because privacy

The level of questioning I was under, coming at such young age. People asking me, “What do you think of this? Who are you, who are you, who are you?” I felt so inadequate because I just didn’t have answers yet. I had so many friends who had a clear sense of self. Who knew that they liked certain things, like the smell of grass, or what their favorite color was. I envied those girls because I was so unsure of myself. I questioned everything. I was terrified by the level of interest in me. I spent most of my time trying to convince everyone I was incredibly boring because I needed privacy and a minute to figure myself out. I used to have to go numb and close myself off, for example on the red carpet, just to get through it.

how to spot a theatre kid

- knows too much about first treasury secretary alexander hamilton, bank robbers bonnie and clyde and the newsboys strike of 1899

- grocery shopping list consists of ‘the cow as white as milk, the cape as red as blood, the hair as yellow as corn, the slipper as pure as gold’

- when introduced to someone new, sings:

 - and i’m jAVERT

 - alexander hamilton, my name is alexander hamilton

 - veronica sawyer. i crave a boon

- laughs at anyone who says disney isn’t realistic because nobody randomly breaks out into song

- favourite rappers are the cast of hamilton and the witch from into the woods

- when walking in the rain, will start singing on my own from les miserables

- panics when the cast list is about to be posted

- blood is 90% throat coat

- constantly losing bobby pins

- has no sense of privacy because have you ever had to do a quick change

anonymous asked:

Okay, because I'm a sucker for top ten lists and future Viktuuri sex, so thanks to your post on Chris' best man speech: where are the top 10 most memorable places that they've had sex? I totally HC that now that they're public, they're less reserved about more public locations!

The Top 10 Most Memorable Places That Yuuri and Viktor Have Had Sex:

10) In a limo – they had to go to some Big Important Event and Yuuri finally let Viktor buy a new suit for him after months of protesting that it was unnecessary which backfired on Viktor because Yuuri looked hot as fuck and Viktor couldn’t keep his hands off on the journey there. Everyone ended up sort of side-eyeing them once they arrived at the party because they were all like ‘Nikiforov and Katsuki are looking very stylish tonight but also kind of…dishevelled?’

9) On Yuuri’s kitchen counter in Detroit – theoretically they were supposed to be in his bedroom but they didn’t quite make it. Phichit took one look at them when he got back a few hours later and was like ‘seriously guys? I eat there! And Yuuri your bedroom is like thirty seconds from here you couldn’t keep it in your pants for that long?’ Yuuri couldn’t look him in the eye for like a week afterwards. Viktor had no regrets.

8) On the beach at Hasetsu – they were out on a morning run with Vicchan and Makkachin and Viktor convinced Yuuri it was a good idea and that the beach was deserted so no-one would know. He was wrong but the old couple who saw them were just like ‘ah yes it’s just our Yuuri and his attractive foreign boyfriend, better to walk away before they know we’re here’ and Yuuri and Viktor never knew they’d been seen which was a good thing for Yuuri’s blood pressure  

7) On a plane – they both joined the mile high club after Yuuri won gold at the Four Continents and Viktor convinced him that celebratory sex in the plane bathroom was a good idea. Which it was but the air hostess gave them very knowing looks when they both finally left the room five minutes apart with lovebites covering their necks and their clothes all skewed

6) At a club – Even though Viktor likes the fact that he’s Yuuri’s one and only he also feels a little guilty that he had his wild younger years in his early twenties and got a fair bit of experience while Yuuri never did and he doesn’t ever want Yuuri to end up resenting him for that. But Yuuri was like ‘I don’t care, you were the only person I wanted to sleep with anyway I was never interested in random hook-ups with anyone else’ so Viktor was like ‘why don’t you have a random hookup with me instead then?’ So they ended up doing that thing that some couples do when they pretend not to know each other and chat each other up in a club for fun except Yuuri got really nervous beforehand, took several shots to loosen up, got an unexpected rush of confidence that was partially alcohol  related and partially the anonymity of the club they were in letting him get properly into Eros mode and the night ended with him completely seducing a very willing Viktor, a lapdance and them both screwing in the back of the club because they couldn’t keep their hands off each other.

