because you said you wanted to see these haha

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my malec comic of how Alec went from clean-shaven face to keeping a stubble xD!!! because Matt himself once said that he wants to see Alec keep a beard (in a livechat with Emeraude Toubia at 2:45) and i am HERE FOR THIS!!! i mean, have you seen Matt with a stubble ;U; (i’m sure you have, he has it almost all the time when they are not filming the show xD!) the other thing i wanna see in the next season is Alec just coming back home (to magnus’ loft, bc lets be honest, he already moved in xD!) and just COMPLAIN about the clave and his work! haha GIVE ME ALL THE DOMESTIC SCENES THERE CAN BE! please OwO so hope you like it! <3

If you’re wondering why I used glitter, my logic is that nothing bad in my life has ever come from using gold glitter, so why not? 

Today I’ve got probably the easiest, most beginner friendly jar I’ve ever posted. I need good luck, you probably need some good luck, this is what we’re making today. Usually I have jars that have different herbs ans such for different elements of the jar for the jar’s purpose. Not today. Today it is literally one jar full of herbs and spices that all have one purpose in mind – luck.

So, because of that, you can use any of the herbs listed, as many or as few as you want to or have on hand. In italics are the ones I’ve used in mine.

  • lilac
  • acorn
  • bay leaf
  • clover
  • allspice
  • poppy seeds
  • tonka bean
  • aloe
  • caraway seeds
  • catnip
  • parsley
  • chamomile
  • dill
  • star anise

While there are others, I have only listed a few that I feel like people have on hand.

The put together of this jar in simple. Light your candle, focus on your intention, and layer in your herbs. Feel free to additionally use anything that is lucky to you. Perhaps when sealing the jar, if you have a lucky coin you could press it into the wax to leave the print of it, use sigils, etc. Anything to make this more personal, the better. For me, I decided to use gold glitter just because I wanted to. Glitter is something I always want to use in my draft but I never do, so I decided to today because like I said, nothing bad has ever come to me when glitter was involved, haha!

If you have trouble sealing your jar, I have a tutorial for that here.

In addition to that, you can find all my other jars and original posts here, or here is just a masterpost of them (so far).

If you have any questions feel free to drop by my ask box! And as always, if you make any of my jars, I would love to see them, so feel free to tag me! 

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Based on the reply below! I know you said something else, but when you implied dancing and singing, it drifted my thoughts to a Disney like scene, where Gabe would be the villain!

Had so much fun with this short comic. I would love to animate it someday, because I want to actually see those exaggerated moves and all!

anonymous asked:

is it canon or not confirmed but implied that bkg bullied dk physically during those 11/12 years before going to ua?? i just want to know to get my fact rights, and also i know this is still a really, really, really long way to go but i was actually hoping to see bkg apologize for what he did to dk after that bkg vs dk fight 2 :( but like i said i also know it's still a long way to go haha

There is no evidence of insistent bullying (as in pursuing Deku for the sole purpose of belittling him for 10-12 years) if that’s what you mean. 

(In fact, you see those numbers fluctuate so often because people have spun this fact in their head, there’s no canon evidence of this.)

What we often see is shots of Bakugou observing more than participating on more than one occasion.

What we do know is Bakugou was horrendously and inexcusably adamant in trying to push Deku away from him.

It makes his friends confusion and comment about his behavior (saying he went too far/further than usual) make sense:

And it makes Deku’s refusal as referring to him as his bully and more of just an f*cking asshole make sense:

We honestly believe an “apology” from Bakugou will come more from his actions rather than words. Horikoshi is a very show-not-tell author, and Bakugou has been the character he expresses this writing style with very often. Bakugou’s genuinity has always come from his behavior. He’ll do something amazing to show some semblance of an apology, but to many just saying “I’m sorry” can never be enough.

~Actions speak louder than words. 

please stop dehumanizing joe trohman in your fics!

- he smokes weed, but he’s not like “haha man want some burning bush” all the time

- he’s a very opinionated person, STOP acting like he isn’t

- he’s jewish, please stop erasing this part of him!!! please!

- he listens to things other then Metallica fun fact

- he has ocd. mostly when i see people writing mental health related fics they either focus on Pete (big mental health boy), Patrick, or Andy because of things they’ve said that have been popularized by tumblr, but if you’re going to talk about mental health you can’t just pick the ones you think are cute or something

- he was young when fall out boy started. yes. but please stop making him jailbait for the older members! Pete and Andy wouldn’t go after him or whatever until he was at least eighteen (same with Patrick). don’t get me wrong, I love wentzman and trohley, but too far is too far

- he’s said very often that a lot of the time he’s very social and a lot of the time he’s not, it’s very split- so please don’t make him the life of the party ALL THE TIME in EVERY FIC. if he complains to Patrick about watching movies and stuff, he’s definitely not always out drinking

- joe likes drinking. if you want to write a fic that discusses alcoholism, go ahead. please stop telling him he has a drinking problem or calling him an alcoholic when he posts videos of him having fun or something.

