because if i own it i love it

when raven said “do you know what it’s like to be in pain every day,” i remembered every time i have ever said those exact words to people who don’t understand.

when raven said that she wanted to go back to space because that was the last time she felt free, i remembered every time i wished for things i used to be able to do before my chronic pain started.

when raven chose her own path instead of following the one that other people have set out for her, i thought of every time i have refused medication or have had to stand up for myself because i know what i want to do with my body, no matter how sick or in pain i am.

raven reyes is important representation for people with chronic pain. we may not be a large group but we’re here and we love raven reyes with all of our hearts.

The fact that Bakugou takes after his mom so much delights me.

I’m still nominating mama Midoriya as best mom tho gosh.

anonymous asked:

Sorry but I'm so uncomfortable with these anons you're publishing and respectfully disagree with all of this, punishing harry by cancelling preorders because you guys are angry about babygate is frankly unfair and not something I want to be a part of. It's not Harry's fuckin fault and it makes anyone who does this look selfish to even consider something like that just to prove a point to Sony who don't give a flying fuck. If you guys love Louis, you will support the love of his life. Period.

you seem to not understand how capitalism and consumer culture works so let me break it down for you.

people are not obligated to pay for products they don’t want. they don’t have to justify their decision with a reason you find acceptable because it’s not your money. it’s theirs. 

whether people choose not to buy it because they find themselves not actually liking the music all that much or because of sony, you don’t get a say. 



My confession  I loved the Wicked Eyes and Wicked Hearts mission in inquisition! “The Game” was something I enjoyed because of my own love for politics and even though some people hated that mission I felt like it suited the fact that the inquisitor was supposed to be getting support of entire nations against Corypheus. The intrigue and political maneuvering made my heart beat fast every time a new twist happened. And when I found that chevalier naked on Celene’s bed I couldn’t help but laugh!            

BTS reacting to their S/O having a low self esteem

Requested by; anon

can i please request bts reaction when their S/O has low self esteem and compares herself with others and cries bc of it? hope it isn’t to much to ask for and if you can’t do it just ignore this request. have a nice day! <3


“Listen babe; you’re beautiful and I love you. Comparing yourself to other people is never good because everyone is unique in his own way. It’s normal for you to do so, I used to do it lots and I still do so don’t think your alone. We’re in this together and we’ll get out of it together!”


“You don’t have to worry; well, you’re absolutely stunning and perfect in my eyes. I will tell you as many times as you need until you believe it, it’s okay for you to be insecure trust me! You’re my baby and if anyone says something bad; don’t believe them because you’re amazing.”


“Baby, baby, baby; I love you for who you are. I’ll stay by your side forever and I will help you learn to love yourself. Let’s go for a walk and talk about everything okay? I don’t see why you should be insecure because you’re so breathtaking, you don’t even know!”


“No need to cry baby, it’s okay, I’m here. Hey; you’re beautiful and don’t think any different. Don’t be too strict on yourself, look at all your perfect parts of your body; which means your entire body! You’re so perfect and you always take away my breath!”


“Insecurity is something we all deal with baby, it’s okay! I got through this so I’ll help you to get through it as well! I’ll help you every day even when I’m not next to you; you’re mine and you’re beautiful, I love you so much for who you are!”


“Where’s my baby’s smile? There it is; you’re gorgeous and perfect smile that I love so much! Let me tell you about everything I love about you, so sit down and get some tea because it’s going to be a long list and you’ll have to bear it all!”


“It’s okay! Hey; it’s normal to be insecure so don’t worry! Your body is absolutely perfect and I love every inch of it! Don’t compare yourself to others because everyone has a different kind of body; yours will always be my favourite though!”

anonymous asked:

I don't know why you you can't just enjoy your own ships and let others enjoy theirs in peace. I guess *most* ewruris just love being shit stirrers :).

Tea time for anon. Prompt: salty mother fucker

“Can you believe this?” Levi says. His feet are propped up on Erwin’s legs, a magazine opened in his lap.

Erwin does nothing else but hum. Levi tends to find a lot of things unbelievable, like houses with more than three bedrooms, life on other planets, and kale. Levi kicks his legs, demands him to answer him, and that’s when Erwin groans out, dropping his e-reader to rest on Levi’s knee. “What’s so unbelievable, darling?”

