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There’s a bit at the end of the series where the two of them are just alone in an elevator together and they’re looking at each other and we didn’t know what it was gonna be, we didn’t know what was gonna happen, we didn’t know what it was gonna mean, but it definitely means something -Jon Bernthal 

anonymous asked:

Is there a type of torture that includes amputation? Specifically for the purpose of making the victim compliant w the torturer's beliefs/ actions? Also, what types of tortures work best w vulnerable children who have already witnessed emotional/physical trauma for previously mentioned reasons? (btw the torturers are a religion-based cult group) Thank you so much, have a wonderful day/night :)

Torture does not make the victim ‘compliant’ in any sense.

It may render a victim unable to physically resist but to me those are different things. 'Compliance’ to me implies cooperation, it implies that the victim 'agrees’ to go along with what the torturer wants. The evidence we have suggests this is incredibly rare.



There was a time in France when it was legal to use torture to force confessions in certain cases. Because of this we now have a valuable set of statistical data about how 'good’ torture is at forcing people to confess. 



The French average was around 10%.



Under torture up to 90% of people will not comply with their torturer long enough to sign their own name



Anecdotal accounts bear this out too. Victims commonly report extreme antagonism to their torturers. They report anger, hatred, aggression and generally seem to be much more strongly opposed to their torturer and any ideals or groups the torturer may stand for than they were before torture.



Torture does the opposite of making people 'compliant’. It makes people angry, stubborn, rebellious and generally much more inclined to resist in any way they can.


I think you really need to rethink the way you’re intending to use torture in your story. Because if an essential part of it is that torture makes victims 'compliant’ then that’s not only inaccurate but that’s a trope that’s used to justify torture. Specifically it’s used to justify torture in prisons, schools and 'rough neighbourhoods’. 



Torture does not work.



It’s possible that I’m not interpreting the ask correctly, more detail of the story, what you intend to do with the characters, the setting, time and country, would have helped.

Torture does not work.

There is no way to force anyone to abandon or go against their strongly held beliefs.

There is no way to reliably force agreement or compliance from another human being.

What you are planning to write is an unrealistic justification for torture.

In cases like this I either refuse to give any further help or suggest drastic rewrites changing the entire premise and structure of the story. This blog was set up largely to combat and prevent fictional justifications of torture.

In the scenario you’ve outlined I think the easiest way to change it would be to remove torture in the cult context entirely.

You are talking about vulnerable children. The easiest way to get child to 'comply’ is to give them a positive support structure, praise and security. In essence the way adults get children to obey them is by showing the child love.

Take torture out of the story. The only thing you do by including torture is turn your story into an unrealistic justification for very real atrocities.

Make your villains kind. Show them taking in these poor children and caring for them. Make them the perfect, loving, affectionate parental figures these children need.

And then when the cult wants the children to do something awful show them struggling. Show how much they want to make their adoptive parents happy.

Show the children trying to justify their parents crimes to themselves, telling themselves that the victims must have been bad people, they must have 'deserved’ it, there must have been a reason- Show the children bending over backwards to avoid thinking their parents could be wrong.

It’s not brainwashing. It’s not 'conditioning’. There is no cruelty and no trick.

We are all capable of doing or supporting awful things in the name of the people we love.

If you want control, if you want to write kids witnessing and doing awful things then you need the villains to be kind to those children. You need them to praise and support and love those children.


That will make taking them from the cult extremely hard. The chances are they won’t want to leave. They will probably totally and honestly believe that their only chance of love, self worth and security is with the cult and the awful people who are part of it. They may have been taught that people outside the cult do worse things to each other. 



That’s the best I can suggest. 



For information on how real people respond to torture and how it cements antagonism I’d suggest taking a look at my post on Fela Kuti. The founder of Afro-beat music was tortured by security forces for decades and his death was almost certainly caused by complications due to prolonged, repeated torture.

When security forces murdered his mother Fela responded by leading her funeral procession past one of the biggest barracks in the country and leaving her coffin on the steps. He wrote two songs about that particular attack.

Please take a moment and listen to Unknown Soldier, to Zombie, to Coffin for a Head of State. These pieces of music were each designed as an attack on torturers by a victim of torture.

This music caused riots.

Does that sound like compliance?


I’m sorry if this is coming across as harsh but I wouldn’t be running this blog if I did not care very deeply about survivors of torture. They are not weak. They are not broken. They are not at fault for what they suffered. 


And the more I read the more it seems that the Fela Kuti’s of this world are not the exception. They are the norm. 

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Can I just say something about my reblog/response?

I need to know something… 


Please tell me I’m not a bad person for thinking this. Please tell me I’m not alone. i feel like I am. People seem to find comfort in this but I just don’t and can’t. But I wonder if I should. I see them and think ‘why doesn’t this make me feel better?’. Does that make me terrible? Am I alone in this? 

Please say I’m not. Someone, please tell me I’m not.

Also, @therealjacksepticeye if you see this I have to say that my response was nothing against you at all, I know you’re a lovely person who just wants to help people and make them feel better. You’ve done that for me many times over. Just not this one time, and that’s down to you not me. I hope you don’t take this personally and hate me. Please don’t. I still love you Jack <3

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