because sometimes i don't understand people

vitaminjin  asked:

why one and only wish .... in life ..... to see bangtan in real life so i can look at their beautiful faces, see them in all their natural beauty and warm skin, seeing the glow coming from their faces .... i hate how all the media is whitewashed. i could understand if it happened every now and then, because sometimes the yellows get removed because of colourings, but this is ridiculous!

aaaaaaaa i hate it so much when people whitewash bts, especially taehyung and namjoon their real skin color is so beautiful why would they do that to them.

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Don’t forget Gorillaz fans, Jamie Hewlett exist! He made all you’re favorite band members come to life in the music videos, shorts, ect! He continues drawing them countless times and works day and night to give you new content with the band members! So please appreciate him!!! ❤❤❤

anonymous asked:

Do you find yourself attracted to more guys or girls, or is it more 50/50? A lot of people don't seem to know that bisexuals can have a prefrence

I’d like to preface this before I answer. bisexuals can have a preferences (just like anyone can have preferences), but i don’t like perpetuating stereotypes that there is always a preference or that an attraction to multiple genders can be broken down into percents because that’s not really/always how it works. It can for some people, but i’ve always seen this rhetoric as a way people who aren’t Bi+ try to understand what it’s like to be Bi+ and sometimes these tend to be the same people who use this rhetoric to simultaneously say we’re “half-straight, half-gay” since our attraction can apparently be boiled down to percents.

I use percents when talking to people who I know aren’t biphobic, but to the untrained ear that can get twisted quick and allow for biphobia to prosper, you know?

now to answer: honestly? girls are hot. boys are hot. nb are hot. people are hot. i’m an equal opportunity ho w no preference tbh. gun to head i’d say girls, but that’s really simplifying the complexity of what it means and feels like to be Bisexual+

anonymous asked:

PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD EXPLAIN WHAT AN INFP IS LIKE WHEN IN LOVE BECAUSE I DON'T UNDERSTAND MYSELF PLEASE OH PLEASE I WILL DO ANYTHING

OK AN INFP IN LOVE? HERE WE GO

INFP IN LOVE:
•Obsesses over someone for months before even talking to the person sometimes
•Lots of giggles and blushes when they think about the person
•Tries to keep crush to themselves but when people find out there’s usually a joke made about it because INFP is already so in love
•INFPs literally fall in love every single time they get a crush like not even kidding
•How do you guys love so many people
•Anyway you are in it for the long term and can imagine yourself very happy with this person
•YOU IDEALIZE THE HECK OUT OF THEM
•You imagine them in so many different situations with you by their side
•You like them so innocently it’s adorable
•Still kinda obsessive tho
•Gets huge eyes when face to face with crush
•Listens to so many songs about the crush that it’s basically all you listen to
•Probably on your mind 24/7
•DREAMS ABOUT THEM
•DREAMS

Imagine Woozi trying to hide his red face from Jun after the latter teases him by trying to kiss his cheek.

netflix just added the great british baking show and now i’m obsessed alksjdff i HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend watching it’s such an absolute JOY!!!  🥐🌼🍓🎂🎉