Boyfriend!Jaebum

Originally posted by wangpxppy

Genre: FLUFFY

  • YALL ARE THE CUTEST
  • Dates are usually late at night due to his busy schedule but you didn’t mind
  • He’ll bring you café hopping, watch late night movies and (if he has a day off) spend the whole day at the amusement park
  • He’ll be your listening ear and you’ll tell him your troubles
  • “Y/N everything is going to be all right. You have me! Remember that”
  • When you come across difficult questions while doing your homework
  • He’ll try his best you help you solve it, although he gets it wrong like all the time
  • On Valentines’
  • He’ll send you flowers, chocolates, and a hand-written letter, telling you how much you mean to him
  • He treats you like a PRINCESS
  • HE’S VERY PROTECTIVE. VERY. PROTECTIVE.
  • When he sees a dude checking you out
  • He gets REALLY pissed
  • He’ll either wrap his hands around your waist or kiss you on the cheek to tell the whole world that you’re his
  • Speaking of which
  • He is a HUGE fan of PDA
  • He really likes skinship a lot and he does show them to his members unknowingly
  • “Ew hyuNG gET a ROom”
  • Occasionally you go over to their dorm to spend time with the boys (but they know that you visit to see jaebum. oops.) and you don’t go there empty handed though
  • You sometimes bring, doughnuts, cookies, pizza, fried chicken etc. for the boys, knowing very well that they’re hungry 24/7
  • “hyung, you’re so lucky”
  • “if ya’ll happen to break up, I’ll be the next to date Y/N”
  • And bambam got hit for that
  • Well the boys love you and they’re really supportive of your relationship with jaebum
  • When his group has concerts near you, he’ll get tickets for you to attend it
  • During the concert when they get to interact with the fans, he’ll be sure to mention you
  • “ahgase, my girlfriend is in the audience tonight! And I want to say Y/N, I love you a lot”
  • “AWW” – ahgase
  • “EWW” – got7
  • You get to go backstage to see them (or him HAHA) after the concerts because since you hang out with them a lot, even the staff recognises you and lets you pass
  • You congratulated and hugged all the members
  • Jaebum intertwines his fingers in yours
  • “you know I meant what I said during the concert right?”

anonymous asked:

WAIT YOU MET SOME GUY?!?! HNNAKDNEJ

I DID HAHA THAT WAS THE PLOT TWIST OF THE YEAR it happened out of nowhere tbh

so we are seeing each other, NOTHING HAPPENED THO, we just cuddled but yeah. 

The thing is that I don’t reaaally want to talk about it, because I’m really excited and I can talk about this for like 63 hours, and if I’m excited you guys are going to be excited but if we end up not dating each other (bc its a big mess trust me) I’m going to be disappointed and you guys will be too AND ILL BE SAD AND YOULL BE SAD 

BTS reaction to their foreigner s/o knowing fluent korean

Request: bts reacting to their foreigner s/o knowing fluent korean


Jin

Jin would tell some jokes that you wouldn’t understand even if you speak fluent Korean. He’d start laughing when he noticed your confused face.

“Haha! Don’t be mad! That’s cute that you don’t understand~”

Taehyung

He’d would be so proud of you and he would to brag about you all the time.

“Now we can rap Cypher 4 together!”

Namjoon

He’d be the one who was learning you Korean and seeing how much you improved your skills would make him a little jealous because now you are the center of attention.

“Now everyone wants to talk to you…” said with pouty face.

Jungkook

Jungkook would be with you non stop to make sure you can understand everything. You find it very cute when he tries to explain you some Korean words that you already know. He’d worry about you when you convinced him that you can go somewhere all alone.

“Okay. Can I really leave you all alone? Are you sure? I can go with you, you know…”


Jimin

He would be jealous because people started talking to you when they found out you know Korean. He’d be angry that they keep interrupting you.

“Leave my Jagiya alone for one minute at least, please…”


Suga

Yoongi would smile every time he sees you talking to someone because he remembers when you weren’t that fluent and you were always stressed even before a small talk.

“I’m so happy seeing how much you improved your Korean.”


J-Hope

He’d just look at you with big smile on his face. Hobi would talk about you non stop and would want you to meet his friends to improve your skills even more.

“That’s my Jagiya! I’m so proud~”

Mystic Messenger : Day 10 ~ V Walkthrough (FULL ANSWERS)

Please be considerate. I did it on my own.

If you are on phone, please setting the page to be seen in the computer version! On the phone, the answers are sometimes unaligned and it can confuse you…

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Dustin’s Enigma: Part 2

Steve Harrington x Reader


this isn’t a request, I’m just trash, and I’m using the closer for a request bc I’m lazy,,, anyway enjoy!!!

