because sometimes i don't understand people


anonymous asked:

Do you find yourself attracted to more guys or girls, or is it more 50/50? A lot of people don't seem to know that bisexuals can have a prefrence

I’d like to preface this before I answer. bisexuals can have a preferences (just like anyone can have preferences), but i don’t like perpetuating stereotypes that there is always a preference or that an attraction to multiple genders can be broken down into percents because that’s not really/always how it works. It can for some people, but i’ve always seen this rhetoric as a way people who aren’t Bi+ try to understand what it’s like to be Bi+ and sometimes these tend to be the same people who use this rhetoric to simultaneously say we’re “half-straight, half-gay” since our attraction can apparently be boiled down to percents.

I use percents when talking to people who I know aren’t biphobic, but to the untrained ear that can get twisted quick and allow for biphobia to prosper, you know?

now to answer: honestly? girls are hot. boys are hot. nb are hot. people are hot. i’m an equal opportunity ho w no preference tbh. gun to head i’d say girls, but that’s really simplifying the complexity of what it means and feels like to be Bisexual+

Matthew Daddario Quotes
  • "We call our shoes ‘sneakers,’ right? But they're not really sneaking."
  • "Can't wait till they invent phones with keyboards."
  • "I don't know this guy. He came to hang out so I complimented his hair."
  • "How many artichokes can you eat in one sitting?"
  • "No, go back to my idea!"
  • "Maybe, they'll throw the books out. Just not follow the books anymore."
  • "Hey guys did everyone floss today? You gotta floss every day. Otherwise, your dentist makes you feel bad."
  • "I play piano but I won't call it a talent."
  • "I'm the funniest person in the cast and that's simply because everybody else is so painfully unfunny."
  • "There is literally no memory left in my phone. I took fourteen thousand blue sky photos and I need all of them."
  • "Send him photos of fried chicken and crab cakes."
  • "I have a dentist appt tomorrow. I'm not gonna brush my teeth tonight. Also not going to shower. This is going to be painful for everyone."
  • "You are not trash, you are lovely!"
  • "Don't sign contracts in your blood. It's usually not required by any reputable party."
  • "He's slippin' out his little tongue eating snail treats off the ground."
  • "I will eat anywhere in the house. I'll eat cheese crackers in bed!"
  • "He looks down and sees this wonderful man. He hops down there and smooches that man right on the face. Right in front of everyone."
  • "'s not fair that he is more handsome than me!!!"
  • "Don't do the hokey pokey around witches."
  • "They're never gonna release the deleted scenes to you guys because they're racy and inappropriate."
  • "This video is going on social media!"
  • "I'm ashamed to admit I lied about the selfies. The phone is 98% cow pictures and I can't delete them. I need a new phone. Forgive me."
  • "Thank god I started sandpapering my feet when I was four."
  • "Is Alec appreciating at an increased rate because of an increase in demand? Or is it the same rate as before."
  • "Note, some alpaca do not appreciate head pats."
  • "If humans lived in barns, we'd be smelly, too."
  • "Had to delete all my cow photos to make room for selfies, so I will say 'I appreciate you, cows.'"
  • "Wow. It's spelled Gollum. Wow. So disappointed. Hiding my own cell phone for the next two weeks."
  • "You're a little kitty cat. Yummy, yummy, yummy, yummy kitty cat, kitty cat."
  • "Sometimes when I travel between dimensions, I think, man, I should really buy a sailboat."
  • "If I was running for President, my VP would be a well trained golden retriever."
  • "Who's not going to watch Hamlet in space? I mean, Space Hamlet!"
  • "I just think we should all acknowledge what is awesome about Harry!"
  • "I like eating food after dark."
  • "Generally, people avoid kissing their sister in a healthy life."
  • "If you don't like my zebra leggings, it's because you just don't understand zebra leggings."
  • "I think we should provide more showers for cows."
  • "If I'm having a bad day, I eat pizza."
  • "I hope Google uses the same algorithm to encrypt my email as my pocket does to tie knots with my headphones."
  • "I would own a farm. Not like growing crops but maybe have a few animals like cows, and maybe an alpaca or a llama. I would chop wood all day."
  • "Dog. #dog. Dog. Dog."
  • "Had fun tweeting with/at you guys. Phone is about to die. Gonna go get more double-A batteries."
  • "The jackhammer has been joined by his friend, the concrete saw. Rare that you get two music legends right outside your window like this."
  • "Interdimensional cat smuggling is severely punished. But you can make a killing on the black cat market."
  • "You should just give up on me like I did. So done with me right now I can't even."
  • "What am I fan of? No one's ever asked me this before! Oh man."
  • "I don't know why they say that. I think they're poking fun at me."
  • "Congrats. You deserve that sailboat."
  • "I don't know. I don't have any pet peeve. Yapping little dogs, I guess. Buttons that don't go up right."
  • "Donkeys look like rabbit horses."
  • "Everyone is all, 'follow your heart.' If that worked I'd be watching Shadowhunters in my spaceship."
  • "Am I making this up?"
  • "I don't condone it, but I understand it, and therefore, I will not pass judgment on it."
  • "I can eat a pound of pork rinds."
  • "I am your bird king!"
  • "Baby pigs or baby cows? They're both good options."
  • "I have deleted a single photo from my phone. I have room for one selfie. Living on the edge. If it happens, no second chances."
  • "She gets it at a Shadowhunter tailor where we get all our stuff. Are you serious?"
  • "My cell phone is not the most important thing in my life. It just feels that way."
  • "Kill her immediately. Problem solved."
  • "You're not me? Most people aren't, in my experience."
  • "Man I've spent a whole year talking about sailboats and I could have just jumped on this SHIP."
  • "Reminder not to cite 'game of thrones' as my motivation for getting into politics."
  • "To all the people who threaten to punch me in the face... Do I have to be concerned or is that a love thing?"
  • "Put this on?! Fit it on my body?!"
  • "I’m going to shave today. Nobody will recognize me and I’ll have to reintroduce myself to all my friends."
  • "Don't get me started on this question."
  • "Okay, quick question. What does it mean when someone says they are your 'trash?' Asking for a friend..."
  • "Wait, 'SexyBack' is by Justin Timberlake?"
  • "Everyone's smooching everyone and Alec just wants to do his job. That's why he's the best and deserves a big smooch."

