because i hate 'everything happens for a reason'

I missed the first ten minutes and idk what happened, but the rest of this episode is really good. A lot better than I expected.

The Seelie Queen is creepy, but I like her. If she appears to be that young, I hope they will get rid of the ugly Seelie Queen/Sebastian stuffs and the whole Fair Folk join Sebastian will be thrown out of the window. Because, let’s be real, it ruins everything.

The Clace/Climon stuffs are not as bad as I thought. I kinda hate it because Simon hurts and he doesn’t deserve this.

Luke finally gets his chance to confront Valentine and Alec being reasonable leader give me live. Rizzy dies, I’m living. Shadowhunters look same for Meliorn and I’m loving it. Alec calls Magnus his boyfriend and Magnus being so extra by calling him Mr. Lightwood because they have to be ‘professional’ and Alec goes along with him by “Mr. Bane,” that’s just the cherry on top.

The best part? Maryse tries to make everything right. She apologizes to Luke, mends her relationship with her children, starts accepting Alec, despite her failed marriage she tells Izzy to fight for the person she loves—just like Alec. And Nicola kills it.

gameo7  asked:

If one is consealed by hate then does the hate make them do things against their will, like have them do something they wouldnt normally do? And/or is it the hate that is doing everything, total control? (Hopefully this isn't a stupid question) Also i really like you're current speedpaint! You're doing great!

You’re right! Hate numbs your judgement and reason. It makes you do thing you would never do.

Luckily in Chara’s case they manahed to lrevent hate from taking complete control over them and still managed to free themselves through love thanks to asriel.

It’d be realllyyyyy bad if hate were to take complete control over a soul, because it wouldnt just be covering it, it might kinda fuse with it making it a part of the soul itself. If that were to happen there’d be no way to extract the hate without killing the host. It is unlikely tho because for hate to take complete control it needs the “aproval” of the host….

Let’s hope that never happens ( owo)

REQUEST 121 ~ Stupid (angst) part 1

A/N: I would do smut but at the moment i really feel like making this one angsty as fuck 

Warnings: Lots of swearing.

Sometimes people in relationships argue. That, in theory, helps the relationship to grow. It sorts out the rough patches that have been avoided. But sometimes those arguments lead to regrets and to have one can break something that was once perfect.

For a few weeks now, i could feel the tension between Dan and I. It felt like we were becoming two separate people. The distance between us was unnoticeable at first, it was things like eating at different times or going to bed after the other had fallen asleep. For some people that’s normal but with Dan and I it used to be a rare occurrence. It then built up into being day’s in which minimal words were spoken to one another. Everyday that went by when this would happen felt like i was isolated from him. 

It all came to an end because of a small disagreement. In the past when we had disagreed on something a quick hug and compromise would solve it but this time, that wouldn’t work. 

As i went through our cupboards looking for something to make for dinner, i called out for Dan to come and help decide. He had been in a pissy mood all day so i was hoping that if he could pick something he would love for dinner it would make him feel better. 

“What?” He sighed as he appeared in the doorway on his phone. 

I opened the cupboard door wider and moved so he could see, “I was wondering what you wanted for dinner?” 

He shrugged his shoulders while still staring down at his phone. I sighed inaudibly, beginning to feel pissed off with his ignorance. 

“Come on, there has to be something you want?” 

He shrugged again and turned away from me. Normally i have really good patience with things like this but recently, when our relationship was going the way it had, my patience was going.

“Ok Dan, just ignore me that’s f-”

“For fuck sake, i don’t know what i want to fucking eat ok, if i want something i’ll make it my fucking self ok.” He snapped looking at me with annoyance. 

“What the hell has crawled up your ass?”

“You. You are getting on my nerves with your constant pestering.” 

I widened my eye, anger spreading through my body.

“Are you kidding me? Seriously? This is the most we have spoken this entire week. You have said fuck all to me. You should feel lucky that i even considered making you dinner tonight.” 

He stood up straighter causing him to grow slightly taller in his already gigantic height. 

“You know what? The reason i haven’t spoken to you that much is because every time you speak it annoys me. I didn’t ask you to make me dinner, so i don’t know why i should feel grateful about it.” 

I stayed silent while he basically tore me apart with every word. This wasn’t the man who said he loved me.

