because i hate 'everything happens for a reason'

  • Tracer: Hey, Hanzo?
  • Hanzo: Yeah?
  • Tracer: You ever wonder why we’re here?
  • Hanzo: You know, Tracer, I used to not care. I just went along with orders and hoped that everything would work out for me. But after all that’s happened, you know what I’ve learned? It’s not about hating the guy on the other side because someone told you to. I mean, you shouldn’t hate someone because they’re an asshole or a pervert or a snob, or they’re lazy or arrogant or an idiot or a know-it-all. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don’t hate a person because someone told you to; you have to despise people on a personal level, not because they’re Omnic or because they’re human, but because you know them and you see them every single day, and you can’t stand them because they’re a complete and total fucking douchebag.
  • Tracer:
  • Tracer: …I meant, why are we up here in the sun when we could be standing down there on the payload?
  • Hanzo: Oh. Yeah, okay. Let’s go stand on the payload.
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WE ARE SUPPOSED TO HATE TFP

We HAVE to point out everything that’s wrong about it. They WANT us to call them out, make the media aware of its issues, plot holes, because that’s EXACTLY what every other queerbaiting show does but is getting away with.
The Final Problem is bad FOR a REASON.
Sherlock has such a wide audience, if WE as a fandom speak up, it’ll reach everyone.
This way we’re actually calling out every other queerbaiting show that is chickening out facing these topics. Sherlock is giving us the oppurtunity and example to address the issues in television and movies today.
And BBC Sherlock isn’t backing away.
They have a fourth episode prepared.
They know what they’re doing.
Johnlock is happening guys. Have faith in the creators.
It’s our job atm to revolt and get the medias attention
Because TFP is the best example of everything a show shouldn’t do to its audience

The podium is ours
The attention is on us
If we can pull this off, we are making television history

Different fandoms

Osomatsu-san: Come one, come all there’s enough for everyone and you can do everything!
Eddsworld: At least one person will hunt you down and harass you until you leave. Also EVERYTHING IS ON FIRE CONSTANTLY.

Just saying. I love both shows but the EW fandom is a little overwhelming and I hate seeing nice people being harassed for no real good reason.

Also @comixartist said she was leaving the EW fandom and I’m sad because she’s a nice person and I really like her work. She’s talented and we shouldn’t pick on people for what pairing they like.
P.S. Comix if you see this I think you’re really awesome and will continue to follow you no matter what happens.

No matter how cruel his intentions and inventions may be, I just can’t hate Zeref. Because I know that behind his title, “Darkest mage of all time”, lies a lonely heart. He’s family was taken from him a little too soon. He was alone and broken. For wanting his brother back, he was cursed. And when he found a reason to live again, the love of his life was taken too. 

So no matter how cruel he may seems, I just can’t hate him. I feel sorry for everything that happened to him. He could have used his intellect for the right purposes, but those things happened. He created those monsters because he wants to die. Because dying is the easiest way to have his family and Mavis back. Dying means being able to be with them again. So yeah, It’s so hard to hate Zeref because I kinda understand what he feels. 

Church's story arc ending monologues:
  • Alpha (Season 5): You know Caboose, I used to not care. I just went along with orders, and hoped that everything would work out for me. But after all that's happened, you know what I've learned? It's not about hating the guy on the other side because someone told you to. I mean, you should hate someone because they're an asshole, or a pervert, or snob, or they're lazy, or arrogant or an idiot or know-it-all. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don't hate a person because someone told you to. You have to learn to despise people on a personal level. Not because they're red, or because they're blue, but because ya know them, and you see them every single day. And you can't stand them, because they're a complete and total fucking douchebag.
  • Epsilon (Season 8): I'd like to say that I found her right away, that I just walked into the Epsilon Unit, and there she was, waiting for me. As you can probably guess, it didn't happen that way, but, I know she's in here somewhere, and I'll find her. We always seem to find each other, for better or for worse. I don't know why the Director did what he did. I don't know if he was trying to revive a memory from his past, or if he was just trying to get it out of his head. But I figured out something that the Director didn't. It took Alpha, Delta, and the rest to help piece it together for me, but what I've learned is that a great love is a lot like a good memory. When it's there, and you know it's there, but it's just out of your reach, it can be all that you think about. You can focus on it, and try to force it, but the more you do, the more you seem to push it away. But if you're patient, and you hold still, then maybe... Just maybe... It will come to you. I just need to make sure I'm somewhere she can find me. I think this place is a little different than it was before. See, out there, everything is based on the Alpha, but in here, I guess I'm the Alpha. And maybe this time through, things will be a little different for me as well. I guess I'll find out. And I mean, hell, if you have to live the rest of your life in a memory... you might as well make it a good one.
  • Epsilon (Season 13): It was Doyle who made me realize something I never thought of before. There are so many stories that some brave hero to save the day, and because of their sacrifice, the good guys win, the survivors all cheer, and everyone lives happily ever after. But the hero never sees gets to see that ending. They'll never know if their sacrifice actually makes a difference, they'll never know if the day was really saved. In the end, they just need to have faith. Ain't that a bitch?