Rocknaldo was a good episode with an important message.


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I definitely saw it as an allegory for cultural appropriation. Ronaldo sees the gems as ‘other’. He even has the discussion with Steven about how the Crystal Gems aren’t ***really*** ‘Rock People’. (Even after Steven tells him that he finds those words offensive). Even though Steven is a Gem, the Crystal Gems ARE Gems.

Then he goes and tries to become part of the group, become a Gem. Takes on what he THINKS are their characteristics and even goes so far as to begin to tell Steven what is and is not Gem behaviour. Sound familiar? 

Ronaldo is not a good ally, or a good friend. Connie is a wonderful example of both a friend and ally to Steven. She’s part of the Crystal Gems not because she demanded it or asked it but because she’s proven herself as someone who cares about them. She’s someone willing to put herself in vulnerable positions for Steven and Steven feels the same. The fact that Ronaldo says it’s only because she’s Steven’s girlfriend is significant. It shows he has no understanding of the core values of the Gems.

Honestly there’s a lot to unpack in this episode.

I know people are upset because there was a teaser that we’d be meeting a new Gem. That was kinda a shitty move. HOWEVER not every episode can further the grand, overarching plot. Sometimes we need to have other episodes and I think this one was a FANTASTIC one that tackled some serious issues in a way kids can see as approachable.

anonymous asked:

hi! i understand that it must be difficult to provide so many shitposts daily (thank you!), and that posts that people might not consider shitposts happen sometimes because of that, so i really don't want to be rude with this, but categorizing your recent teddy lupin post, something that asks for support in a trans headcanon, as a shitpost, seems a little... trivializing of something that gives comfort to a marginalized group?