“This article is asking when I’ll be paired up with Eren in ‘Advancing Titans’.” Levi stares at him, face blank, dead eyes and quite, well, unbelieving.

“What?” Erwin offers him a side glance, and he’ll admit, he can’t believe it either.

“Yeah, listen to this,” he clears his throat, “'The relationship between Levi and Eren is so believable on screen, the fans have been waiting all season to see if the writers will be brave enough to take things a step further.’” His hand tightens around the magazine, glares up at Erwin, then continues reading. “'We ourselves enjoyed the scene where Levi gave Eren a bit of “tough love” in front of everybody in court.’“

“Oh my god.” Erwin mutters. He can’t feign the eye roll on his voice.

“Do these guys understand characterization at all?”

“I suppose not.”

“Oh my god… No! It goes on!”


“'And we are looking forward to the scene next season when Levi offers Eren a handkerchief when he has a bloody–’”

“It doesn’t matter.”

“It’s gross…”

“It’s part of being a celebrity, darling.”

“Yeah but…”

Erwin smiles at him, squeezes Levi’s knee and leans over and places a soft kiss on Levi’s lips. “Everything is all right, because at least we’re canon.”

Levi presses his forehead to Erwin’s, nods shallowly as he returns a minute smile. “Yeah.”

anonymous asked:

You should write some mute lance, whether its him having been mute in the past, being a selective mute, being injured and becoming mute, or straight up not talking anymore, i think you'd write it well


I kinda went on my own here, Whoops

On contrary to belief Lance didn’t like to talk. Well scratch that, he loved talking but he didn’t like to be talked over. Everytime he was talked over he immediately clamped up and he felt a lump form in his throat. Being the youngest in his family only lead to Lance being talked over constantly. 

It wasn’t uncommon for Lance to stop telling a story because everyone started a different conversation. It wasn’t uncommon for Lance to never finish a thought because someone would constantly interrupt him. 

Lance wasn’t a fighter so when this happened he would just clamp his mouth shut and listen to what the other person had to say, because it was obviously more important. 

Lance found himself talking less and less around his parents, siblings, and classmates. Nobody ever commented on Lance’s new quietness so Lance had no reason to start talking again. Lance would go days without saying anything to anyone. He communicated through shrugs and nods. 

Why should I talk, everyone is happier when I don’t. 


Fast forward to the Garrison when Lance met his roommate Hunk. Hunk wasn’t loud but he wasn’t quiet either. Sometimes Lance didn’t even hear him enter the room while other days Lance would hear him hallways away.  He liked Hunk, Hunk never pressured him to talk, Hunk just kept him company throughout their days. 

Hunk would ramble about projects he was working on and homework and Lance would listen quietly. It didn’t even dawn on Lance that he had never said anything to Hunk before in his life. 

They were both in their room, Lance on his bed reading a book while Hunk was laying on the floor building something. 

“Dang it, these wires all look the same, I can never tell them apart.” Hunk ran his hands through his hair in annoyance. 

Lance looked at his distressed roommate and looked down at his book. “Why don’t you put colored tape around the different wires.” Lance’s voice slightly cracked due to the lack of use and Hunk screamed. Not like a small scream but like ‘help someone is getting stabbed scream.’ 

Lance jumped causing is book to fly across his bed and he stared at Hunk who was staring at Lance his hands over his mouth. 

Lance swallowed around a small lump that was forming at the base of his throat. He inhaled “Sorry I didn’t mean to…scare you?” Lance wasn’t sure what he did wrong exactly. 

Hunk blinked a few times and slowly removed his hands from his mouth. His breathing started to slow down as he continued to stare at Lance. 

Lance started to shift where he sat. Why he is just staring at me? Lance was about to bolt out of the room but Hunk regained his bearings before he moved. 

“I’m sorry for screaming! You just have never talked before and I thought you were mute or something. Then you just spoke and I got scared. Like I wasn’t expecting that at all.” Hunk inhaled until his lungs ached “Sorry I’m rambling.” 

Lance smiled at his roommate “Hunk you ramble all the time, I’m used to it.”

