Happy Purim, all! I am the butterfly princess. :)
Regarding Lady Regnants ruling in their own right, what happens when or if they get married? Does their husband take charge of her castle since Westeros is a patriarchal societ, or does she continue to be the person making decisions. If she married how would it affect her, would she be expected to give her husband the reigns of her domains? Nobody ever suspects the butterfly is of the opinion that Lady Jeyne Arryn the Maiden of the Vale didn't marry because she didn't want to lose her power.