Hey there! That’s a valid concern, I’ll grant you. To my book, the ‘shitpost’ part of our name is a bit of a misnomer these days - we post shitposts, sure, but also just straight-up jokes and sad posts and PSAs and headcanons. Shitposts are like about 25% of our output these days.

And we don’t really want to stop posting headcanons! They make us happy, especially because we are not straight or cis and we like putting a bit of our identities into posts. So, I understand your hesitation, but tbh I wouldn’t even class any of our posts that deal mostly with trans headcanons (or any other minority headcanon) as shitposts, because they’re clearly just headcanons. 

The only thing I can think for situations like this is to start a headcanon tag, to make it clear that these aren’t to be considered shitposts? If that’ll make you and others more comfortable I’d be happy to start doing that. Like I say, I understand where you’re coming from completely with all this. If we tag headcanon posts like this as ‘Accio Headcanon’, say, would that work/be less trivialising?

(Does that make sense? It makes sense to me but I’m the one writing it so please let me know if this post is an incoherent mess.)

Scorpio's Opinion of the Signs
  • Aries: I like how passionate you are, but like could you maybe love me more? Or maybe like tell ME WHAT YOU FUCKING THINK it's annoying when you just shrug off important things.
  • Taurus: You're pretty okay, and when things are good, they're great. However, when things are bad they're fucking hell. Could you not hold a grudge for 3000000 years please?
  • Gemini: I mean, when we first started talking it was alright, but the second we became closer it was like "what are you and why don't you ever talk about anything even slightly important" You're funny tho
  • Cancer: I LOVE YOU, except for when you get really pissed off at tiny things. However, I really like how you know how to talk about things seriously and you can also be really sweet. You're so generous and caring.
  • Leo: Honestly, you're not all that too bad, until we start arguing. I only have problems with Leos who don't agree with me. When they don't, it's like world war 400 up in this bitch. But you're super funny, and I like your passion.
  • Virgo: Your attention to detail is appreciated, but I don't like the way you are stuck in your ways and can be stuck up. You're good for deep conversations and cuddles though.
  • Libra: As best friends, I love the shit out of you. As for a partner, you're way too flighty and change your mind too much and don't commit enough. I like how you see the good in everything.
  • Scorpio: I love other Scorpios, until we fight. An argument between two Scorpios will go on for literally years because neither one will give up. Sex between two Scorpios is hecka great though
  • Sagittarius: I like how unique you are. I like how much you like to put yourself out there and be seen, but sometimes it can be too much like narcissism and I don't like that. Also try to stop exaggerating.
  • Capricorn: Do you understand that ignoring people all the time is really annoying? Also stop trying to compete with me. I mean, besides that you're pretty good to talk to and you have a nice sense of humor.
  • Aquarius: I don't understand you, I don't understand why you don't feel things and that when you do you won't just say it, because talking about things helps so much. I like your mind though, I can have very intellectual conversations with you for hours.
  • Pisces: I adore you, until you're mad. Your look at the world is so dreamy and romantic, and I love that. I love how you can talk in depth about literally anything with me. I just don't like how you are such a demon when you're mad. It's like chill, you're a baby fish, you're not a swamp demon and you're not fooling anyone.

anonymous asked:

I love your art and don't agree with people attacking you but one thing people are angry with Pewdie about is that he does not separate a joke that is funny from a comment or action that hurts people who are not in his position. That is all. I don't care if you draw him; you are an artist and you should be able to draw whatever you want, but I just don't want you to think Pewdie is innocent of bad behaviour.