5) In a lift – They were both trapped in a lift in a hotel that broke down for a while and when they were finally rescued everyone was like ‘oh my god are you ok, it must have been so scary being stuck in there alone for like two hours’ and Viktor was like ‘oh. Yeah. Terrifying.’ *shifty eyes* while Yuuri went bright red. Then after when they thought they’d gotten away with it Yuuri was suddenly like ‘Viktor…lifts have cameras in them don’t they?’ and that was the moment they realised they both fucked up. (It was fine though because no footage could ever be released because of the hotel privacy policy. But one security guard certainly got a show)

4) At a restaurant – Viktor did that thing at a fancy restaurant they were at for Yuuri’s birthday where he’s like ‘oh no I dropped my fork *disappears under the table for fifteen minutes*’ and Yuuri nearly bit through his lip trying to keep a straight face and not let on to anyone around them what was happening  

3) In the showers at Viktor’s home rink in St Petersburg – Yuuri decided to surprise Viktor after practice and it all went downhill from there. Yurio once overheard Viktor mentioning it while flirting with Yuuri at the rinkside and has never used any of the showers at the rink again

2) In a cabin in the woods – About a year into their relationship Yuuri started to get really self-conscious and anxious about all the media attention and the obsessed fans and how there was always paparazzi hanging around them and so Viktor rented out a completely secluded cabin in the woods as far away from civilisation as he could find on an impulse to try and give Yuuri a relaxing break. Since neither of them knew literally anything about outdoor survival they just stockpiled it with food and wood for the fire and disappeared for a week. They spent most of that week hiking (mainly consisting of them both getting lost and Viktor nearly dying multiple times), cuddling up together to watch the sunrise and sunset and having sex marathons on the fur rug in front of the fire a la every romance film ever. Viktor still considers it one of the best decisions he’s ever made and now has a yearly reservation.

1) In a bathroom at the European Championships – Yuuri promised to give Viktor a ‘reward’ if he won the Euros which lead to them having sex in the skater’s bathroom after the medal ceremony. Chris happened to walk in on them halfway and because Chris is Chris when they noticed him he was just like ‘don’t let me stop you’ and smirked. Viktor was 100% ready to ignore him and continue but Yuuri, unfortunately, was not. Viktor ended up getting his reward that night in the hotel room instead.

“The level of questioning I was under, coming at such young age. People asking me, “What do you think of this? Who are you, who are you, who are you?” I felt so inadequate because I just didn’t have answers yet. I had so many friends who had a clear sense of self. Who knew that they liked certain things, like the smell of grass, or what their favorite color was. I envied those girls because I was so unsure of myself. I questioned everything. I was terrified by the level of interest in me. I spent most of my time trying to convince everyone I was incredibly boring because I needed privacy and a minute to figure myself out.”

#GrowingUpWithStrictParents

- All jokes turn into a lecture, and get mad when you don’t joke around with them.

- I literally can’t change in my own room cause I’m too scared one of my parents are going to barge in my room without knocking

- Having to use headphones every time you’re on the internet to avoid parents coming in and making you turn the computer off.

- Dealing with their hypocrisy. Like no joke, my mom told me all I have to do is eat, sleep, and study for the rest of my life, so I wouldn’t waste my life.

- When one thing goes awry in the house, all hell breaks loose.

- Saying no to all your friends’ invites because your parents won’t let you.

- Learning to lie automatically because there was no privacy in your life.

- Literally rules about rules

-  "I always love you, but I expect you to behave in this way,“ or, "I know you can do better.’”

- Yelling about how stupid you are, but then expect you to be happy two seconds after.

- Complain that you don’t study enough, even if your grades are perfect

- Complain you don’t eat enough, but call you fat.

- Scarce communication.

- Nagging. Dear lord, the NAGGING

- Not allowed to do the things you want, just what they want.

- When you do get to hang out with your friends, you need to collect all their parents’ phone numbers.

- Getting really confused when you see your friends get to go wherever they want.

- Doing all of your work just so you won’t need to experience the horror of your parents yelling at you.

- All your decisions were made for you

- Making you study certain subjects so you’ll be what they want you to be when you grow up. 