you can see people make everything from beautiful bread 

to super cool displays

Matthew Daddario Quotes
  • "We call our shoes ‘sneakers,’ right? But they're not really sneaking."
  • "Can't wait till they invent phones with keyboards."
  • "I don't know this guy. He came to hang out so I complimented his hair."
  • "How many artichokes can you eat in one sitting?"
  • "No, go back to my idea!"
  • "Maybe, they'll throw the books out. Just not follow the books anymore."
  • "Hey guys did everyone floss today? You gotta floss every day. Otherwise, your dentist makes you feel bad."
  • "I play piano but I won't call it a talent."
  • "I'm the funniest person in the cast and that's simply because everybody else is so painfully unfunny."
  • "There is literally no memory left in my phone. I took fourteen thousand blue sky photos and I need all of them."
  • "Send him photos of fried chicken and crab cakes."
  • "I have a dentist appt tomorrow. I'm not gonna brush my teeth tonight. Also not going to shower. This is going to be painful for everyone."
  • "You are not trash, you are lovely!"
  • "Don't sign contracts in your blood. It's usually not required by any reputable party."
  • "He's slippin' out his little tongue eating snail treats off the ground."
  • "I will eat anywhere in the house. I'll eat cheese crackers in bed!"
  • "He looks down and sees this wonderful man. He hops down there and smooches that man right on the face. Right in front of everyone."
  • "...it's not fair that he is more handsome than me!!!"
  • "Don't do the hokey pokey around witches."
  • "They're never gonna release the deleted scenes to you guys because they're racy and inappropriate."
  • "This video is going on social media!"
  • "I'm ashamed to admit I lied about the selfies. The phone is 98% cow pictures and I can't delete them. I need a new phone. Forgive me."
  • "Thank god I started sandpapering my feet when I was four."
  • "Is Alec appreciating at an increased rate because of an increase in demand? Or is it the same rate as before."
  • "Note, some alpaca do not appreciate head pats."
  • "If humans lived in barns, we'd be smelly, too."
  • "Had to delete all my cow photos to make room for selfies, so I will say 'I appreciate you, cows.'"
  • "Wow. It's spelled Gollum. Wow. So disappointed. Hiding my own cell phone for the next two weeks."
  • "You're a little kitty cat. Yummy, yummy, yummy, yummy kitty cat, kitty cat."
  • "Sometimes when I travel between dimensions, I think, man, I should really buy a sailboat."
  • "If I was running for President, my VP would be a well trained golden retriever."
  • "Who's not going to watch Hamlet in space? I mean, Space Hamlet!"
  • "I just think we should all acknowledge what is awesome about Harry!"
  • "I like eating food after dark."
  • "Generally, people avoid kissing their sister in a healthy life."
  • "If you don't like my zebra leggings, it's because you just don't understand zebra leggings."
  • "I think we should provide more showers for cows."
  • "If I'm having a bad day, I eat pizza."
  • "I hope Google uses the same algorithm to encrypt my email as my pocket does to tie knots with my headphones."
  • "I would own a farm. Not like growing crops but maybe have a few animals like cows, and maybe an alpaca or a llama. I would chop wood all day."
  • "Dog. #dog. Dog. Dog."
  • "Had fun tweeting with/at you guys. Phone is about to die. Gonna go get more double-A batteries."
  • "The jackhammer has been joined by his friend, the concrete saw. Rare that you get two music legends right outside your window like this."
  • "Interdimensional cat smuggling is severely punished. But you can make a killing on the black cat market."
  • "You should just give up on me like I did. So done with me right now I can't even."
  • "What am I fan of? No one's ever asked me this before! Oh man."
  • "I don't know why they say that. I think they're poking fun at me."
  • "Congrats. You deserve that sailboat."
  • "I don't know. I don't have any pet peeve. Yapping little dogs, I guess. Buttons that don't go up right."
  • "Donkeys look like rabbit horses."
  • "Everyone is all, 'follow your heart.' If that worked I'd be watching Shadowhunters in my spaceship."
  • "Am I making this up?"
  • "I don't condone it, but I understand it, and therefore, I will not pass judgment on it."
  • "I can eat a pound of pork rinds."
  • "I am your bird king!"
  • "Baby pigs or baby cows? They're both good options."
  • "I have deleted a single photo from my phone. I have room for one selfie. Living on the edge. If it happens, no second chances."
  • "She gets it at a Shadowhunter tailor where we get all our stuff. Are you serious?"
  • "My cell phone is not the most important thing in my life. It just feels that way."
  • "Kill her immediately. Problem solved."
  • "You're not me? Most people aren't, in my experience."
  • "Man I've spent a whole year talking about sailboats and I could have just jumped on this SHIP."
  • "Reminder not to cite 'game of thrones' as my motivation for getting into politics."
  • "To all the people who threaten to punch me in the face... Do I have to be concerned or is that a love thing?"
  • "Put this on?! Fit it on my body?!"
  • "I’m going to shave today. Nobody will recognize me and I’ll have to reintroduce myself to all my friends."
  • "Don't get me started on this question."
  • "Okay, quick question. What does it mean when someone says they are your 'trash?' Asking for a friend..."
  • "Wait, 'SexyBack' is by Justin Timberlake?"
  • "Everyone's smooching everyone and Alec just wants to do his job. That's why he's the best and deserves a big smooch."
Scorpio's Opinion of the Signs
  • Aries: I like how passionate you are, but like could you maybe love me more? Or maybe like tell ME WHAT YOU FUCKING THINK it's annoying when you just shrug off important things.
  • Taurus: You're pretty okay, and when things are good, they're great. However, when things are bad they're fucking hell. Could you not hold a grudge for 3000000 years please?
  • Gemini: I mean, when we first started talking it was alright, but the second we became closer it was like "what are you and why don't you ever talk about anything even slightly important" You're funny tho
  • Cancer: I LOVE YOU, except for when you get really pissed off at tiny things. However, I really like how you know how to talk about things seriously and you can also be really sweet. You're so generous and caring.
  • Leo: Honestly, you're not all that too bad, until we start arguing. I only have problems with Leos who don't agree with me. When they don't, it's like world war 400 up in this bitch. But you're super funny, and I like your passion.
  • Virgo: Your attention to detail is appreciated, but I don't like the way you are stuck in your ways and can be stuck up. You're good for deep conversations and cuddles though.
  • Libra: As best friends, I love the shit out of you. As for a partner, you're way too flighty and change your mind too much and don't commit enough. I like how you see the good in everything.
  • Scorpio: I love other Scorpios, until we fight. An argument between two Scorpios will go on for literally years because neither one will give up. Sex between two Scorpios is hecka great though
  • Sagittarius: I like how unique you are. I like how much you like to put yourself out there and be seen, but sometimes it can be too much like narcissism and I don't like that. Also try to stop exaggerating.
  • Capricorn: Do you understand that ignoring people all the time is really annoying? Also stop trying to compete with me. I mean, besides that you're pretty good to talk to and you have a nice sense of humor.
  • Aquarius: I don't understand you, I don't understand why you don't feel things and that when you do you won't just say it, because talking about things helps so much. I like your mind though, I can have very intellectual conversations with you for hours.
  • Pisces: I adore you, until you're mad. Your look at the world is so dreamy and romantic, and I love that. I love how you can talk in depth about literally anything with me. I just don't like how you are such a demon when you're mad. It's like chill, you're a baby fish, you're not a swamp demon and you're not fooling anyone.