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Steve’s POV


“SHE’S MINE AND YOU WERE JUST TALKING TO HER!” Dustin yelled, stomping into the house.

“Does she even know your name?” Steve asked sarcastically.

“She does! She helped us this morning,” Dustin retorted.

“Did you even speak to her?” Steve asked.

“Well, no, but she still saw me, and no one can resist this,” Dustin boasted, purring at the end.

“Okay bud,” Steve said, a laugh forming in his throat.

“Please help me,” Dustin begged after a moment of thought.

“What?” Steve asked, confused by the boys request.

“Help me get her,” he demanded.

“She’s a junior, as in 3 years older than you, as in, probably only wants to date seniors, older than you?” Steve explained.

At this Dustin’s face dropped, after what happened with Max he thought he was doomed to be with no one. “Well okay-“ Dustin said, starting to head towards the door.

“No, I’ll help.” Steve caved, feeling bad for the boy, no matter how much he himself wanted to get with Y/N.

Dustin’s face lit up, “so what’s our plan?”

“Our plan,” Steve hesitated for a moment, molding an idea, “Okay So first, you have to hang around me a lot, show her that you act a lot older than a freshman.”

“Okay I can do that,” Dustin nodded, eager to hear the rest of the plan.

“Then, I’ll get her to come hang out with us, so she’ll get to know you, and maybe you’ll be able to speak to her, eventually,” Steve continued, gears turning in his mind, trying to configure a series of events that would give this kid a chance.

“Yeah, Okay,” Dustin agreed, “then what?” He asked.

“Then,” steve paused, grasping at any idea,”ummm you,” He searched his mind for some creativity, “ask her out” he pushed out of his mouth, immediately regretting it.

“And she’ll be mine like that!?” Dustin exclaimed excitedly.

“Um, yeah, just like that,” Steve whispered.

“Thanks Steve! I knew you would help me and that you weren’t a dirty woman stealer!” Dustin said, practically skipping out the door with delight.

“What’s did I just do,” steve said to himself, shutting his eyes, and placing his fingers on his temples.


Your POV


The next day rolled around rather quickly. The first day had no homework, and you spent your afternoon mentally preparing for the next day.

When you walked into the school, you were immediacy joined by Steve on your left side, “hello Y/N” He chirped in a light tone.

“hello Steve?” You asked, allowing some residual annoyance from waking up early to creep into your voice. The more you pushed him away, the better, you didn’t want a repeat of freshman year.

“I was wondering, since you always sit at the losers-“ he coughed, then corrected, “I mean boring table at lunch, that maybe you wanted to sit with me and my friends?” Steve asked.

“Why would I do that?” You questioned, genuinely confused.

“Because you want to hang out with the coolest guy in school,” steve reasoned, trying to be nice.

“So Billy’s going to be there?” You asked with a thick layer of sarcasm. You knew how much Steve detested Billy, and you weren’t his biggest fan either, but you were starting to warm back up to Steve maybe you should sit with him?

“Haha very funny, so,” he hesitated, “see you then?”

“Sure, What the hell?” You answer with a nervous smile, while Steve shot you a wide smirk.


Dustin’s POV


“Shes gorgeous,” Dustin said to Lucas while looking over at Y/N across the hall, “and,” he paused for dramatic effect, “she’s going to fall in love with me,” Dustin declared looking proud.

Lucas looked over, eye brows raised, “is she now? What would have you thinking that?” He asked, his voice dropping in a mixture of sarcasm and confusion.

“Steve made up this whole plan, and it’s going to work,”

“Really, than why is he smirking at her like that, he saves that smirk for flirting, You know these things, your his protégé,” Lucas asked.

“It’s all Part of the plan, Lucas!” Dustin answered, even though that was defiantly not part of the discussed plan.


Your POV

You had your backpack hanging from your shoulders and your book firmly grasped in your hand when you walked into the cafeteria. If this was nothing, just somewhere to sit, why were there butterflies forming a tornado in your stomach. You looked around the room, spotting Steve’s table, you started to head over, and chicken out, you changed your course to your usual table and started turning that way when you heard someone call your name, it was Steve, “Y/N” He yelled, waving his hands as if to beckon you to the table. You blushed slightly, and walked over to the table. Siting there were a couple of guys you thought looked familiar, probably from the basketball team. The others at the table were Steve, Nancy Wheeler, Johnathan Byers, and Dustin, you thought his name was.

“Y/N you know Nancy and Johnathan, this is Dustin, and that’s Ed and Tim,” Steve introduced. You got a smile from both Nancy and Johnathan, who were sneakily holding hands under the table, a look up and down from Tim, and a wink from Ed, which made you make an annoyed face. When you looked to Dustin, he was just staring at you, and when you looked at Steve he just had a kind look in his eyes, that made your mind stop over analyzing and start living. You loosened your grip on your book and sat down in the empty seat next to Steve.