*All these points are from personal experiences* 

idk about you guys but i feel pretty fucking blessed getting to wake up every morning and remember that green day inhabit the same fucking lonely space rock as i do ?? time and space is infinite and everything came together so that just for a moment, we could enjoy this thing before it’s lost to the void, i think that’s beautiful

But for real tho, they’re the most attractive siblings in the world.

That’s my twitter account btw lol

EDIT: So i noticed from someone’s tag that ‘it is weird because sofia is not part of seventeen’. My point here is to show everyone that Hansol and his sister are gorgeous, not that I asked for something bad or roleplaying her because I respect her privacy also their mom’s. This pic was taken by two japanese carats on Twitter, so this is not a pic from their mom’s facebook, technically, i’m not using personal picture.

are Lily and Joji dating? who knows.

are Lily and Joji dating? who cares.

“Joji could do better than Lily” we don’t know enough about Joji to be able to say that.

“Joji could do better than Lily” we don’t know enough about Lily to be able to say that.

basically, the long and the short of it is simply this: it is none of our goddamn business what the two of them are to each other. leave Lily alone, leave Joji alone. all we need to be caring about, if anything, is if our boy, Joji is happy. and he seems pretty goddamn happy to me.

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The level of questioning I was under, coming at such young age. People asking me, “What do you think of this? Who are you, who are you, who are you?” I felt so inadequate because I just didn’t have answers yet. I had so many friends who had a clear sense of self. Who knew that they liked certain things, like the smell of grass, or what their favorite color was. I envied those girls because I was so unsure of myself. I questioned everything. I was terrified by the level of interest in me. I spent most of my time trying to convince everyone I was incredibly boring because I needed privacy and a minute to figure myself out.

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Side Note: If you’re not comfortable with any of this because of privacy reasons please let me know.

Archie Andrews x Reader

I Hate Parties by @vettyandberonica

History by @jughead-thethird

Thankful by @jugshat

Bucky Barnes x Reader

Attention by @sgtbarnestrash

Baby Boy by @aestheticimagines

Baby Sitters by @sorryimacrapwriter

Domestic Bucky by @jarnesbrnes

Miracle by @asirenscalling

Secret Relationship by @smilexcaptainx

She’s Having a Hot Dog by @aestheticimagines

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Advice for Scorpio moons: although privacy is comforting to you, and this makes you very resistant to express your true feelings, others will not know how you’re feeling unless you tell them. People can’t read your mind, and you will continue to feel unconsidered by others until you voice how you’re really feeling inside. We care about you, we just don’t know what you want, because of your privacy issues. Others will appreciate your honesty. Showing your emotions and expressing your feelings is not a weakness, it’s actually a strength, and it will empower you. Being able to say how you’re truly feeling is brave, and requires a lot of strength, especially for someone as deep, intense and private as you. You will be heard and listened to by others.

childhood behaviors (4th House - Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars)

Sun in the 4th House indicates that you were possibly the golden child in the family, the child who got lots of attention and you relished the spotlight, always shining brightly and making others smile with your charisma. Alternatively, this individual may have felt like they were never able to have much privacy because of the amount of attention that was focused on them throughout childhood, and could have felt pressured to constantly emanate radiance. But they were effortlessly regal nevertheless.

Moon in the 4th House indicates that you were the emotional child but also a motherly figure towards your siblings or your family members, perhaps you looked out for your siblings often and took care of them sometimes, you felt it was your responsibility to offer nurturing and gentle affection. You could have been protective over your loved ones and may have been told that you’re too sensitive, or to stop crying, to “get over” things, but even the tiniest things affected you.

Mercury in the 4th House indicates that you were maybe the intelligent child, possibly having tremendous success in all academic areas during school, told that you were a brainiac and that you were destined for great things. You could have been a smart alec and learned stuff quickly, one step ahead of the rest. You may have developed advanced linguistic abilities from an early age; perhaps you began speaking at a faster rate than most other children.

Venus in the 4th House indicates that you could have been the artistic, cute child in the family. The individual probably dressed up in nice clothes according to the current fashion trends, and developed acute social awareness at a young age. They may have been outgoing and amiable, hosting sleepovers or inviting many friends over for pool parties or stuff of that nature. It’s also likely that this individual was interested in the arts and may have been blessed with abilities pertaining to music/painting/drawing/et cetera.