Rocknaldo was a good episode with an important message.

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I definitely saw it as an allegory for cultural appropriation. Ronaldo sees the gems as ‘other’. He even has the discussion with Steven about how the Crystal Gems aren’t ***really*** ‘Rock People’. (Even after Steven tells him that he finds those words offensive). Even though Steven is a Gem, the Crystal Gems ARE Gems.

Then he goes and tries to become part of the group, become a Gem. Takes on what he THINKS are their characteristics and even goes so far as to begin to tell Steven what is and is not Gem behaviour. Sound familiar? 

Ronaldo is not a good ally, or a good friend. Connie is a wonderful example of both a friend and ally to Steven. She’s part of the Crystal Gems not because she demanded it or asked it but because she’s proven herself as someone who cares about them. She’s someone willing to put herself in vulnerable positions for Steven and Steven feels the same. The fact that Ronaldo says it’s only because she’s Steven’s girlfriend is significant. It shows he has no understanding of the core values of the Gems.

Honestly there’s a lot to unpack in this episode.

I know people are upset because there was a teaser that we’d be meeting a new Gem. That was kinda a shitty move. HOWEVER not every episode can further the grand, overarching plot. Sometimes we need to have other episodes and I think this one was a FANTASTIC one that tackled some serious issues in a way kids can see as approachable.