i understand his jokes sometimes go far he even did some Islam jokes 

did i get sad yeah i did 

did i get angry and writ bad thing at him no i didn’t 

because i understand this is a joke he doesn’t mean what he say he is making a character ( pewdiepie ) 

 he make jokes at “everyone” even “himself”

yeah he did stupid stuff but he is not the only one :\ there is some bad YouTubers who are really bad and mean but they didn’t get hate as mush as him ( just because he is a 1 most subscribing channel )

and even with his bad jokes he made a lot of people happy and give so mush money to charity 

i dont care what people say but pewdiepie is good person and that’s the only thing matter to me :)

yesbabyjiminie  asked:

Hey Sab! I noticed that this past year RM is a little bit more open to acting cute, doing aegyo&just fan service in general. He mentioned in one of his latest Vapps that he feels more comfortable doing this now so I can understand this change, but I was wondering what are your thoughts on this? Personally, I spent so long seeing his more reserved version that it still catches me off guard when he acts cute. I don't love him any less, I'm happy he's more comfortable but sometimes it's still weird

hi! and though I understand where you’re coming from I don’t feel that way at all. to me I always saw namjoon and rap monster as two different people. namjoon is the soft cute one that did aegyo (not often but still did it) and he would often speak about things he found cute etc. but rap monster was different. he was hard, intimidating, cocky ,and harsh. rap monster does not do aegyo because namjoon and rap monster are two different people, two different identities, who different personalities. 

but yes within the last year or so you can see him taking down the wall between rap monster and namjoon. allowing himself to be a part of rap monsters personality. he doesn’t need rap monster to be such a huge separation from himself as he seems to be becoming more comfortable with and about himself. rap monster was kinda like very thing namjoon wanted to be but couldn’t. we can see him speaking about this lack of identity/worry/loss/etc a lot and as namjoon and rap monster are coming together, personality traits from namjoon are starting to be seen in rap monster and it’s so cute to see this change. to see this overall comfort and happiness and self acceptance. I love it so much and doesn’t throw me off at all

anonymous asked:

is that about the houie post? because lmfao if only they knew how that person bullied and harassed larries after jay's passing, or everything they've said about louis. sometimes i feel like people don't understand that people can't stand houies not because of a difference of opinion (if that was the case i wouldn't follow /anyone/,) but because 98% of them are genuinely horrible.


anonymous asked:

Lol so much infp/enfp controversy around 😂😅 i agree tho. I dislike i/enfps because they are selfish and manipulative but.. Wait for it......I AM AN INFP😅 I attract those types somehow? But maybe because i am one i see through their games and bs? I don't know. One thing is for sure: sometimes i doubt I'm an INFP because i look at those people in my life who are also one and feel repulsed and angry that i might be like them. My ask is pointless but maybe someone identifies? What do you think?

Many xNFPs have a really hard time to accept that all their actions are selfish because their Fi wants so desperately to be good and moralistic. What they don’t understand is that selfish ≠ automatically bad.
A billionaire who donates to charity simply for tax reasons may act selfish, but he still helps thousands of people through his actions. And a parent who smothers their children and always protects them from every minor inconvenience, having them grow up in a bubble world, does act unselfish but still does harm. The intentions are worthless, only the outcome counts.

anonymous asked:

More of an unpopular opinion than a feel maybe? I have no problem with White People jokes because I understand that they don't do nearly as much harm as jokes/stereotypes that are actually racist, plus they're usually true. But I do feel sometimes that people go too far and end up verging on being ableist, much in the same way that some feminists will joke about "grown men in their mothers' basements" without thinking about how that can be ableist.