Mars in the 4th House indicates that you were probably a bundle of restless energy, getting into trouble and wreaking havoc in your home, but being unable to sit still most of the time. It is likely that you were often described as being troublesome in school and you may have caused interruptions during class. The individual was maybe fond of spending their leisure in the outdoors, doing athletic activities, and even ignoring authority. This child probably enjoyed pushing people’s buttons.

Hi, if you’re a person who attacks young artists who get overwhelmed with their popularity and private/delete their content because they just want some privacy, get the hell off my account. 

You have no right to be harassing someone simply because they want their god damn privacy. 

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Skylie, Siberian Husky (1 y/o), J. Owen Grundy Park, Jersey City, NJ • “She can open doors – we have to look into getting a lock for our door because we have no privacy. She’s wearing the cone because she has allergies.”

Unpopular Opinion

I may lose a follower or two, hell maybe even get some hate for this but….

I am legit tired of seeing nothing but posts about Kook’s supposed hickey. Like I get it, its a shock to some. Some people are like “ayeee get it boy!” others are saddened by it. But its literally none of our business. Just because we love them, it doesn’t mean that we have a say in their personal lives. While I realize that they are Idols and are being looked at by every set of eyes publicly, they deserve to have privacy. LET THEM HAVE THEIR PRIVACY!  Let the boy live. Leave him be. Let them live. Leave them be. I’m not just talking about BTS either, all Idols deserve privacy.

GOT7 As Boyfriends

So I just randomly started thinking about what the guys would be like as boyfriends and specifically Jinyoung for some reason and I’m kind of feeling shitty right now so I’m gonna share what I think he’d be like as a boyfriend. He’d be the kind of boyfriend that never forgets an important date. That doesn’t mean that you’re forgetful or anything he’s just more on top of it than you are. Your mom’s birthday? He’s already got a gift picked out and you two are going over to your parents for her party. He knows down to the exact minute when you guys started dating. He even had that etched into a necklace charm he gave you. All of the guys are boyfriend goals but jinyoung would go above and beyond that. You had a long day at work? Dinners on the table when you get home. Your private life would be completely different from your public life though. He’s not big on PDA but he’d lavish you with kisses and hugs when you two are alone. He’d catch you by surprise though and hug you from behind andtrail kisses against the nape of your neck and then flit away like nothing happened. At the end of the day though he wouldn’t go to bed until he was sure you were going to bed too because sleep is important. He’s the kind of sleeper that would have to constantly be touching you while sleeping. Doesn’t matter of its just his arm slung over your body or one of his legs in touching you’re when it comes to sleep he’s all about constant contact. 

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Magnus Chase and the Gods of Asgard: The Sexuality Crisis

Magnus had never been attracted to boys before, only girls. He could appreciate the aesthetic of them, but never before had he wanted to date one. He was as straight as a rod-always had been, and always will be.

So it wasn’t gay of him to think Alex was cute. She was cute on both her female days and male days. It wasn’t gay at all.

Right?

Or: Magnus has a crisis over whether liking Alex is gay or not and everyone else is facepalming at him.

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Magnus was straight.

Sure, he had that period of time where he had questioned his sexuality after learning that heterosexuality wasn’t the only one, but everyone went through that. And by the time it was over, he had decided that he was nothing other than straight. The thought of being anything else never crossed his mind again.

But just because Magnus was straight didn’t mean he couldn’t appreciate the aesthetic of other guys from time to time. He wasn’t blind, he could tell whether people were attractive or not. And sometimes, those guys were pretty nice to look at for a moment or two longer than necessary. But he never once felt the desire to do anything romantic with them, because he wasn’t attracted to guys. It was as simple as that.

“See something ya like?”

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Want your child to lose 100% trust in you? go through their text messages, put spyware on their computer, and invade all of their personal privacy. because I promise nothing will fuck them up more than the idea of them not expressing their thoughts and feelings to their friends without someone who they’re supposed to trust invading that personal space. Unless your child is behaving in a suspicious way, there is no reason to do it. None. All it teaches is ways to hide it better and how to not trust you or anyone in their lives. In fact, here’s an idea: start treating your children like people, not property. Because, you know, that’s what they are.