So, let me get this straight. (haha “straight” lol I love the idioms in this language).

We have asexuals who decide to come out either to their friends, colleagues or just some people in general and they get a response along the lines of: “but have you TRIED having sex/ making out/ being with someone??” and if they answer with “no”, their identity suddenly somehow, beyond my ability of comprehending, loses it’s credibility in the eyes of these people, because they don’t realize, that you don’t need to push yourself to try to feel sexual (or/and romantic) attraction if you’ve already figured out that you don’t in some other way than, let’s say, “experimenting”. But, their identity suddenly isn’t valid in the eyes of the people they came out to, just because of the lack of “sexual” (or/and romantic) experience, which has absolutely no connection to feeling or not feeling this kind of attraction in the first place.

On the other hand we have asexuals like me, who were maybe just slow to realize that we don’t feel something like sexual or/and romantic attraction like others do, or realized that we don’t, but at the time didn’t know there was such a thing as the orientation asexual , and have indeed tried some things we may or not regret/feel repulsed by now. So, one of us comes out and of course, the question posed to us almost immediately is: “but have you TRIED having sex/making out/being with someone??” and in this case the answer is “yes”, and maybe even an elaboration along the lines of “yes, but I didn’t like it” or “yes, but it felt wrong”. And, you know, since people tend to brush aside those asexuals who have figured their orientation out without these experiences, that this time, someone who identifies as asexual and has at least some experience, would finally be valid in their eyes. BUT NO. The next reply we get is: “haha you can’t think you’re asexual just because you didn’t like going out and making out with a guy, he probably just wasn’t good at it!”, and in my case, even if I don’t like going into details about these things, because I am stubborn, I tell them, that if it’s this stupid assumption that makes them think that I’m imagining things, they are still in the wrong, because it wasn’t just one guy, but the feelings and experiences were always the same. And I get dismissed by the same fucking answer: “two or three times sometimes just aren’t enough to know”. 

So here are my questions. Some asexuals get brushed aside because of bullshit like “the lack of experience and therefore verification”. Other asexuals, who have experience, get brushed off because of some other excuse people make up. Is this some kind of paradox?? Is there no way of getting a favourable and understanding answer? Is the lack of sexual/romantic attraction a-spec people  feel really that difficult to comprehend or are people just insensitive?

anonymous asked:

Fuck u. I used to like you a lot and think of you as a friend and you don't remember me, wow. Ok. Fuck you again.

Listen I’m sorry if I forgot to message you or but maybe understand that maybe I’m really tired and I have a lot if work to do. I’m really bad at messaging people, on tumblr or irl friends and sometimes I just want to be alone and to not talk to anybody. Maybe you didnt know that but it makes me really sad because most of the time I dont answer not because I don’t like you, but because I’m just exhausted and want to be left alone. If I hurted u I’m sorry it wasnt my intention and you should message me. I prefer to have a good argument rather than a fuck you. I’m doing my best but i can’t do everything right.
Again i really dont know what the i dont remember you means and you really should message me. Friends don’t send anon, they send private messages saying “Sarah u fucked up let’s talk” and really, I would appreciate that. Now I have to go to school so excuse me

anonymous asked:

hi! i understand that it must be difficult to provide so many shitposts daily (thank you!), and that posts that people might not consider shitposts happen sometimes because of that, so i really don't want to be rude with this, but categorizing your recent teddy lupin post, something that asks for support in a trans headcanon, as a shitpost, seems a little... trivializing of something that gives comfort to a marginalized group?

Hey there! That’s a valid concern, I’ll grant you. To my book, the ‘shitpost’ part of our name is a bit of a misnomer these days - we post shitposts, sure, but also just straight-up jokes and sad posts and PSAs and headcanons. Shitposts are like about 25% of our output these days.