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Hey hey I hope you enjoyed and if you wanna request something like this lovely human did you can find the link to do so in my description or if you wanna read something else I’ve written you can do that from my masterlist whos link is also in my description, or you can do both, whatever floats your boat!!!

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EPISODE 2

“Yo, Jay, pass me the nachos.”

The boys and I were all watching Wonder Woman again in Father’s living room. His personal theater was being redesigned at the moment, so we decided to just stay in the one room where we always hang out. Jason took the nachos from Tim and passed them over to me, “Here, babe.”

I told him thanks and grabbed a handful of nachos, stuffing them into my mouth. “Can you guys pause the movie, I need to use the bathroom,” I asked after swallowing.

Damian took the control and paused it, “Don’t take long, the fight is almost over.”

As I got up from the couch, I heard my phone jingle on the coffee table. Probably a new message, “Jason, can you check that for me!?” I called over my shoulder. I barely left the living room when I heard Jason curse loudly, “What the fuck is this!? Artza, get back in here!”

I groaned, my bladder can’t take this kind of torture right now. I turned back into the living room, “What!?”

The boys were all angry crowding around my phone. Jason was the most furious of them all, “What the hell is up with you guys?”

Damian crawled onto Jason’s shoulders,“Pass it here! I want to answer this low life abomination!” 

“No! I know exactly what to say! Give it here!” Tim snatched my phone out of Jason’s hand but a few moments later, Dick was holding my phone, “Yeah right, I’m the oldest, which means I’m the wisest, I should answer!”

Before Dick started typing, I grabbed it out of his hand, “Why are you guys so angry? My gosh!” I scrolled up and read the newest anon, “Oh cool! New anon hate!” I grinned.

“How could you possibly say this is cool!?” Jason growled, “This fucking piece of throbbing turbocunt just told you to go die!”

“And they also want me to burn in hell! This is great!” 

Dick’s jaw hit the floor, “You gotta be kidding me!”

“I mean, I’m already going to hell so…”

“We can’t just let this slide!” Tim snarled.

Damian tried to grab my phone but I raised it up in the air, placing my hand on his forehead, pushing him back as he tried to climb up my body, “Unhand me, sister! I must answer!” 

I kicked Dick in the chest when he also tried to grab my phone, making him fall back onto the couch, “Oh come on!” He protested, “Tim’s right! We gotta give them hell!”

I glared at both Jason and Tim, stopping them from going near my phone, “Listen to me,” I snapped, “This anon doesn't deserve my time, not even yours. So could you guys please let this go!?”

Jason was fuming, “No! That fucknugget called you a bi piece of shit! How are you not angry about this!?” 

“Because I’m smart! They also said that I’m not even really gay, do you know how stupid that is?” I chuckled, “Of course I’m not gay! And this anon also called me a hoe, this is even funnier than the last one, to be honest.”

I still don’t know why these poor excuse of human beings don't understand that calling me a hoe will not bother me. It’s really sad. If you really want to send me anon hate, calling me a hoe wouldn't be such a good idea if you want to see me break. Come on anon, the word is in my damn username. You gotta try better than this.

I was still pushing Damian away, this kid just doesn't want to give up. My gosh, I’m so proud of him.

Dick fold his arms across his chest, “This person thinks you want pity.” He muttered.

I shoved my phone in my pocket, “Haha! I almost forgot about that. Pity for what? Being bi? That was strange for them to say, I love being bi. They just said that because they think being bi is a bad thing.”

“I hate people like that,” Tim sighed, “Being bi is still a significant part of the LGBTQ+ community. What else would the B stand for?”

Jason smirked, “They probably don’t know how many girls you’ve been with before me.”

I bit my lip, forcing myself not to laugh, “That’s another thing. I don’t need to prove that I’m bi. If I say that I’m bi then I’m bi, it’s that simple.”

Damian finally stopped trying to get my phone. He rubbed his forehead after I let go, “So…are you not going to murder them? Because Todd and I would gladly-”

I glared at Damian, “Don’t even think about it.” I said through gritted teeth. 

“What are you going to say to them then?” Dick asked.

I yawned, “I don’t know yet. Can we just continue watching the movie?” I asked.

Damian huffed, “Tt, fine. But we will talk about this again later.” 

I ruffled his hair, “Of course! But first,” I ran towards the door, “I still gotta use the bathroom!”

“Take your time!” Damian called behind me.