the signs' specialties
  • aries: aggressive passive aggression. when they are upset, everything they touch becomes a weapon. slam the door even harder, i don't think the people ten streets down heard you clearly enough. it's best to let them cool down before confronting them about anything, should you need to.
  • taurus: careless words. it's not that they don't think before they speak, it's that they genuinely don't believe their words will affect you. when the damage is done, they often cannot - or will not - understand why what they said was hurtful, because it does not make sense to them in the scope of their world view.
  • gemini: ignoring you unintentionally. gemini are such quick thinkers that they sometimes can get carried away doing things they believe to be most important in that moment, leaving behind people and situations that might require their attention more than they think. a good part of the time, they don't even realize what's happened until someone brings it up, and it might be too late to apologize then.
  • cancer: selective memory. you may have been screaming at each other last night, but now they act like nothing happened. some cancers fail to realize that closure cannot come without talking about what transpired, and that sometimes apologies must be made. sitting on an ever-growing list of conflicts, no matter how quiet, will eventually affect you adversely. do not run.
  • leo: empty exuberance. it's alright to have emotions - unsavory ones, as well. it's part of being human, and feeling jealous or unhappy with something in your life isn't a crime: don't act happy for the sake of others around you, because you are good at it, and people will believe you do not need them. friends should not only see you at your happiest; smiling all the time will only hurt everyone more in the long run. you are allowed to rely on another person, and to cry.
  • virgo: impartiality. a large part of the gross misconception that virgos are usually emotionless or somehow psychologically shallow stems from their talent with balancing the conflicting ideologies people in their life hold, all without seeming ruffled or altered by it at all. their ability to rationalize does not mean they cannot feel, however, and once their trust and good favor is broken, it is near-impossible to regain. choosing to withhold an opinion does not mean it doesn't exist. virgos know this well.
  • libra: second chances. infuriatingly patient as they are, libras sometimes need a helpful nudge in the right direction when it comes to cutting ties with someone no longer healthy for them to be around. their tendency to believe the best of another person and to give the benefit of the doubt can work against them in these situations. though they do have their limits, it may take far too long to exhaust them.
  • scorpio: concealment. this is different from leo's cheerful veil of security. despite being forthright and intense people, scorpios can be difficult to read, and they take great pains to conceal the fact that they can be sensitive and highly empathetic - certainty is a must if they wish to know someone, but this habit of hiding things can hinder connections that would have flourished otherwise.
  • sagittarius: indecision. the downside to being filled with energy, creative or otherwise, is that it can go misdirected. an unfulfilled or unhappy sagittarius can do an immense amount of harm both to themselves and others, especially if they're focused on the wrong things, or a cause that doesn't truly satisfy them. there are times when the correct decision is doing nothing at all. you don't have to be occupied or active to be worth something. reflect on yourself instead.
  • capricorn: disregarding their own advice. even though capricorns have a very good idea of what everyone should be doing and when (and how, and how fast), their crippling sense of self-doubt often stops them from treating themselves like anyone else, and stalls their acquisition of the standards they wish to live up to. though they know what they should do, fear halts them. risk is a part of existing, and we must live with it.
  • aquarius: blatant snubbery. a jilted aquarius, or at least one who perceives they've been insulted or somehow deprioritized, can turn on their built-in acid factor rather easily - doubly so if they're convinced they're in the complete right. good observational skills and an intuitive sense of what makes people tick can turn them into some of the most unpleasant guilt-trippers. it won't work every time. you'll lose someone to this if you aren't careful.
  • pisces: insight. it doesn't do to dismiss pisces out of hand as being an airyheaded dreamer with no grasp of reality. they are often the sharpest people in the room, though their easygoing nature and willingness to wear their heart on their sleeve makes others mistakenly believe it is easy to take advantage of them. their innate sense of emotion can make them very suited to identifying tells: they have the potential to be some of the best manipulators.