And we don’t really want to stop posting headcanons! They make us happy, especially because we are not straight or cis and we like putting a bit of our identities into posts. So, I understand your hesitation, but tbh I wouldn’t even class any of our posts that deal mostly with trans headcanons (or any other minority headcanon) as shitposts, because they’re clearly just headcanons. 

The only thing I can think for situations like this is to start a headcanon tag, to make it clear that these aren’t to be considered shitposts? If that’ll make you and others more comfortable I’d be happy to start doing that. Like I say, I understand where you’re coming from completely with all this. If we tag headcanon posts like this as ‘Accio Headcanon’, say, would that work/be less trivialising?

(Does that make sense? It makes sense to me but I’m the one writing it so please let me know if this post is an incoherent mess.)

anonymous asked:

what's ur favorite thing about each member

buckle up, a mini essay is coming

also don’t reblog

Originally posted by pen1ag0n

i won’t mention the stuff i already posted here

jinho -  i relate to him a lot, on a personal level?? also… his vocals… i love his english covers a lot. i noticed he tends to hold back when he stings with other members so i’m glad he has magajinho that gives him to opportunity to shine on his own.

hui - this guy made a banger that topped charts but remains humble and keeps on downplaying the whole thing…boi… (get a soundcloud) also he loves every pentagon member so much it shows on his face… happy hui is the best hui.

hongseok - wannabe food blogger yang hongseok…. flop jokes master…. relatable. i am guilty of using his predebut pics as reaction memes.

dawn - he runs on super low energy which is.. relatable (again), also he’s from mars and it’s fascinating, you can’t read him. with time i even grew fond of his tone while rapping.. who would’ve knew!!!!

shinwon - !!!!!!!!!!!!! he’s… amazing…….. supportive great person… remember how terrified he was when yanan was cutting things during his cooking v app…. n he streams you are and every hui song 24/7 bc he wants to make him rich… tbh i love all ten of them but shinon has special place in my heart.

yeo one - how is this person real????? jjanggu is a living contradiction… extra cursed and rude yet calls himself a church oppa. when i look at pictures of him laughing i can hear it. also i’m a big fan of his long note in lukewarm but it seems like no one else is.. lmao

yanan - top visual, a nail to my stan coffin… i have bought a frame to put his picture inside and now it proudly resides on my desk, watching over me. i like him a looot even though i can’t really tell why…

yuto - a good person. a great person!!! precious. i’m all for yuto positivity and adachi appreciation. i really have no words i like him so much. yutoto is wonderful and it sometimes breaks my heart when people are being gross

kino - hyunggu is an exceptional dancer, has a+ aesthetic, produces great tracks in his spare time??? how. also he’s just… warm. cube rly… is lucky to have him (and the rest of ptg as well but kino is an exceptionally great catch if you ask me).

wooseok - lovable little shit, top yanan enabler (annyeong chingudeul was his doing essentially). i still don’t understand why is he so tall but it’s funny so!! also his lyrics are very… distinctive? i hope he grows more and improves because i’m curious!! the potential!!

Originally posted by pen1ag0n

anonymous asked:

Idk if it just a joke I'm not getting or people actually don't get Liam comment about orange squash. For those who I think don't understand, orange squash is a juice drink here. It's a concentrated fruit juice/syrup that you add water to in order to dilute it to make it drinkable. it's mostly consumed by children. i guess he was making a joke about sometimes his excitement is too strong and he needs dilute it, till it's more palatable or something. (hopefully not as negatively as I've worded it)

 I appreciate the British explanation because i had zero clue what orange squash was but it honestly sounds delicious because I tend to identify with the snack choices of 8 year olds. 

But really, excitement is like the orange squash of life, a deep metaphorical tale

anonymous asked:

Hi, I think I really need help. I think that I have been cursed or something. The past year and a half have been the worst of my life, failed relationships, broken heart, car crashes, being fired, and so much worse. I just don't understand why my life has been in a constant downward spiral unless there is something else at work. What can I do to fix my luck, or get my life back on track? Please, I am desperate, I don't know how much more of this I can take.