Alrightie, so, here is my real first attempt at fan art. It’s slightly edited so you can’t see as many erase marks… Please don’t judge lol, like I said, this is my first attempt and it’s in kind of a geometric style because this is what I was most comfortable doing and it’s the only style that looks like a decent human being haha. It’s also kinda Pinstripe-esque with the longer face I think, right?
Jack, I wanted to thank you for everything, you mean the world and more to me. You make my days so much brighter and you give me what feels like an infinite amount of time away from the world and from the crazy stuff in my head. You make me smile constantly, you make me laugh so hard, and sometimes you make me cry but that’s okay!
Okay, so I’m sorry for the kind of long read, I’m just really happy is all. So once again, thank you Jacksepticeye, and thank you fan community for being so accepting and considerate to everyone who has joined, I love you! @therealjacksepticeye @lum1natrix @anti-support-group @all-the-anti-shit @http-anti @helloitsmanda @nightmarewolf133 @no-strings-puppet

anonymous asked:

WHOA BLACK CLOVER HAS AN ANIME NOW I GOTTA GO WATCH IT

Well, only the first episode for now but yeah!!! I can’t wait for my favs to show up aaahhhhhh!!!!!! 

Anon said: Omg, Kirishima, please teach me how to put on eyeliner, your eyeliner game is on point! (Seriously, tho, I love how you draw their eyes and how you draw Kiri in general. He seems so soft. Damn, Bakugou, I’m jealous that you can cuddle him)

THANK YOU!!!! And Kiri has really really pretty lashes in the manga too, doesn’t he? Bakugou too! They have seriously pretty eyes I spend a lot of time trying to get that right when drawing haha still not as good at Horikoshi tho after all, but what can we do~

Anon said: Every time I get a notification you posted something I get extremely happy! That’s what your drawings did to me. How can one be so talented.

SOB thank you so much!! You being happy makes me happy so it’s happiness all around!!! What a good!!!

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So! I’m about 4 followers from 100 so I said to myself “fuck it” and decided to post these anyway.

Mostly because of the stupid fandom bullshit that has been going on - I feel like we need a little positivity in this fandom right now.

So, have some Scooby Doom Flower Crown Edits of Papa and some of the Ghouls.

I need more pictures of Ghouls haha.

With that, I would love to take submissions or suggestions, so my ask and submit boxes SHOULD be open now. If you would like to see more of these, that’s the best way to do it. Unless you want to edit them yourself.

Bmblbweek day 6: Parents

Kali: … *Kali stood at the door leading to the back yard.* Yang dear.

Yang: Yes, Kali? *Yang called out as she set down Yin in her crib and rolled down her shirt.* What’s up?

Kali: Do you know *Kali began, pointing out to the backyard with a confused and questioning expression.* what THIS is all about?

Yang: *Yang looked out and held back a laugh.* Oh my god. Hehe.

~Backyard~

Ghira: You look tired Tai. Why don’t you take a break?

Tai: Nah. I ain’t tired at all. Hell, I can do this all day. Though you seem to be sweating up a storm. There’s no shame in calling it quits.

Ghira: Haha, I never quit.

Tai: Neither do I.

Blake: Well I wish one of you would because this is ridiculous. *Blake stated  with a blank yet annoyed look on her face.* Why am I even here anyway?

Tai: We needed a judge.

Ghira: Just to make sure there is no cheating.

Blake: Uh-huh… And what is this for again? 

Ghira/Tai: See who babysits Yin. *The two fathers said simultaneously.*

Blake: … And you thought instead of asking me and my wife, your daughter Tai, who we would want to babysit our daughter that you would decide by challenging each other to a single hand hand stand while balancing on basketball? *Blake cocked an eyebrow looking down as the two men sweating with red faces.*

Tai: We… We thought it would be better then sparring.

Ghira: And it sound ridiculous when you put it that way.

Blake: *Blake shakes her head and starts to walk back to the house. Once inside, Blake gave Yang a kiss and hug her mom.* Hey honey. Is Yin sleep?

Yang: *Yang returned the kiss and hugged Blake.* I just put her down for a nap.

Kali: Sweetie. What are your father and Tai-

Blake: They are seeing how will babysit Yin tomorrow.

Kali: Ooooooh… Are you going to tell them you got Sun and Ruby with her girlfriend to do it?

Blake/Yang: Nope.

Favorite moments from the wedding:

