The fact that winn says ‘I am very excited to meet alex’s new mystery man’ means alex definitely mentioned this to the gang earlier which shows she’s probably been waiting to introduce maggie for a while now and was waiting for the right time. Also I am actually really happy the writers made winn and james say male pronouns 'what does HE do for a living’ because it completely shows how heteronormative people can be without even knowing and it’s almost quite smug when maggie walks up to them all 'surprise bitch’ looking.
I'm a mess with my mental illnesses (Yup, plural) and all I can think is how no man wants a woman who is a mess and a failure. I always wanted to get married but I've lost years of my life to mental illnesses and who wants a woman with hefty baggage? I'd love to have a partner to help me through my darkest nights because I feel so unloved. (Yup, we all have Allah, but sometimes the heart needs human sympathy and love to be able to see the good in things) Any words of advice?