John Mulaney Sentence Starters
  • "The more you do stuff, the better you get at dealing with how you still fail at it a lot of the time."
  • "All my money is in a savings account. My dad has explained the stock market to me maybe 75 times. I still don't understand it."
  • "It is 100% easier not to do things than to do them, and so much fun not to do them - especially when you were supposed to do them."
  • "In terms of instant relief, canceling plans is like heroin."
  • "I was always the squarest person in the cool room, and alternatively, sometimes the weirder person at the mainstream table."
  • "I have a lot of stories about being a kid because it was the last time I was interesting."
  • "Why do people shush animals? They've never spoken."
  • "A lot of times you're anxious and people say, "Relax. Shut up." And that just feels like, Well, I guess I'm also crazy."
  • "I'm an idiot, but I've shoveled through life rather nicely so far."
  • "I kind of thought, wouldn't it be funny to take a swing at being on the weird side of mainstream?"
  • "I like when things are crazy. Something good comes out of exhaustion."
  • "There's just something really, really funny about someone tearing into me."
  • "Being president looks like the worst job in the world."
  • "Thirteen year olds are the meanest people in the world."
  • "I always though quick sand was gonna be a much bigger problem than it turned out to be."
  • "'Do you want a salad or fries?' that's like asking 'Do you want to go for a jog or freebase cocaine?'"
  • “You have the moral backbone of a chocolate éclair.”
  • “Anyone who’s seen my dick and met my parents needs to die; I can’t have them roaming around. They know too much.”
  • "I was once on the telephone with blockbuster video- Which is a very old fashioned sentence."
  • "I cannot express to you the humiliation of, every Saturday morning, putting on a pair of breakaway pants and never having a reason to break them away -- then they're just pants."
  • "My body is bad at sports: that's the problem."
  • "It was so beautiful today that I only watched four hours of "Law & Order" in my apartment."
  • "I don't look older, I just look worse."
  • "So, I would just have a couple of drinks, and my brain would be like, 'OK, I see where this is headed. We're just going to power down now and get restarted sometime tomorrow morning'."
  • "Here's how easy it was to get away with bank robbery back in the '30s -- as long as you weren't still there when the police arrived, you had a 99% chance of getting away with it."
  • "'Ocean's 11' with women wouldn't work 'cause two would keep breaking off to talk sh*t about the other nine."
  • “Sometimes I’ll be talking to someone, and I’ll be like ‘Yeah, I’ve been really lonely lately’ and they’ll be like ‘Well we should hang out!’ and I’m like ‘No, that’s not what I meant. That’s not what I meant at all.”
  • "We'd all go play jacks by the soda fountain."
  • "No one knows what you're talking about you idiot."
  • "Blackout drinking is when your brain goes to sleep but your body gets all 'Eye of the Tiger' and soldiers on.'
  • "Am I proud of it? No. Just like I'm not proud of the fact that I saw the movie The Notebook in theaters. But it happened!"
  • "You don't know me. I have secrets. Why yesterday I wore my footie pajamas under my clothes and pretended I was a fucking fireman."
  • “Excuse me: I am homeless. I am gay. I have AIDS. I'm new in town.”
  • "Because we're Delta Airlines and life is a fucking nightmare!"
  • "I could never be goth, don't get me wrong, I'm unhappy, it's not that."
  • "To me Person of Interest is almost too flattering. Like, if the police were to pound on my door and go 'A man has been murdered in your building and you are a person of interest' I'd be like 'Moi? Oh do go on. Fresh.' "
  • "Ma'am can you turn off your bluetooth? This is a baptism."
  • "It was really easy to get away with murder before they knew about DNA."
  • "Do you want a plate of fries? If I get fries for the table would you take some? I know you'll eat fries if I get fries!"
  • "I watch so much Law and Order that sometimes I think I'm on an episode of Law and Order."
  • "You asked if I brushed my teeth but I never specified that I did so tonight. If the court reporter reads back my remarks you will see I did not purger myself."
  • "Traveling can get kinda lonely sometimes, actually no that's not the right word, Life. Life can get kinda lonely sometimes."
  • "Scientists have long since wondered if you can make grown men and women cry by playing Tom Jones' It's Not Unusual. And the answer is yes."
  • "Like my god man people are dead! But no you keep stacking those boxes."
  • "You seen this shit? You seen this Home Alone 2: Lost in New York shit?"
  • "As they say in Jerry Maguire, 'You had me at AIDS.'”
  • “Papa, today I met a boy with no eyes.”
  • "Adult life is already so goddamn weird."