  • Way more tears than I ever expected.  I was crying left and right.
  • A bee getting stuck between the layers of my tulle dress (that thing was a bug net!) and gently trying to get out without frightening it.  "Don’t get nervous little guy…You’ve got a big job to do…You’re not dying here.  You’ve gotta pollinate the world!“ (The bee made it.)
  • Little high five after his vows.  He did well, despite writing them the night before.  All about how he has horrible luck, and how I taught him that we make our own luck…And that we probably shouldn’t go to Vegas anytime soon because we used up all his luck on me. My pride and joy was the line in my vows that said, “I will be the DPS to you healer” and all the gamers in the audience shed a tear.  
  • A flower pedestal falling over right after the officiant said, “And for those of you who couldn’t be here or have passed, you are here in spirit.” My grandma was there, no doubt.
  • Going out for our first look, it’s sprinkling just slightly, I tap Harrison on the shoulder and I don’t even wait to let him see me because I’m just crying and hugging him and so overwhelmed by the moment.  I don’t think that’s how the first look is supposed to go, haha, oops!
  • Singing I Want You Back to a room full of my friends singing and dancing along with me.
  • My cute dusty pink jellies that I wore because there was no way this girl was wearing heels in the grass.
  • Singing Rivers and Roads with one of my bridesmaids and best friends to close out the night.  Belting is hard through happy tears.
  • Hearing my student, @braveasabadger , rock it with my husband at the keys, friends on drums and bass, and my voice teachers listening in.  So proud.  (Also, the Star Wars book she got Harrison had him entranced, so good work, Lucy.)
  • Friends from all over the world coming together for a day, and watching as they all become friends over the night. The best.
  • Jamming with so many incredible musicians and friends.   Which is so hilarious, because notoriously, when Harrison asked me to jam when we first met, I said no.  (For clarification, I thought he was way too good and way too cute and I didn’t want embarrass myself…But as he says, we finally got to jam.)
  • Singing Jenny (Flight of the Conchords) after our first song (Overjoyed) and completely shocking everyone with Harrison’s hilarious acting abilities.
  • New name.  That’s weird.  And really fun.  (I keep telling Harrison to say my name and he says super slowly, “Christiiiiiiine….  W…hat was that?”)
  • My officiant is one of my closest friends, the woman who took care of me growing up while my mom was at work.  I’ve since taken care of her kids for years, and she is like a second mother to me.  At the rehearsal dinner, she said this in a speech: “I asked your mom once, isn’t it hard to leave your kids every day for work?  And she said, isn’t it so wonderful for both of them to know that there is this incredible community that loves them and cares for them and will be there when I’m not.  And that’s what this room–that community that loves you more than anything.”  (Did I mention there were a lot of tears last weekend?)
  • It was magical, it was perfect.  My car may be totaled in a hit and run on the morning of (still waiting on the shop to get a final verdict on the severity) but hey, I’m married, and it was the perfect weekend.  The day flew by, but I enjoyed every moment and wouldn’t change any of it for the world.
A chat with SDJ:  A Lesson in Sugar Psychology – Into the mind of a Controlling SD

I posted the following last year and decided for a variety of reasons to remove it from my blog.  I recently decided that it was still a post worth reading, so, I am taking it out of my private archive and posting it again:

I got a message from a SB who raised some interesting issues.  I was in “procrastination mode” as far as my vanilla work, lol, so I turned my attention to her situation.  I am providing our “chat”, basically in full [Note:  she gave me her permission to share this with all of you!].  I think the coolest thing in this exchange was that I was able to zero in on this guy’s “psychological profile” in pretty short order and that she was able to confirm that I was “spot on”.  So, without further adieux, I present a sugardaddyfirst – “A Chat with SDJ”.  Enjoy!

SB:  hey SDJ! Can you help me interpret a sugar daddy’s perspective? I’m with a married man. He offered to book me a hotel in my name and I freaked out because I didn’t want to give him my real name. He got upset over it and I told him I needed time to trust him. All of a sudden, he said he wants to be my boyfriend and that he’s going to leave his wife soon. Can you help me understand why he said that?

Me:  Hi there, sugar.  What do you mean that he offered to book you a hotel room?  For what?  In other words, were you planning to meet him for a rendez vous at Hotel X and he wanted to book the room in your name, or that he wants to book you a hotel room because you are traveling somewhere without him?

SB:  He wanted to book me a hotel for a few days because I needed a place to stay temporarily.

Me:  … so he was going to stay with you?

SB:  No. He wasn’t.  I needed a place to stay and I had a hard time finding one on my own. So he offered to take care of it for me without expecting anything in return.  but our convo following the refusal to giving him my real name was very weird. He was talking about being my boyfriend.  He’s always on SA, so I know he’s not looking to be my boyfriend. why was he BSing me like that? that whole talk of leaving his wife and stuff?

Me:  … it’s a common asshole stunt that married men sometimes pull.  He said that because he thinks that’s what you want to hear. But, he will never do it.  Also, he figures that if you are willing to be his “mistress” until “he leaves his wife”, you will be willing to fuck him for free.

SB:  I told him not to divorce his wife and responded with, “So you don’t want to be with me?”  Men are sooo confusing.  Should I have less reason to trust him now? I was eventually going to give him my real name. But now I’m kind of backing away.

Me:  lol. They are only confusing if you let yourself be confused by the bullshit they say.  I’m telling you, this is all an attempt to get in your pants for little or no money, nothing more, nothing less.  Nothing confusing about it.  

And, as far as the hotel room, if he is willing to put you up for less than a week, and, if he’s going to use his credit card to pay for it, he can and should put it in his own name, not yours.  It shouldn’t be a problem.