Lance: Pidge? 
Pidge: Yeah? 
Lance: Ya ever wonder why we’re here? 
Pidge: You know, Lance, I used to not care. I just went along with orders, and hoped that everything would work out and I’d find my family. But after all that’s happened, you know what I’ve learned? It’s not about hating the guy on the other side because someone told you to. I mean, you should hate someone because they’re an asshole, or a pervert, or a fanatic, or a snob, or they’re lazy, or creepy, or tyrannical, or arrogant or a scatterbrain or an unreliable basket case. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don’t hate a person because someone told you to. You have to learn to despise people on a personal level. Not because they’re Galra, or because they’re Altean, but because ya know them, and you see them every single day. And you can’t stand them, because they’re a complete and total fucking douchebag. 
Lance: … 
Pidge: … 
Lance: I meant why are we up here in the sun, when we could be standing down there in the shade. 
Pidge: Oh. Yeah, okay, let’s go stand in the shade.

Fangirl--of-everything’s Masterlist

Alright, here it is, ready? 

* means it is from the drabble prompt list (which i would prefer not to take requests from anymore)

I am currently taking requests for: NOTHING, requests are closed 

Teen Wolf

Liam Dunbar

Strange Magic (multichapter)

Please, just don’t hurt her(part 2)*

Oh my god what happened?*

Please, just don’t leave me*

Theo Raeken

Rescue

You think I need you? Because I don’t* 

Just do it*

We shouldn’t be doing this*

I hate you so much*

I thought you loved me*

You fainted, straight into my arms*

I trusted you*

Is there a reason you’re naked in my bed?*

Brett Talbot

You did this, all for me?*

I did not expect this*

Come over here and make me*

Josh Diaz

Dragon (part 2) (part 3) (part 4) (part 5)

Please, just don’t leave me*

I didn’t know you could do that

Weakness

Wrong

Isaac Lahey

Beta (part 2) (part 3) (part 4) (part 5) (part 6)

Nightmares (part 2)

Stiles Stilinski

Oh my god what happened?*

You always say that, and you’re always wrong*

I thought you were dead*

Jordan Parrish

Secrets

Scott Mccall

I’m Pregnant (featuring Stiles)*

Pack

Oh my god what happened?*

Jackson Whittemore

Two can play at this game*

Malia Tate

Will you just accept that I’m hopelessly in love with you?*

Preferences

How you sleep

Shadowhunters

Malec

Second Meetings

Supernatural

Dean Winchester

Hypothermia

Avengers

Pietro Maximoff (Avengers)

Rescue (part 2)

Big brother 

Take it slow

X-Men

Peter Maximoff (Quicksilver)

Shouldn’t have to hide (part 2) (part 3) (part 4)

Warren Worthington III (Angel/Archangel)

Smile For The Camera

Badass

Coping

Suicide Squad 

El Diablo

Powerless (part 2) (part 3) (part 4)

  • James: Hey Padfoot, ever wonder why we're here?
  • Sirius: You know, Prongs, I used to not care. I just went along with our pranks and hoped that everything would work out for me. But after all that has happened, you know what I learned? It's not about hating the guy on the other side because someone told you to. I mean, you should hate someone because they're an asshole, or pervert, or snob, or they're lazy, or arrogant, or an idiot, or a know-it-all. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don't hate a person because someone told you to. You have to learn to despise them on a personal level. Not because they're a Slytherin, but because you know them, and you see them every single day, and you can't stand them because they are a complete and total fucking douchebag.
  • James: ...I meant why are we up here in the sun when we could be standing down there in the shade.
  • Sirius: Oh. Yeah, okay. Let's go stand in the shade.

piscesgirl87  asked:

oh an also that pain is the GOOD kind of pain lol. i loved and hated their scenes in the last ep. like, it hurt that he had to die but THEY WERE SO BEAUTIFUL!!! its hard to be mad at that kind of powerful love! anyway, i look forward to the rest of the story!!! :)

What I take from everything and what made me really at peace with the finale is that the show is over now, and everything we think or want to happen is completely feasible because canon is over. It’s one of the reasons I wrote this story because it’s something that could happen within that universe and it’s been therapeutic.