“Sometime i really fucking hate you…” 

You know how in movies when something intense happens and suddenly everything goes muffled and moves slowly. When he uttered those vicious words, it felt like just that. I didn’t know what to say. My mind went crazy trying to make sense of the situation. Hates me? I felt a single tear drop onto my cheek which brought me back to reality. I need to be away from him now. 

I rushed past him and to the door, grabbing a jacket that had my keys, money and travel card, and left. I didn’t know where i was going, but all i knew was that i need to escape the crime scene of our relationship.

alcoholinspired  asked:

I've seen your texts on Anders meta tags and found then to be heart endearing, which is great. In one you wrote on how people say he isn't romantic. I think it comes from the feeling of being used as an asset for the Chantry kaboom, like, if you break up with him before the final battle there's little/no hint of it upsetting him, or if you reject his first approach or step back when he asks to move in. That would contribute to say he used Hawke.I would love to see more of your thoughts about him

Hi, thanks for the ask!!

I have two answers for this, the first is the Boring Answer and the second is the Less Boring Answer.

The Boring Answer is that it’s a video game and due to programming and time restraints, you aren’t really going to get a real reaction to something huge (like say, a breakup).  In DAO, for example, if you break up with someone you get a couple of lines and maybe an approval change and then it’s back to normal.  So I don’t think we’re seeing the full picture.

Which leads us to the Less Boring Answer:

The Chantry Boom happens regardless of Hawke’s involvement.  You can refuse to help him and he will still find another way and go forward with his plan.  He does ask for your help because he trusts you, and it will make things easier for him, but if you won’t give it, then he’ll search elsewhere (or go it alone).  Because Hawke’s help isn’t necessary for his plan, (and because he was in love with Hawke long before his plan was even a thing), I think we can scratch the idea that he is only with Hawke because he needs them for this one thing.

Now we’re going to move on to the bit about breaking up with him.  This is actually a complex topic so I’m going to break it down into smaller pieces.

To begin with, Anders is mentally ill, according to Word of God (i.e. the Bioware writers).  When you are mentally ill, you convince yourself of weird things.  Anders, especially, has reason to be paranoid.  He has lived the past two decades of his life being told that mages are bad and that he is bad and that mages cannot ever fall in love because bad things will happen.  He saw first hand what happened to Karl.  Not to mention there’s that whole Justice thing (”I thought with Justice, this part of me was over.”)  He has convinced himself that he is unloveable and that Hawke deserves better.  And when you convince yourself of that, you go through your whole life low-key waiting for everything to fall apart, because of course it will.  You’re prepared for the worst because you’re convinced that the worst is eventually going to happen.  (Source: my own super fun and exciting mentally ill experience!  Whee!)

The way Anders sees it, a breakup is inevitable.  This is all temporary, and he’s enjoying it while it lasts.  This does not mean he’s not in love.  Oh on the contrary, that’s the tragedy of the whole thing.  He puts off getting into the relationship for years because he’s convinced it’s all going to end in flames anyway and he doesn’t want to put Hawke through that.  Finally, when he does realize he can’t ward his own feelings off any longer, he warns Hawke that “This will be a disaster.”  He does not see this ending anyway but badly, because he has thoroughly convinced himself that that is the case.

No wonder he’s not going to be surprised if you break up with him.  As far as he was concerned, that was going to happen anyway.  It was just a matter of when.  The fact that he eventually caves and throws himself into the relationship anyway, when he is convinced it’s going to end in tears, is ultimately proof of his romanticism, not proof against it.  He needs Hawke, even if it’s only going to be for a little while.

Now moving past the mentally ill stuff.

If you break up with him before the final battle, he says something about how he wishes that he had nothing else in his life except for you.  (I’m paraphrasing because I have of course never done this and I only ever saw it in a YouTube video once, so I don’t remember the exact line.)  This is a callback to something he says earlier; “You are the most important thing in my life… but there are some things more important than my life.”  And therein lies the key to understanding Anders’ thought process on this.

When Anders merged with Justice, the idea of the Anders with simple goals in life (”a pretty girl, a decent meal, and the right to shoot lightning at fools”) ceased to be.  He has a higher purpose now, one that he recognizes as being more important than anything that deals with himself on a personal level.  A Hawke, entering a relationship with him, knows this.  Whether or not Hawke chooses to accept this is and love him anyway is of course up to the player– “I know I’ll never be the most important thing in your life”, Hawke says to Anders at endgame if they’re breaking up with him.