He wants to know your real name so that he can “find out about you” and stalk you, if he finds the need to do so.

I don’t blame you for not trusting him.  Two big red flags:  the whole “I’m leaving my wife” is a crock, so he’s untrustworthy as is his attempt to get your name for a hotel room when he doesnt need it.

SB:  Okay, so when my gut feelings were telling me that this man has got something up his sleeve, they were right.  thank you! I don’t think he would have sex with me for free, though. Money is not an issue for him. He’s paid me, even when no sex is involved.  another thing, he wants me to be loyal to him. Yet he’s always on SA. What’s up with that?

Me:  Yes, you have a good “gut instinct”!  Always follow it!  And, yeah, there is something up his sleeve.  Even if the issue isn’t money in and of itself, you can bet it’s something else. It could be a means to control or manipulate you, for example.  And, who knows, maybe he does actually “believe” that he will leave his wife or he wants you to want that.  It’s all forms of control.

SB:  OMG, HE SAID HE WANTS TO CONTROL ME, BUT I THOUGHT HE MEANT SEXUALLY

Me:  haha! disco!  See what I mean?  lol

SB:  I would let him control me sexually as part of a fantasy, BUT NOT IN REAL LIFE. I’m a human being with my own goals!

Me:  He’s a control freak – and that would include sexually – but for him, it means totally control your life and that’s why he wants you to be “loyal”. He wants to control who you fuck, or more specifically, he wants to make sure that you don’t have sex with anyone else because, in his mind, it would weaken his control over you

SB:  He wants me to have sex with his friends.

Me:  … that’s still control, baby!  Okay, maybe he’ll let you have sex with others, but he gets to say who.  And he’ll wanna watch, film it, or who knows what! Which, if you’re down with it, that’s fine, but, believe me, it will happen on his terms, not yours

SB:  so you’re pretty much saying that he wants to be in control of my life outside of our SB/SD relationship? hmm, interesting. I don’t mind being honest with everything with the right SD, but I need to internally screen these men, you know?

Me:  Yes, exactly. He wants to control your life outside the SD/SB relationship, which is fucked up!  And, I agree with you and approach arrangements the same way – I like being honest and direct, because that makes the whole relationship so much better, but, you do have to do a lot of “screening” before you open up to a guy.

SB:  thank you so much, I LOVE YOU <3 this makes so much more sense!

SB (a little later):  So yes, he wants to watch other people have sex with me. I don’t want to, should I let him know?

Me:  hmm,  this guy is a kinky rascal, isn’t he? And, that’s saying something coming from me!  ;-)

Remember this:  it’s your body, so you get to call the shots.  See a post of mine called Your Body Your Rules”  

So, if you don’t want to do it, don’t, and, more importantly, don’t get put in the position where you may have no choice! Yes, let him know that you are absolutely not comfortable with that up front before you walk into a room, and to your surprise, he’s there with two of his friends and a camcorder!

SB:  A kinky rascal, hahaha! you sound like the coolest sugar daddy ever, your sugar babies are so lucky!

anonymous asked:

do you headcanon any of the hs characters as trans? or are there any trans characters in truststuck? like i know you said it can be up to our interpretation, but do you consider any of them yourself, as trans?

i have a few that i do like to headcanon as trans :3c
but i dont wanna name any names because i dont want people going ‘what they said is canon’ and ruin the whole freedom of interpretation.

but yeah i think i do see at least a couple of em.

anonymous asked:

Okay so I'm really wanting to rp with someone over kik with a specific pairing (*cough* MARKISNOTONFIRE *cough*) but I can't find anyone who will??? I'm sorry if you don't support roleplaying, you can delete my question if you'd like. I hope you're doing well and bless you for this ship 💛

There’s not a lot of fandom stuff that freaks me out, tbh. :p I have a thirteen-year-long YuGiOh rp goin’ with my bestie, so nah, I don’t dislike rp. I know there are different considerations to be taken when it involves rpf, but I think as long as you’re respectful, using common sense and discretion, and making a solid distinction between your rp character and the actual person, you’re likely to be okay. I see it kinda like writing fanfic, but with more than one writer. I know it can be a disputed subject, but I think a lot of it really comes down to respecting the wishes and privacy of the person you want to base a character on. 

That said, I don’t have much advice for finding an rp partner, because I’m a creature of habit, haha. I guess you just kinda have to float the idea out there, and hope that someone with a similar interest will find ya. Maybe check through the ship tag on tumblr and see who’s around?

I hope you’re doing well, also. :3 And the ship is actually @pixelatedcrow‘s baby; they requested it initially. :)

Originally posted by medicham

Sass Master

Author’s Note:: Changed the show because I do not know anything about the xfactor.