The truth is, i got mad. Do you know that you almost killed me? You killed my heart when you left me. I lost my way. I don’t know where to go.

I woke up that day and then you’re gone, without telling me why, without giving me any reason, without explaining anything, without saying good bye. I thought we were okay…. What happened? Why you suddenly left? You left me hanging. We were so happy, i didn’t notice with your glance and the way you touched me that there is something wrong. Or is it just me who’s happy? I was so miserable that time. I hated myself and i keep on blaming myself because you left me. I thought it’s my fault and then i realized that i did everything to keep you, maybe i suffocated you with so much love, with so much care, with my words that you wouldn’t able to breathe. I held you too much when all you did was to let go of your hand.


It took me time, to accept that you left me. I’ve been through worst. I hated everyone. I’ve been distant to people. I didn’t allow everyone who tried to enter my life. I was so afraid of everyone. I felt like they are going to break me in just a blink of an eye once i let them in. I feel like they are just the same, they’re like you. I am so afraid to be left behind and that’s why i didn’t trust anyone anymore. You left me this feeling that i am not good enough to anyone, i am not enough to keep anyone with me. And i have to say sorry to you because i wasn’t enough to keep you with me.


Maybe it’s meant to happen. I already accepted the fact that you left me without giving it a fight. I can now say that i’m okay without you. You thought me a lot of things. I was never mad at you, i just needed an explanation. But it’s okay now, i don’t need that anyway. I thought i need you but then again i learned to live without you, at least one day at a time.


Thank you for leaving, thank you for proving that you’re not worth to stay in my life.

—  An open letter to the one that got away

Let me preface this by saying that I don’t actively ship real people because of the possible creep factor, nor do I care about celebs’ personal lives, but the reason why I’d rather not get too excited at the prospect that Cole and Lili MIGHT be dating is because I’ve seen what happened to Ian Somerhalder and Nina Dobrev.

Regardless of your feelings re: Delena (I personally hated it but that’s another story for another day), you have to admit those two had killer chemistry, at least in the earlier seasons. Then they started dating and everything was good, for a while. Then they had a nasty breakup and the next thing we know, they couldn’t even be in the same room together without exuding some awkward, negative aura. Unfortunately, it showed in their acting. Their scenes became forced and painful to watch, and even though the ship was eventually endgame, their chemistry was so dead, it was horribly underwhelming and utterly unconvincing.

Granted, the TVD cast is not exactly known for its maturity or professionalism, and don’t get me wrong, IF it turns out that Cole and Lili are dating, I’d be happy for them, but we all know celeb relationships are shallow and fleeting, and I’d rather not support the potential sacrifice of their onscreen chemistry for some “omg our otp is together onscreen AND in real-life!” bonus points that don’t really mean anything at the end of the day, since actors =/= characters.

picture perfect [jin&you]

Summary: You thought that by breaking up with Jin, you were saving him and his career. However, Yoongi proves you wrong.

a/n: will get on with requests soon, i promise. just another jin appreciation post.

Originally posted by strawberrie-kookie

You weren’t feeling at ease with meeting your boyfriend Kim Seokjin of four years.

Dining with him inside the diner where you both had held your first date, first confession, first kiss, and first three words; I love you—your legs weaken at the thought of everything. Everything in here happened first for a reason, because Seokjin had said he wanted to get lost with you in a place where only your firsts would be most memorable once you both grow old together.

It was sweet. His words were sweet.