Ultimately, that’s where the rub comes in.  I have seen some people who really dislike Anders say that their reasoning is that he straight up tells you that his cause is more important than you.  That’s not what love is about, they say.  And you know, if that’s your view on it, then that’s your view on it, and I’m not here to tell you how to define love.

But really, are Anders’ thoughts on this that far off from what most of us already believe?

My parents were Trekkies and I was raised on a steady diet of Star Trek.  One of the first movies I watched as a kid was Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan.  In the final climactic scene, Spock sacrifices himself to save the crew of the Enterprise.  “The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few… or the one,” he says to Kirk.  Spock’s sacrifice was made out of love.  So, too, is Anders’– he is giving his life to the cause because yes, it’s more important, and he loves Hawke, oh he loves Hawke fiercely, but Hawke is a part of the world he’s trying to save.

The best gift he can give you is a just world.  The world that everyone deserves– and that you deserve.

And is that not, really, so much more romantic than a bouquet of roses?

TLDR: No, Anders is not visibly distraught if you break up with him at endgame after all you’ve shared.  It’s because he’s been preparing himself for this breakup, both in an unhealthy sense (he’s mentally ill and was convinced this was going to happen the whole time) and in a, well, healthier sense (he knows not everyone is going to view the world the way he does).

And this is why I am a sucker for Handers.  Because here, at this point in the game, Anders, this sensitive man who believes he has given you every reason to turn away, asks if you’ll stay with him.  He is asking you everything here; he knows that he’s now one of the most hated men in Thedas.  He knows that he’s going to be on the run for possibly the rest of his life.  He knows that the road ahead is not easy.  He knows this and he asks you anyway, telling himself the whole time you’ll say no, of course you’re going to say no.  Of course no one would agree to this, of course no one would ever stay with him now–

–and then you say yes, and his whole world lights up.

He’s not alone.

And finally, finally, he accepts that.

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Jules: I am trying to think of this without pointing fingers but it seems you have already chosen sides without evaluating-

Neha: Jules, I am not a robot. This is my family we’re talking about. Of course I’m going to choose their side. I spent half of my childhood i a prison’s visiting room, watching my dad become thin, watching him grow bitter. Of course I am going to side with him! 

Jules: Maybe I would agree with you if he didn’t treat you like shit and disrespect you with his words. 

Neha: He’s going through a hard time. He was just released. 

Jules: It’s been five years, Neha! You would think he would stop blaming others for his attitude and situation.

Neha: His situation happened because of your mom and I’m sorry if I can’t think logically right now but I find it very hard to see both sides of this situation. 

Jules: You’re being unreasonable… I am just as-

Neha: Of course I am! I just found out that our families hate each other and the reason for my dad not being around is linked to my boyfriend!  

Jules: Maybe we shouldn’t continue this conversation now, since you’re blaming my parents for everything!

Neha: Maybe we shouldn’t, since you can’t seem to see my point! 

I don’t get how some people don’t understand why Sam didn’t look for Dean after season 7.

Sam believes Dean is dead and when you think about what Sam just went through with Bobby then of course he wouldn’t try and mess with things. The day before Dean dies Sam sees his surrogate father posses and endanger an innocent woman. Bobby then uses this woman’s body to nearly kill Sam in a futile attempt to kill Dick Roman which would have lead to the woman’s death.

Bobby was losing his humanity but had enough of himself left to warn Sam and Dean not to mess with death anymore. “When it’s your time to go, then go” he begs them and Sam clearly takes this to heart. He could see what Bobby was turning into and how much Bobby was regretting his choice to stay.

Even disregarding all the other valid reasons Sam had for not searching for a way to bring Dean back, what happened to Bobby should have been reason enough. (That’s also why I hate the way Bobby is written in Taxi Driver because it forgets everything that Bobby went through in the second half of season 7).

Different fandoms

Osomatsu-san: Come one, come all there’s enough for everyone and you can do everything!
Eddsworld: At least one person will hunt you down and harass you until you leave. Also EVERYTHING IS ON FIRE CONSTANTLY.

Just saying. I love both shows but the EW fandom is a little overwhelming and I hate seeing nice people being harassed for no real good reason.

