I am so tired of Louis never being given credit for the wonderful things he does. These days, literally every single good thing he does, every gesture, every word; is discredited; brushed off as something he had to do, a stunt, ‘his team’ doing it, twisted to fit one conspiracy or other. Can’t we just accept things at face value once in a while, and acknowledge that maybe Louis just wanted to do something nice, because he is a good person and he wants to make other people happy?
night was a perfect example of that. I was disappointed not to see him
at the Brits. I had assumed because he was there last year when he had
nothing to promote that this year, he’d go, especially when he had
music to promote, an award to possibly win, and when he did the promo
for the nominees show and said how important they in particular were to him. When he flew in 3 days before, it seemed pretty
much a given that he’d attend. And it was strange to not have him there
and not know why; especially as he was on social media and didn’t appear
at the time to have other things going on. And when he posted the video
it was such a sweet gesture, to show that it was still important to him
that we voted, that he still appreciated the award, that he wasn’t
taking it for granted. And it was great that he was getting to spend
time with his family. Yet I still wasn’t sure why he chose to go back home at
that specific time, why he chose then of the several nights he had
been home to do something with them, especially because it really would
benefit his solo career to be with the music industry people.
I realized that there was a reason for it. Louis specifically chose
that time and that night *because* it was the night of the Brits. His mum went to the Brits with him last year, and I believe she did in
prior years. He spoke very fondly of sharing his first Brit win with
her, and always said how special they were to him. And, his family
probably always watched the Brits together, or, once he was there
himself, attended it. Louis PURPOSELY stayed home to do something with
them, because it was more important to be there for and with them for
support because the Brits was a big thing to his family. Watching it with them
and maybe having dinner or something was his top priority and
he wanted to show that, instead of being about himself and going to
promote himself. Then, to add to that, he then made us a really sweet
video, which was posted only 12 minutes after the award was announced,
proving that while his family means everything to him, he really does
care about us and is grateful for the things he wins too. And not only
did I totally understand it then, but I was so proud of him for it.
And seeing people dismiss it and brush it aside and say ‘he could have tweeted that’ or making it about him refusing to attend the awards show for some sort of rebellion or to fit some theory, I just felt like I needed to say something, this time. He went out of his way to make everyone happy, and why is it never good enough for people? He really does do special things to show how much he cares whenever he can, and, too many people dismiss them and turn them into something they’re not. He deserves more credit in all areas than this fandom ever gives him.