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  • Patrick: Hey Pete, ever wonder why we’re here?
  • Pete: You know, Patrick, I used to not care. I just went along with it and hoped that everything would work out for me. But after all that has happened, you know what I learned? It’s not about hating people because someone told you to. I mean, you should hate someone because they’re an asshole, or pervert, or snob, or they’re lazy, or arrogant, or an idiot, or a know-it-all. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don’t hate a person because someone told you to. You have to learn to despise them on a personal level. Not because they’re not you, or not as popular as you, but because you know them, and you see them every single day, and you can’t stand them because they are a complete and total fucking douchebag.
  • Patrick: ...I meant why are we up here in the sun when we could be standing down there in the shade.
  • Pete: Oh. Yeah, okay. Let’s go stand in the shade.

For some reason, I’m remembering an amusing conversation I had with my boyfriend some time ago:

I think we were talking about how much it sucks, that the KH girls are never appreciated by the fandom for just how awesome they really are.

And boyfriend agreed with me about that. And ended up saying something along the lines of, “But I think Aqua, at least, is one amazing female character that the series has, that everyone can agree on.”

And then I was like, “Actually? No. Because there are KH fans who hate Aqua, and think everything that happened in BbS was her fault–and call her ‘the worst Keyblade Master ever’.”

And then he just responded with, “Well, those people are stupid and we don’t listen to them.”

It just made me really happy, but also cracked me up. He’s completely right, though!

Because usually, he’ll play devil’s advocate a lot with me (even if he actually is on my side). But this is the one time, it seems, where he felt as though: “Nope. That opinion’s just complete bull, and I’m not even going to try and defend it.”

and-then-you-regenerate  asked:

I see your prospective on AoU, but disagree with it to an extent. When I watched it I didn't even consider that Nat was referring to herself as a monster because she was sterilized. I think her vision reminded her of the red room as a whole. Of the killings and murders and ceremonies. Then when Bruce brought up his sterilization as a reason to stay apart it made sense to talk about it. As for the procedure itself, that's traumatizing as hell. Not because of what happened but because she had her

Choice taken away from her. Whether or not she wanted to have kids, it has to be traumatic that someone took away your ability to create life in order to turn you into a perfect killing machine. Age of Ultron wasn’t perfect by any means, but I feel it got more hate than it deserves

The weird thing is, I more-or-less agree with everything you said. AoU did not explicitly demonize Natasha for being sterilized. And of course the sterilization stood for a more general traumatic experience and it made sense for her to bring it up in context. But there were a million ways for the film to show us what Natasha experienced in the Red Room, so why did Whedon think the best way to do that was through a gendered trauma?

Speaking from experience, in screenwriting, nine times out of ten, sexism isn’t intentional. It’s not a deliberate choice. It’s as simple as unthinkingly putting a common convention in your work without asking yourself where it comes from or why it feels like the natural direction to take your story in. Sexist tropes don’t feel sexist when you’re writing them – they feel organic, because all the material you’ve consumed your whole life is full of these tropes and that’s where you learned what stories are supposed to look like. It takes conscious, even laborious effort to identify problems in those texts, let alone avoid repeating them in your own work.

I remember an interview quote (I can’t it find now, but if someone knows what it is, please link me to it!) where Whedon said that writing Natasha came very naturally to him and that the first draft version for one of her scenes ended up going into the film almost unedited. And that’s where I think he went wrong. I don’t think Wedon set out to degrade or dismiss Natasha as a woman, I think he instinctively went with the tried-and-true female trauma that felt right to him at the time and didn’t think very hard about where the idea was coming from, or why it felt natural, or how it compared to his writing of the male characters, or what the political implications might be for writing the only female Avenger that way.

But that’s my point. Whedon should have asked himself those questions. I’m not saying he’s a bad person or a misogynist or that his writing is worthless, I’m saying that as someone with a feminist reputation scripting the backstory for the only female avenger in one of the biggest blockbusters of the year (in a genre that’s infamously sexist), Whedon had a real responsibility to think about the deeper implications of his writing. And he didn’t.

It’s easy to say, ‘Whedon’s characterization of Black Widow is sexist.’ Is it more complicated than that? Of course its more complicated than that. But the purpose of feminist critique is to look for patterns, themes, and unconscious trends because that’s how sexism works: subtly, unconsciously, and through unchallenged repetition. Did Whedon singlehandedly destroy the Black Widow’s characterization? No. He just didn’t do a very good job with it. And that’s all it takes.


Update: yoikage (who’s working on a translation of my metas) found the interview I was referring to here: ‘Whedon’s favourite character to write is Natasha. “She has a special place in my heart - there is one scene in each movie that was filmed pretty much unchanged from the first draft, and they’re both Natasha scenes. She’s just somebody that I feel like I get.”’