Also @comixartist said she was leaving the EW fandom and I’m sad because she’s a nice person and I really like her work. She’s talented and we shouldn’t pick on people for what pairing they like.
P.S. Comix if you see this I think you’re really awesome and will continue to follow you no matter what happens.

Church's story arc ending monologues:
  • Alpha (Season 5): You know Caboose, I used to not care. I just went along with orders, and hoped that everything would work out for me. But after all that's happened, you know what I've learned? It's not about hating the guy on the other side because someone told you to. I mean, you should hate someone because they're an asshole, or a pervert, or snob, or they're lazy, or arrogant or an idiot or know-it-all. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don't hate a person because someone told you to. You have to learn to despise people on a personal level. Not because they're red, or because they're blue, but because ya know them, and you see them every single day. And you can't stand them, because they're a complete and total fucking douchebag.
  • Epsilon (Season 8): I'd like to say that I found her right away, that I just walked into the Epsilon Unit, and there she was, waiting for me. As you can probably guess, it didn't happen that way, but, I know she's in here somewhere, and I'll find her. We always seem to find each other, for better or for worse. I don't know why the Director did what he did. I don't know if he was trying to revive a memory from his past, or if he was just trying to get it out of his head. But I figured out something that the Director didn't. It took Alpha, Delta, and the rest to help piece it together for me, but what I've learned is that a great love is a lot like a good memory. When it's there, and you know it's there, but it's just out of your reach, it can be all that you think about. You can focus on it, and try to force it, but the more you do, the more you seem to push it away. But if you're patient, and you hold still, then maybe... Just maybe... It will come to you. I just need to make sure I'm somewhere she can find me. I think this place is a little different than it was before. See, out there, everything is based on the Alpha, but in here, I guess I'm the Alpha. And maybe this time through, things will be a little different for me as well. I guess I'll find out. And I mean, hell, if you have to live the rest of your life in a memory... you might as well make it a good one.
  • Epsilon (Season 13): It was Doyle who made me realize something I never thought of before. There are so many stories that some brave hero to save the day, and because of their sacrifice, the good guys win, the survivors all cheer, and everyone lives happily ever after. But the hero never sees gets to see that ending. They'll never know if their sacrifice actually makes a difference, they'll never know if the day was really saved. In the end, they just need to have faith. Ain't that a bitch?
#TuesdayTruth

What Is Synchronicity?

 I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “everything happens for a reason”. I used to hate this saying because I thought it was a cheap answer to complicated questions. Now I see that there are no accidents, no coincidences and nothing happens by chance - everything is in alignment with the journey we are on.

The word synchronicity is derived from the Greek language. “Syn” meaning with and “chronos” meaning time - so something that happens synchronistically is happening “with time”. I interpret this to mean that whatever is happening is doing so in time with where I am in my journey.

A synchronistic experience could be - you’ve been thinking about a particular person you haven’t seen in a long time and they manifest in your life. Meeting that person at that specific time and not a minute sooner happens this way for both of you because you are embodying a similar vibration at that time.

When your vibrational frequency aligns with that of another person - you will see them more often in your life. The world outside of us reflects the world inside of us - whatever you are feeling and thinking on the inside will be reflected in your external environment. 

You can consciously manifest synchronistic experiences in your life if you are proficient in use of the law of attraction and meditation. If you focus your intention during meditations on a specific outcome - you will see it manifest. If you match your vibration to that of a specific person, place or thing - you will attract them.

Many of us are unconsciously creating the reality we live in, thus we see synchronistic experiences as coincidences. When you acknowledge what you are creating - you can start consciously deciding what you want to attract into your life. 

There are no accidents - everything happens for a reason.

Peace & positive vibes.

Good Demon - Theo Raeken Imagine

Requested by Anon: Okay so the requests are open. Yeeaa! Okay so please do a Theo imagine where Y/N is in Scott’s pack and is a good demon and she and Theo both like each other but won’t admit it. At the end he comes to her house and he confesses his feelings for her and they kiss and she explains to him what powers she as a demon has because he is curious. Thank you!

Warnings: Reader being possessed by a demon; a few curse words

Word Count: 2,281

[My Teen Wolf Masterlist]

Originally posted by stendec

By some miracle, Crowley had a good heart and let Y/N go. She had been good to him, as she was one of his best demons. He loved her like the daughter he never had. He was shocked when she wanted to leave but he understood why. As much as he wanted her to stay, he granted her one wish. However, she was still a demon but she no longer worked for the King of Hell.

