me as a parent stop. That’s it just stop. Because for all those questions you either don’t have kids or you are one of those parents who thinks their parenting methods are the only ones that are correct and if either of those are the case you can get the fuck out of my inbox with all that bull shit.
Welp that’s all the time I have for your shit today. I hope you have a great day boo 😊😘