Update 2.0: Chinese translation can be found here (along with some other short asks)! Many thanks to yoikage!

( Just posting this short activity update here: I’ll be more or less inactive until further notice . I don’t feel motivated when it comes to writing and role playing. I have a lot of other things on my mind now; some small projects which I want to do, changes in my life, future planning, etc. Unfortunately, at this moment, role playing and writing doesn’t iterest me. This is not towards anyone here! I love all of you but I just want to do so many other things, and writing isn’t one of them atm. I’m probably going to keep replying things slowly (1-3 times in week). I hate that this happens because there is so amazing people and I just would love to so everything with you guys but.. I just can’t :c I hope that this doesn’t mean the end of my comeback here even if I have had this feeling for a while. One the reasons why I left Hermes’ blog and made this. So this has been my feeling about writing for the past 1-2 months now. I may be taking a full break for a couple week and see what happens. I don’t make any promises but I seriously hope that I’ll get my interest back. )

Youngjae: Hey Yongguk, ever wonder why we’re here?

Yongguk: You know, Youngjae, I used to not care. I just went along with it and hoped that everything would work out for me. But after all that has happened, you know what I learned? It’s not about hating people because someone told you to. I mean, you should hate someone because they’re an asshole, or pervert, or snob, or they’re lazy, or arrogant, or an idiot, or a know-it-all. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don’t hate a person because someone told you to. You have to learn to despise them on a personal level. Not because they’re not you, or not as popular as you, but because you know them, and you see them every single day, and you can’t stand them because they are a complete and total fucking douchebag.

Youngjae: …I meant why are we up here in the sun when we could be standing down there in the shade.

Yongguk: Oh. Yeah, okay. Let’s go stand in the shade.

Okay this actually really pisses me off. I hate when people ship Malia and Theo just because that is an open window for Stydia. First off you are not shipping it for the chemistry or what each person wants you literally only ship it because that means Stiles is free for Lydia. Then most of you Stydia shippers complain about Stalia having no build up and happening out of nowhere. But I have a question for you where is the build up for Theo and Malia I am searching but I can’t seem to find it. But you know what I found a handful of hypocrites. Because once again you will do and say anything that gets your precious ship to happen. It’s just mind boggling that everything you hate about Stalia you like about Malia and Theo how about instead of shipping something for the purpose of your ship you actually find real reasons to ship it. Now on my next thing you say they should be together because both their parents are psychopathic killers. First of all how in hell is that gonna lead to a healthy relationship? That literally sounds like they are gonna kill each other or something like that is so unhealthy I am just can’t even think about it or I will explode that someone would even believe that this is a good reason for two people to be together. That has got to be one of the most idiotic things I have ever read in my 18 years of living. Second of all we don’t know anything about Theo’s parents except the fact they might not even be his real parents so you can’t claim they are psychopathic killers when we know nothing about them. Third of all Malia’s birth parents are psychotic killers not her adoptive parents the parents she knew and loved and who raised her. She never even knew her birth parents until like about 8 months ago. She was never raised by them she has learned differently and the wise words from Stiles Stilinski “Killing doesn’t run in a family”. So yeah this was giant rant about a post I found in the Stalia tag that pissed me off so much I had to share my opinions with you all.

What is this straight up bullshit that I’m always seeing about the Minutemen being the only ones looking to avoid killing innocents in the Institute? No faction has more of a reason to hate the Institute than the Railroad and yet Desdemona says straight out the gate that they’ll be doing everything they can to avoid collateral damage.

When you get into the Institute, she tells Tom to “send out anyone that’s unarmed, Institute personnel included.” And it’s not like the Sole Survivor has to argue her into it or like she even puts it up to debate with them. This is how the RR operates. You can see it in her dialogue again-

“But the Institute isn’t just populated by diabolical scientists. Families live there. Children. If we destroy them, we’re going to evacuate more than just Synths.”

and again-

“I can’t condone the killing of innocents. That is not what the Railroad is about.”

and again-

“…if we ever can permanently disable or even destroy the Institute, we will do it. But we won’t do it for revenge. We’ll do it out of necessity. To ensure that the synths stay safe and free, forever… We will spill only as much blood as we have to. We’re more than murderers…”