After leaving hell, she moved to Beacon Hills and started working at a local diner to pay the bills of an old abandon house Crowley found for her. It wasn’t much, but it was enough to hold her over until she found something better.

Eventually, she came across someone she remembered seeing in hell in the middle of the woods named Theo. He knew she was different and something supernatural. He could smell it on her, but he didn’t know what she was exactly. She could smell his scent, indicating he was part of the supernatural world, but she wasn’t sure until she asked. She learned he was a chimera and she revealed she was a demon.

Theo introduced her to Scott. They all understood what she was, but they had no clue what she could do. She explained she was quick and had super strength, but kept her other supernatural powers to herself. She’s not who she used to be, and she wanted to do some good in her life. Theo, of all people, could relate.

Within time, Scott trusted Y/N and she got along with everyone in his pack. Whenever they were in trouble, she wouldn’t hesitate to help them. Scott and his pack were the closest thing to a family and she’d do anything to protect them. Eventually, Scott welcomed her into his pack.

In the midst of all that, she got closer to Theo. They would hang out all the time especially without the pack. They were best friends, but the pack knew it was more than that. They could see how attracted they were to one other and they couldn’t understand why Theo and Y/N didn’t notice it themselves. The truth was, Theo wanted to tell Y/N how he felt but he always felt she kept holding something back from him. He figured she wasn’t ready to be with someone if she wasn’t comfortable opening up about what was bothering her, but lately he’s had enough. He didn’t care if she was keeping secrets from him. He was hurting himself more everyday he didn’t tell her. He just wanted her to know. If she didn’t feel the same way or wasn’t ready for a relationship, he would be okay with it. Just as long as she knew how he felt, which is exactly what he was doing tonight as he rapped his knuckles loud and impatiently on Y/N’s front door.

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Killing Stalking is back kids, and so am I.

I’ve been on vacation this week, so I haven’t been reading any of the brilliant metas around so I apologize if I brain vomit over things that have already been discussed but I did want to just get my little read through of the chapter out into the fandom. Yeeeee.

Other than this chapter being ridiculously brutal and graphic, I was very surprised by what an emotionally vulnerable turd Sangwoo is in this chapter. 

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Ok, so here’s a thing - If I reblog from someone nasty or from a nasty source, please don’t be nasty yourself and come to call me names on anon. I don’t know every single person here, nor do I have a huge database of everyone’s username since 2010. 

I have this side blog for two years now, and I don’t know all the drama since then, but especially not before lovely March/April of 2015 when I fell into this rabbit whole. 

I, personally, don’t want to reblog from someone who’s nasty towards Louis or Harry, or the idea of them being together, or towards my fellow larries. And if I reblog from someone like that, come and tell me, because that means that I’m following them for some reason. 

But if you come to my inbox on anon to yell at me, and to shade me, and to be ugly and call me names, you are not better then them. If they are a bully so are you. Calling me a fake bitch or a cunt for not knowing everyone and everything that is happening daily in this hectic fandom is really disturbing. 

If you care enough to send me anon hate, then care enough to fucking educate me on the subject. Just send the url and example and what not and be fucking nice and kind to people for fuck’s sake. 

Rumplestiltskin is the most relatable person on Once Upon A Time

Hold up and hear me out.

He is weak, but that’s what makes him human. All the other characters are far too powerful for their own good. Granted, they had flaws, but those have dissipated as the show has gone on. Rumple, however, has never gotten rid of one of his biggest flaws: not loving himself. 

In a post by @rumplestiltskin, they mentioned how nobody hates him more than he hates himself. He blames himself for everything that has happened, and while some things were out of line, he doesn’t deserve to hate himself for his son’s death. 

The reason Rumple is so special to me is because I see the hurt and the pain of not thinking you’re good enough and I understand. Everyone at some point in their lives has felt ugly and unloved, but he manifests it. He is the epitome of unloved, and that’s why he holds on to his power. 

He can’t let it go because it’s his rock. He’s an addict. He knows it will always be there as long as he accepts it as who he is. 

He doesn’t have to worry about it up and leaving. He doesn’t have to worry that one morning he’s going to wake up and it’s just gone. He doesn’t have to worry about it saying hurtful things. It doesn’t sucker punch him when he’s already down. 