Hunk started to laugh and before Lance knew it he was laughing with Hunk. They only stopped when they heard a knock on their door. 

“Officer Davis, opened the door. We have a complaint of a noise disturbance.”

Hunk and Lance shared a look and started laughing and Hunk went to open the door. 


Hunk and Lance became best friends within a week. They had shared everything with each other, and Hunk didn’t interrupt Lance once when he was talking. If he accidently did he would apologize immediately and beg Lance to continue what he was saying. 

Lance started to love talking again. 


The only time Lance would have trouble talking would be when he came back from a break. When Lance was around his family long enough he would clamp up again, but slowly Hunk would bring him back out of his shell. 


Hunk could only do so much and sometimes it wasn’t enough. They had just saved a planet from the Galra and they were all meeting up with the leader. 

Now Lance didn’t usually talk during diplomatic missions but he felt obligated to speak up when it concerned him. The leader was discussing how helpful the blue lion was and how it help save the planet. 

“You must tell me Blue paladin, how does the ice work?” The leader placed his (hand?) tentacle on Lance’s shoulder. 

“Well you see, Blue and I ha-” 

“That’s interesting but like was it just the lion acting on their own?”

“Kinda, you see I have to put my bay-”

“So are you not needed to fly Blue? If she does all the work what do you do?”

“Well I have to fly he-”

“But they are magic lions, surely they can fly on their own.” 

Lance opened his mouth to respond but slammed it shut before any words were formed. Then Lance did what he did best, he shrugged. That was all he did. 

The leader looked at him a bit skeptical before nodding “So how does the ice get formed?” 

Lance shrugged again. He kept his eyes directly on the leader and his lips sealed. Lance was nudged by Shiro, he didn’t care he wasn’t going to talk. He looked at the leader one more time before walking towards Blue and flew back to the castle. 


Lance didn’t bounce back like Hunk prayed he would. It had been about 2 weeks since the last time he said anything. He just shrugged and nodded. Never even opening his mouth except to eat. The castle was quieter than any of them wanted it to be. Mealtimes were filled with force conversation and Lance scarfing down his food in order to leave. 

Even during missions Lance wouldn’t say anything, Blue would send the other lions messages so everyone knew that things were going well but Lance never talked. 

When they met new species Lance would stand in the background silently, just watching everyone. 

Hunk tried his hardest. He would talk about things he knew Lance liked, but Lance would just smile and pat him on the back and walk away. 

The team couldn’t get Lance to talk, and they tried. They did everything they could but Lance would just sit in silence. He didn’t even talk to Coran, and that broke the older man heart. 


The paladins were hosting a party in the castle with about 7 species from different planets. They all worked together and received a huge win. 

Everyone was talking and enjoying the party and Lance was standing by the wall sipping his drink. He watched a boy, around his age, walk towards him. 

His arms and neck were covered in tattoos and he has pointy ears with piercing all over his body. His skin was a soft blue and his hair was a bright red. He smiled at Lance and stood by him. 

The boy thanked Lance for saving his planet, and of course Lance caught onto his flirting techniques. 

Lance laughed, like a real laugh. The first laugh in weeks maybe months. It echoed through the room and every paladin heard it. They attempted not to make it obvious but they were all listening to see if Lance would do anything more. 

Lance, who was completely oblivious to what his teammates were doing, stuck his hand out to the boy. “The names Lance.” 

Self-Projecting? Do I Know Her? 

Hell yeah I was self-projecting. 

I’m basically how I write Lance XD 

I hope you like it!

Sorry it took so long!!

Thank you for this!

Btw give it up for my bisexual son ❤💜💙

anonymous asked:

I DID IT MAMA I FREAKING DID IT!! As of today I'm 6 months clean from self harm! Honestly about a year or so ago I wasn't sure if ever be able to stop because of been doing it for so many years but I've made it 6 months! I hate to sound like I'm tooting my own horn and I know it's not super duper long in the grand scheme of things but I'm proud of myself!!!! - Recovery Anon


i am legitimately crying right now. i am so so proud of you. you have made this day pink-yellow, sweet pea.

i love you so much. more than i could possibly explain.

anonymous asked:

do you prefer digital or traditional art

DIGITALLLLLL Mostly because I love color and I don’t own enough PAINT!