Anonymous said:

Can you do a grant gustin imagine we’re the reader is a judge on xfactor as well as grants celebrity crush. He brings the flash cast to an audition to watch and he’s surprised about how sassy she is and afterwards he and the cast meet her then they ends up dating

Grant’s POV

Today I decided to take the cast of The Flash to see the America’s Got Talent. I mainly wanted to see my celebrity crush, Y/N Y/L/N. She is so sassy, a nerd like me, a beautiful woman, creative, inspirational. Who wouldn’t love Y/N? I was so excited to go and see the show. I was buzzing and about ready to jump out of the car. If only I really was the Flash, I would already be there. (Like my joke?)

“Grant, man why are you shaking so much?” Carlos asked, because I was shaking my legs.

“Just excited to uh see the talent.” I say, and he sees right through my lie. Granted (HAHA) I was excited to see the talent, but I was more excited to see Y/N in action. I was in the car with Carlos, Danielle, and Tom Felton. Tom Cavanagh was going to meet us there.

“Mate, you want to see Y/N. We know you.” Tom said to me, chuckling because of the blush that had formed on my face.

“So what? Don’t tease me.” They all laugh.

“It’s in the guidelines. We must poke fun. But she is beautiful. I will say.” Danielle says, pulling into the venue parking area. I about jumped out of the car when we parked. We all walk inside, I want to scream with excitement. We go to our seat, which happen to be kind of behind the judging table. Perfect, I can look at Y/N. We were a little early. We had to be to get our seats. Y/N was walking around checking to make sure everything was okay. I overheard her.

“Now you are sure nothing will break or come tumbling down? I don’t want our guests to get hurt. I had that happen once on a different show.” The guy she was talking to nodded and told her something that I could not hear as well. She is so caring. She sees us and waves. OMG OMG OMG. I wave back quite enthusiastically. She giggles and walks back stage.

“If she didn’t know she was your celebrity crush, she sure does now.” Cavanagh said, laughing behind me.

“Oh shut up! I can’t help it.” I pout.

It was time for the judges to come out now. First Howie comes out, Mel B, Y/N, then Simon.

“New year, new talent! New judge as well. Welcome Y/N!” Howie said into the microphone.

“Thank you, Howie. I am so glad to be here with the people I look up to. I am so excited to see the talent that is in America! How about you guys? Are you ready?!” She asks the crowd. We all cheer. There were many acts. One guy was a contortionist.

“Oh. My. God. What did I just watch?” Y/N asked to no one.

“I don’t know but that was disgusting but in a good way.” Mel B said.

“I just- how can you maneuver your body into all of those positions? I can barely do a split.” Y/N said. She was pretty funny.

“I can do a split.” Howie said.

“More like split the decisions Howie. You can’t do a split.”

“I can to!”

“No fighting with me Howie.”

Howie pouts but then they vote. He got through. Then this guy comes on, he is a comedian. He was saying some great stuff. Had Y/N laughing so hard she was actually crying. I was too.

“You remind me of me when I was your age.” Howie said, about to say something else but Y/N mumbled.

“When the dinosaurs roamed the Earth?”

“I am not that old. As I was saying. You were nervous but when you started, you got the groove and you were a natural.”

“I loved it, I was crying because I was laughing so hard. Howie can’t do that yet. You’ve got some great talent.” Y/N says making the crowd laugh and the comedian laugh. He was voted through. The show was over then. Y/N went around and got some pictures with some of her fans, then she came up to me and the cast.

“Hey, you guys are on the Flash right? I am a very big fan of the show. Would you guys like to come back stage with me?” She asks, I way too quickly said yes. Before she even got the rest of the question out. She chuckles and rubs my arm. We follow her backstage. She offers us refreshments and then she pulls me aside.

“A little birdy told me that you have a crush on someone at the judges table.” I look at her surprised, my cheeks growing red like a tomato. “Felton is a good friend of mine.” She chuckles and places her hand on my arm. It is so warm and it feels like it should be on me at all times. Whoa Gustin, way to be weird.

“She may like you too.” Mel B says, walking past us.

“MEL! I was gonna give him some suspense, make him sweat it. You are no fun!” Y/N retorts, causing me to laugh.

“That is nice to know. Very nice to know the feelings are mutual. Would she like to go on a date with me?” I ask.

“I will have to think about that.” She ponders the thought. “Only if! You give me a kiss on the cheek. And a hug. No fancy restaurant.”

“Hmmm I think I can do that.” I lean and kiss her cheek then hug her. Her arms go up around my neck and it is so nice. So perfect. She smells sweet too. Grant, stop being weird. I pull back and look into her eyes. She grabs her phone from her uh chest and hands it to me.

“I will need those digits.” She says, causing me to laugh again. I put my number in her phone and take a picture on her phone of us. She had a beautiful smile. I take one on my phone where we were doing silly faces. Still beautiful.