And so, I wonder why people can hate someone who is trying his best and over and over again sees it blow up in his face. 

Then I think, maybe they see too much of themselves. 

anonymous asked:

I don't think there is anything wrong with being Pro-Life. You never know if the baby that is about to be aborted would be the person who would cure cancer, save an endangered species or bring world peace. You never know and taking a life away just because it isn't 'ideal' for the mother at the time isn't right. It's not the child's fault but they are the ones that get punished. That get the death penalty just because it isn't a good time for the mother to have a child.

[Continued: You seem like a very nice, warm and genuine person and I’m glad that you are in this world. Thank goodness your mom never chose that route because we wouldn’t be able to hear what you have to say and what you bring to this world. Everything happens for a reason. And I am a firm believer that everyone deserves a chance at life. Just like you.]

You’re right. My mom didn’t have an abortion. She sure should have. My mom was an accounting major and dropped out of school because she was married and had her first child, me. As a result, she started drinking because she felt no life purpose. Her drinking caused her to abuse me and my sister, the scars of which we are continuing to deal with. Abuse at the hand of my mother caused me to hate myself, and that hate caused me to develop an eating disorder, depression, and anxiety.

I don’t think you’re pro-life at all. I think you’re anti life. People of your train of thought like to point out the “what if” scenarios surrounding a zygote’s possible life instead of addressing the very REAL risks and consequences faced by the mother who you so enjoy robbing of personhood. A woman, to you, must always be a woman before a person. It’s clear that people like you don’t care about women when you describe the enormous burden of pregnancy as an inconvenience.

I believe in God, and I believe that WE can cure cancer, WE can save an endangered species, and WE can bring world peace. I believe God puts this responsibility on us as creatures capable of free will, not on a hypothetical person. If we keep pushing these problems to future generations, what will be done today? That’s why that argument is ineffective and formless.

Today’s women bleed, suffer, mourn, cry, scream, fight, rage, and dream. I am one of those women, and if you truly are glad I am in this world, please know it is by the skin of my teeth and that my mother’s life was absolutely sacrificed just like her mother before her. And not even for my benefit.

Women are not martyrs. They deserve life.

This is super rushed and probably makes no sense but I am too annoyed to care right now.

I am officially done with the hate in the Marcel Gerard tag. If you wanna spout your annoying little feelings for him, tag your shit appropriately.

For all you people hating on Marcel because of Klaus… You know why Klaus felt guilty over what happened to Davina? Think about it; this is a man who has shown little to no regard to other’s feelings and the consequences of his own actions but he felt guilt over something he didn’t do? It’s because he is partially responsible! He is not entirely blameless or innocent and he knows it.

I know, i know, Klaus wanted to help Davina and i get that. That is so great - good for you Klaus for stepping up as a dad to Marcel for once in your freaking life. Ultimately I do feel/know it’s Elijah, Freya, and Kol’s fault for Davina’s death and the failure to bring her back and those three deserved their punishment, but everything that happened was also an effect of Klaus’ actions.

They couldn’t save Davina because they had to use her to take down an enemy that Klaus created . [EDIT] KLAUS DIDN’T KILL DAVINA BUT HE WAS PART OF THE REASON SHE WASN’T BROUGHT BACK.

And besides, whether or not Klaus was responsible, Marcel wanted to get revenge for Davina and Klaus would never willingly let Marcel hurt his siblings. BECAUSE MARCEL IS ONLY EVER A MIKAELSON WHEN IT IS CONVENIENT TO THE MIKAELSONS.

I want to make it known that I am not a Klaus hater. Nor do I hate Kol, Elijah, or Freya. I do despise the hypocrisy of Elijah at times but he’s a good character otherwise. I hate what they did. I hate that they put the life of an 18 (19?) year old below the life of people who have been living for a thousand years. But of course them deciding that maybe they should give a teenager the chance to live the rest of her life at the cost of their own would be too ooc so I can’t even complain about it too much.

Back to my point - stop tagging your Marcel hate in the Marcel tag!