anonymous asked:

I don't understand how people can say Hinata never got any development as a character??? Like what is The Pein Arc? What is the War Arc? I don't understand Anti Hinata Posts sometimes.

Hinata legitimately went from this:

To this:

Antis are just bitter af people that are pissed off Naruto married Hinata and not Sakura/Sasuke, like that’s literally it, because there’s no real reason to hate this cinnamon roll:

Originally posted by annalovesfiction

anonymous asked:

whats up with Keith and mothman im so confused

People (including me) make headcanons that Keith is a conspiracy theorist because of the first episode (and his board of evidence).

The Mothman is a cryptid that allegedly took down a bridge. He has red eyes and wings.

People make jokes about Keith (and sometimes Pidge) making theories about the Mothman.

There’s a ton of info about the Mothman online. He could be in space! He could be out there….

signs as oscar wilde quotes
  • Aries: "Our ambition should be to rule ourselves, the true kingdom for each one of us; and true progress is to know more, and be more, and to do more"
  • Taurus: "Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them as much"
  • Gemini: "The suspense is terrible. I hope it will last"
  • Cancer: "Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead"
  • Leo: "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all"
  • Virgo: "I have the simplest tastes. I am always satisfied with the best"
  • Libra: "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken"
  • Scorpio: "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary"
  • Sagittarius: "Never love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear"
  • Capricorn: "The world is a stage and the play is badly cast"
  • Aquarius: "I am so clever sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying"
  • Pisces: "With freedom, books, flowers, and the moon, who could not be happy?"

also you know what?

while I’m here and while I’m pissed off, let me say something really important. 

I know tumblr loves to mock superwholock bloggers and people who love John Green books and all that shit, but please realize that a lot of people in those fandoms are kids. 

a lot of superwholock bloggers are like

13-15 years old

a lot of people who enjoy John Green books are in the same age bracket. 

these are kids. they’re fucking kids and tumblr has this thing about publicly humiliating them. 

I don’t care how annoying you think they are- I’m sure you were really goddamn annoying when you were 13! and yet you most likely didn’t have fucking twenty year olds bullying you.

because that’s what it is. adults bullying children. 

I know that the shows and books are problematic. I know these kids think some problematic shit, but so did you when you were 13. you weren’t born spouting feminist theory. 

I see a lot of posts that were made by some kid in one of these fandoms, that gained thousands of notes after someone added a mocking comment. and it depresses me because sometimes I’ll try to go to the OP’s blog and I’ll be redirected to a “not found” page. these are kids who deleted their fucking blogs because adults thought it was funny to laugh at them. 

I know you don’t like the fandom. I know that it’s problematic. but publicly crucifying kids is not okay. it’s not a joke. it’s disgusting that so many adults who claim to be so accepting find it okay to bully children.

anonymous asked:

This whole story with Even me this putting poorly. It's worse when you read the comments of people thinking the worst. I'm thinking about making a break from Skam because I've invested much in Evak and this me is affecting. Already it sounds lame. Sorry just wanted to get him out of my chest

hello love, i totally understand you! i try to avoid as much as i can really!! but i can’t avoid everything. Sometimes it’s really the best to take a step back from the fandom and check in with yourself! You are the most important thing and i want you to feel good and enjoy this!

  • Aries: "I awoke, only to find out that the rest of the world is asleep" -Leonardo da Vinci
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  • Aquarius: "It is impossible to love and to be wise" -Francis Bacon
  • Pisces: "We do have a distorted view of our fantasies in society, but that's because we don't talk about them enough" -Sasha Grey