 I still sketchbook and I do like to ink traditionally, esp for my Hades and Persephone project, but honestly, gimme all photoshop all the time.

Below is my favorite digital and my favorite tradition pieces I’ve done.

anonymous asked:

Top 5 Fleetwood Mac songs?

1. Rhiannon
2. Gypsy
3. Dreams
4. Landslide
5. As Long As You Follow
6. Sara
7. You Make Loving Fun
8. Seven Wonders
9. Go Your Own Way
10. Second Hand News

Did 10 because it’s impossible to not keep going. I feel like I’m leaving out countless good ones.

College application reflection

Hey everyone~ this is studythesunshineflowers. ^^

So I just committed to college this evening and I had been wanting to do a final(-ish) post about the college app process since it’s been really long and kind of hard mentally all year. Also for closure lol.

I made this blog last June because I was really worried about the college app process. Neither of my parents have ever applied to college in the U.S. and I was basically on my own for most of the actual application shebang… But many people in the appblr community (and not just from this year but from past years as well!) were really open about how to apply and being kind, accepting people in general when times were especially stressful. Although it’s kind of weird to say, I’m so grateful to have made this blog and to have had met so many inspiring and hard-working people here that I might never have talked with otherwise. 

In addition, I was able to go through many self-worth problems because of the support and positivity that this community and the general studyblr community have generated and spread. While problems exist as they do in every community, in my opinion, studyblr and appblr are wonderful online places that made me aspire to be a selfless person like the countless others who have pulled me up when I felt defeated. :) All in all, thank you so much to everyone here. Whether you’re a current senior, former senior, or a to-be senior, I am sure that you all will/ did end up someplace where there will be/ are people who will surely appreciate who you are. I think that positivity pays itself back, in a way…

Finally, looking forward to be part of Vassar College’s class of 2021! Congrats to every senior for their 4 years of dedication!!!!! YOU ALL ARE FABULOUS

lenny9987  asked:

I think my first favorite bit of your writing was My Brother's Lass but then Stealing Tomorrow came along and COMPLETELY stole my heart and so much of it boils down to the details you manage to incorporate into all of your writing. For Stealing Tomorrow specifically, it was the forget-me-nots. So. Many. Feels. <3 <3 <3

I’ve been sitting on this ask, because I was so so moved. I have MAD respect for you, darling. And one of the reasons for that is how close you bring your stories to canon and the respect you pay to every detail. So this means A LOT coming from you. I loved writing Stealing Tomorrow, it’s probably on the top 3 of my own writing for me - and the forget-me-nots are truly at its core. So THANK YOU and much much love!

anonymous asked:

Dude you're totally not annoying and your post wasn't fatphobic at all. People on this site just want shit to be mad at because they have anger and insecurity in their own lives that they wanna take out on someone so they feel like they're a better person than you. You're honestly so cool and your writing is awesome and i check your blog basically daily. Let the haters hate it's all they know how to do.

What’s weird is like people lowkey accusing me of being fatphobic when I myself am overweight?? I’m not a self-hating fat person either. I’ve been learning to love myself and my body and I’ve always loved Arin and his figure and have countless posts praising it so like it’s so strange??? 

Thank you, though! <3 

anonymous asked:

Sonja, if you're a cunt, it's because you've got the depth and warmth of one. I've only been here for a year and a half. This is very sad to watch, and I'm sure it's happened on different levels in the past, but I follow so many diverse opinions on my blog which I appreciate keeping me active in challenging my own thoughts. But when they start tearing into others for expressing thoughts - which most people have always said are just opinions on a blog - it breaks my heart a little. Much love.

this is possibly the most weirdly beautiful message i’ve ever received

anonymous asked:

OMG what happens with teenage baby!trinity? Do they have to deal with bfs/gfs? School? BULLYING? do they join the TT or create their own team? So many cool possibilities

I’m trying to keep this au as open as possible because I don’t wanna exclude anyone so here’s some super vague headcanons for teen!mini trinity

