Even though I stan GFriend, I feel like Umji is a useless member. Before you call me a fake fan and all of that, let me explain. Umji is a pretty talented girl. If she was in any other girl group, she would be seen as amazing. But because she’s in GFriend, she seems dull compared to the other girls. The other members are so extraordinary that they make her seem lesser than them. She’s is just a tad (it’s almost unnoticeable) slower than them in choreography, she is a good vocalist, but it can be argued that her voice is “annoying”, and people generally think she’s ugly. She’s not ugly, she’s pretty but the other girls make her look ugly because they’re above average. So Umji really is a pretty great idol, it’s just that the other girls kind of overshadow her, so she seems to be “not as good”. Honestly, although I generally like her in Gfriend, I would like to see her in a group with different girls, she would definitely be the gem then and would get to shine.
I feel like a lot of people uses the fact that bts are grown man or celebrities as an excuse to normalise sexual harassment or rude actions( like the one recently with the girl sitting on their laps). There was one comment that really got to me. "They probably have sex everytime guys. You don't know everything abou them" how does that make sense. She just contradicted herself. And if thay have doesn't mean they are comfortable with everything damn it. I-