I don’t understand why some people blame Seolhyun for everything bad that happens to AOA. When their last comeback didn’t do too well they blamed her saying it was because of their scandal, now Choa’s leaving and they’re saying it’s her fault because she’s the only one that got pushed and she didn’t support Choa. Like y'all just enjoy finding any reason to hate her and it’s tiring. She didn’t make Choa leave the group, Choa came to that decision on her own. If you want someone to blame, blame FNC.

I’ve been thinking a lot about Harry related discourse lately, including some suggestions that the way his statements get scrutinised is unbalanced in comparison to the way the other 1D boys are treated when it comes to song lyrics, statements they make in interviews and the general bar we set for them.

I get that it’s annoying that Harry appears to meet more political challenges in relation to the stuff he puts out there, but I’m going to put a positive flip side to that observation. I think Harry attracts particular scrutiny because he’s been more vocal and nuanced about issues which have a social justice lean, such as women’s rights and LGBT activism and that he’s even thinking about this stuff is a very good thing. I know that’s one of the reasons why, as a solo artist, he’s held particular appeal for me and I’ve been so excited to hear more from him as an individual. I think the reason he attracts more extensive critique is because he has consciously positioned himself as someone who gives thought to these issues, as someone who cares about, as he puts it himself, fundamental equality. He comes across in his marketing as someone who thinks about things like gender, women’s rights and LGBT identity and that’s a very, very inspiring thing to see in a 20-something popstar who could frankly choose to be a ‘rich kid of instagram’ and enjoy wealth and privilege without giving a fuck about anything or anyone.

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anonymous asked:

Kyouko...*leaves her and Jin to talk*

……


…Kyouko.


I’m sorry.


Huh? Why?


I didn’t realize. It was all in front of me. I was with her for a whole year…And yet…I didn’t realize that she was the culprit.


And because of this…If I had been more careful then you wouldn’t have let her inside the school when you make us take shelter in it. You wouldn’t have died, none of my friends would have died. I’m supposed to be the SHSL Detective and yet…She totally won. I didn’t even see it coming..!


Kyouko…No ! That wasn’t your fault ! It was mine, mine and the other teacher’s. I was the one who didn’t pay enough attention to all my students. You do not need to blame yourself !


And then I lost my memories. I forgot everything about you. I started blaming you again for everything, when you were already dead because of me. How can I…Expect you to forgive me?


That’s enough !


….


Listen Kyouko, I don’t forgive you. But because there is nothing to forgive. You aren’t the one at fault. You did everything you could. And I saw what happened after my death, without you…All the others kids would be dead. So you shouldn’t doubt yourself so much.


And I also don’t blame you for hating me again. I abandoned you, Kyouko. Even if I had my reasons I know that I hurt you deeply and I’m so sorry for this. But I love you Kyouko, never doubt that. I love you with all my heart, and that won’t stop because I died. This love will be with you forever. So please, don’t blame yourself like that for something you aren’t responsible of.


…..


….Can I hug you?


*slowly nods*


*hugs her* It’s okay Kyouko, you are not alone. None of this was your fault and I don’t blame you for it. Nor do the others. They all know how much you did for them.


….Thank you…Dad. *hugs him*


…..!!


Hmm…You’re welcome.

Can someone lead me the way out of this fandom?Cause I can’t do it myself alright?I joined because I love the boys as much as you love them too but there’s so much dramas happening. Larries and antis fighting,Elounor is fake,pressuring the boys to comeback using that hashtag #1Dcomeback project,fans hating the boys girlfriends. I get it,you love them and you can’t afford seeing them hurt but you can’t chose who they’re dating or not or if you don’t like who they’re dating or not.Ik for sure many Larries will hate me but please don’t make everything about Larry okay?You know the reason why Harry and Louis are not close as they used to be?It’s because the moment they talk or do the things they do with the other boys you always make a rumor about it.If Harry and Louis turns out as Gay it’s okay.But if not then deal with it.

Eleanor,I know you know how much hate she receives.Imagine if you’re the one in her situation?Is it okay for you to be bashed everyday or receiving threats?I think the fuck not. What If they really love each other?

About the hashtag #1DComeback project.
Yes,I do want them to comeback as much as you do and I also want Zayn to comeback(but it’s really impossible)but you can’t pressure the boys.Let then enjoy their career as solo artists at the moment.Let’s just support them and their music.Either they comeback or not let’s just love them and support them until the end.And please stop the dramas we are supposed to be a family not enemies.We’re in the same fandom.