  • Everyone around them kind of assumes that as they get older, at least one of them will develop a crush on one of the others (tbh, everyone fully expects some kind of love triangle nonsense) but it just… doesn’t happen? They are Best Friends™ and have been for so long that none of them would even think about each other in a romantic way.
  • Jon and Baby Wonder totally gush to each other about their crushes, though. Damian is less willing to talk about his emotions (especially romantic ones), but he’ll listen to his friends’ Teenaged Romance Drama and will try to offer genuine advice even though he has the least dating experience out of the three.
  • Somewhere in late middle school/early high school, Jon suddenly starts having a much harder time in school. Maybe it’s the increased workload + lots of late night superhero antics, maybe it’s the more complex subject material, but whatever it is, he’s forced to get serious about studying. Luckily, his best friends are both really good tutors. Damian received a very intense education from the League of Assassins, and he learned all of it when he was very young, so he’s a master of the “explain it to me like I’m five” approach; Baby Wonder received her education on Themyscira, so she’s usually able to offer an interesting new perspective on whatever Jon’s class is studying right then. (Just don’t get her started on civil rights… she is Diana’s daughter and she has a speech about The Injustice of Men ready to go at all times.)
  • Damian and Baby Wonder also occasionally like the rub it in Jon’s face that they’re both pretty much done with school and get to do fun stuff while Jon is trapped in a high school algebra classroom.
  • I don’t see any of them dealing with bullying tbh??? Like I said, Jon is the only one who goes to school, and he’s such a friendly, sweet, outgoing kid that no one can really bring themselves to dislike him?? Damian fights with his brothers sometimes but that’s as close as any of them really get to being bullied.
  • I definitely see the three of them joining the Teen Titans, at least for a while (they may or may not branch off as their own team when they’re a little older). They all join on the same day. When they walk into the tower, Baby Wonder and Damian are having one of their “debates” while Jon desperately tries to keep the peace and Kori or Dick or whoever is the current leader just kinda does the emotional version of looking into the camera like they’re on The Office.
  • Damian and Jon are roommates obviously, and Baby Wonder spends so much of her free time in their room that the entire team just kind of assumes that the three of them are dating??? And that keeps up for months until someone makes a passing comment about it to Baby Wonder and she’s like “No???? Ew???? They’re like my brothers??”
  • They still train together and prefer to do missions together, but joining the Titans is really good for all three of them because it kind of forces them to branch out and make new friends and be a little less dependent on each other. 

anonymous asked:

Okay so this is probably a really stupid Question.... but how do you reply to replies to your own post? Like @xxxxx responded to.... (what they said) (what you say)? Because i have all these sweet people responding to my Stuff and i cant thank them and I feel really bad about that....😖

Hi Anon =)

That is absolutely not a stupid question! It took me a while to figure it out when I first started getting replies to things, and congrats on people saying lovely things about your stuff, whatever that stuff is =)

To make those reply posts, you need the xKit browser extension for tumblr (and it’s super useful for many other things too, so I highly recommend it anyway) (and the one that you should get is the New xKit for firefox or chrome)

And from there it’s part of the one-click reply function, which I believe is default and you don’t have to add it to your xkit functions, but you can go in and tweak the setting, and when you hover over a reply on your activity feed, you see a reply arrow off to the right, and you click that and it opens a new post with the reply formatting already in place, and you can write your response =)

One thing to note, however, is that such reply posts do not notify the person you’re responding to. There is a setting to use the @ mention function, I haven’t tried it because it says it’s still experimental, so I usually start my responses by @ mentioning the person in question so I’m sure they’ll notice 

I hope this helped =)

anonymous asked:

I love you and your writing so fucking much like they're so effing good and you're so sweet and bloody hell I am so glad I found you and this blog you're the loveliest!! but also a question, how did #askdrarry come about? sorry if it has been asked before? but it seems to be connected to some fic I think, maybe? but regardless, I LOVE THEM SO MUCHHHHHH THANK YOUU FOR BLESSING AND WRITING THIS BEAUTY LOVE YOU AND HAVE A GOOD DAY


Ask Drarry was something I just started one day because I desperately wanted something to do. It’s not based on a fic! It’s a mini-fic-universe-thingy all on its own i guess? As one of you lovelies put it so brilliantly, it’s like interactive fanfiction! So it’s like a fic you guys are helping me write basically.

Thank you for all the love, I am so so happy ❤