Sometimes life is like that too. It may not be a curse, because sometimes life just sucks. Unless you pissed off a pro-curse witch at some point, then you may have been cursed, but life sometimes just sucks. It happens to a lot of people, unfortunately, but in the end it will make you stronger and you will get a lot of life experience from the shitty things that happen to you. As someone who has been through the wringer a few times - I am glad that I have in the end. It sucked during those times but it gave me a really thick skin.

Anyway, enough of that. If you are looking at trying to break any potential curse, this is a fantastic masterpost you should check out.

And as far as spells go, I do have a few suggestions for you of things that may help. Confidence is always key when it comes to dusting yourself off and putting yourself back together. Below are a few spells that may help with that.

As far as luck goes:

Other things that may help:

No matter what happens, I do wish you the best in turning everything around. It sucks now, but you got this! Try not to focus on everything that goes wrong, but instead focus on the things that are going right. It seems stupid, but it can help you get through things sometimes! <3

anonymous asked:

When I was working at my old job in a pretty big red and white burger chain, I had an old lady come in and ask for avocado on her burger. The chain doesn't buy or supply avocados, so I told her I couldn't do that for her. She threw a fit in the middle of lunch rush because I was "refusing her avocados" and was convinced that I was hiding them from her. I really don't understand people sometimes.

anonymous asked:

hi! i think in an earlier post you said that you feel like you have a pretty good understanding of the 12th house, and i was wondering if you could say a bit about moon in the 12th house? i have that placement and i don't think i understand it fully -

Moon in the 12th house is an extremely sensitive placement. People who have it are very vulnerable, especially to psychic negativity, as they tend to absorb the energy that surrounds them. Sometimes they become facilitators or instruments of the energy they absorb & can behave very out-of-character, sometimes appearing “fake.” This is because the moon is the instinctive core, patterns of behavior that were learned in childhood – with the moon in the 12th house, many things were perceived as threatening or disposable because the mother or more passive parent was distant somehow & didn’t cultivate any sort of healthy receptivity through nurturance. In adulthood, that manifests in over-receptivity, not being able to shut anything out. Habits are formed & broken all the time with no consistent source or purpose, and they can become very confused people, just wandering through life unprotected.

Moon in the 12th individuals have a precious naivety about them, and it can get them hurt but it can also be extremely healing when wielded as a quality rather than a flaw. They are often very trusting, which can lead to toxic relationships and dependency issues if they aren’t careful, but usually just means that they don’t judge others and they become very caring, very open, very mature in the presence of someone who is troubled or in need. They have a lot of compassion to give, and they’re capable of helping many people. Super empathetic, generally extremely kind, they really want the best for everyone. They can have incredible intuition too – like, we’re talking magical. When developed, they can understand your pain before you say a word.

anonymous asked:

I love your art and don't agree with people attacking you but one thing people are angry with Pewdie about is that he does not separate a joke that is funny from a comment or action that hurts people who are not in his position. That is all. I don't care if you draw him; you are an artist and you should be able to draw whatever you want, but I just don't want you to think Pewdie is innocent of bad behaviour.

i understand his jokes sometimes go far he even did some Islam jokes 

did i get sad yeah i did 

did i get angry and writ bad thing at him no i didn’t 

because i understand this is a joke he doesn’t mean what he say he is making a character ( pewdiepie ) 

 he make jokes at “everyone” even “himself”

yeah he did stupid stuff but he is not the only one :\ there is some bad YouTubers who are really bad and mean but they didn’t get hate as mush as him ( just because he is a 1 most subscribing channel )

and even with his bad jokes he made a lot of people happy and give so mush money to charity 

i dont care what people say but pewdiepie is good person and that’s the only thing matter to me :)

Sometimes, a person just needs to vent. They don’t need advice. They don’t need to be told what to do or how to handle it. There’s a massive chance that they already know. They just need someone to listen and say “I understand” or “it’s gonna be okay” without judging them. It’s really pretty simple and I wish people understood this more. I’m glad I did.